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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

seeking the best way in any ideas guy

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By *iscean_dreamMan
35 weeks ago

Llanelli

In where? Might need lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
35 weeks ago

The scene not having any look

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By *iscean_dreamMan
35 weeks ago

Llanelli


"The scene not having any look"

9 weeks is nothing, just go to socials and meet people that way

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By *iscean_dreamMan
35 weeks ago

Llanelli

Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement "

What profile

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
35 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement

What profile "

Oooh that was a piercing blow

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By *ad HardcoreMan
35 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement "

Cheeky bugger but I like yer reply!

OP- Clubs.

Might not meet the love of your life, but might have the time of...

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By *illan-KillashMan
35 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"The scene not having any look"

Assuming you mean having any luck in meeting anyone, luck has little to do with it.

The site provides many ways of meeting people.

Clubs, social events, meet postings, private messages and of course, the obvious one, your profile.

Are you using them all and at their very best potential?

Having looked at your profile I'm guessing you have a pre determined view on what the site was all about and the likely outcome to joining.

I'm going to suggest revisiting your expectations, take the time to learn a lot more about swinging and put more effort into using the resources the site gives you. Especially the most important one.

You may find your "luck" changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement

What profile

Oooh that was a piercing blow"

And I'm paying for it

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
35 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement

What profile

Oooh that was a piercing blow

And I'm paying for it "

How much is he charging? Now he's in luck!

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By *GN43Man
35 weeks ago

East sussex

No luck in 3 months. Chatted to a few people and experienced one time waster which was extremely annoying. Makes it worse when you look at a profile and it’s some, let’s say, unattractive bloke and he’s absolutely smashing it on here. The mind boggles. Not blowing smoke up my arse but I’ve been lucky enough to have been with some stunning women over the years. It’s just not happening on here.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
35 weeks ago

Essex


"No luck in 3 months. Chatted to a few people and experienced one time waster which was extremely annoying. Makes it worse when you look at a profile and it’s some, let’s say, unattractive bloke and he’s absolutely smashing it on here. The mind boggles. Not blowing smoke up my arse but I’ve been lucky enough to have been with some stunning women over the years. It’s just not happening on here."

Then I would suggest that “he’s” not unattractive…

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By *lydeRobMan
35 weeks ago

Cardross


" seeking the best way in any ideas guy "

Fairly new also but would say its all about what your expectations are.

There is a whole scene of clubs and social meets etc.

Use forums be friendly the word respect I don't see used often enough. Use private messages if they don't reply don't let it get you down everyone has there likes and dislikes.

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By *GN43Man
35 weeks ago

East sussex

Yep, I’m always respectful and expect the same in return. Haven’t done any social meets yet, to be fair. Most on here won’t meet unless you’ve been verified. Catch 22.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

35 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"No luck in 3 months. Chatted to a few people and experienced one time waster which was extremely annoying. Makes it worse when you look at a profile and it’s some, let’s say, unattractive bloke and he’s absolutely smashing it on here. The mind boggles. Not blowing smoke up my arse but I’ve been lucky enough to have been with some stunning women over the years. It’s just not happening on here."

Did you gauge how attractive he was from his photos?

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By *ad HardcoreMan
35 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...


"No luck in 3 months. Chatted to a few people and experienced one time waster which was extremely annoying. Makes it worse when you look at a profile and it’s some, let’s say, unattractive bloke and he’s absolutely smashing it on here. The mind boggles. Not blowing smoke up my arse but I’ve been lucky enough to have been with some stunning women over the years. It’s just not happening on here."

Then why don't ya fuck off to Tinder?

Or POF?

Ya humble bragger.

Fab won't miss you

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
35 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry


"Can't give you any profile advice as not asked for it but there is a lot of room for improvement "

This. Search the forum for profile advice and dick pic advice. There’s tonnes of it that you might find useful. Best of luck.

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By *ickawitchCouple
35 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Had a quick squint at your profile and I can’t see anything obviously wrong with it. I would suggest maybe going to clubs and or socials . Get yourself known as a nice approachable friendly guy. The sex n fun comes later

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By *anJenny 181Couple
35 weeks ago

Preston

Status updates I find are a good way to get noticed.

Eg looking for veryfication's from you lovely people.

Give a dude a chance looking for veryfication meet etc

Failing that any club you go to will veryfi & you might find a few others in the club that will also help

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Yep, I’m always respectful and expect the same in return. Haven’t done any social meets yet, to be fair. Most on here won’t meet unless you’ve been verified. Catch 22."

Webcam veris. Proves you are real. There are often plenty of socials (areas permitting) also forum socials and clubs.

The main thing is to get out and make connections. Interact on the forums, prove (consistent you're not a knob). Have patience.

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By *iking_WitchWoman
35 weeks ago

Hinckley


"No luck in 3 months. Chatted to a few people and experienced one time waster which was extremely annoying. Makes it worse when you look at a profile and it’s some, let’s say, unattractive bloke and he’s absolutely smashing it on here. The mind boggles. Not blowing smoke up my arse but I’ve been lucky enough to have been with some stunning women over the years. It’s just not happening on here."

I think this may suggest that women look for so many more different qualities in a partner than "stereotypical hot guy" looks.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds


" seeking the best way in any ideas guy "

Pssssstttt over here. ( whispers ) if you go down this allay, and hop over number 42 back yard fence, right next to their outside toilet is a hole in the fence. Bestest ever way in.

The mr

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By *ellhungvweMan
35 weeks ago

Cheltenham


" seeking the best way in any ideas guy

Pssssstttt over here. ( whispers ) if you go down this allay, and hop over number 42 back yard fence, right next to their outside toilet is a hole in the fence. Bestest ever way in.

The mr "

You have told him about number 42 - the Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything.

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By *iking_WitchWoman
35 weeks ago

Hinckley


"You have told him about number 42 - the Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything."

Sci-Fi/archaeology/gothic literature will always give an answer/reason/purpose

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op, maybe less cock pics and actually write a bit about who you are, what you like and can offer a meet.

I personally wouldn't put my number on my profile either, as this site has lots of cranks on it.

You already have one veri which is good, but there's so many men on here, that women and couples would choose someone who has put a bit more thought and effort into their profile.

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By *issmorganWoman
35 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Also try and get yourself on the list for an organised social, there's the Leeds one or one in York too.

They are good for getting to know others.

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester


" seeking the best way in any ideas guy "
loads of ideas but priveleged information

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