FabSwingers.com forum: Fab and connection

By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

I think I’ve made a similar thread in the past, but I can’t find it now. For me personally, fab isn’t about having a quick hook up, it’s about building a connection with people I chat to and having great conversations with people I meet for other people if they might just want to have a quick meeting, but the wonderful thing about fab is. Everyone is unique and different in their own way and searching for something different

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

For us it's both.

We have made some good friends on here, but we also like fab because it's a super easy way to get casual fun at the clubs we go to.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
34 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

And…, so…, is there a question ….?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
34 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I find a lot of men say that, but they don't really mean it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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34 weeks ago

East Sussex

I like to get along with the people we meet but I'm very realistic and I know that it's all quite superficial for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I want a connection but not a deep connection.

You don't need to know my name and how my day is and I don't want to be your priority. But I do want someone who isn't a dick and I can talk crap with now and again.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
34 weeks ago

wonderland.

"For us it's both.

We have made some good friends on here, but we also like fab because it's a super easy way to get casual fun at the clubs we go to."

Yes this for us to. Mostly we use clubs for casual fun.... but have made some amazing friends

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"I find a lot of men say that, but they don't really mean it. "
I’m different but typing words on keyboard doesn’t prove anything until you meet a person

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"I like to get along with the people we meet but I'm very realistic and I know that it's all quite superficial for the most part. "
Your totally right it can be very superficial I just try not to think about it that way

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By *eliWoman
34 weeks ago

Lots of people want that Op. Especially on the forum. You're not weird or unusual for wanting that. Nor are those who don't.

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"Lots of people want that Op. Especially on the forum. You're not weird or unusual for wanting that. Nor are those who don't."
I thought it would be interesting what others opinions on it is

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I much prefer a connection too. I'm here for the social side as well as the sex. Also I prefer to chat and start to get to know someone before any playing rather than an instant hook up though I do that sometimes xx

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
34 weeks ago

Leeds

"And…, so…, is there a question ….?

Does there need to be? Is this a requirement of posting I'm unaware of?

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
34 weeks ago

Leeds

Back on track, we are the same OP I'm not here to fuck anyone it's not my style I can't get turned on by some random tits or cock, I need a face, a personality, someone I want to kiss, I need that connection or it's a none starter.

Mrs

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

I think I seek connection as I’ve had mild autism from a young age and constantly moved schools and never really had any friends and, when I was older, I started having anxiety, so I still found it difficult to make friends. Even if, people I chat to on here it doesn’t turn into friendship, as it’s difficult on fab if we share a common interest, or we can relate in some way it makes me happy

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By *oodmessMan
34 weeks ago

yumsville

I wouldn't message someone if I wasn't interested in them. Anything said in messages that leads to a meet, however quickly, confirms we're into the same things, wanting or after the same things. Whether anything goes ahead getting there is a different matter.

You can have long chats, get to know someone, meet and still either not click or build a different expectation, so connection online is no real indication of how a person is once you meet for me.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
34 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

"And…, so…, is there a question ….?

Does there need to be? Is this a requirement of posting I'm unaware of?

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Some of my best friends are fabbers.

Wait, that makes me sound like I'm fabbist.

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By *ngel-ishWoman
34 weeks ago

Colchester

Connection is important I believe. I have been incredibly lucky

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By *asisfan25 OP Man
34 weeks ago

Essex

"Some of my best friends are fabbers.

Wait, that makes me sound like I'm fabbist.

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that’s nice to hear I’m glad you’ve managed to make friends on here

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By *imi_RougeWoman
34 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I find a lot of men say that, but they don't really mean it. I’m different but typing words on keyboard doesn’t prove anything until you meet a person

This is very true, and even then they can lead you a merry dance!

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By *m-BatmanMan
34 weeks ago

Gotham

"I think I’ve made a similar thread in the past, but I can’t find it now. For me personally, fab isn’t about having a quick hook up, it’s about building a connection with people I chat to and having great conversations with people I meet for other people if they might just want to have a quick meeting, but the wonderful thing about fab is. Everyone is unique and different in their own way and searching for something different"

Yeah it’s interesting - you can tell by the forum posts that there’s a large majority of people on a Friday night just chilling, chatting, socialising - just regular humans being all human, which is nice. Great place to actually connect with people.

I think I’ve made a few good friends on here I probably never would have had the opportunity to bump into in real life and even connect with.

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