FabSwingers.com forum: Is it actually hard to meet people from this site?

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34 weeks ago

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
34 weeks ago

It is for some, others find it easy

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By *mmaleiaWoman
34 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Lots of talk, not much meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I make it hard

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"I make it hard "
for everyone

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By *eliWoman
34 weeks ago

For me? No.

For others? It might be.

I don't mean that in a conceited way, far from it. It can be difficult in terms of logistics and syncing free time but it's more than worth it. I'm quite lucky and find I attract those I'm attracted to. Or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I make it hard "

—- …….

Narrator. - Woody sighs and takes a drink as he knows this it too easy.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
34 weeks ago

outside of penrith

"I make it hard "

You make a lot men hard but we talking about chances of meeting

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By *ea monkeyMan
34 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

In Manchester? Yes. It seems that everyone in this city is looking for BBC or hung guys. I guess it depends on the context of meeting too. Getting to socials is easy, meeting people for sex is another thing

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By *ruceyyMan
34 weeks ago

London

I'm gonna really try and have sex with Coyotes this time.

Other than that I'm fucking hopeless here

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By *icecouple561Couple
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34 weeks ago

East Sussex

Yes it is for many people. My evidence for that is the number of people who say so.

I think if people are open to meeting socially in groups with genuinely, absolutely zero expectations and are happy to arrange those type of meets locally to them many would find it much easier.

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By *educing_EmCouple
34 weeks ago

Tipperary

It's not hard to meet people, it is hard to meet people I like

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By *weetiepie99Woman
34 weeks ago

cardiff

I find it hard here, i think thats because maybe i am a bit too picky. Away from here not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

Maybe lucky that it gets read. But replies aren’t luck tbh. You get replies if you’re attractive. People can deny it all they want about creative messages blah blah but if they like your face and your profile they will reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

If they don’t like your face, nothing else matters. No matter how good your message is

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By *endalshaggersCouple
34 weeks ago

Kendal

Again, it all depends on what you're looking for and WHO you're looking for/speak to.

It will be very hard for single males as your're a tiny fish in a humongous pond and there's no reason why someone would pick you and not one of the thousands of others. Especially if they are predominantly messaging single women.

Couples, we've not met anyone else yet but I do think the possibility is there as you are initially more in tune with exactly what your're both after so just as question of clicking with the OP.

C xoxo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"I find it hard here, i think thats because maybe i am a bit too picky. Away from here not so much."
No such thing as too picky

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
34 weeks ago

Liverpool

We haven’t been short of offers, getting offers from people we’d want to meet or who align with our desires is much harder.

We could meet 100 single guys a day.

We meet most couples at clubs and so far, we’ve enjoyed every visit!

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By *ruceyyMan
34 weeks ago

London

"We haven’t been short of offers, getting offers from people we’d want to meet or who align with our desires is much harder.

We could meet 100 single guys a day.

We meet most couples at clubs and so far, we’ve enjoyed every visit! "

Make that 101.

And 101 dalmatians alone looked like a lot so I wouldn't advise 101 horny men that's just too much isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

It's hard to meet people who make my meat hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"It's hard to meet people who make my meat hard. "

ED?

(Jk)

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
34 weeks ago

dudley

It all depends on what one is looking for as a Tv it is really easy Men (but they don’t really interest me tho) Also it seems easy to meet other TVs and crossdressers (but finding those that I like is quite difficult) finding women who like TVs is difficult (but not impossible). Basically it depends who you are and what you seek that makes it hard or easy to get meets,

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
34 weeks ago

Leeds

Meet people - no that's very easy.

Meet people you get on with and are attracted to - that's hard.

Mrs

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By *ot to giggleWoman
34 weeks ago

Coventry

yes ... maybe im also too fussy! But i dont want quantity!

Too many chasers who then ghost! I started my own rentaghost!

Seriously disheartening!

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

This!!! As much as sex is about the connection, there has to be an attraction. Wild to me how many people will message without any pics on their profile or attached to the message.

Thats why i feel parties/clubs are where it's at. You end up vibing with people you probably wouldn't chat to on here. In person energies are hard to replicate on a profile

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By *obilebottomMan
34 weeks ago

All over

I am sure is different for everyone and depends on so many factors from preferences to location and everything in betweenn as well as how fussy you are. I am fussy

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By *edeWoman
34 weeks ago

the abyss

For me yes but that comes more down to being a bit pathetic at actually organising something myself or calendars just never linking up. Also nerves

I'm such a shit swinger - must try harder

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By *host63Man
34 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

For me. It is for women not at all if she hasn't got a bucket lost a mile long.

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By *ario1972Man
34 weeks ago

Guildford

If they don’t like your face, nothing else matters. No matter how good your message is "

In a nutshell.

But this is no different to any walk of life.

What was the strap line on that classic Saturday night live sketch "Sexual harassment and You" ?

"Be attractive, don't be unattractive."

I had exactly this - can we have a face pic. Nope, we're not interested. Ultimately it's hardly a level playing field. Every woman on here has so much choice why would she not cherry pic the very best. it's her prerogative to do so, and if the table was turned I'm sure we would also.

Me, I've got to the point where I really don't PM anybody now for an encounter. I'll send a pm to complement on a picture or a status but otherwise I'm pretty much pissing into the wind compared to the competition out there.

if I get a wink or a fab likewise, I'll thank them in a PM but other than that I've come to the conclusion that if a woman really liked or was curious about what I had to offer she'd ask herself, no point competing with the other 100 men every hour trying to push their way between her legs.

And that's not being defeatist or negative, its being realistic. I can't change the way my face looks, or the length or girth of my dick, so it is what it is.

Anecdotally, we had a multi millionaire customer who we got to know quite well. He was on his 6th divorce and we asked him about his toys and women and lifestyle, and he replied in his wonderful matter of fact american way that after wife number 6, "I know i"m no underwear model so take my word for it, from experience; if it floats, flies or fucks - just rent it, it'll be less hassle and cheaper in the long run".

I had to laugh, and it proves that other than he had a metric ton of cash, he was no different to anyone else in that respect.

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By *ario1972Man
34 weeks ago

Guildford

Thats why i feel parties/clubs are where it's at. You end up vibing with people you probably wouldn't chat to on here. In person energies are hard to replicate on a profile"

Absolutely. Meeting in the real can totally change a perception or preconceived idea of what someone is like or how they appeared in that photo taken with their potato camera selfie setting.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

If they don’t like your face, nothing else matters. No matter how good your message is "

Face

Body

And personality

One without the others is no good!

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By *imply DeeWoman
34 weeks ago

Wherever

I think it’s relatively easy when you’re unbothered and look for a meaningless shag.

The ones that take your breath away are rarely found but they do exist. Those are the ones I’m here for.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Central

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

Repeat meets or new meets?

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Never had any problems meeting people socially or otherwise from here.

You seem popular OP , are you asking for you or a friend ? I would ask what specific problems you/they are encountering as lots of people of all genders seem ready to meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I think it depends on expectations

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By *eneralKenobiMan
34 weeks ago

North Angus

No, piece of piss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"Never had any problems meeting people socially or otherwise from here.

You seem popular OP , are you asking for you or a friend ? I would ask what specific problems you/they are encountering as lots of people of all genders seem ready to meet on here "

I do ok on here yeah. Not asking for myself. More just curious about people’s experiences as I see a lot of unverified profiles on search which have apparently been here for some time. Are they fake? Idk. If they’re not, are they struggling to meet? You know?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
34 weeks ago

North West

Depends. Easy to meet at socials. Much harder to pin some people down individually.....

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

"Never had any problems meeting people socially or otherwise from here.

You seem popular OP , are you asking for you or a friend ? I would ask what specific problems you/they are encountering as lots of people of all genders seem ready to meet on here

One of my filters is must be verified so all those who have the same wouldn't even show up for the unverified who then are in a vicious cycle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"Depends. Easy to meet at socials. Much harder to pin some people down individually.....

People can be so bratty

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
34 weeks ago

North West

"Depends. Easy to meet at socials. Much harder to pin some people down individually.....

People can be so bratty

Bite me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"Depends. Easy to meet at socials. Much harder to pin some people down individually.....

People can be so bratty

Bite me

Gladly

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
34 weeks ago

Tamworth

I think it depends.

For us, absolutely not since we changed to club meets only. However, private meets, we've manage 4 with 3 people, I couldn't say how many time wasters we've encountered who were well verified.

Perhaps it's also abit of a postcode lottery, some people will just have more options where they are, some more rural areas may be more limited

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
34 weeks ago

St Leonards

I imagine some people struggle because of other things in their lives holding them back (confidence, anxiety, material cicumstances...or at the other extreme they may just be obviously unpleasant or seriously deluded people).

Some may prefer (or find it safer) to get their rocks off virtually than in the flesh.

Some may be pitching "what they have" badly towards what others have/offer, and there's an incompatibility there.

I was verified well 2016-2020 profile, profile 2023 is unverified, but I don't really have a strong need of a veri this time for a number of reasons.

So...short version...I don't think it's that hard to meet, it depends more on knowing what you want from the site, who the matches may be, and then how to go about it.

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By *ink vixenCouple
34 weeks ago

Medway

We like single guys so it’s fairly easy to meet them.

There are the expected problems of quoted though so diligence and patience is required.

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By *estarossa.Woman
34 weeks ago

Flagrante

No.

Is it hard to meet Single men that fit my wants, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Setting up a meet would be relatively easy if I wasn’t bothered who it was.

Finding someone I actually want to meet is more difficult.

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By *sWyldWoman
34 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Yes, no, maybe.

I think I probably could meet people if I wasn't fussy who or where or how. I am though so it becomes a bit more complicated.

Finding someone I want to meet who also wants to meet me and then logistics working for us both is actually really tricky sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
34 weeks ago

Stratford

"I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work."

Exactly this. If anyone knows about getting meets it’s Joe

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By *herry delightWoman
34 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

It's getting hard to,as more people seem to think it's a dating site.

So many timewasters and fake couples.

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By *orbidden eastMan
34 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

It is and you always will be in that consistent thinking of will ever happen. Just be respectful and don’t be a dick.

And you can’t be everybody’s cup of tea

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By *ora the explorerWoman
34 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I think so. But totally because of me, not anyone else. Hence I don’t tend to moan about it

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work.

Exactly this. If anyone knows about getting meets it’s Joe

Careful, people will think I've shagged the whole site

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"For me yes but that comes more down to being a bit pathetic at actually organising something myself or calendars just never linking up. Also nerves

I'm such a shit swinger - must try harder

This is 100% me

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By *rHotNottsMan
34 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Never had any problems meeting people socially or otherwise from here.

You seem popular OP , are you asking for you or a friend ? I would ask what specific problems you/they are encountering as lots of people of all genders seem ready to meet on here

I think the 80/20 rules applies to online dating and fab , though as with other things it’s more likely 95/5…..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
34 weeks ago

"I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work.

Exactly this. If anyone knows about getting meets it’s Joe

Careful, people will think I've shagged the whole site

Let them think what they want!!

Some of us KNOW you’ve shagged the whole site

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By *opman121Man
34 weeks ago

stoke on trent

There is a lot of competition on here

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

It's definitely difficult to meet compatible people who are looking for the same thing.

There are so many non swingers on this site that also make it more difficult.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
34 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

It works if you work it, so work it baby

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By *heGateKeeperMan
34 weeks ago

Stratford

"I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work.

Exactly this. If anyone knows about getting meets it’s Joe

Careful, people will think I've shagged the whole site

Let them think what they want!!

Some of us KNOW you’ve shagged the whole site

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By *illan-KillashMan
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Do you mean meet meet?

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By *eliWoman
34 weeks ago

Do you mean meet meet?

I'm going to start using that with meet meet friends. See how quickly they say yes.

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By *ellhungvweMan
34 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It is not easy but it is also not impossible.

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By *illan-KillashMan
34 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Do you mean meet meet?

I'm going to start using that with meet meet friends. See how quickly they say yes.

It's the Fab equivalent of Mickie Flanagans out out.

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By *naswingdressWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"I suppose it depends on the type of meet you're looking for. You could easily find a group social or club event, book a train, book a hotel and there you have it.

Meeting one to one might be much more difficult in terms of attraction online, in person, diaries matching, what your expectations are etc.

Also, I imagine for guys, they do have to work a bit harder and put more effort into this in order to make it work.

Exactly this. If anyone knows about getting meets it’s Joe

Careful, people will think I've shagged the whole site

Let them think what they want!!

Some of us KNOW you’ve shagged the whole site

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
34 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

If i disregard my personal safety and don't mind giving up my limited free time to have a depressing shag with a guy who sees me as nothing more than a living fleshlight - ya super easy to get a meet.

Finding a meet that's about mutual enjoyment, shared experiences, and doesn't spring it on me that they actually want a girlfriend... much more difficult.

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By *inks_apeyCouple
34 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We find clubs and socials better to meet, but everyone has their own ways etc

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By *eyond PurityCouple
34 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We could meet a lot more but for us it’s finding the people who’ll fit our dynamics and us theirs.

That takes time chatting to establish if the right connection is there. So it’s not an overnight process.

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By *ullmanMan
34 weeks ago

hull

Its as easy or hard as u want to make it. Start by going to events and easy after that.

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By *agnar73Man
34 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Finding messaging and getting a meet in my area virtually impossible and I might look at profiles I think are okay age wise but when I message it’s either unread or deleted

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By *adyBugsWoman
34 weeks ago

cognito

Context please!

Meet them for what? If it’s to do my tax return, probably more difficult than I’d like.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
34 weeks ago

Cumbria

Depends, if we were willing to meet anyone then we could have 10 meets a day, meeting someone we both find attractive is proving more difficult.

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By *2000ManMan
34 weeks ago

Worthing

The women I get on with the most live too far away unless I can setup a long weekend.

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By * and R cple4Couple
34 weeks ago

swansea

With all the fakes and fantasists on this site, then you have to find people that fit your dynamics and then find a four way attraction

It's getting quite hard. We tend to stick to clubs and meet people at large group socials.

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By *host63Man
34 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

If they don’t like your face, nothing else matters. No matter how good your message is

Face

Body

And personality

One without the others is no good! "

The trouble is personality is not readily apprent on first messages and women on here expect too much

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By *host63Man
34 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"I make it hard "

If you make it harder than it needs to be

Then what is the point in contacting you?

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By *host63Man
34 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

"For me? No.

For others? It might be.

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By *odevilWoman
34 weeks ago

exeter

"I make it hard "

Her: do I make you hard?

Him: you make everything difficult

Your comment reminded me of that and let me tell you; I felt attacked.

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By *odevilWoman
34 weeks ago

exeter

"I make it hard

Her: do I make you hard?

Him: you make everything difficult

Your comment reminded me of that and let me tell you; I felt attacked.

Also I meant

not

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By *eroLondonMan
34 weeks ago

Covent Garden

It isn't hard. It's a gauntlet worth taking and the rewards are stratospheric.

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By *entleman JayMan
34 weeks ago

Wakefield

I seem to be able to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"It's not hard to meet people, it is hard to meet people I like"

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By *iscean_dreamMan
34 weeks ago

Llanelli

It's easy, go to socials and get to know people and then meet them again in private if get along well

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By *cottish guy 555Man
34 weeks ago

London

"Managed two meets in three years. Not through lack of effort either.

There’s far more men than women so I think it’s luck of the draw whether your message is actually read and that you hit it off.

But most of the people I've met from here we didn't exchange face pics prior to meeting.

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By *oxesMan
34 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

It is for us men but of you come out of the shadows there is plenty of fun to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

Yes definitely

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By *rooperRedMan
34 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Had two meets in four years. Basically between all dating sites and such, the one you'd think would be the obvious one is actually the worst one.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
34 weeks ago

Bristol

Similar to many people, getting offers is one thing but finding people who there is a bit of an attraction to, who are also attracted to us, are looking for the same sort of things from swinging meets and are free on the same dates we are is tricky.

Combine that with time wasters and last minute drop outs and it can be difficult to meet people on here. That's not to say it doesn't happen at all though.

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By *oxesMan
34 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Similar to many people, getting offers is one thing but finding people who there is a bit of an attraction to, who are also attracted to us, are looking for the same sort of things from swinging meets and are free on the same dates we are is tricky.

Combine that with time wasters and last minute drop outs and it can be difficult to meet people on here. That's not to say it doesn't happen at all though. "

Sorry but I love this username.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
34 weeks ago

Southampton

Do you mean meet meet?

I'm going to start using that with meet meet friends. See how quickly they say yes.

It's the Fab equivalent of Mickie Flanagans out out.

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