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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

Hiya guys I’d really like to get into the swinging scene and make new friends. I am and have not been pushy whilst chatting to people but nothing really happens after the messages. I think I am respectful. Any couples out there that could please give me any advice.

Xx

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline

You're one of thousands. No nob shots. Don't be a dick. Go on a social and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

You need to make at least one photo viewable I’d say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"You need to make at least one photo viewable I’d say. "

I have I now thanks

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By *ssex-coupleCouple
47 weeks ago

clacton on sea

Your profile seems pretty good, I’d say it’s because there’s a sea of dicks out there.

It’s the age of’ problem of women have what they want and men have what they can.

Even on a causal sex site women want that top 5% of attractive men lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

Cheers like I say I’m not a dick or pushy I’m always polite. I’m starting to get a complex that somethings wrong lol

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By *ememberTheNameMan
47 weeks ago

barnsley

Try going to your local social event there you can meet people/couples in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

I have thought about this. But nervous to attend Imagine going to one and no one talks to me lol

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By *eneralKenobiMan
47 weeks ago

North Angus

Offer cake, bitches love cake

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By *eneralKenobiMan
47 weeks ago

North Angus


"Offer cake, bitches love cake "

This is satirical, don’t block me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

Everyone loves the cake

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By *eroLondonMan
47 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Offer cake, bitches love cake "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

It’s a nice down to earth couple I’d like to get to know

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Offer cake, bitches love cake "

Much rather have a cream pie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Offer cake, bitches love cake

Much rather have a cream pie "

Then cake lol

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
47 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Shame I no longer live in Portsmouth. As some have mentioned get out there, go to a social and let the organiser know it’s your first time. The host will usually greet you and introduce you to others there on the night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Shame I no longer live in Portsmouth. As some have mentioned get out there, go to a social and let the organiser know it’s your first time. The host will usually greet you and introduce you to others there on the night. "

Thanks I am going to try and pluck the courage up to go to one. And yes it’s definitely a shame x

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Offer cake, bitches love cake

Much rather have a cream pie

Then cake lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

OP check out clubs like Sweet Wednesday or Bi Fun Club which is held at Central Station in basement, is a 5 mins. walk from King's Cross Station.

I've not been to the BiFunClub venue but have to Sweet Wednesday which is gr8 fun. No pressure to play, can just mingle and meet friendly peeps, build rapport, etc.

I heard the BiFunClub is pretty good as well. Worth a venture...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"OP check out clubs like Sweet Wednesday or Bi Fun Club which is held at Central Station in basement, is a 5 mins. walk from King's Cross Station.

I've not been to the BiFunClub venue but have to Sweet Wednesday which is gr8 fun. No pressure to play, can just mingle and meet friendly peeps, build rapport, etc.

I heard the BiFunClub is pretty good as well. Worth a venture...!"

I am straight. Definitely would struggle at a bi club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"OP check out clubs like Sweet Wednesday or Bi Fun Club which is held at Central Station in basement, is a 5 mins. walk from King's Cross Station.

I've not been to the BiFunClub venue but have to Sweet Wednesday which is gr8 fun. No pressure to play, can just mingle and meet friendly peeps, build rapport, etc.

I heard the BiFunClub is pretty good as well. Worth a venture...!

I am straight. Definitely would struggle at a bi club lol"

Believe it or not, plenty so called straight guys have attended the club and had plenty of fun.

There are plenty other venues where you can go, check online and also club reviews on Fabs.

Best wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"OP check out clubs like Sweet Wednesday or Bi Fun Club which is held at Central Station in basement, is a 5 mins. walk from King's Cross Station.

I've not been to the BiFunClub venue but have to Sweet Wednesday which is gr8 fun. No pressure to play, can just mingle and meet friendly peeps, build rapport, etc.

I heard the BiFunClub is pretty good as well. Worth a venture...!

I am straight. Definitely would struggle at a bi club lol

Believe it or not, plenty so called straight guys have attended the club and had plenty of fun.

There are plenty other venues where you can go, check online and also club reviews on Fabs.

Best wishes."

Ok thanks

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
47 weeks ago

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"I have thought about this. But nervous to attend Imagine going to one and no one talks to me lol"

Chances are if you make the effort to talk to people , not all of them are just going to ignore you

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By *cottish guy 555Man
47 weeks ago

London

If you are happy to travel there's a social in Fleet once a month and one in Camberley. I know people who travel from Southampton to attend as both are good events.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I have thought about this. But nervous to attend Imagine going to one and no one talks to me lol

Chances are if you make the effort to talk to people , not all of them are just going to ignore you"

I do make the effort to talk and I’m never disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If you are happy to travel there's a social in Fleet once a month and one in Camberley. I know people who travel from Southampton to attend as both are good events.

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Cheers that could be a good option

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

Most people are not and will ever be mutually compatible with most other people.

Thus most chats are to be expected to reach dead ends. Nothing wrong with that, as each side assesses the other, to view attractiveness and preferences alignment. If it's 1 in 100 that you're matched with, you'd need to chat with several hundred people, in order to get a fixed meet. Obviously you're also going to have other people who could also match, so it would depend on whether others are slightly better matches, including for availability etc.

If each man weeks his profile so that it sells him perfectly, it will all be equal. Some men will have the edge, so will highlight the importance of the others needing to get working on their profile.

Get to clubs and socials to increase your circle of friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I hope nobody is trying to get a meat on today of all days

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"OP check out clubs like Sweet Wednesday or Bi Fun Club which is held at Central Station in basement, is a 5 mins. walk from King's Cross Station.

I've not been to the BiFunClub venue but have to Sweet Wednesday which is gr8 fun. No pressure to play, can just mingle and meet friendly peeps, build rapport, etc.

I heard the BiFunClub is pretty good as well. Worth a venture...!"

Ooh thanks for that remember them next visit to london

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