FabSwingers.com forum: Just one of those days

By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

When you just hate people

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By *icecouple561Couple
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41 weeks ago

East Sussex

That's me most days. People en masse are awful. Individually they're lovely or can be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"That's me most days. People en masse are awful. Individually they're lovely or can be"
can be

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
41 weeks ago

kent

I’m working super hard to shift myself out of this mindset. A few people are really helping, but it seems to be a slow process.

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

my mood for the 2020s so far

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By *ools and the brainCouple
41 weeks ago

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"When you just hate people"

As a. Self confessed misanthrope that's my daily routine.

Sorry people but people are cunts.

Some are more cunty than others it's just what level of cuntyness depends on how much I interact with them particularly work colleagues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"I’m working super hard to shift myself out of this mindset. A few people are really helping, but it seems to be a slow process. "
is yours a permanent state?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"my mood for the 2020s so far"

We know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"When you just hate people

As a. Self confessed misanthrope that's my daily routine.

Sorry people but people are cunts.

Some are more cunty than others it's just what level of cuntyness depends on how much I interact with them particularly work colleagues."
they really can be C words. Proper C words

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
41 weeks ago

Bradford

"That's me most days. People en masse are awful. Individually they're lovely or can be"

I was just going say that but then

Because there are people like you that are lovely

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

I'm having an I love people but I also want to sleep day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much"

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
41 weeks ago

kent

"I’m working super hard to shift myself out of this mindset. A few people are really helping, but it seems to be a slow process. is yours a permanent state? "

No, by nature I’m a positive and happy, upbeat person, well disposed towards others. But a succession of very bad experiences destroyed my faith in people, and it’s easy to tar everyone with the same brush when you lose trust in others. But, I’m slowly coming back to myself x

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I used to. Now I only think about myself. Every so often people's choices make me think I'm glad I am me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

I'm having an I love people but I also want to sleep day."

I love that for you and hate that for you

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

something something answering messages

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

I struggle with large groups of people because I suffer with social anxiety. It probably sounds ridiculous to most, but if I need anything from the shop at the end of the road, I have to plan to go as soon as it opens at 7am, to ensure there's no more than two other people in there

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I struggle with large groups of people because I suffer with social anxiety. It probably sounds ridiculous to most, but if I need anything from the shop at the end of the road, I have to plan to go as soon as it opens at 7am, to ensure there's no more than two other people in there

Not ridiculous to me. I get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

something something answering messages"

I’m bad at answering messages. Fucking deal

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

I'm lovely. Mostly

Some of the stuff I've read today on disabled people's social media does make me want to commit [redacted] though. Absolute tools

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"I'm lovely. Mostly

Some of the stuff I've read today on disabled people's social media does make me want to commit [redacted] though. Absolute tools

Ah. I know feeling

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm lovely. Mostly

Some of the stuff I've read today on disabled people's social media does make me want to commit [redacted] though. Absolute tools

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By *naswingdressWoman
41 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

something something answering messages

I’m bad at answering messages. Fucking deal

I deal. I'm allowed feelings on the matter. Not turning blue over here, though, still breathing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

something something answering messages

I’m bad at answering messages. Fucking deal

I deal. I'm allowed feelings on the matter. Not turning blue over here, though, still breathing."

yeah yeah

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

"my mood for the 2020s so far

We know

If anyone wants to try to change it, I'm waiting. But I'm not holding my breath. I like oxygen too much

I’ve been trying. Happy to let someone else have a go

something something answering messages

I’m bad at answering messages. Fucking deal

I deal. I'm allowed feelings on the matter. Not turning blue over here, though, still breathing."

Sending oxygen

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By *nnCeeWoman
41 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Not ridiculous to me. I get it."

And me. Absolutely understand.

Sending love x

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By *ake_or_deathMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester

Not ridiculous at all. I get social anxiety too and have found myself in positions other people might struggle to understand, but it's totally real for you and you shouldn't be too harsh on yourself over it.

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

Not all people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Not all people. "

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By *linyMan
41 weeks ago

Manchester/London

In the words of Limp Bizkit-

It's just one of the days,

When you don’t want to wake up,

Everything is fucked,

Everybody sucks,

You don’t really know why,

But you wanna rip somebody’s head off!

Personally I’d take a Vitamin B12, smile and have a cup of tea. The world is a better place after a brew

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
41 weeks ago

Reading

Most days i like people. But yes certainly i have those days.

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By *itty9899Man
41 weeks ago

Craggy Island

"When you just hate people"

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

I find it difficult to hate people. I find myself pitying them for their behaviour instead, and wonder what happened for them to be how they are.

I dislike being in situations where there are a lot of people moving around, or squashing me in, but that's my problem.

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By *ad NannaWoman
41 weeks ago

East London

Be a lover, not a hater.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
41 weeks ago

"Be a lover, not a hater."

I’m a hater of people today.

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By *eliWoman
41 weeks ago

"Be a lover, not a hater.

I’m a hater of people today. "

Oh Pickle.

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By *ruceyyMan
41 weeks ago

London

Now I've got Break Stuff by Limp Bizkit in my head

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By *ot to giggleWoman
41 weeks ago

Coventry

"When you just hate people"

Yep ... having one today!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
41 weeks ago

North West

"Be a lover, not a hater.

I’m a hater of people today. "

Today has been a clusterfuck so far. Sending empathy and a series of expletives.

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By (user no longer on site)
41 weeks ago

Oh, Pickle, I get that feeling on occasion. Today though, my feelings towards The People are mostly beige.

Nell

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By *bi HaiveMan
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41 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Now I've got Break Stuff by Limp Bizkit in my head "

My go to tune first thing in the morning.

Always puts me in a happy place....

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