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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

I've had this account on and off for couple years. And I've never met anybody on here. I'll probably admit there have been times. Where I didn't really have the time. But now I'm single and done with the whole dating. I'm ready. But nobody really talks. Maybe a couple of messages but thats as far as it goes? Is nobody interested anymore?

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
35 weeks ago

manchester


" I've had this account on and off for couple years. And I've never met anybody on here. I'll probably admit there have been times. Where I didn't really have the time. But now I'm single and done with the whole dating. I'm ready. But nobody really talks. Maybe a couple of messages but thats as far as it goes? Is nobody interested anymore?"

Lots of people are interested in lots of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I was but I've just discovered a huge spot on my ass, it could land planes it's glowing so much.

So not right now op.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Interested in what though OP?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
35 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Meet you downstairs in the bar and hurt

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By *iddlesticksMan
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

Not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I talk. I’d meet someone.

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By *ris GrayMan
35 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I talk. I’d meet someone. "
meet me woody

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

We're up for meeting but we only meet people who we're compatible with and that's where the difficulty lies for everyone.

There are so many people on fab that you'd think meeting would be easy but when you narrow it down by preference, distance and mutual attraction the numbers shrink.

Hope you find some people to meet

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Do not — I repeat - do not listen to this ^ duplicitous harlot. She has stood me up more times than I care to remember. Oh and I rarely forget. Even the lure and temptation of The Churchill Suite at Claridges wasn't sufficient to sway and enthuse her.

She will, no doubt, one day have her comeuppance!

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

I'm down to meet. Just be pretty!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Do not — I repeat - do not listen to this ^ duplicitous harlot. She has stood me up more times than I care to remember. Oh and I rarely forget. Even the lure and temptation of The Churchill Suite at Claridges wasn't sufficient to sway and enthuse her.

She will, no doubt, one day have her comeuppance! "

Oh, hello Nero

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"Do not — I repeat - do not listen to this ^ duplicitous harlot. She has stood me up more times than I care to remember. Oh and I rarely forget. Even the lure and temptation of The Churchill Suite at Claridges wasn't sufficient to sway and enthuse her.

She will, no doubt, one day have her comeuppance!

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Oh, hello Nero "

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London


"Do not — I repeat - do not listen to this ^ duplicitous harlot. She has stood me up more times than I care to remember. Oh and I rarely forget. Even the lure and temptation of The Churchill Suite at Claridges wasn't sufficient to sway and enthuse her.

She will, no doubt, one day have her comeuppance!

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Oh, hello Nero

•

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She won't meet me either. Scaredy cat

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By *CLM87Woman
35 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I meet, but rarely.

Alot of the time I get put off as all they want is NSA and I'm not after that. Also the constant want for sex talk.. when I've asked them not too.

I've also been stood up or let down at the last minute a few times, which puts me off for a while.

Some guys I've been speaking to since October and have only just met them..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Do not — I repeat - do not listen to this ^ duplicitous harlot. She has stood me up more times than I care to remember. Oh and I rarely forget. Even the lure and temptation of The Churchill Suite at Claridges wasn't sufficient to sway and enthuse her.

She will, no doubt, one day have her comeuppance!

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Oh, hello Nero

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She won't meet me either. Scaredy cat "

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By *oxy jWoman
35 weeks ago

somerset

just because your getting no where op dont mean no ones meweting it just means no ones meeting you at the moment ..

its so easy to thing no one is real when no one is interested in you the fact is women and couples in a way have it pretty easy as its a sausage fest so its just a case of finding a hot guy but for a gut yts lots of guys seeking very few women and couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

What would you recommend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

What does OP mean?

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By *ggdrasil66Man
35 weeks ago

Saltdean

I can understand why some females and couples are reluctant to meet single men. Have seen nothing on this thread to make me change my mind about that.

As for me? Well I don’t feel like I have gotten too old, I just look like I am!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"What does OP mean?"

It means Original Poster - the person who started the thread.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
35 weeks ago

Stratford

I’m always up for coffee

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By *uvery30Woman
35 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

I find it's the other way sometime. I will talk but a guy wants to meet straight away.

So after say 3 or 4 days they get bored (as I have to arrange meets) and then stop talk. So I then won't go onto to meet them.

Then after a week will pop back up and say still up for that meet? no you stopped talking to me so...

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By *aughtyTimesBL5Man
35 weeks ago

bolton

I find it difficult to even get to chat to people on here

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Central

Lots of us are interested in the right people and do meet. But most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. Hence the majority of chats don't find matching souls, due to needing attraction and matching preferences.

For single men, this means that they have to invest wisely in how they promote themselves. Most don't do that very well. Swinging can include clubs, so using them gets people into contact with others.

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

My guess is that a solid majority of people on this site are looking to meet. Maybe an overwhelming majority.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex

I chat.

I meet.

It’s gaining & holding interest that’s key. Your profile is fine….

So look at your messages. Read profiles. Are you compatible?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
35 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm always looking to meet, socially first - alot of people don't seem to have the patience for that.

But I need to feel some sort of spark/attraction to consider that.

And then there's the practicalities, I get people from 2,3,400 miles away "trying their luck". I'd never expect anyone to travel that far and it actually makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.

Like others have said, it's about compatibility.

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By *lym4realCouple
35 weeks ago

plymouth

Our babysitter caught fire and then exploded ( although we have zero children living at home but we just like the whole baby sitter thing ??) and so we don't meet at the mo plus being very top secret workers at MI5/6 ( But don't tell anyone) we can be called into work at the very last minute ( normally her though so only mr4 meets??) but lots meet and even more promise to or arrange to but ...and some even promise the world or ...xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


" Our babysitter caught fire and then exploded ( although we have zero children living at home but we just like the whole baby sitter thing ??) and so we don't meet at the mo plus being very top secret workers at MI5/6 ( But don't tell anyone) we can be called into work at the very last minute ( normally her though so only mr4 meets??) but lots meet and even more promise to or arrange to but ...and some even promise the world or ...xx "

not the 77th in alignment with the lizard people?

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By *arla SwingerWoman
35 weeks ago

Somewhere

Yes, I do

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By *iddlesticksMan
35 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.


" Our babysitter caught fire and then exploded ( although we have zero children living at home but we just like the whole baby sitter thing ??) and so we don't meet at the mo plus being very top secret workers at MI5/6 ( But don't tell anyone) we can be called into work at the very last minute ( normally her though so only mr4 meets??) but lots meet and even more promise to or arrange to but ...and some even promise the world or ...xx "

MI5 eh, does that mean you’re professionals.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
35 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Your profile is good - detailed and quite a few pics - just re-look at your wording as a lot of people type as they speak and so it becomes a spew of words.

Your age will good against you to some - tattoos to others, so you’ve already narrowed your audience down.

The demographic you are pitching towards are probably single women and couples - they might be meeting/chatting to a few already so not in a position to talk.

Then they’ve got to be in your area or near for it to become likely and then there’s connecting with the right people.

Soon that big wide net you thought you had to fish with is reduced to a rod and a bag

Be polite, develop a thick skin for rejections/no responses and get your face known - socials are good for this.

Good luck

K

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By *Wman15Man
35 weeks ago

Altrincham


" Our babysitter caught fire and then exploded ( although we have zero children living at home but we just like the whole baby sitter thing ??) and so we don't meet at the mo plus being very top secret workers at MI5/6 ( But don't tell anyone) we can be called into work at the very last minute ( normally her though so only mr4 meets??) but lots meet and even more promise to or arrange to but ...and some even promise the world or ...xx

MI5 eh, does that mean you’re professionals. "

I think you'll find that's CI5

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


" Our babysitter caught fire and then exploded ( although we have zero children living at home but we just like the whole baby sitter thing ??) and so we don't meet at the mo plus being very top secret workers at MI5/6 ( But don't tell anyone) we can be called into work at the very last minute ( normally her though so only mr4 meets??) but lots meet and even more promise to or arrange to but ...and some even promise the world or ...xx

MI5 eh, does that mean you’re professionals. "

M15?? That near me.

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