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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how come im not getting any replies from people lol

no one wants to talk,

im new to this site just got my pic verfied, so how long will it take for me to find and meet someone for some fun

any ideas????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome and enjoy..

due to ratio of single guys to couples/fems...... prob will be around June 2012... if not, watch the olympics.

good luck again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Be patient and change your status as it makes you look desperate

Maybe change your profile a bit to give more info

This site is'nt instashag.com and sometimes it takes a bit of time to get meets

Don't get too het up about people not replying,not everyone does,and maoning about it won't change a thing

make sure you read peoples profiles properly before contacting them and lastly if you were looking at your own profile would you send a message to yourself?

good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"welcome and enjoy..

due to ratio of single guys to couples/fems...... prob will be around June 2012... if not, watch the olympics.

good luck again."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"welcome and enjoy..

due to ratio of single guys to couples/fems...... prob will be around June 2012... if not, watch the olympics.

good luck again."

Not a bad idea to watch the olympics

There will be some very serious eye candy to drool over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work on your profile it's crap and dont tell me you want to lick me all over, I am straight and not bisexual, remember your talking to couples as well as single females, men may not want to play with you but they like to be acknowledged and respected if you expect to play with thier partners.

Have patience it can take a year to get your first meet.

Use the forums and the chatrooms to get known.

show respect

only mail those who are looking for what you are ie dont mail those that are not looking for single males or only certain age groups etc

read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"work on your profile it's crap and dont tell me you want to lick me all over, I am straight and not bisexual, remember your talking to couples as well as single females, men may not want to play with you but they like to be acknowledged and respected if you expect to play with thier partners.

Have patience it can take a year to get your first meet.

Use the forums and the chatrooms to get known.

show respect

only mail those who are looking for what you are ie dont mail those that are not looking for single males or only certain age groups etc

read profiles"

There you go some good advise to work on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a joke isnt it?

Your profile is a total wind up and not serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile makes you sound arrogent you wont get a second look with it like it is now

remember your a minority single men have to stand out and come across as respectfull with something out of the ordinary to offer or they will just get passed by if you want success change your profile big time and your username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a look at your profile, I'm no expert but I think you could take some pointers from the peeps who have took the time to reply to you.

Just my 2pence worth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

check my profile now any better???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm flattered you pinched some of mine, that is loads better but the couples and single ladies may give you some more pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

above all, DON'T be:-

Rude

Pushy

Arrogant

but BE:

Polite

courteous

Respectful of other peoples commitments.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a joke isnt it?

Your profile is a total wind up and not serious."

tell me what you think now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to 'not interested in men'......

next...

seriously, reads better... and good luck

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

have a look in the singers support forum....read.....A Guide To Swinging for Single Males...by View.....it gives some really sound advice.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Swingers Suppor Forum, even...lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been on site three weeks!! As another poster has said - it's not instantshag.com. Also, you may think you're as hot as toast but there are loads, and loads and loads and loads ... get the picture - of single men.

You are young - not for everyone, you can't accommodate - hmmm...again that will limit you and you seem prepared to meet anyone - smacks a bit of desperation.

This is fun and fantasy - be honest with yourself in what you're really looking for and tailor your profile to reflect that.

I'm sure your social calender will soon be overflowing!!

Have fun!!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Just thought I'd add that your attitude in this thread is a lot better than some people I've seen... they'll ask for advice as to why they're not getting any results, and when people point out reasons they get all defensive. It's refreshing to see that you're taking the advice in the manner that it's intended.

I didn't see your original profile, but the version you have now seems fine to me.

Use the forums and the chat to get to know people, and if you can attend any of the meets then give that a try too.

Good luck

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

Take out the handsome bit......

It's subjective and many will think you are up your own arse.

Apart from that, profile is fine, if a bit short....... doesn't say anything I've not seen before.

And your picture is crap........ you either need to focus it or take a new one!

Good luck

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