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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London

Anyone here work for the police?

I'm considering a career change and joining. Yes I'm being that person that asks a completely irrelevant question on fab but it's a serious question

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
46 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm sure someone on here used to be Sting's tantric sex coach.....

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme

I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble."

Good thing I'm a good boy!

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By *elix SightedMan
46 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Anyone here work for the police?

I'm considering a career change and joining. Yes I'm being that person that asks a completely irrelevant question on fab but it's a serious question "

Just what the horniest man in the universe needs in his life - uniformed female colleagues

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!"

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"Anyone here work for the police?

I'm considering a career change and joining. Yes I'm being that person that asks a completely irrelevant question on fab but it's a serious question

Just what the horniest man in the universe needs in his life - uniformed female colleagues "

Pahahaha.

Reminds me of Sir Psycho Sexy by the Chili Peppers I've you have heard it

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up"

Fab would not stop people joining the police force

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
46 weeks ago

your head

It isn't just your life that gets pulled apart and examined in every detail. They dig into everyone around you as well.

If you really want to do it, do it but only do it because you really want to.

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme

I dunno, I think post Carrick and Couzins they will examine applicants online presence under a microscope.

Just a thought

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
46 weeks ago

Durham


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up

Fab would not stop people joining the police force "

This was a news story from 3 years ago:

"A police officer has been dismissed after a misconduct hearing found he had posted an explicit photo on a 'swingers' website, and also had an intimate relationship with a vulnerable domestic abuse victim. The panel heard that on or before June 29 last year, Bell had uploaded photos onto a website named Fab Swingers, and the photos depicted his naked torso and genitals"

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By *atgirl and RobinCouple
46 weeks ago

Durham

You can easily find that story by googling it. I'd suggest you read it before deciding if you wanna give up Fab for a career lol

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme

Oh and it's not just a simple apply and go to training, the friend (and the ex) had to take about 2 months off work (unpaid) to study some serious text books before they even went to Hendon.

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up

Fab would not stop people joining the police force

This was a news story from 3 years ago:

"A police officer has been dismissed after a misconduct hearing found he had posted an explicit photo on a 'swingers' website, and also had an intimate relationship with a vulnerable domestic abuse victim. The panel heard that on or before June 29 last year, Bell had uploaded photos onto a website named Fab Swingers, and the photos depicted his naked torso and genitals""

I did read up on it. He had a photo showing his warrant card. I think that's what would have done it.

You can be totally anonymous here and I really think the chances of them finding out and dismissing due to it are slim if you keep them very separate and don't exploit it.

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By *eavenNhellCouple
46 weeks ago

carrbrook stalybridge


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up

Fab would not stop people joining the police force

This was a news story from 3 years ago:

"A police officer has been dismissed after a misconduct hearing found he had posted an explicit photo on a 'swingers' website, and also had an intimate relationship with a vulnerable domestic abuse victim. The panel heard that on or before June 29 last year, Bell had uploaded photos onto a website named Fab Swingers, and the photos depicted his naked torso and genitals"

I did read up on it. He had a photo showing his warrant card. I think that's what would have done it.

You can be totally anonymous here and I really think the chances of them finding out and dismissing due to it are slim if you keep them very separate and don't exploit it."
you have removed the metadata and exif tags from all your pics then ? You know the ones linked to your camera and its location that any tech savvy plod can find in five mins .

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Worked for MET

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By *lamdaddy OP   Man
46 weeks ago

London

Look there's no doubt some members here work for the police is my point

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Anyone here work for the police?

I'm considering a career change and joining. Yes I'm being that person that asks a completely irrelevant question on fab but it's a serious question "

They will scrutinise everything in your life and friends and family and yes photos are traceable profiles too.

Butt naked force now that I would join

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Worked for MET

"

Voluntary. Loved every moment.I used to run a station too.

Join the volunteers

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme

Maybe, maybe.

But believe me if you ever are called to take the stand the defense team may very well know everything there is to know about you (found out through means honest or otherwise).

Despite the absolute bullshit people put at the end of their profiles to Sidney University Fab is anything but anonymous to people who have the slightest tech savvy

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By *ewcatWoman
46 weeks ago

Berkshire


"Look there's no doubt some members here work for the police is my point "

You are correct. I’ve shagged a few coppers from here over the years. 2 of them have OF too and there are a fair few on FL which is arguably worse ( from an outing standpoint) than being on here.

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By *ewcatWoman
46 weeks ago

Berkshire

And now I need a lay down, first time I’ve ever agreed with you B

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme


"Look there's no doubt some members here work for the police is my point

You are correct. I’ve shagged a few coppers from here over the years. 2 of them have OF too and there are a fair few on FL which is arguably worse ( from an outing standpoint) than being on here. "

I believe those caught on OF were dismissed under very flimsy pretense of failure to disclose a second income).

The person who I was living with during their application was a registered nurse and due to some complicated legal precedent they had to recind their registration upon commission as being a nurse/doctor/paramedic is seen as being in conflict to a police officers duty (make of that as you will)

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

I have many times over the years have people tell me I look like a copper and some were quite paranoid that I was one. Quite amusing

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By *ild_oatsMan
46 weeks ago

the land of saints & sinners

The training to become a police officer is quite an arresting experience but also a good way to stake out a new career for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"I've dated a copper and lived with someone who went through the application process.

Be prepared to have your life examined in minute detail (especially with new "stricter" checking in light of recent news events)

Financial records will be checked, family background will be checked and the smallest thing which you might think is inconsequential will be grounds for failing. Remember the ideal officer is someone who can testify in court without the defence being able to find anything to discredit you.

An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble.

Good thing I'm a good boy!

Aye but you never know what the family is hiding, I know the military overlook a few things about people from Norn Iron that the police wouldn't.

Also get ready to delete Fab as I'm sure some of the members who have been around a while will remember this as an issue coming up

Fab would not stop people joining the police force

This was a news story from 3 years ago:

"A police officer has been dismissed after a misconduct hearing found he had posted an explicit photo on a 'swingers' website, and also had an intimate relationship with a vulnerable domestic abuse victim. The panel heard that on or before June 29 last year, Bell had uploaded photos onto a website named Fab Swingers, and the photos depicted his naked torso and genitals""

This story is very "clickbaity" as the actual things he was dismissed for are numerous. But yes one of his actions was to post his warrant card on Fab which was explained further in the article is a big no-no on ANY site. The fact it was here gave the lovely lamestream media that extra "fizz" to make it sound juicier and lurid than it really was. So yes the copper got the heave-ho for being highly unprofessional but not specifically for being on here as those "oh so accurate" hacks would have us believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"An friend whonis a defence barrister once told me that in the really big cases they are not above hiring a PI to investigate the police team involved as if you can take them down a case can crumble."

Sadly all often too true. I had a friend now retired who was in West Midlands Police and the very same happened to him. There were PI's following his kids and going through the bins and even asking the neighbours for info. And not much you can do about it, except start "investigating" the PI's back which is what he and his fellow mates on the force did. Going through their bins, parking outside their homes etc... And oh no they did NOT like that!

Terrible practice really which rose to prominence in the infamous OJ Simpson trial where his defence destroyed the career and reputation of the arresting officer.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
46 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I’ve dated quite a few, I seem to attract them, I have no idea why.

Basically you’ll be dealing with the sad state of the mental health side of people as they’ve been let down by every other service or finding lost teenagers who just use the police for a taxi service, there’s not much policing left for the average Bobby, unless you go into a specialised department, where you’ll be dealing with just crimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago

Jeebus

After reading this.. there'd be so much dirt / none-wholesome stuff on me, I'd have no chance. Same reason I couldn't be a politician.

Actually I probably couldn't do either on my haircut alone.

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By *sWyldWoman
46 weeks ago

Edinburgh


"Look there's no doubt some members here work for the police is my point "

I met one several times over the years. Always hope he makes another appearance.

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By *tormchasingCouple
46 weeks ago

Essex

I think there is quite a lot of hysteria on this post. Being a swinger is a lifestyle choice, not a crime.

You're not going to be asked about your sex life in court, its completely irrelevant. And even if you were, what are they going to say when you reply "yes I'm on Fab. So?"

We wouldn't really want work colleagues and family knowing the details of our sex lives, but if someone tried to shame us about it we wouldn't let them hold it against us.

If you want to join the police, go for it. I bet they wouldn't care at all that you are on here if you are honest about it.

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By *abluesbabyMan
46 weeks ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

Another Fabber I know very well on here is a University lecturer and she actually sought clarification on Fab's "compatibility" with professional careers. Her reply was such as Fab actually class as a "Dating Site".

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By *antam AvershiresMan
46 weeks ago

Falme


"Another Fabber I know very well on here is a University lecturer and she actually sought clarification on Fab's "compatibility" with professional careers. Her reply was such as Fab actually class as a "Dating Site". "

But that's not universal acceptance so you can't say one institution will be the same as another

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By *ools and the brainCouple
46 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"I think there is quite a lot of hysteria on this post. Being a swinger is a lifestyle choice, not a crime.

You're not going to be asked about your sex life in court, its completely irrelevant. And even if you were, what are they going to say when you reply "yes I'm on Fab. So?"

We wouldn't really want work colleagues and family knowing the details of our sex lives, but if someone tried to shame us about it we wouldn't let them hold it against us.

If you want to join the police, go for it. I bet they wouldn't care at all that you are on here if you are honest about it."

Disagree.

The current climate in the police and how the public view the police is that they must be squeaky clean and being on here and announcing it for all would almost definitely end up with the person being sacked.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
46 weeks ago

walsall

Just because people who are swingers think that they are doing no harm to anyone doesn’t mean that society in general thinks the same.

People who work with children or vulnerable people are expected to be holier than thou to some folk. They don’t want a woman who loves a good bareback gangbang on Sundays to be teaching their little cherubs on Monday. The same goes for a police officer who is dealing with a person who’s experienced a horrific sex crime.

Society still has is hang ups about sexually liberated people, like it or not, it’s just the way it is.

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