FabSwingers.com forum: Do you think people on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are good communicators in your experience?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Mainly, no.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"no"

Some are

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes.

I like those who are. That doesn't mean they have to Meli waffle. More... communicate clearly.

My friends from here are generally quite good at it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Depends on the individual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends on the individual."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab? Not all the time. Away from fab though, yes. The people I’ve built friendships with are very good communicators that’s why friendships have been built.

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By *smith87Man
over a year ago

totton

Nope

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Most people are very poor communicators. Not many people say what they mean and I find that very hard to negotiate sometimes. I have learned over the years that when people say "let's keep in touch" as they exit their leaving do they don't really mean it though

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

Yes. But only on topics they want to discuss with you, else their lips tighten up quicker, than Rex's choccy starfish when it's faced with a strap on, when you try to change the subject...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I know lots of people on fab who have lots to say while actually saying nothing at all.

An ability to tell us so much about themselves while not giving a fuck about what anyone else has to say so that isn't communication.

To communicate properly you have to listen twice as much as you speak because giving answers to questions that aren't asked is just a waste of everyone's time.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Most only chat when they want sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many are but unfortunately some definitely are not. I hate the use of text language in messages as this can be off putting to me as it demonstrates a level of immaturity but to be fair maybe I am just old fashioned in this way.

Maybe it's also because messages are one dimensional and sentiment or emotion cannot be clearly explained thus potentially misinterpreted or a combination of all the above.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It's difficult to get any communication going, as most ladies are flooded with messages and the next shiny thing comes along

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"On fab? Not all the time. Away from fab though, yes. The people I’ve built friendships with are very good communicators that’s why friendships have been built. "

All the friends I have are good communicators. I think I would struggle to connect if we couldn’t communicate well.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Some are, some aren't - I'm not.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. But only on topics they want to discuss with you, else their lips tighten up quicker, than Rex's choccy starfish when it's faced with a strap on, when you try to change the subject..."

Yup!

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I'm a great comunicator its weather or not you've the patient to desipher

Dyslexic text or not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s very much mixed.

Granted, we have lives outside of here but I’ll always make an effort to reply quickly or I’ll explain as to why I’m not online

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly?

No.

Some yes, many, niet x

Worst being when you have actually fuc×ed 'em. Seriously.

Message them after ('coz you're a good one haha...) And the answer is... no reply.

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

It's not so much about being poor communicators, as the limits of the internet, which since it's inception has increasingly taken the place of active, face to face socialising.

I've seen numerous articles and podcasts saying that this has only increased dramatically since the lockdowns.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The ones I chat to are.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Most topics of chat instigated by men are sex related and that got old 12 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most topics of chat instigated by men are sex related and that got old 12 years ago.

I like asking women about their dentist appointments and shit. Real life shit

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Most topics of chat instigated by men are sex related and that got old 12 years ago.

I like asking women about their dentist appointments and shit. Real life shit"

Most of my Fab adjacent conversations at the moment are about DIY

And no, not the electricals near genitals type of DIY, the electricals nowhere near genitals or else hospital type of DIY

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By *endalshaggersCouple
over a year ago

Lake District

Some are. Genuinely depends what you're looking for. In our experience we've had some lovely chats with lovely people who aren't pushy or desperate, and then others who simply just want to get their cock wet asap and don't want to at least attempt to "use the charm" per se.

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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago

Fantasy land in the SW

I find chatting to guys is mainly about sex and the few chats Ive had with females have either been mainly pleasant and non sexual or very short and abrupt.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

"It's difficult to get any communication going, as most ladies are flooded with messages and the next shiny thing comes along

oooh shiny things

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