FabSwingers.com forum: Do you respond to winks?

By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

I've always ignored them, i feel like if someone is truly interested they would have sent a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I dooo

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By *aked2sumCouple
39 weeks ago

Coast

Knowbody likes a winker

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Absolutely, wink away

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By *ascaIMan
39 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

Winks? Wait.. some people get more than 1?

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By *ouple4voyeurCouple
39 weeks ago

Birmingham

Always delete them. Depending how I feel Delete or block friends requests without a message.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
39 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Winking in public tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

We do from couples and ladies.

We reply to the ones from single men if the mrs likes the look of them or they are a big bear.

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By *orny-DJMan
39 weeks ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Nope. Far too often, when I have responded with a message it is either deleted or ignored so now I just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Always delete them. Depending how I feel Delete or block friends requests without a message."

Same

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
39 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Nah.

If that's the sum of the effort you think I'm worth then there's clearly not enough interest to pursue it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

Yes i think they are a good first step

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I don't even respond to messages so winks have no chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Yes i think they are a good first step"

Why? Why is sending a wink better than a message?

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
39 weeks ago

Southampton

I do if the profile interests me

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

If I get any yes and usually with a message

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By *rcoupleCouple
39 weeks ago

Mid Glam

Sometimes.

If rhey seemnlikea good match

"Knowbody likes a winker

Officer Crabtree we presume?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I do. I always wink back.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

"Yes i think they are a good first step

Why? Why is sending a wink better than a message?"

Because they can qualify initial interest so can put time into the message

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By *dam1971Man
39 weeks ago

Bedford

"I do if the profile interests me "

Yes, pretty much this.

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By *r TriomanMan
39 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Yes, I don't get much interaction with my fellow swingers so I'll respond to anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"Nope. Far too often, when I have responded with a message it is either deleted or ignored so now I just delete them"

Same.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Priority always given to those who make an effort to communicate their interests effectively as opposed to winks.

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By *entleman of GirthMan
39 weeks ago

Forest Row

I love the way some people invent their own “rules” for Fab. It is what it is.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
39 weeks ago

Newcastle

I being winked at. If a profile interests me I will wink back and hopefully they will follow through with a message.

I don’t like making the first move so I will wink people I like the look of. It feels less of a rejection if someone doesn’t respond to a wink than it does if they don’t respond to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Priority always given to those who make an effort to communicate their interests effectively as opposed to winks."

But I use a wink to establish whether the person I’m winking at wants or would get a very well composed message

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I being winked at. If a profile interests me I will wink back and hopefully they will follow through with a message.

I don’t like making the first move so I will wink people I like the look of. It feels less of a rejection if someone doesn’t respond to a wink than it does if they don’t respond to a message.

Kx "

This

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By *eroLondonMan
39 weeks ago

Mayfair

Coincidentally I just posted a response on the Scottish forum, so I may as well say it verbatim:

I've often said on here that sending a wink is a perfunctory action. I haven't sent one for over three years, other than those which are part of a forum game or a challenge (an equally pointless exercise). I've sat next to 'women friends' at a social who have shown me their 'wink tally', with the number varying between 350 and 600++ winks. A wink from a man - no matter how well-intentioned - will simply languish like a forgotten child in some obscure orphanage.

No woman of substance has the time or the wherewithal to sift through an ever-increasing mountain of winks. Hence their limited use. In fairness they are useful to a small minority...couples perhaps.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

East Sussex

We wink back if we're interested. This frequently results in radio silence

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By *ornycougaWoman
39 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Very rarely look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Priority always given to those who make an effort to communicate their interests effectively as opposed to winks.

But I use a wink to establish whether the person I’m winking at wants or would get a very well composed message

Oops, wink, blink and miss it.

No time to waste on what ifs, and much prefer someone who's precise and to the point.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I treat them the same as messages.

If its from someone with a profile that gives me enough of an idea as to whether I might be interested in finding out more, then yes, I'll send a message.

If its from a pretty much blank profile, or someone that clearly hasn't read mine, or is eleventybillion miles away somewhere that I'll never likely visit......then no.

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By *orny IrishMan
39 weeks ago

Rural Wiltshire

I do, and sometimes it kicks off a conversation other times nothing.

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By *untogetherCouple
39 weeks ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.

We will wink back if we like their profile. If we don't feel it's a match, we will ignore it.

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By *heonixrising500Man
39 weeks ago

Barnsley

I all ways message them

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By *inkster seekingMan
39 weeks ago

Ponty

Always respond to a wink if i like their profile

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By *WB85Man
39 weeks ago

Staffordshire

For me a wink will only get a wink in return.

Personally I don't see the point in them, if you like someone....send message and see if it becomes anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"Very rarely look at them"

Have to say you've a superb profile, loving how you service plenty big dick(s).

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"We will wink back if we like their profile. If we don't feel it's a match, we will ignore it. "
this

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By *yzykMan
39 weeks ago

Stirlingshire

These 'winks' you speak of....

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Mostly not and especially if have no face on profile

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By *oxy jWoman
39 weeks ago

taunton somerset

no just mass delete daily

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Nope. I don't even check them

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By *lack Orchid 0204Man
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Depends who has sent it

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By *ornucopiaMan
39 weeks ago

Bexley

If winks didn't serve a lot of people well, I'm sure the site would have done away with them by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

If I’m interested I wink back

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By *ractorlad3800Man
39 weeks ago

derbyshire

I think there a good way to see if people are interested or not

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
39 weeks ago

Okehampton

I tend to thank them, and start a chat. Even if their not my type it’s always nice chatting with peeps, they seldom respond

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By *usurrusCouple
39 weeks ago

North West.

Yup, we will respond*. It even says so on our profiley thing.

*If we think you are glorious that is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"I think there a good way to see if people are interested or not

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Im not sure about that one, I know a lady friend who got about 200+ within a few hours of joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I do. I even encourage it in my profile so that at least it indicates interest if they don't want to message first, and it means I don't have to send the the first message in the hope that it's read.

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By *ularliWoman
39 weeks ago

Worcester

I don’t respond to them unless I am attracted to the winker

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By *orbidden eastMan
39 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most of the times I do. Just to see what happens

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By *nightANDKrakenCouple
39 weeks ago

Suppose like all things depends on the 'winker'.... If they're attractive and what were looking for then we wink back. If not they just get deleted.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
39 weeks ago

Llanelli

I do if I'm interested, if they have no photos public then I never will

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

We think it’s polite to wink back …. If we fancy them we will message xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I never look at them x

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

We used too … but then we began to think it’s a lazy way to contact us so we would rather have a message …

Xxxxx

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By *ake_or_deathMan
39 weeks ago

Manchester

I'll take a look at a winker's profile, and if I like the look of them I'll send them a hello.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
39 weeks ago

Castlebar

I check them out, see if it's someone we might be interested in.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
39 weeks ago

London

We don't x

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
39 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

It depends how fit you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Rarely. Unless a profile really catches my eye.

Most of the time I just open it so the notification on how many winks you have goes away.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
39 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t mind the odd wink.

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By *ecky and justCouple
39 weeks ago

Godalming

If we get a wink, we always look..

sometimes the look won’t get past the profile pic.

If it’s someone we like the look of we’ll wink back.. If it’s someone from our hotlist we’ll be messaging immediately.

We’ve had some great nights and made some great friends from a wink.

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By *TK421-Man
39 weeks ago

Cheltenham

If a profile jumps out then yes.

Otherwise it's just a soft way of someone reaching out.

I think they serve a purpose. Shame that a lot of people just outright ignore them.

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
39 weeks ago

Glasgow

We are fine with winks, openly invited them on our page. Though we only follow up if the profile doing it matches what we are looking for. If not then they are deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"We are fine with winks, openly invited them on our page. Though we only follow up if the profile doing it matches what we are looking for. If not then they are deleted. "

Don't you ever run into the issue of getting winks from the same people when you delete them?

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By *ssex-coupleCouple
39 weeks ago

clacton on sea

Usually respond with a wink to show mutual interest

if they want to talk they can message us.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
39 weeks ago

Wirral.

I'd rather folk winked than messaged.

I don't feel bad ignoring a wink if he doesn't interest me, but I sometimes do when it's a nice message but he just doesn't float my boat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

"I'd rather folk winked than messaged.

I don't feel bad ignoring a wink if he doesn't interest me, but I sometimes do when it's a nice message but he just doesn't float my boat. "

Interesting. I see your point.

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By *smith87Man
39 weeks ago

totton

I never get them

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
39 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

No, they're lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I sometimes respond to winks, but I tend to forget to check lol x

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By *urenutsMan
39 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

"Usually respond with a wink to show mutual interest

if they want to talk they can message us. "

That's the idea of a wink

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By *rill PhilMan
39 weeks ago

Crediton

I'll respond to pretty much anything!

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By *ex HolesMan
39 weeks ago

Up North

If they’re an 8 or above then yes, anything below I’ll delete as it’s I’m a catch

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By *f.I.Like.It.I.Do.ItCouple
39 weeks ago

Keighley

We wink back if we are interested then hopefully they’ll follow up with a message

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By *ellhungvweMan
39 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I like a wink. I will usually respond if I like the profile and they are local(ish).

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By *alandNitaCouple
39 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

It very much depends on the profile of the winker.

In many cases winks are received from profiles that are not compatible, so they get ignored.

If we think they're OK we'll wink back or message.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Ooh that elusive wink..how jolly marvellous.

I love a good winking.

If my mind believes he is a bit If alright Jack the lad. He may get a block instead.Harsh but no cruel intensions

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By *imisugarWoman
39 weeks ago

Rugby

Sometimes depending who it's from.

Blank or hidden profiles absolute no

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By *amoruUsagiCouple
39 weeks ago

Glasgow

"We are fine with winks, openly invited them on our page. Though we only follow up if the profile doing it matches what we are looking for. If not then they are deleted.

Don't you ever run into the issue of getting winks from the same people when you delete them?"

Not really. It's probably happened but less than you would think.

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By *aked_magicMan
39 weeks ago

the gutter looking at the stars (S.Australia)

if i like the look of the winker's profile then yes ill send a message back, its rare that im a winkee though

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By *aomilatteCouple
39 weeks ago

Midlands

We respond to a small percentage. We've just had a wink from a well verified couple with only photo's of the Lady on their profile, so it gets ignored.

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
39 weeks ago

Reigate

We do, if it’s someone we are interested in.

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By *oveToPlay.Couple
39 weeks ago

Yorkshire

I love winks

Always have a look and if your profile piques my interest I wink back and send a message.

To me they are a lovely little icebreaker.

I see them as eye contact or a smile if we met in person, you know that old school kind of flirting

S xxx

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple
39 weeks ago

Glasgow

We have a nosy at thier profile and send a wink and a message back if we like what we see

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I look at them now and again but never usually respond to them

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
39 weeks ago

Gloucester

Yes we do. If we are interested we wink back and then wait for them to send a message as they winked first.

Maybe going to rethink this as a lot of people don’t follow up with a message after receiving a wink back.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
39 weeks ago

London

"Yes i think they are a good first step"

As do I.

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By *elboy1978Man
39 weeks ago

Fellgate

If I get a wink yes I do

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
39 weeks ago

nearby

"Yes we do. If we are interested we wink back and then wait for them to send a message as they winked first.

Maybe going to rethink this as a lot of people don’t follow up with a message after receiving a wink back. "

Same as us!

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By *osey WalesMan
39 weeks ago

Surrey

People get winks ?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
39 weeks ago

chichester

I’ll send one back if the person looks hot

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By *ootyfruityCouple
39 weeks ago

andover

It would be very rare for us to message back to a wink, but if we like the look of them we will wink back. It’s down to them to make a little more effort then

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By *ildo_swagginsthe3rdWoman
39 weeks ago

Wales

"Absolutely, wink away

Done

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By *eyond PurityCouple
39 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We look at winks - more often than not they are people who haven’t made any effort on their profile so you know the wink is just a lazy way of communicating.

But sometimes we receive one and either reply back with one or send a message.

Sometimes we’ll send one to show interest - this maybe a profile that isn’t local or we aren’t sure if we are what someone is looking for and so it gives them a chance to view us.

It’s just another tool FAB provides and as the responses above show, they get used or not used by people differently.

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By *att71Man
39 weeks ago

Bristol

I love a good old fashioned wink.....

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Sometimes I wink back

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By *mwirralMan
39 weeks ago

wirral

"We look at winks - more often than not they are people who haven’t made any effort on their profile so you know the wink is just a lazy way of communicating.

But sometimes we receive one and either reply back with one or send a message.

Sometimes we’ll send one to show interest - this maybe a profile that isn’t local or we aren’t sure if we are what someone is looking for and so it gives them a chance to view us.

It’s just another tool FAB provides and as the responses above show, they get used or not used by people differently.

Yeah exactly what they are for and why I use them

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By *arkus1812Man
39 weeks ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I always respond to winks with a simple thank you message, sometimes I get a reply, sometimes I do not.

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By *ubFTMTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Swindon

I ignore winks most of the time but I send them out lol I try to reply to all messages that put effort in x

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By *untogetherCouple
39 weeks ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.

"We respond to a small percentage. We've just had a wink from a well verified couple with only photo's of the Lady on their profile, so it gets ignored."

Yes, if it's a couple and there is not one picture of the male ( or just close up cock pics) we won't respond. We like to get a general idea of what BOTH people look like before we commit to a wink.

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By *tylebender03Man
39 weeks ago

Manchester

I’m out here winking like a man with a twitch

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By *nnocentOneWoman
39 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Hmm rarely. If they were really interested, they'd send a message..?

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By *agnar1980Man
39 weeks ago

Poole

Yes. Nice way to find out if someone what’s to chat or likes your profile.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes if I've noticed it and I'm interested in the profile I'll either wink back or message.

Mrs

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By *hyGuy_80Man
39 weeks ago

Ormskirk

Depends, if there's enough on the profile to make me think there'd be a mutual interest, I might wink back or message, if not I'd ignore it.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Horsham

I usually return the favour if I like who sent me them.

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By *att71Man
39 weeks ago

Bristol

Yes I do, I think they a good ice breaker on here

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Nope

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By *ityguyMan
39 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Always reply out of politeness even if it's a no thanks

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
39 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I rarely look at who's winked me. I tend to agree with the OP here. But there are occasions I've messaged off the back of a wink.

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By *TG3Man
39 weeks ago

Dorchester

Wink me and find out

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By *ussieChrisMan
39 weeks ago

Walsall

When and if I get a wink, I make sure to say thanks at the very least. I personally use winks as a way to show interest without having another DM to check for the couple or woman being winked at (they usually get enough DM's as it is). If I do get a wink or message back, Awesome.

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By *exySenseiCouple
39 weeks ago

"I've always ignored them, i feel like if someone is truly interested they would have sent a message."

We do sometimes. Can't respond to them all though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Central

Yes. I wink back if I potentially like them

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Love a wink, shows interest and if I like the look of the profile I’ll always respond!

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
39 weeks ago

wonderland.

"I've always ignored them, i feel like if someone is truly interested they would have sent a message."
yes if we like the look of the profile that winks us xx

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By *uvery30Woman
39 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Yes I do look at them and may send one back if I find them attractive.

That way it open up the interest for a message x

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
39 weeks ago

Lingfield

Females and couples yes, single males generally not unless I'm convinced they aren't bi. I don't subscribe to the 'winks are lazy' point of view, I'd rather a wink so I can decide how to respond than knowing someone has wasted their time writing me a nice message that I'm immediately not interested in. Time is precious to us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I respond…. In different ways

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
39 weeks ago

Southampton

"I respond…. In different ways "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I respond…. In different ways

lol"

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
39 weeks ago

Southampton

"I respond…. In different ways

lol

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By *att71Man
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"I respond…. In different ways

lol

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By *arkhelgaCouple
39 weeks ago

leeds

It's a very subtle/innocent way to flirt,harmless so what's the problem,wink away winkersXx

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
39 weeks ago

London

I don't even check them

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By *mudge1995Man
39 weeks ago

Hull

I do, I send them as a way of signalling interest without filling up what I’m sure is an already full inbox. Though I’m sure that’s counter intuitive as their wink will be full too haha

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By *sWyldWoman
39 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Never look or send them

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By *inglepringlebedsukMan
39 weeks ago

Arlesey

A lot of the time, i don't even notice them

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By *amsam101Man
39 weeks ago

poulton

Rarely look at them to be honest, but when I do it totally depends on who it’s from as to whether I respond or not

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By *mmacdheelsTV/TS
39 weeks ago

France, Not in

I always respond to a wink. Usually just by a return wink. I appreciate some people may be a bit shy regarding what to put in a first message so by returning a wink it says I am open to accept and respond to a worded message. I take a wink as an initial expression of I like what I see just like that initial look you often get across a crowded bar.

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By *att71Man
39 weeks ago

Bristol

"It's a very subtle/innocent way to flirt,harmless so what's the problem,wink away winkersXx "

cheeky winkers

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
39 weeks ago

manchester

If we are interested yes

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
38 weeks ago

Dublin

We haven't responded to winks. We're flattered that people have winked at us.

Our reason for being on fab (and attending events) has been from the start and remains the voyeur & exhibitionist aspect - we had and still have no express intention to swap or share. Watching and being watched is what excites us.

So winking back (or us offering the first wink) might give the impression that we would be interested in swapping or sharing.

Caveat...

Like we say in our profile, we could be tempted to soft-swap or play if we meet the right people...

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By *urora1912Woman
38 weeks ago

Norfolk East anglia

I do if I like what I see

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