FabSwingers.com forum: How to tell when someone is into you

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

List the signs for those that don’t know them

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Consistency, communication and words are backed up with action.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Consistency, communication and words are backed up with action."

Couldn't have said it better. They are direct, act like it, show their intentions.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Consistency in communication

Words backed up with action

Effort

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By *ife NinjaMan
35 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I'm rubbish at picking up the signs. Just be direct

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By *ermite12ukMan
35 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

They send you a dic pic.

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
35 weeks ago

essex

"Consistency, communication and words are backed up with action."

100% this

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By *ellhungvweMan
35 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"I'm rubbish at picking up the signs. Just be direct

This. You would have to repeatedly hit me over the head with a sign that said “You are the one” before I started to maybe think something might be up…

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By *aomilatteCouple
35 weeks ago

Visiting Blackpool

They say hello in a club. It means they want to get jiggy... (To some

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By *weetiepie99Woman
35 weeks ago

cardiff

They reply to your messages

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By *2000ManMan
35 weeks ago

Worthing

Messages are more than single words or sentences.

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By *amie HantsWoman
35 weeks ago

Atlantis

When they don’t really talk to you or message you. Clear sign they fancy you so much it leaves them speechless.

If you like them back, maybe turn up at their work and serenade them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

Absolutely no idea unless they tell me directly, even then I often think they're pulling my leg.

So, for me, it's saying it in clear, unambiguous words

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"When they don’t really talk to you or message you. Clear sign they fancy you so much it leaves them speechless.

If you like them back, maybe turn up at their work and serenade them "

Do I have to take backing music?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
35 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

He makes time for me

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By *ou only live onceMan
35 weeks ago

London

"When they don’t really talk to you or message you. Clear sign they fancy you so much it leaves them speechless.

This is a hill I am willing to die on.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
35 weeks ago

St Leonards

In terms of messaging on here, it's usually when they're keen to continue the chat and sentences start to contain more typos or punctuation gaffes.

Mine go off when I like someone and am keen to "just communicate", so if theirs go off too, they may well be in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

They say "hi"

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Where do I leave a clothes

On top of mine

Yep what night

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

They want to chat to you about the mundane every day stuff and bare their soul a little.

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By *ascaIMan
35 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

You get a smash on the smash or pass game.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Im a terrible messager. Even with people I like and love.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"You get a smash on the smash or pass game. "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs

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By *heGentleman2024Man
35 weeks ago

North West

Always sends a message back…

In person its the eye contact and body language…a lot of laughing is one sure way..touches you for no reason.. wanting to get close

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs "

I am

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on?

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By *naswingdressWoman
35 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not a clue.

Assume they're not, unless they tell you otherwise, and even then protect yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on? "

She's acting weird because she doesn't want it to go too far.

she's not sure if you.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
35 weeks ago

your head

Not a clue, hopefully they say so.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs

I am"

You don't count.

Lack of boobs.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Not a clue.

Assume they're not, unless they tell you otherwise, and even then protect yourself."

That's me

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By *ascaIMan
35 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"You get a smash on the smash or pass game.

SMASH!

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

"I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on?

She's acting weird because she doesn't want it to go too far.

she's not sure if you. "

She's not sure if I what?

My theory is she's getting nervy because I'm giving her my eyelash emojis

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs

I am

You don't count.

Lack of boobs.

Mrs "

But my penis is into you!

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By *estarossa.Woman
35 weeks ago

Flagrante

Their guide dog licks my hand.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
35 weeks ago

Bradford

"Consistency, communication and words are backed up with action."

That covers it well all the things i and my new love do .

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
35 weeks ago

wonderland.

We completely missed the signs with each other for months xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on?

She's acting weird because she doesn't want it to go too far.

she's not sure if you.

She's not sure if I what?

My theory is she's getting nervy because I'm giving her my eyelash emojis

That should have said 'of you' I'm rubbish at proof reading.

I think your theory is correct. Keep on with the eyelashes

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
35 weeks ago

Leeds

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs

I am

You don't count.

Lack of boobs.

Mrs

But my penis is into you!"

But I don't like penis.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Not a clue.

Assume they're not, unless they tell you otherwise, and even then protect yourself.

That's me

Is there any other way? Wait, do you mean someone might have been into me and I didn’t know

damn it !

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs

I am

You don't count.

Lack of boobs.

Mrs

But my penis is into you!

But I don't like penis.

Mrs "

Oh dear God at your eating Mrs penis in that wedding picture?!

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By *ruceyyMan
35 weeks ago

London

"I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on?

She's acting weird because she doesn't want it to go too far.

she's not sure if you.

She's not sure if I what?

My theory is she's getting nervy because I'm giving her my eyelash emojis

That should have said 'of you' I'm rubbish at proof reading.

I think your theory is correct. Keep on with the eyelashes

Look what's the worst that can happen. She doesn't bang me. Oh well!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
35 weeks ago

Southampton

"I never have a clue when anyone is into me, it needs spelling out.

Mrs "

Same lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"I've got a situation at the moment fab where this hot former colleague revealed she thought I was good to look at. I obviously pushed and we have chatted since lots and been flirty of course BUT

She's also acting weird. Like she doesn't want to go too far.

Go on ladies what's going on?

She's acting weird because she doesn't want it to go too far.

she's not sure if you.

She's not sure if I what?

My theory is she's getting nervy because I'm giving her my eyelash emojis

That should have said 'of you' I'm rubbish at proof reading.

I think your theory is correct. Keep on with the eyelashes

Look what's the worst that can happen. She doesn't bang me. Oh well!

correct

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
35 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

"Not a clue, hopefully they say so. "

What , like FAF ??

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Communication-tit for tat-would be a start!The Onus is on the man to win the woman over as usual….yaaaawn.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

I worked with a guy years ago for quite some time. We had a friendly relationship, often joked and larked about but he never showed any signs at all (that I picked up on) of being interested in me further. After he left I found a letter on my desk with his number on it asking me to 'go and have an affair ' with him. I was absolutely flabbergasted

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By *ad HardcoreMan
35 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...

In a club...

Immediate eye contact.

Coupled with THAT look...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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35 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Communication-tit for tat-would be a start!The Onus is on the man to win the woman over as usual….yaaaawn."

I think the onus is on both people to make themselves clear.

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By *ou only live onceMan
35 weeks ago

London

"Not a clue.

Assume they're not, unless they tell you otherwise, and even then protect yourself.

That's me

Me three. All this clear communication stuff is giving me the lolz.

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