FabSwingers.com forum: Long hair vs very short hair

By (user no longer on site) OP
48 weeks ago

I spent most of my life cultivating long, sensuous manes but recently (especially since I took up lane swimming), I'm favouring keeping my hair so short that I barely need shampoo, detangler brushes, sprays, all the muckety muck...

So I decided to cut my hair very short. If I want to glam it up, I could always have some cute wigs, colored hair, all sorts.

And that way, I protect my hair whenever I do my lap swimming workout without having to ruin my delicate roots.

Any thoughts?

Do men find men with short hair as sexy as women? Or is it a step too far?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
48 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I have very long hair, and had it cut really short when I got into my 30s. I didn't feel like me and ended up with extensions until it grew long enough again! I went through that cycle a few times. I, and everyone else, much prefer it long!

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By *ullyMan
48 weeks ago

Near Clacton

Personally no preference about length or colour, but nice clean and looked after.

Really says a lot about a woman or a man if their hair is straggly greasy or looks like rat tails. I would love long hair but mine is very fine and looks awful long, so its kept at just under an inch.

Shaved smooth elsewhere though is a definite.

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By *ullyMan
48 weeks ago

Near Clacton

My lovely smashing wonderful Grandma never had her hair cut in her life, she had fine hair as I do, hers was plaited and in a bun, but she kept it lovely. Bless her.

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By *naswingdressWoman
48 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have very long hair, but short hair is super convenient and definitely for things like swimming.

I think a lot of people with long hair wear it the same way and end up looking all the same - so short hair is a good way to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I have short blonde pixie style hair, which surprises people on here when I show them a picture of me.

Mine has to be done every single day so it's not an easy option haircut/style at all.

If you've gone even shorter than that it's probably easier than mine so should save you plenty of time going forward with your hobbies.

You'll be surprised as well how many men love short hair!

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By *r_reusMan
48 weeks ago

Coventry

Frankie Sandford back in her Saturdays period...

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Short hair is so so sexy...

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Much prefer long hair on a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I know I am for men but in bicurious phases for women I definitely like to see a women with long flowing hair. In terms of men always liked short cropped and blended hair. I do not find short hair attractive on women or long hair on men, it puts me off usually

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
48 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

I'm proud of my long hair, it can be such a pain in the backside as it grows so quickly but I do love it

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By *holoMan
48 weeks ago

Hastings

I use to shave my hair and had a period of just having a jar head cut and now it's long over my shoulder

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I’ve got egg shell blonde hair, some people call it bald

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Couldn't give a shit, honestly. In fact, if it means you spend less time fucking with it before going out then maybe I'd prefer it

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
48 weeks ago

My hair was long enough to sit on when I was younger, then had about 3 foot cut off when I was 14, and it's progressively shorter ever since.

I may not look as attractive with shorter hair to some people, but I feel much happier and more like me. In the long run that is all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Women with short hair *chef’s kiss*

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
48 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

My natural inclination is to have uber long hair, but I realised it was actually making me look a bit unhinged

now I have it a bit below my shoulders

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
48 weeks ago

Essex

Mr loves long silky hair

Or shoulder length blonde hair

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
48 weeks ago

Next Door

I had mine cut off to a short pixie last year I love it but it has to be done daily to look nice, using tongs or straighteners.

I'm now growing my hair as I'm not really loving the look.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
48 weeks ago

Next Door

"I had mine cut off to a short pixie last year I love it but it has to be done daily to look nice, using tongs or straighteners.

I'm now growing my hair as I'm not really loving the look.

I don't have a preference on ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I had mine cut off to a short pixie last year I love it but it has to be done daily to look nice, using tongs or straighteners.

I'm now growing my hair as I'm not really loving the look.

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By *alandNitaCouple
48 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

"I spent most of my life cultivating long, sensuous manes but recently (especially since I took up lane swimming), I'm favouring keeping my hair so short that I barely need shampoo, detangler brushes, sprays, all the muckety muck...

So I decided to cut my hair very short. If I want to glam it up, I could always have some cute wigs, colored hair, all sorts.

And that way, I protect my hair whenever I do my lap swimming workout without having to ruin my delicate roots.

Any thoughts?

Do men find men with short hair as sexy as women? Or is it a step too far?"

Sexy is all about the whole package. If you FEEL sexy, then you'll ACT sexy, and therefore BE sexy.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Natalie Imbruglia short is as short as I like it. I mean that's just personal preference.

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By *histle do nicelyMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow South

I love either. As you say less time spent getting ready...I need to say I love long hair pulling during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I used to have an asymmetric bob - super convenient length, but it had to be cut every 5 weeks to maintain the sharp shape

My hair is very thick, with a natural curl so it HAD to be styled evry time it was washed (or got wet) which took a surprising amount of time for a short cut!

Its now down midway down my back again-I'm enjoying the variation of styles i can do with it currently

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By * and R cple4Couple
48 weeks ago

swansea

I have always had short hair as I don't have the type of hair that looks good long.

Its probably the longest it's ever been at the minute and it's just below my ears in a bob style.

If I'm attracted to someone the length of their hair has never been a factor. I love the pixie cuts and the very short bobs on Women.

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By *heif6999Man
45 weeks ago

malton

I love women with shaved hair !

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
45 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd like some hair.

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By *edeWoman
45 weeks ago

the abyss

I've had my hair in a short pixie crop and down to my waist and everything in between. For the moment I'm keeping it long but that may not last - I'm always getting bored

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By (user no longer on site)
45 weeks ago

I think I’ve had every hairstyle you can get apart from shaving it all off.

I cut my hair really short about 6 months ago and I hated it. I’ve been trying to let it grow ever since, but it’s taking too long and I want to chop it all off again. I’m trying to resist the urge because I know I won’t like it, but we’ll see

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By *rimal InstinctCouple
45 weeks ago

Carlisle

So I decided to cut my hair very short. If I want to glam it up, I could always have some cute wigs, colored hair, all sorts.

And that way, I protect my hair whenever I do my lap swimming workout without having to ruin my delicate roots.

Any thoughts?

Do men find men with short hair as sexy as women? Or is it a step too far?"

I would say go with something that is easier for you. As you mentioned there are wigs of different lengths, styles and colours that you can experiment with if you so desire.

My hair tend to be mid length. I did have it cut very short at one time a bit like an undercut and had other random short bits but that was not through choice. I just don't like short hair for me, I sadly don't suit it.

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By *heif6999Man
35 weeks ago

malton

"I've had my hair in a short pixie crop and down to my waist and everything in between. For the moment I'm keeping it long but that may not last - I'm always getting bored

Get the clippers out!!

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By *andi da ThrushTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Round the Corner

Wigs for the win.

Works for me at least

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By *parkle1974Woman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Mine is long though really considering getting it cut shorter as it spends half its life pinned up!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I love my short hair. I cut it all off when my hot flushes got really bad and have never looked back

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By *laytime_13Woman
35 weeks ago

Lincs

I went from shoulder length to pixie cut. Grew it back down to just below chin length courtesy of covid, stuck with it for a while then went back to short hair. Not pixie cut short. Long enough to be grab-able still

The day to day maintenance is epic, takes seconds to wash and minutes to do anything a bit more with and I still have the option to do something nice with it if I want, but it looks alright if I don’t.

Only downside is needing to have it cut every 4 weeks. I stretch it out to 6 weeks since I moved 4 or 5 hours away from my hairdresser

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

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I've had mine about knee length, after a period of about 7 years without trimming it. It was too much work at that length though to be honest.

On a woman, I don't mind what length hair she might want to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I prefer long hair on a woman as I like to stroke her hair as well as pull it (within reason) during intimate moments

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By *allandathleticMan
35 weeks ago

Asgard

Well, long haired T&A steps up on stage.

I have long hair. I love it. I won't cut it.

The end.

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By *obyorkMan
35 weeks ago

Keighley

I have a friend whose wife has a pixie haircut and I find her absolutely gorgeous. Love to get naked with her but I know it will never happen

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By *ongandharderMan
35 weeks ago

Rotherham

I have longish curly hair

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By *oxesMan
35 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

So I decided to cut my hair very short. If I want to glam it up, I could always have some cute wigs, colored hair, all sorts.

And that way, I protect my hair whenever I do my lap swimming workout without having to ruin my delicate roots.

Any thoughts?

Do men find men with short hair as sexy as women? Or is it a step too far?"

Horse for courses

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By *ffervescentMan
35 weeks ago

winfrith

I personally prefer long hair on a woman but to be honest it wouldn't stop me from meeting.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm not sure what length suits me tbh, I've been short, long, medium. When it's long all I do is put it up, if it's down it doesn't suit my face but I don't think short suits me either.

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By *luefire2Couple
35 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

"I have very long hair, but short hair is super convenient and definitely for things like swimming.

I think a lot of people with long hair wear it the same way and end up looking all the same - so short hair is a good way to stand out."

I think having long bright blue (clean by the way) dreads is a good way to stand out!

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By *orphia2003Woman
35 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I have short cropped hair and it's been this way for last 20 years, excluding the odd phase where I grow it a bit, then get pissed off and crop it again

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By *rPunxMan
34 weeks ago

Hull

Personally I like both long and short hair on women.think it really depends on the individual. I've had both long and short hair in various styles and colours.i used to leave it long as mine grows stupidly fast. Now I tend to keep it short and let it grow out a little in winter

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By *ora the explorerWoman
34 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I prefer long hair although mines not as long as it once was.

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By *hunky GentMan
34 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My favourite is long dark curly hair.

Maybe it's not so trendy anymore?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
34 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

At 6 foot tall with a soft round face, I would only ever look ridiculous with short hair.

But, there are people who suit it beautifully.

And, when I'm combing the saliva out of my fringe, or apologising profusely for an errant hair that is attempting to garotte someone's penis, I'm almost envious of them.

But generally I like my hair for me as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

"At 6 foot tall with a soft round face, I would only ever look ridiculous with short hair.

But, there are people who suit it beautifully.

And, when I'm combing the saliva out of my fringe, or apologising profusely for an errant hair that is attempting to garotte someone's penis, I'm almost envious of them.

But generally I like my hair for me as it is

Combing saliva out of your fringe

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

I like mine short - not had it long since the early 70s (and that looked silly).

Going off at a tangent, I see Bill Bailey has finally shaved his off, I had not realised he had a phobia re barbers (just assumed it was part of his wacky persona) - much prefer the new appearance.

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