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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Yes Yes Most are different to how i imagined - better in person than expected perhaps.. It's always a surprise to discover people can hold a conversation after so much winking and lusting in the lounge | |||
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"Got a slim chance of meeting one of the higher priestesses of the fora today which I'm really looking forward to, but I think work will get in the way. I have no reason to believe that she isn't as lovely IRL than on here." Higher priestesses. No, no that's just... I shall keep everything crossed you're able to meet her though, she sounds a joy! | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be? Yes Yes Most are different to how i imagined - better in person than expected perhaps.. It's always a surprise to discover people can hold a conversation after so much winking and lusting in the lounge " There's an awful lot of winking and lusting in these 'ere parts isn't there? It's great when it can translate to real life though. | |||
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"I have, although he’s not a forum famous poster. He was as I thought he’d be. I mainly chat general shite for ages before meeting so you tend to get a feel for the person. I’m generally lucky like that. There are one or two I would like to meet, socially." What's forum famous? It's good you can get a feel for a person beforehand - I do prefer talking a fair bit if I'm meeting someone not for a group social for the reason you mentioned. | |||
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"I have, although he’s not a forum famous poster. He was as I thought he’d be. I mainly chat general shite for ages before meeting so you tend to get a feel for the person. I’m generally lucky like that. There are one or two I would like to meet, socially. What's forum famous? …. " Ask Joe Beans!!! | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be? Yes. Yes. Sometimes. … sometimes they surprise me in really fun ways. I’ve never been disappointed to meet for a member, for the record The horse that has completely expect to be as they are normally are, which is awesome way to get along with them so well. But then, as those that come along with a certain characteristic out, didn’t expect, and it’s a wonderful surprise, because then you know them a lot more on the forum, and understand how they post and where their oppinions and posts are coming from " Oh Woody this is such a lovely post! Yay for positive experiences, it's nice to read. Sometimes there's too much focus on the negative. I really enjoy meeting people and then being able to understand their posts more. Their sense of humour, when they're being mischievous. It can be like a missing jigsaw piece. | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Yes. Yes. I've often been surprised at how different people are in person, usually pleasantly. Forum folk seem to be good people. | |||
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"Yep, met several. Made some lovely friends too. Some people are quieter/shyer than their forum persona but that's not unexpected. " I think of the forum as being a snapshot of how a person is feeling at that particular moment in time. How they'd talk to people they feel comfortable/relaxed around. I tend not to... judge people for being quieter or more shy - they might just be shy until they know you. ND with a sensory overload. Not having a good day. Myriad of reasons for it, really. | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet?" Meet meet! I do that, repeat a word to emphasise the "other" nature of it. No, I dislike the word meet when it comes to talking about fucking people, really efficient towel to my quim sort of effect. You can talk about that as well if you want but I can safely say I will not be. | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time x" the rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be? Yes. Yes. Sometimes. … sometimes they surprise me in really fun ways. I’ve never been disappointed to meet for a member, for the record The horse that has completely expect to be as they are normally are, which is awesome way to get along with them so well. But then, as those that come along with a certain characteristic out, didn’t expect, and it’s a wonderful surprise, because then you know them a lot more on the forum, and understand how they post and where their oppinions and posts are coming from Oh Woody this is such a lovely post! Yay for positive experiences, it's nice to read. Sometimes there's too much focus on the negative. I really enjoy meeting people and then being able to understand their posts more. Their sense of humour, when they're being mischievous. It can be like a missing jigsaw piece. " Yeah that’s it, and I wasn’t talking about meeting for sex, I’m talking about meeting a person in a social way. I know some people don’t text well, so their personality will never come through. (Better face to face) they can come alive when you’re with them. Then there is the person who is easy to make blush, or laugh and you don’t get to see that on a here. Some people have a wicked sense of humour, and they don’t get to say it on a forum which moves so quickly, and someone more prolific that posts has already said it. (I’m not sure if a lot of people pick up on that. ) Also, some a lot more flirty than they appear on the forum | |||
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"If you mean folks who regularly post in the lounge, no. I don't want to gad around the country to meet people " Gad. You're going to get this emote Well and you're going to have to deal with it because I didn't imagine, in my wildest dreams, that someone would use gad on this thread. Anyway, fair. | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time xthe rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point " we go to Pandora in Leeds it’s just our favourite place to go. There is a rock themed night coming up but sadly we can’t actually be there for that night which we are gutted about x | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet? Meet meet! I do that, repeat a word to emphasise the "other" nature of it. No, I dislike the word meet when it comes to talking about fucking people, really efficient towel to my quim sort of effect. You can talk about that as well if you want but I can safely say I will not be. " Good because I would never meet anyone from the forums for sex. They’re annoying | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time xthe rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point we go to Pandora in Leeds it’s just our favourite place to go. There is a rock themed night coming up but sadly we can’t actually be there for that night which we are gutted about x" Rick themed??? “Take me home to the Paradise City where the grass is green and the girls are pretty!!…” Please tell me they used that slogan! | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time xthe rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point we go to Pandora in Leeds it’s just our favourite place to go. There is a rock themed night coming up but sadly we can’t actually be there for that night which we are gutted about x" I think I maybe up in May for that? | |||
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"Met lots of forum users over the years....... Was going to share my experience of them....but decide to hold my tongue, what's going on with that one Mr " Well... I'm glad you posted this anyway, hi Mr. I'm going to say holding your tongue is a very, very good idea. Well done on that control. | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time xthe rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point we go to Pandora in Leeds it’s just our favourite place to go. There is a rock themed night coming up but sadly we can’t actually be there for that night which we are gutted about x Rick themed??? “Take me home to the Paradise City where the grass is green and the girls are pretty!!…” Please tell me they used that slogan! " you need employing as slogan guy for sure Woody! | |||
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"Met just the 2. There's 1 I want to meet, maybe another 1. But that's it really. People tend to put forums users above others, it's just a bit preachy and lovey and "oh my god aren't you amazing" for me really. Plus I'm a tad unsociable. I prefer non forum users for drama free shenanigans. " I don't know if they do. Sorry JAG. I think there's a certain familiarity that can happen because of it but I don't think people think forum users are somehow a cut above. Maybe some do. Weirdos. | |||
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"Reading the thread I’m sure there are some lovely forum users to meet we often go to a club in Leeds be cool to seem some for the forum users there some time xthe rock/alt 1? I’m hoping to get there at some point we go to Pandora in Leeds it’s just our favourite place to go. There is a rock themed night coming up but sadly we can’t actually be there for that night which we are gutted about x Rick themed??? “Take me home to the Paradise City where the grass is green and the girls are pretty!!…” Please tell me they used that slogan! " I’ll have to speak to the owner and ask her to add It to the slogan lol | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet?" I think she meant meat meet. | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet? I think she meant meat meet." You can meet my meat | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet? I think she meant meat meet." Oh. I didn’t think that’s what we were talking about. | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Yes quite a few Yes there are still forum people I’d like to meet Everyone I have met has been pretty much how I expected them to be.. but much smaller | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Yes No Yes | |||
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"Some are exactly as I expected - others not so much. One has been more than I could have ever hoped for " You’re too kind | |||
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"Some are exactly as I expected - others not so much. One has been more than I could have ever hoped for " Moist | |||
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"Some are exactly as I expected - others not so much. One has been more than I could have ever hoped for " Ach! You make my heart burst | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet? I think she meant meat meet. Oh. I didn’t think that’s what we were talking about. " Got meat? | |||
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"I’d like to meet a few over drinks, 1 or 2 over a bed " This is so smooth. Love it. | |||
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"Some are exactly as I expected - others not so much. One has been more than I could have ever hoped for Ach! You make my heart burst " MOIST! | |||
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"There are a few I'd like to meet but distance is an issue. Working on arranging the diary so I can get some trips down the road to say hello. Although if venturing into the wild lands up here, I'd make time too MrsAbz" You should Mrs Abz! Road trips are great fun. Wild lands. Aberdeenshire will always have a piece of my heart. It's truly beautiful. | |||
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"emmm yip 2 both by total accident both probably don’t even know it was me one I blow and fucked meet them in a sauna belve it or not didn’t realise they were a formite till I seen them post oppps and no I didn’t message them or anything to tell them not seen them post in ages though they were quite neverive sed it was they first time wasn’t the best sex condom was a bit off a problem and they went a bit floppy play end and we went or separate ways The second one was on a train was on the way to Newcastle had a suit case in my hand and phone and went to put my suit case in the storage rack and phone came flying out my hand and land at they feet They picked it up hand me it back I sed thanks and went and sat down never told them or messaged them about it don’t see the need to they still post from time to time no idear if they learking or even remember But if so ones again sorry for nearly hit you with my phone it was total untental and thank you so much for hand it back to me if your reading this " I really didn't mean meat meet but I guess I left it vague and open deliberately. I do wonder sometimes if people spot when they're mentioned on posts. Have a 'oh shit they're talking about me' moment. That's another thread for another time. | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell" Nell. Oh Nell. Oh I have a video to send you about the 'tism rizz! It explains so much. P.S People are giants compared to you. | |||
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"Pre-pandemic I went to a few of the lounge social parties in Manchester, even got to the point where some of the forum regulars would recognise me and welcome me. I always felt like an outsider though, a late comer to a social group, someone who didn't know the secret password. A lot due to my own insecurities, to my lack of comfort in any large groups. Some due to my hearing problem (following conversations at parties sucks when you've got tinnitus), some due to my problems remembering names (seriously embarrassing when you can even go blank on the names of people in your work team, people that you've known for many years). It's been a lot better on the few occasions when I've met forumites either singly or in small groups, but maybe that's just because they must be the welcoming type to want to meet me anyway." I'd like to meet you Polly. You're an interesting person | |||
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"Yes, yes, mostly yes. No waffle here! Mrs TMN x" | |||
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"Some are exactly as I expected - others not so much. One has been more than I could have ever hoped for Ach! You make my heart burst MOIST! " I am a bit damp it has to be said | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be? Yes Yes Most are different to how i imagined - better in person than expected perhaps.. It's always a surprise to discover people can hold a conversation after so much winking and lusting in the lounge " Exactly as the lovely lady says. I go with an open mind and I leave with joy in my heart. | |||
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"Yes I've met a couple of them. Yes, there are a few names I'd like to put faces too. They have been as expected or better than hoped so far. It's always a pleasant surprise when the conversation flows as easily as it does from behind the screen " Ah, Bella! Good to read you again. It's a lovely surprise to have. There's a part of me that always hopes things translate but I try and not have too much hope. Expectation. I like when people surprise me and they're better, more enjoyable to be around than I'd thought mistakenly. | |||
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"I have met quite a few, yes… Some people don’t match the idea I had of them in my head at all. But that is not necessarily a bad thing! Many of them I have seen from a distance without saying hello. " Why have you not said hello to the distant forum users? You should have! I've found that the vast majority are really rather friendly in person. Entertaining. And not intimidating. x | |||
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"We met some. They are usually shorter than they say they are. Also, they mostly can’t dance. " I can dance! | |||
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"We met some. They are usually shorter than they say they are. Also, they mostly can’t dance. " I'm not short | |||
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"We met some. They are usually shorter than they say they are. Also, they mostly can’t dance. I'm not short" I’d like to short you out. | |||
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"I’d like to meet a few over drinks, 1 or 2 over a bed This is so smooth. Love it." *bows* | |||
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"I don’t think Ive met anybody from here - there are lots Id like to meet bit in person im even better looking, mire entertaining, witty , charming, sexy, funny, knowledgeable, sensual but above all humble… and a woman can only take so much perfection before she gets the feels and I’ve left too many broken hearted husks of women in my wake to do that again!!! But PM if interested " I imagine you've received a deluge of quim after that poetic modesty. You should meet a forum user. Say fuck it. One more broken hearted husk won't burn the world. | |||
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"Met just the 2. There's 1 I want to meet, maybe another 1. But that's it really. People tend to put forums users above others, it's just a bit preachy and lovey and "oh my god aren't you amazing" for me really. Plus I'm a tad unsociable. I prefer non forum users for drama free shenanigans. " Oh you are back | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell" I'm definitely shorter | |||
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"I don’t think Ive met anybody from here - there are lots Id like to meet bit in person im even better looking, mire entertaining, witty , charming, sexy, funny, knowledgeable, sensual but above all humble… and a woman can only take so much perfection before she gets the feels and I’ve left too many broken hearted husks of women in my wake to do that again!!! But PM if interested I imagine you've received a deluge of quim after that poetic modesty. You should meet a forum user. Say fuck it. One more broken hearted husk won't burn the world." Well volunteered!! When you’re ready!! | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell I'm definitely shorter " I think you’re quite tall actually? | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell I'm definitely shorter I think you’re quite tall actually? " I am if I haul my ass out of my chair. I only do that for special people tho | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell I'm definitely shorter I think you’re quite tall actually? I am if I haul my ass out of my chair. I only do that for special people tho " Lucky people | |||
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"Yes Yes Seeing the mannerisms and facial expressions is always oddly surprising and delightful after seeing them communicate on here in written word only. They usually seem shorter than I imagined. You're all giants in my head. Nell I'm definitely shorter I think you’re quite tall actually? I am if I haul my ass out of my chair. I only do that for special people tho Lucky people " If they can tolerate the creaking | |||
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"emmm yip 2 both by total accident both probably don’t even know it was me one I blow and fucked meet them in a sauna belve it or not didn’t realise they were a formite till I seen them post oppps and no I didn’t message them or anything to tell them not seen them post in ages though they were quite neverive sed it was they first time wasn’t the best sex condom was a bit off a problem and they went a bit floppy play end and we went or separate ways The second one was on a train was on the way to Newcastle had a suit case in my hand and phone and went to put my suit case in the storage rack and phone came flying out my hand and land at they feet They picked it up hand me it back I sed thanks and went and sat down never told them or messaged them about it don’t see the need to they still post from time to time no idear if they learking or even remember But if so ones again sorry for nearly hit you with my phone it was total untental and thank you so much for hand it back to me if your reading this I really didn't mean meat meet but I guess I left it vague and open deliberately. I do wonder sometimes if people spot when they're mentioned on posts. Have a 'oh shit they're talking about me' moment. That's another thread for another time. " OPPs my bad there’s me over shareing once’s again and yes I do wonder as well and yes definitely a idear for another time | |||
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"I have indeed and it’s been lovely. You know who you are. X" Thanks Fiddles, love you too. | |||
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"I've met around 20 forum users, past and present - including some 'forumite royalty' stunning ladies. A smattering more for social meets. Many have moved on, some remain dear friends and others I don't interact with. Most have been delightful in person." What's "forumite royalty"? I appreciate it's been quoted and possibly doesn't reflect your views but I'm curious as to what it is. Much like forum famous, earlier in the thread. | |||
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"I've met around 20 forum users, past and present - including some 'forumite royalty' stunning ladies. A smattering more for social meets. Many have moved on, some remain dear friends and others I don't interact with. Most have been delightful in person. What's "forumite royalty"? I appreciate it's been quoted and possibly doesn't reflect your views but I'm curious as to what it is. Much like forum famous, earlier in the thread." I’m not a fan of the term but I think of people like Granny, Taff, Gemini Man, Princess Peach when people say that. Miss them | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" I've met many of them over my years ... most were exactly how I imagined. Except seaside.... he was way funnier than I expected | |||
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"Hey, if any women or couples, and I’d say, guy’s too, but I don’t think my account settings will allow you to feel free to message me if you enjoy music and travel, as that’s my 2 passions in life, and it would be great to chat with someone else that enjoys the same but even if you don’t feel free to message me, about other stuff and if you’re having a bad day and just want someone to talk to " You really are a sweetheart, Oasis. | |||
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"Hey, if any women or couples, and I’d say, guy’s too, but I don’t think my account settings will allow you to feel free to message me if you enjoy music and travel, as that’s my 2 passions in life, and it would be great to chat with someone else that enjoys the same but even if you don’t feel free to message me, about other stuff and if you’re having a bad day and just want someone to talk to You really are a sweetheart, Oasis. " He's a rock n roll star. | |||
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"Over the years I've met hundreds. Largely due to organising and attending big socials. But I'll confess a dozen years ago I was a bit of a forum whore and did meet several for more than justva cuppa. There's many more I'd love to meet, but as always....geography. And the vast majority have been very similar to their online personas. Which is always good and makes for enjoyable encounters, rather than drama. " Geography can be a right 'mare, can't it? Right now I've been thinking about that. Anyway, when you want to make it happen (a general you), you do. I agree with the last part - I've experienced relatively little drama in my time on here. The majority of encounters I've thoroughly enjoyed, I like learning people and understanding more of why they post in particular ways, about certain topics. | |||
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"Hey, if any women or couples, and I’d say, guy’s too, but I don’t think my account settings will allow you to feel free to message me if you enjoy music and travel, as that’s my 2 passions in life, and it would be great to chat with someone else that enjoys the same but even if you don’t feel free to message me, about other stuff and if you’re having a bad day and just want someone to talk to You really are a sweetheart, Oasis. He's a rock n roll star." There's no easy way out The day's moving just too fast for me I need some time in the sunshine I've gotta slow it right down | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Yes!! Yes, happy to meet more of them in a social situation seeing as I’m a social gangbanger Most people I have met from fab are from the forums these days. I never really have a preconceived idea of what anyone is like before I meet them so it’s always a delightful pleasure to see them. | |||
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"Prior to our long term absence from here, I (George) met about half a dozen ladies from the forum. Most have either gone completely or rarely post now. All were wonderful upon first meeting, but no, over time it certainly didn’t go as expected with some of them. One is still a good friend, I’m happy to say, even though we don’t talk as intensely as we used to, but I would be there for her in heartbeat if she needed me. This time around, I don’t think we’ve met anyone outside of one little group social (everybody in attendance was wonderful). I don’t elevate people from the forums, I just find connecting here is more organic because you have the opportunity to bump into each other in the virtual market square. It’s less direct, and evolves more naturally Xx" A virtual market square. Or a place where you exchange ideas, views on the world, debate, sometimes even learn. Also known as... a forum. :D P.S I really like this post. | |||
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"I haven't,most are too far away. I think I probably imagine them very different to how they actually are.. " Whaaaaaaaaat? You're in Yorks! There are loads around you, and across the Pennines! Try Aberdeen FFS. There are about 3 people and sheep! | |||
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"Prior to our long term absence from here, I (George) met about half a dozen ladies from the forum. Most have either gone completely or rarely post now. All were wonderful upon first meeting, but no, over time it certainly didn’t go as expected with some of them. One is still a good friend, I’m happy to say, even though we don’t talk as intensely as we used to, but I would be there for her in heartbeat if she needed me. This time around, I don’t think we’ve met anyone outside of one little group social (everybody in attendance was wonderful). I don’t elevate people from the forums, I just find connecting here is more organic because you have the opportunity to bump into each other in the virtual market square. It’s less direct, and evolves more naturally Xx A virtual market square. Or a place where you exchange ideas, views on the world, debate, sometimes even learn. Also known as... a forum. :D P.S I really like this post. " | |||
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"I've met around 20 forum users, past and present - including some 'forumite royalty' stunning ladies. A smattering more for social meets. Many have moved on, some remain dear friends and others I don't interact with. Most have been delightful in person. What's "forumite royalty"? I appreciate it's been quoted and possibly doesn't reflect your views but I'm curious as to what it is. Much like forum famous, earlier in the thread. I’m not a fan of the term but I think of people like Granny, Taff, Gemini Man, Princess Peach when people say that. Miss them " Hence the quotation marks. I met several lovely ladies who were loved on the forums and also topped the hot pics every time they posted a pic. | |||
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"I have met a couple of people. No surprises. Apart from actually how small they really are " only just realised we have met you... lol | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" No No No | |||
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"No. I havent met any forumiter yet, but yes. I would like to meet some too " Go for it Shag you only live once. | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" I have I would And some people yes and some not so much | |||
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"Definately Missyeauxbleus by a mile, surely " So sorry, someone just alerted me to this. It was meant for the Best big bum on fab thread and posted on this by mistake. Apologies. | |||
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"Wait do you mean meet meet?" Oh I hadn't even thought like that lol | |||
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"No. I havent met any forumiter yet, but yes. I would like to meet some too Go for it Shag you only live once." Hi becs and yes. I will go for it too and yes, you are right there, you only live once too | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else" That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else." I get that, but by using the term "royalty" it makes people wonder who that could be and can make others feel lesser and to me, that's not what the forums should be about. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else. I get that, but by using the term "royalty" it makes people wonder who that could be and can make others feel lesser and to me, that's not what the forums should be about." Yep. Hard agree. I also can't think of a single person in my decade of being on here who has been generally liked by everyone. Or is instantly recognisable. And since when is hot pics associated with the forum? Forumite royalty is just... not the term. | |||
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"I have! I’ve met enough Yes. Some are and I’m very lucky to have met them. Friendships can flourish from the forums! Some are not at all " You're the first person to say the final thing. Snaps to you. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else." There have been some forumites who did see themselves as royalty and better than everyone else. There have been some forumites who pandered to them. There are currently forumites who are loved and adored and have nice shiny arses from having them kissed daily that I see as nothing more than trolls. To answer the ops question, I have met lots of people who post in the forums. I use the forums as an additional filter. Most of those I met one to one were as I imagined them to be with a few exceptions. Most of those I met at group socials were also as expected but not always in a positive way. I've always said that some fabbers struggle to tell the difference between productivity and popularity. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else. There have been some forumites who did see themselves as royalty and better than everyone else. There have been some forumites who pandered to them. There are currently forumites who are loved and adored and have nice shiny arses from having them kissed daily that I see as nothing more than trolls. To answer the ops question, I have met lots of people who post in the forums. I use the forums as an additional filter. Most of those I met one to one were as I imagined them to be with a few exceptions. Most of those I met at group socials were also as expected but not always in a positive way. I've always said that some fabbers struggle to tell the difference between productivity and popularity." This is the Irish forum yes? Those you've met etc. Sometimes I forget it exists and then I read your posts about the negative side of things and I remember. | |||
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"We met some. They are usually shorter than they say they are. Also, they mostly can’t dance. " I'd like to meet you. One day, fingers crossed and all that. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else. There have been some forumites who did see themselves as royalty and better than everyone else. There have been some forumites who pandered to them. There are currently forumites who are loved and adored and have nice shiny arses from having them kissed daily that I see as nothing more than trolls. To answer the ops question, I have met lots of people who post in the forums. I use the forums as an additional filter. Most of those I met one to one were as I imagined them to be with a few exceptions. Most of those I met at group socials were also as expected but not always in a positive way. I've always said that some fabbers struggle to tell the difference between productivity and popularity. This is the Irish forum yes? Those you've met etc. Sometimes I forget it exists and then I read your posts about the negative side of things and I remember. " The ones I've met yes. The popular trolls? No, they are right here in the lounge. | |||
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"Oh as for the the term "Fab royalty" it really makes me piss myself. Noone is better than anyone else That's your definition. For me it means 'instantly recognisable and bloody everywhere' and generally liked by everyone. Nothing to do with being better than anyone else. There have been some forumites who did see themselves as royalty and better than everyone else. There have been some forumites who pandered to them. There are currently forumites who are loved and adored and have nice shiny arses from having them kissed daily that I see as nothing more than trolls. To answer the ops question, I have met lots of people who post in the forums. I use the forums as an additional filter. Most of those I met one to one were as I imagined them to be with a few exceptions. Most of those I met at group socials were also as expected but not always in a positive way. I've always said that some fabbers struggle to tell the difference between productivity and popularity. This is the Irish forum yes? Those you've met etc. Sometimes I forget it exists and then I read your posts about the negative side of things and I remember. The ones I've met yes. The popular trolls? No, they are right here in the lounge. " And most of what I post isn't about the negatives. It's about the blindingly obvious and seeing people as they really are rather than just personas is actually a positive. | |||
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"This is the Irish forum yes? Those you've met etc. Sometimes I forget it exists and then I read your posts about the negative side of things and I remember. The ones I've met yes. The popular trolls? No, they are right here in the lounge. " Yes, the ones you've met. The stories about them etc. The popular trolls? I can't think of many bar two. Ish. Anyway, I didn't want this thread to become about "forumite royalty" or have too many negative references to those who post on here etc. It happens with threads but this one has been quite pleasant to read overall and relatively dirty laundry airing free. I do appreciate that not every experience is positive though. | |||
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"Pre-pandemic I went to a few of the lounge social parties in Manchester, even got to the point where some of the forum regulars would recognise me and welcome me. I always felt like an outsider though, a late comer to a social group, someone who didn't know the secret password. A lot due to my own insecurities, to my lack of comfort in any large groups. Some due to my hearing problem (following conversations at parties sucks when you've got tinnitus), some due to my problems remembering names (seriously embarrassing when you can even go blank on the names of people in your work team, people that you've known for many years). It's been a lot better on the few occasions when I've met forumites either singly or in small groups, but maybe that's just because they must be the welcoming type to want to meet me anyway." I remember you from the Manchester socials, pre-pandemic. Sometimes it can be down to personal insecurities but I also think... socials can be really quite daunting at times. People naturally talk to those they know/want to fuck and not many talk to new people. I realised at the last one I attended that I needed to get out of my comfort zone and make an effort. Make more feel included. If you do ever decide to go back to one Polly, you'll be more than welcome and I'd definitely love to talk to you, x | |||
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"Yes, the forum users I've met have been delightful. " | |||
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"Have you ever met a forum user? Would you like to meet any? Do you find people are as you expect them to be?" Not yet… There’s a few I’d love to meet for drinks and there’s a couple I’d like to meet for a whole lot more than that…. | |||
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"Yes I have, I've met 2 that are local to me. They were both exactly as I expected them to be and hopefully will see them again soon. " Thank you Ms Kahlo | |||
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