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"Attracts me - a nice profile photo, you know, naked torso, tattoos and the like. Puts me off - when they start talking."  | |||
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"Likes: tasteful profile pics, a bit of a bio - not just “looking for fun” etc, veris that match the looking for (straight guys verified by men are a no), sensible age range - and in the same vain, pics that match the person’s age! Dislikes: graphic photos, photos on a single profile with a woman in them (instant block), the whole Sydney waffle, no likes/looking for/bio I’m far too choosy and will probably end up never having sex again…but I won’t lower my standards. " Totally agree I would rather no sex than lower my standards Oh and the pics matching the actual age of the person .... so doint claim you are in your 40's when clearly knocking in 60!! Did have that once, met just for a social and left after one drink because they were clearly 15+ years older than claiming and out of my age range at the time. | |||
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"1) profile pic that is not a cock 2) well taken public photos that are no just cocks, I prefer a tease Someone who has an age profile that is not 18 to 99 And someone who has managed to string a few words together. " This is spot on! | |||
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"Attracts me to a profile..... Information about the person that interests me, their location and age and decent photos . What puts me off..... The people who can't be bothered to set an age range and meet up to age 99. Those daft nonsense warnings that some people seem to think are important to add, despite it being explained in the FAQ section of the site. " This - men. & Womens profiles that are blank, "looking to fill in later"/ "here for fun with women & couples" with no pics, a dick pic or 20. Information is currency in human interactions. | |||
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Inability to send a message beyond hi or bosting
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"What attracts me us stuff I like. What puts me off is stuff I don't like. I'm starting to see AI written profiles. I don't like them much" Yep. They're dire. In the same category as generic, bland, identikit profiles that crop up as a result of paying too much attention to what forum users think and not enough on having some personality and common sense. | |||
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"It is interesting as the up to 99 age range comes up a lot with the ladies. Does it put you off as they are genuinely willing to sleep with such senior people? Or is it because you feel they are desperate and would have sex with anything regardless of age? " For me, it’s that they’ve obviously left it as what is generic and not had any sensible thought about it - and therefore probably given the same lack of thought to their profile (and may have the same approach to sex!!) I also hate the thought that “any hole’s a goal”… it’s like they’re hedging their bets. I’m sceptical when I get messages from men in their late 30s!!! | |||
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"It is interesting as the up to 99 age range comes up a lot with the ladies. Does it put you off as they are genuinely willing to sleep with such senior people? Or is it because you feel they are desperate and would have sex with anything regardless of age? " It doesn't particularly bother me because I think quite often they just forget to put an age range in. So many people say that age doesn't matter anyway that I'm surprised more don't have the 18-99 range. Besides someone has to take pity on us ancients | |||
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"It is interesting as the up to 99 age range comes up a lot with the ladies. Does it put you off as they are genuinely willing to sleep with such senior people? Or is it because you feel they are desperate and would have sex with anything regardless of age? For me, it’s that they’ve obviously left it as what is generic and not had any sensible thought about it - and therefore probably given the same lack of thought to their profile (and may have the same approach to sex!!) I also hate the thought that “any hole’s a goal”… it’s like they’re hedging their bets. I’m sceptical when I get messages from men in their late 30s!!! " Yes the any hole is a goal is a valid point and very common on here judging by verifications. It does put me off too  | |||
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"It is interesting as the up to 99 age range comes up a lot with the ladies. Does it put you off as they are genuinely willing to sleep with such senior people? Or is it because you feel they are desperate and would have sex with anything regardless of age? It doesn't particularly bother me because I think quite often they just forget to put an age range in. So many people say that age doesn't matter anyway that I'm surprised more don't have the 18-99 range. Besides someone has to take pity on us ancients "That is a valid point, some DO forget to update that part of their profile or miss it when first setting up. When I have questioned people in past about their ‘looking for’ stats (due to conflicting profile text info) some did not realise and asked how to change it. But yes on the other hand why should very senior people not have sex and admirers, some may genuinely be attracted to them so all the power to both sides | |||
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"Someone that has put an effort into their profile and has a few nice photos. A sense of humour and a big cock helps to." Think we have same taste  | |||
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"Attracts me - a nice profile photo, you know, naked torso, tattoos and the like. Puts me off - when they start talking." I find this is where I lose women ?? | |||
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-Pics that basically show the whole of the woman he’s shagging and then just his hand. I’m not interested in her body, I’m interested in his.
-when he lists/describes the type of woman he wants most and it doesn’t match me, why did he even message me just to make me feel second best?
- if he calls himself an alpha
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"I’m always up for trying to improve so just wondered if anyone could look at my profile and tell if you’d be attracted to my profile or put off " Personally I think you have a good profile | |||
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"I’m always up for trying to improve so just wondered if anyone could look at my profile and tell if you’d be attracted to my profile or put off Personally I think you have a good profile " thanks I appreciate that. I just wanted to be myself as that’s what I believe in doing these days. Is there anything you’d improve on? | |||
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"When I was looking, what initially attracted me is a profile picture of someone that I find attractive. The rest of the profile usually had something that would have me hitting the back button pretty sharpish. What initially turned me off of a profile is no picture/penis/action shot/picture of someone that I don't find attractive. " do you mean my profile? | |||
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"I get instantly put off by profiles full of 'action' pictures. You can never be sure the other person consented. I like ones that are about 2 paragraphs long and give a good idea who the person is with a range of pictures!" what do you think of my profile? | |||
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"When I was looking, what initially attracted me is a profile picture of someone that I find attractive. The rest of the profile usually had something that would have me hitting the back button pretty sharpish. What initially turned me off of a profile is no picture/penis/action shot/picture of someone that I don't find attractive. do you mean my profile?" No, just profiles in general - some may say it's shallow, but I've never bothered even opening a profile to read it if I didn't like the avatar (apart from if I'm being nosey, but that's entirely separate from looking to meet). | |||
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"When I was looking, what initially attracted me is a profile picture of someone that I find attractive. The rest of the profile usually had something that would have me hitting the back button pretty sharpish. What initially turned me off of a profile is no picture/penis/action shot/picture of someone that I don't find attractive. do you mean my profile? No, just profiles in general - some may say it's shallow, but I've never bothered even opening a profile to read it if I didn't like the avatar (apart from if I'm being nosey, but that's entirely separate from looking to meet)." oh that’s good haha I’m never happy with my profile but I’m glad you didn’t mean mine  | |||
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"I like: A clear profile, with plenty of info, showing a bit of effort and some humour. A range of photos (of both people in the case of couples). I hate: Faux-legal warnings (it suggests the writer has very poor critical thinking skills and is a bit gullible), one line profiles, guys pretending to be straight then asking for bi meets. " Why can men not just admit they are bi curious/bi sexual if they are looking for bi meets, especially on a site like this! They should be confident about who they are (something I have only accepted within the last couple of years) | |||
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"Attracts me - a nice profile photo, you know, naked torso, tattoos and the like. Puts me off - when they start talking." This answer though! | |||
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"OP should be off to a good start in the attraction stakes simply for having typed "Ladies" instead of the usual "Lady's" as an opening form of address (not withstanding the preference for many to be described as "women")." Oops 'notwithstanding' should be one word. That's me done for in the attraction stakes now! | |||
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"Someone that has put an effort into their profile and has a few nice photos. A sense of humour and a big cock helps to." I'm confused now. I was about to remove my cock pics after reading most of the other contributions! | |||
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