FabSwingers.com forum: Responding to messages

By *ookingforfunin2021 OP Man
41 weeks ago

liverpool

Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off

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41 weeks ago

"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off "

In all honesty, hornyness, the right time, the right location. People have a 0.05% chance of landing it right.

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Interest - engaging with my profile

Put off - extremely graphic text or pictures

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By *exySenseiCouple
41 weeks ago

"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off "

What puts us off is the many one-word messages we get. What's also weird is when people send us face pics without asking first and then expect us to reciprocate. (And then get offended when we don't.)

What gets us interested is people who are courteous and take the time to be friendly.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
41 weeks ago

walsall

Distance. I wouldn’t expect people to travel too far, so can’t see the point.

It’s also a game of chance, when we’re actively looking, a message could land and bingo. The same message could land when we aren’t and it might not even get read.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
41 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Somebody who is close, don’t have cock pics on their profile & can clearly see there’s substantial conversation.

Put offs; profiles far away, or just the text ‘hey x’ or pics of cocks

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By *issmorganWoman
41 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Interest - if they've read my profile and shown that with a well thought out message. If they have a good profile, even if their message isn't great.

Turn off - Wuu2, u free now, hi babe/hun. Also attaching cock shots into the message or sending cringe graphic descriptions of what they'd do to me.

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By *ookingforfunin2021 OP Man
41 weeks ago

liverpool

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By *ookingforfunin2021 OP Man
41 weeks ago

liverpool

"Here’s a question for ladies or couples, what gets you interested in a message and what’s an instant put off

In all honesty, hornyness, the right time, the right location. People have a 0.05% chance of landing it right."

That’s a very good point

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I like ones that show a little bit of their personality as opposed to the generic ones. I’m more likely to reply if their message is humorous.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Effort is appreciated. Especially showing us they have read the profile. Any attempt at banter is also a good start.

We dont like much the same most others dont like. Low effort, sending pictures of their dick, assuming the lady of the couple ia doing the messages and wants to sext.

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By *ookingforfunin2021 OP Man
41 weeks ago

liverpool

"Effort is appreciated. Especially showing us they have read the profile. Any attempt at banter is also a good start.

We dont like much the same most others dont like. Low effort, sending pictures of their dick, assuming the lady of the couple ia doing the messages and wants to sext."

If I’m messaging a couple, I’ll always start with saying hello to both, I think that’s a minimum

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By *hosetwo200Couple
41 weeks ago

Leeds

Interested - more than 'Hey' but less than a copy pasted essay. An interesting profile, ideally with meet veri's and pics of their whole self not just one part!

Put Off - Something clearly copy pasted, making assumptions on how we like to play, requesting accom meets when our profile says clubs only

Like others have said, just has to land right

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Central

Bad - assuming instant meeting

Low effort

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Honestly, just my current mood.

I've deleted so many messages off hot guys that were actually really nice just because I wasn't in the mood to chat.

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