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Adjusting your age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
34 weeks ago

As the years go by, do you adjust your upper age range appropriately as you got older year on year on here? This is probably aimed more at people who have set their upper age limit around their own age or younger, rather than people who have set their's higher to begin with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
34 weeks ago

East Sussex

Our upper age range is slightly older than us and we adjust it now and again but not regularly. We're far more likely to adjust our lower limit upwards.

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast

I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child.

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By *essicagraceWoman
34 weeks ago

birmingham

I adjust mine regularly depending on how I'm feeling at the time. I've been settled at my current for a while x

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By *ris GrayMan
34 weeks ago

Dorchester

I never adjust mine I'm just grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago


"I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child. "

Why is it unlikely you'll meet anyone older now? I've met two women in thier 70s and had a lot of fun with both.

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By *loomy GirlWoman
34 weeks ago

leicester

I actually adjusted mine yesterday as it had been set at the same age for a few years.

Really wish I hadn’t.

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By *ris GrayMan
34 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I actually adjusted mine yesterday as it had been set at the same age for a few years.

Really wish I hadn’t. "
more messages?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
34 weeks ago

Leicester


"I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child. "

You are seriously missing out my man. Many a great tune played on an old fiddle

Frank

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By *icecouple561Couple
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34 weeks ago

East Sussex


"I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child.

Why is it unlikely you'll meet anyone older now? I've met two women in thier 70s and had a lot of fun with both. "

I can't see our age range going up much further to be honest.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
34 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

On here the upper is set low, but at house parties, I play with older, as it's down to face to face chemistry, where age doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
34 weeks ago


"I actually adjusted mine yesterday as it had been set at the same age for a few years.

Really wish I hadn’t. more messages? "

I bet you're having to bat them away now?

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast


"I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child.

Why is it unlikely you'll meet anyone older now? I've met two women in thier 70s and had a lot of fun with both. "

Because I'm not currently meeting and haven't been for 4 years so it's unlikely.

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By *ealitybitesMan
34 weeks ago

Belfast


"I have never been with a woman older than me so I have never adjusted my upper age limit as it's unlikely to happen now.

My lower filter is adjusted upwards every year to keep a 10 year buffer between anyone I'm chatting to and my eldest child.

You are seriously missing out my man. Many a great tune played on an old fiddle

Frank"

I can't disagree but I'm not actively looking and I wouldn't meet someone just to test that theory.

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By *hoirCouple
34 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

At the start of each year the upper and lower numbers are raised a year. We don't block people from messaging us though as we are here for community as well.

C

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By *loomy GirlWoman
34 weeks ago

leicester


"I actually adjusted mine yesterday as it had been set at the same age for a few years.

Really wish I hadn’t. more messages? "

More idiots

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By *naswingdressWoman
34 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

My age restrictions are/ were about limiting my messages. Filters do a better job.

When I let people message me, I change them. I have a hard lower limit and a mushier upper limit.

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