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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry

interesting two spaces on Fab - the chat rooms and the Forums. I have spent a bit of time in Chat and know quite a few people from there, however I feel a bit like an alien in the forums and its like a different world.

can the two mix?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I didn’t even know there were chat rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

The chat on the chatrooms seems a little mundane to me and just full of guys trying to get any woman's attention

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"The chat on the chatrooms seems a little mundane to me and just full of guys trying to get any woman's attention "

that could be true in a directing room, however, we do have a great laugh and banter in some of the other chat rooms. I suppose it depends on who is in the room. can be very fast some days

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've heard a lot of people complain about the Scottish room I shan't repeat what they said

I've popped into various chat rooms looks like the could be a laugh

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By *ealitybitesMan
44 weeks ago

Belfast

I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again.

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've heard a lot of people complain about the Scottish room I shan't repeat what they said

I've popped into various chat rooms looks like the could be a laugh "

they can be fun

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again. "

im sorry to hear that - yes it does depend on who is in them, but i find the same in the forums, i find it hard to get into the posts.

maybe its my warped humour !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I've never really thought about it but now you mention it.

They are two completely different animals.

One is real time the other slow time.

They are both vehicles for all people getting noticed...in their own particular way...

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By *ularliWoman
44 weeks ago

Worcester

I’ve never used the chat rooms. I love the forum though so may check the chats out

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've never really thought about it but now you mention it.

They are two completely different animals.

One is real time the other slow time.

They are both vehicles for all people getting noticed...in their own particular way..."

hehe you get noticed every where mr foxy!!!

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I’ve never used the chat rooms. I love the forum though so may check the chats out "

yes do - dont always judge on one day, it really does depend on who is in - some of the chats are bonkers fun -

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I've never really thought about it but now you mention it.

They are two completely different animals.

One is real time the other slow time.

They are both vehicles for all people getting noticed...in their own particular way...

hehe you get noticed every where mr foxy!!! "

Crimewatch was not my finest moment lol

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Chat rooms are basically majority of guys all asking/begging 2 or 3 women to look at their cams (of then wanking usually).

I gave up. It all got very tedious very quickly.

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Chat rooms are basically majority of guys all asking/begging 2 or 3 women to look at their cams (of then wanking usually).

I gave up. It all got very tedious very quickly. "

aww sorry you think that - you need to come in when there's more interesting people in - we do have such a laugh at times. But yes it can be like that I do agree but then the forums can also feel very closed off to outside people

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By *eartShapedBoxxxWoman
44 weeks ago

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I float on the forum but do spend more time in chat. Have made genuine friends in there who I talk to away from Fab.

Majority of my meets on this and previous profile have been people I've met in the chat rooms. I like being able to have a (virtual) face to face convo, I find real time better than messaging & I live in the arse end of nowhere so not so easy to just visit a club every weekend.

It's not all literal wankers in there but does depend on day & time and who else is around.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I float on the forum but do spend more time in chat. Have made genuine friends in there who I talk to away from Fab.

Majority of my meets on this and previous profile have been people I've met in the chat rooms. I like being able to have a (virtual) face to face convo, I find real time better than messaging & I live in the arse end of nowhere so not so easy to just visit a club every weekend.

It's not all literal wankers in there but does depend on day & time and who else is around.

"

^^^ This

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I float on the forum but do spend more time in chat. Have made genuine friends in there who I talk to away from Fab.

Majority of my meets on this and previous profile have been people I've met in the chat rooms. I like being able to have a (virtual) face to face convo, I find real time better than messaging & I live in the arse end of nowhere so not so easy to just visit a club every weekend.

It's not all literal wankers in there but does depend on day & time and who else is around.

"

thank you - exactly my point too - nice to meet you btw and ill keep a look out for you in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Absolutely not! Anyone in the forums caught mixing with someone from the cams shall be shunned by both respective communities. A plague on both their houses!

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Absolutely not! Anyone in the forums caught mixing with someone from the cams shall be shunned by both respective communities. A plague on both their houses!"

i wonder where those purple and blue spots were coming from !

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"Absolutely not! Anyone in the forums caught mixing with someone from the cams shall be shunned by both respective communities. A plague on both their houses!

i wonder where those purple and blue spots were coming from !"

It's simple to resolve. Just turn your back on the cam rooms and stick to the forums. *Pats seat* join us Giggle... Join us...

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Absolutely not! Anyone in the forums caught mixing with someone from the cams shall be shunned by both respective communities. A plague on both their houses!

i wonder where those purple and blue spots were coming from !

It's simple to resolve. Just turn your back on the cam rooms and stick to the forums. *Pats seat* join us Giggle... Join us..."

ooh budge up then do you have popcorn corners in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all"

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all"

we usually hit Midlands or cause havoc on the Quiz on a weekend in Canadian

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included "

Unlike in the forums

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums "

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat"

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

"

So see you at UTB?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
44 weeks ago

wonderland.


"interesting two spaces on Fab - the chat rooms and the Forums. I have spent a bit of time in Chat and know quite a few people from there, however I feel a bit like an alien in the forums and its like a different world.

can the two mix?"

yes they can .. I used to mix between the two lots x and regularly have social time with a mix or chat and forum members

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

"

done !! will do - although i did run my own in Feb which ones do you go to ?

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

So see you at UTB? "

answered my question i did go to one in December - need to do another one then - although i do use the swing site to advertise ours you do mine and ill do yours

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"interesting two spaces on Fab - the chat rooms and the Forums. I have spent a bit of time in Chat and know quite a few people from there, however I feel a bit like an alien in the forums and its like a different world.

can the two mix? yes they can .. I used to mix between the two lots x and regularly have social time with a mix or chat and forum members "

thats a good positive

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
44 weeks ago

Gloucester

Didn’t even know there were chat room to be honest.

Kink (mrs)

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Didn’t even know there were chat room to be honest.

Kink (mrs) "

opposite side to the forum link

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By *smith87Man
44 weeks ago

totton

The chat rooms can be very clique

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
44 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Maybe, we should do a lounge chatroom takeover one evening.

B

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
44 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Maybe, we should do a lounge chatroom takeover one evening.

B"

We did that during covid, took over the Midlands room

Tinder

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"The chat rooms can be very clique "

but as a newbie venturing into forums - snap! yea they can if you go in with the clique crowd that are not including everyone else

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Maybe, we should do a lounge chatroom takeover one evening.

B"

oooh that would be fun, love to see you all in there

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

44 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Maybe, we should do a lounge chatroom takeover one evening.

B"

Exactly what we used to do a decade ago.

Invade Canada on a quiet night.

Chat room invasions were a blast.

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"Maybe, we should do a lounge chatroom takeover one evening.

B

We did that during covid, took over the Midlands room

Tinder"

yea theres a bit of abandon general and camp out in the Midlands thing going on at the minute -they dynamics are this place are amazing to be honest

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By *inxy777Woman
44 weeks ago

essex

I used to go in the chat rooms before, and have had good laugh and banter in them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

So see you at UTB?

answered my question i did go to one in December - need to do another one then - although i do use the swing site to advertise ours you do mine and ill do yours "

No way? UTB in December?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"interesting two spaces on Fab - the chat rooms and the Forums. I have spent a bit of time in Chat and know quite a few people from there, however I feel a bit like an alien in the forums and its like a different world.

can the two mix?"

Hi Giggle, I'm an infrequent chatter - i think they are two very distinct worlds - maybe three worlds if i split chat into directing and non-directing

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Chat rooms are very cliquey

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I've heard a lot of people complain about the Scottish room I shan't repeat what they said

I've popped into various chat rooms looks like the could be a laugh "

I love going into the Scottish room.. Its like a different language i often gave zero idea what they are talking about

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again. "

I think chat rooms can be really hard to follow, especially if you miss that first hi!

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"No.

But they’re equally brilliant. The general room in chat is quite fun. Not as fun as the lounge though. At all

oooh you need to join in when i have a mad hour in chat - it can be hilarious fun and EVERYONE is included

Unlike in the forums

the forums do seem like fun, but it also seems very hard to get in, it seems a lot of people know each other.

but then equally that could be said about chat

Come meet us at the socials. That’s the only way to get ‘in’

So see you at UTB?

answered my question i did go to one in December - need to do another one then - although i do use the swing site to advertise ours you do mine and ill do yours

No way? UTB in December? "

yep 2nd dec

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I used to go in the chat rooms before, and have had good laugh and banter in them. X "

i will look out for you, i frequent the midlands usually

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've heard a lot of people complain about the Scottish room I shan't repeat what they said

I've popped into various chat rooms looks like the could be a laugh

I love going into the Scottish room.. Its like a different language i often gave zero idea what they are talking about "

haha yea i get that in there too

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By *ags73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again.

I think chat rooms can be really hard to follow, especially if you miss that first hi! "

I sometimes have watched the feed with two pals talking away about their work jobs whilst a woman is trying to tempt guys and a few times, it’s went on and on and you see the woman covering back up and I’m thinking like ‘guys FFS, I’m trying to have a w*^\ here’

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By *olfandtazCouple
44 weeks ago

Bristol

We use the chatrooms quite often, have met a few friends through them and it's always a good laugh.

On here there are times when it gets quite cliquey which is a shame when people try to join in they get ignored

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again.

I think chat rooms can be really hard to follow, especially if you miss that first hi!

I sometimes have watched the feed with two pals talking away about their work jobs whilst a woman is trying to tempt guys and a few times, it’s went on and on and you see the woman covering back up and I’m thinking like ‘guys FFS, I’m trying to have a w*^\ here’ "

^^^^^^^^ this so made me laugh - yea there are some odd conversations at times

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"We use the chatrooms quite often, have met a few friends through them and it's always a good laugh.

On here there are times when it gets quite cliquey which is a shame when people try to join in they get ignored "

yea that can be a bit of a downfall to it - i do admit i try my hardest to 'chat' across the room and talk to everyone but it can be hard when its busy and fast.

I think personally its lovely to have a combination and I am venturing into the forums more - you also get very odd topics in here!!

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By *ags73Man
44 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again.

I think chat rooms can be really hard to follow, especially if you miss that first hi!

I sometimes have watched the feed with two pals talking away about their work jobs whilst a woman is trying to tempt guys and a few times, it’s went on and on and you see the woman covering back up and I’m thinking like ‘guys FFS, I’m trying to have a w*^\ here’

^^^^^^^^ this so made me laugh - yea there are some odd conversations at times "

I’ve seen it more than once and there’s a woman with a red status meaning everyone’s watching her and you see her looking at the comments and her face is like WTF, it’s funny and at same time frustrating if you’re having a play along with the video feed

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By *tephanjMan
44 weeks ago

Kettering

I go in the chat rooms a lot some rooms are better than others for just ignoring you. I try to join in with forums but too many posts I'm not interested in. So my answer to the question is yes they can

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I've gone into the chatrooms numerous times and been completely ignored even by people I chat with through the forums every day.

I won't be going back in again.

I think chat rooms can be really hard to follow, especially if you miss that first hi!

I sometimes have watched the feed with two pals talking away about their work jobs whilst a woman is trying to tempt guys and a few times, it’s went on and on and you see the woman covering back up and I’m thinking like ‘guys FFS, I’m trying to have a w*^\ here’

^^^^^^^^ this so made me laugh - yea there are some odd conversations at times

I’ve seen it more than once and there’s a woman with a red status meaning everyone’s watching her and you see her looking at the comments and her face is like WTF, it’s funny and at same time frustrating if you’re having a play along with the video feed"

There's some fun cams too, but yes chat can be fast and furious at times. I laugh at the red cams that turn out to be a chair and no one has noticed the person has gone!

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By *ot to giggle OP   Woman
44 weeks ago

Coventry


"I go in the chat rooms a lot some rooms are better than others for just ignoring you. I try to join in with forums but too many posts I'm not interested in. So my answer to the question is yes they can"

Hey Stephanj ... we chat loads xxx

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