FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles

By *ympha Luxuria OP Woman
34 weeks ago

La La Land

It only dawned on me today that I never look at people's height on their profiles, it doesn't bother me at all.

What are the things you always look at first on other peoples profiles and are there things that you don't bother looking at?

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Op like you said in a different post , I tend to look at distance and then my eye is caught with a sight of a tattoo… I’m a big sucker for curves and tattoos on women,

I do have a couple of friends I chat to who are not local tattooed who I chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Height

Sexual orientation

I never look at distance as it doesn't bother me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
34 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Tits

Arse

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
34 weeks ago

Manchester

I look at height pretty immediately but that’s largely for logistics.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
34 weeks ago

Essex

I look at username - if it’s grim, it puts me off.

Never look at height - everyone is taller than me really.

Distance is irrelevant

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I look at their distance and then guage how much of an issue it really is based on the quality of their profile narrative.

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By *rispyDuckMan
34 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

1st look at ‘distance to me’ no point if we 100s of miles apart.

2nd Are they meet verified. Being on here more than 6months - Year & no veri is a Red Flag for me

Then profile text: do they came across as fun, sociable, GSOH or bratty & stuck up (turn off)

4th pictures

are they recent, do I find them physically attractive

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By *ornycougaWoman
34 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

Working down the profile...

Are they verified?

Distance

Height

Have they ticked safe sex

All are deal breakers

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
34 weeks ago

Leeds

Verified

Location

Age

Sexuality

Looking for

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Photo and meet verified

Location

Bio to scan for any erm... "preferences" in men

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By *ris GrayMan
34 weeks ago

Dorchester

I read the pictures

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Central

I tend to look at everything but height and body type are key ones

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast

Very first thing I look at is age.

If they are outside my filters I don't look any further.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
34 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I never read the text bit…..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
34 weeks ago

East Sussex

Pictures followed by age if I like the pictures

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By *alcon77Man
34 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

I'll read the bio.

Then I'll look at the photographs.

The stats are what I look at last.

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By *uvery30Woman
34 weeks ago

Gloucestershire

Pics

Height ( bit of a deal breaker for me)

Distance

Bio

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By *rucking-HellMan
34 weeks ago

Northampton

Always look for body type and tattoos. If they're slim with no tattoos then it's good to go. And age. If they're over 40, then good.

Never really look at anything else. Maybe distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I’m more of a pictures type of guy

I miss a lot of details when I read your profile. I miss the height, their age and location.

I read the text and quickly see whether we might be on the same wavelength.

I go back and forth if I need to know more….Several times,….

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By *agnar73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Checking the age range as my local

Updates throws up temptations that are beyond me.

Then distance and pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Pics

Bio

Location

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Boobs, I look at boobs first

Think I have a slight fascination with boobs... but that's not such a bad thing is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Profile, don't look no further if that's shite.

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By *had_ThunderCockMan
34 weeks ago

a place somewhat adjacent to you…

I read and go over everything.

It all has to add up.

I’m very picky. Hence why no one here, hears from me in your DM’s; PERFECT.

Mindset;

The less there is, the worse it is!

The more there is that ‘is their own words’ the better.

Red flags are the typical FABisms, (quality over quantity, not looking to sleep my way through… etc)

Too many sex pics are red flag

Too many tattoos are a red flag

Hair colouring & tattoos are a very major red flag.

Pet iguana’s, hair colouring & tattoos. No chance.

I start at the profile narrative: firstly looking to filter out those too abrasive, too obtuse, or too preachy, to make themselves approachable and I can help them by blocking them, some here on this thread are blocked; they identify themselves for me. Happy to help. I don’t see why they’re here?

I like nice people, so look for well written individual creative profiles that give you snippets about a person or their motivation. Happy with understanding their tolerances and non-negotiables, but just be polite and nice.

Then I look at their distance, their preferences & then photos. Typically no picture - then I move them on. Anything over a 60 miles radius I’m most likely to ignore, but not rule out.

60miles is an hours drive, totally doable for a coffee and an audible session.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Age

Pictures

Bio

Verifications if I’m still interested

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By *iscean_dreamMan
34 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'm not bothered what height they're but I usually look at their interests first and distance before reading bio.

Yes I actually read bios

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Body type then distance.

Height aint a big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Location, pictures, age, height and sexuality in that order, phase 2 starts with a verification check and profile read through, final stage is a message saying FAF?

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By *quirrel!Man
34 weeks ago

Nearby

"It only dawned on me today that I never look at people's height on their profiles, it doesn't bother me at all.

What are the things you always look at first on other peoples profiles and are there things that you don't bother looking at? "

That’s a relief (short person here) !

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Interests (good like/dislike ratio)

Pics.

Location

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By *m-BatmanMan
34 weeks ago

Gotham

"I read and go over everything.

It all has to add up.

I’m very picky. Hence why no one here, hears from me in your DM’s; PERFECT.

Mindset;

The less there is, the worse it is!

The more there is that ‘is their own words’ the better.

Red flags are the typical FABisms, (quality over quantity, not looking to sleep my way through… etc)

Too many sex pics are red flag

Too many tattoos are a red flag

Hair colouring & tattoos are a very major red flag.

Pet iguana’s, hair colouring & tattoos. No chance.

Then I look at their distance, their preferences & then photos. Typically no picture - then I move them on. Anything over a 60 miles radius I’m most likely to ignore, but not rule out.

60miles is an hours drive, totally doable for a coffee and an audible session.

I imagine you’ve used a stop watch and have a written SOP with a flow chart diagram here - maybe a Loom explainer video to accompany this blueprint.

If it were me, I’d get that bundled up as an online course and sell it on Udemy for $100 and throw in an added value upsell of 69 copy paste done for you success formula opening DM messages ready to download the swipe file and instantly increase your Fab engagement rate by 5000% over night.

My only concern with this is:

1) how’s it that you avoid being distracted by pictures of boobs

And

2) how do you carry out the above simultaneously as still scrolling through pictures of boobs

Then I’m all in on this underground action plan of success the gurus don’t want you to know.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
34 weeks ago

Portsmouth

If they're a smoker

Photos

Distance

Height

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By *mf123Man
34 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

I dont look at profiles saves folks wittering that i didnt read it

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