FabSwingers.com forum: An Honest Answer

By *sWyld OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Usually yes

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By *hrimper36Couple
35 weeks ago

Central France dept 36

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

I answer like for like as in if it’s a hi I reply hi if there’s effort then I put in effort but honestly I really don’t need to put in a lot of effort which is a shame but very normal on here.

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By *sWyld OP Woman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've been doing this more recently and people really don't know how to respond. It's rather amusing.

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Yes, of course. Always.

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By *ore_Please81Woman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Honesty alway and want the same in return x

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By *cottish guy 555Man
35 weeks ago

London

No real point in lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not many have in the last few days.Astounding ..

After all these years honesty sucks on fab.

What is being honest on here.

Telling me they cheating on their wives does not make you honest.Vice versa. Normally told this after 2 or 3 days chat about a load of trash. I believe in myself only

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By *he Vital SparkMan
35 weeks ago

Preston

Always reply and respectful to whoever it is I get a message from, I just won't reveal myself too much until I have a conversation/or effort is made.

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By *rill PhilMan
35 weeks ago

Crediton

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

I generally try to be as honest as I can.

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By *C79Man
35 weeks ago

Caterham

I rarely message anyone but when I do, I know the response is always honest. Deleted messages paint a clear and honest picture, right?

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By *inxy777Woman
35 weeks ago

essex

I’m always respectful, polite, though sometimes I would like to say more but I don’t, not worth the hassle. X.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Ooo the 'h' word.

I filter my replies, 100% honesty is not always necessary and not always kind.

I'm honest 'to the best of my ability '.

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By *tsMyPleasure.Man
35 weeks ago

near Stirling

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Yes - honesty is the best policy

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By *orny guy 6630Man
35 weeks ago

Gloucester

I'd like to actually receive a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yes always but I can’t say most people know how to take it. Usually I’m the one asking questions though lol x

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By *ynamicnatureMan
35 weeks ago

Doncaster

I try to reply to messages the very same way as I would a face to face chat.

I'm pretty honest and straight up

I do have to think about what I write more than I would face to face though, as the words in a message can come across the wrong way/ less natural?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
35 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always honest but sometimes moderated to tone down what we really think.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Pretty much, the odd exceptional question excluded

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

You all respond with unfiltered thoughts? How does that go down?

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By *londebiguyMan
35 weeks ago

Southport

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Nobody deserves my unfiltered thoughts.

They would need counselling I think.

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By *agnar73Man
35 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Honestly? Yes.

Unfiltered no.

But that’s how I am, usually polite and try to be respectful when messaging, bit easier when there’s been some back and forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"You all respond with unfiltered thoughts? How does that go down?"

It can end conversations quite quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

100%

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"You all respond with unfiltered thoughts? How does that go down?

It can end conversations quite quickly!"

I imagine it can.

No filters at all must be quite tricky

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
35 weeks ago

dudley

Can’t go wrong with answering questions either Yes or No or Ok , slightly more effort gos into saying I’m not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

off course I do it I even do it on the forums in posts it’s what makes me so lovable

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By *ames250122Man
35 weeks ago

Worcester

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Always answer honestly and unfiltered if asked something xx

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

Honest - yes

Unfiltered - no

I try to be genuine but kind.

Unless they’re a total fuck-nugget and then they get unfiltered

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Yes. What's the point in lying

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By *ingerTwistWoman
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I do. It takes conversations into surreal places.

it's a lot of fun.

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By *uctifanoWoman
35 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Hmmm yes and no. Always honest and try to be polite… occasionally and if provoked… I’m … direct

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Only my closest friends get unfiltered

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By *tlanshiaWoman
35 weeks ago

Chatham

Always yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Always honest and respectful even though it doesn’t get me far for some reason

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
35 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

I answer honestly but not unfiltered - I somehow have to mash my thoughts into some form of coherent English

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By *eart31Couple
35 weeks ago

Broxburn

Politely honest I would call my answers

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By *m-BatmanMan
35 weeks ago

Gotham

"Honest - yes

Unfiltered - no

I try to be genuine but kind.

Unless they’re a total fuck-nugget and then they get unfiltered "

Can you define ‘fuck-nugget’ as I couldn’t see a reference in the online Oxford Dictionary.

You can utilise any of my forum posts to cite examples of ‘fuck-nuggeting’ if it helps clarify the definition.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yes. Those messages are like rocking horse sh1t though.

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By *entleswinger69Man
35 weeks ago

exeter

Yes I do

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By *rivateparts!Man
35 weeks ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

It's rare I receive messages but when I do,yes I answer honestly.

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By *b202299Man
35 weeks ago

A...

What are these things you talk of " messages". Never have I received one of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yes we do.

Brutally so on occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

No. I filter out all the swear words.

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By *orphia2003Woman
35 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Generally, yes.

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By *ealitybitesMan
35 weeks ago

Belfast

It depends on the question, the person asking and how long we have been chatting.

The vast majority of conversations I have fizzle out after one or two messages so there won't be any unfiltered honesty required there.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Always try to answer honestly when it’s risky keep it vague and elaborate when you get to know each other better

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By *amish MacBethMan
35 weeks ago

Southend

Yes otherwise what’s the point ??

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

No. I filter out all the swear words. "

This but insults. But yes I do.

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By *asterCaneMan
35 weeks ago

Gosport

Yes don't think I've ever not responded to a message even if it's a hi how are you type one

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Yep very much so, the majority of men don't like unfiltered - it's quite amusing.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Yes. It’s a cross others have to bare

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
35 weeks ago

Reigate

We always respond, always honestly. Otherwise what’s the point?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
35 weeks ago

No I don't always answer honestly, I don't see the point in being really unkind for the sake of it.

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By *quidgeyWoman
35 weeks ago

Cambridge

Depends on the context.

There’s no need to be unkind.

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By *ellinever70Woman
35 weeks ago

Ayrshire

No, that sounds like being brash and unkind

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By *heGateKeeperMan
35 weeks ago

Stratford

Not if it’s nasty but if I’m asked a question I will answer honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yes. Had a message from a guy recently who lived miles away. Replied out of curiosity asking why he messaged as I'm not looking for males and he'd need a helicopter if I was. He replied saying he believed in the law of averages

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By *ootyfruityCouple
35 weeks ago

andover

Unfortunately I do this a lot, wifey is used to my lack of filters now

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By *teveanddebsCouple
35 weeks ago

Norwich

God no!

Can you imagine:

"Did you dip you dick in boiling water then beat it with a meat tenderiser to make it look like that?"

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

"Honest - yes

Unfiltered - no

I try to be genuine but kind.

Unless they’re a total fuck-nugget and then they get unfiltered

Can you define ‘fuck-nugget’ as I couldn’t see a reference in the online Oxford Dictionary.

You can utilise any of my forum posts to cite examples of ‘fuck-nuggeting’ if it helps clarify the definition."

I haven’t seen any evidence from you.

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By *J_OuizziCouple
35 weeks ago

Nottingham

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

I answer like for like as in if it’s a hi I reply hi if there’s effort then I put in effort but honestly I really don’t need to put in a lot of effort which is a shame but very normal on here.

As honestly as possible, and putting in the same degree of effort as the original message

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
35 weeks ago

Chichester

Why else reply?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I generally try to be kind. But I think that’s my *only* filter.

‘Not if you were the last woman on Earth’ can be filtered down to ‘Thanks but no thanks’. Because I’m nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I reply honestly to an extent. I can't say my thoughts aren't filtered as I like to reply thoughtfully but honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Yes honesty wether people like it or not

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By *uckurcumMan
35 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

Always reply in an appropriate manner,even if it's to a basic hi or other garbage text speak ...

Some people don't seem able to respond to conversation anyway these days !

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By *ex HolesMan
35 weeks ago

Up North

I’ll say anything to get into a ladies knickers

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

"I’ll say anything to get into a ladies knickers

I’ll send you a pair. They might be a bit snug on you though.

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By *ex HolesMan
35 weeks ago

Up North

"I’ll say anything to get into a ladies knickers

I’ll send you a pair. They might be a bit snug on you though."

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By *imply DeeWoman
35 weeks ago

Wherever

Yes. My unfiltered thoughts act as another useful filter.

That’s if I reply.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
35 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

If I replied unfiltered the response would be about ten pages long my hyperactive brain is like ten thousand monkeys on typewriters so I try to focus on just one typing the least amount of shit.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Do you (if you reply to messages) answer honestly. With the unfiltered thoughts that enter your head?

Absolutely. Probably to honest. Gets me in heaps of trouble.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
35 weeks ago

Bolton

We always try to be kind and respectful when replying to messages but always honest

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By *dam1971Man
35 weeks ago

Bedford

Sometimes it’s unfiltered, but often not, and that’s for all kinds of reasons.

If I’ve had the day from hell, the sort that could make a bishop kick a hole in a stained glass window, someone who sends me a message doesn’t need to see that.

If someone is vulnerable I’ll respond appropriately, not “what am I going to have for dinner?”

I let my behaviour be tweaked by whoever is speaking (writing) to me, not just plough on with my own world. It’s the nice part about communication, I think.

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