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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London

Am sure posted before but had couple of recent experiences of being blocked. One was because I explained I had different view to post. I understand his view but he did not like so blocked me. The other one was because I would not do what other person wanted. Have others had experience l. I found it a bit odd why blocked bit odd. I understand diiferenr views but would have at least like explaining if only a brief explanation. Any other views?

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By *TG3Man
36 weeks ago

Dorchester

No sorry

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"No sorry "

You are lucky. Had been getting on one but then blocked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not sure where baby came from lol. 'why you were blocked'

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked."

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

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By *obilebottomMan
36 weeks ago

All over


"Not sure where baby came from lol. 'why you were blocked'"

I read that at least 5 times not knowing what to think

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again "

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Not sure where baby came from lol. 'why you were blocked'

I read that at least 5 times not knowing what to think "

My eyesight is quite poor and unless I have my don't at 27 million times normal I frequently hit the wrong button

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

Font dammit not don't

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts"

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
36 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"Am sure posted before but had couple of recent experiences of being blocked. One was because I explained I had different view to post. I understand his view but he did not like so blocked me. The other one was because I would not do what other person wanted. Have others had experience l. I found it a bit odd why blocked bit odd. I understand diiferenr views but would have at least like explaining if only a brief explanation. Any other views?"

I have blocked half of the women in my area because they are not what I am after and I am not what they are after. It's just easy that way.

I am blocked by others in much the same way, and possibly due to a little naive bellendery when I was a noob.

You just have to move on buddy and don't take things personally.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have"

What would telling you achieve?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
36 weeks ago

wonderland.


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have"

because they wanted to.. because they don't want to talk anymore

Many many reasons but because they want too will be true

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?"

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?"

I see.

Your experience on fab will be way more pleasant if you accept it and try not to dwell on it.

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?

I see.

Your experience on fab will be way more pleasant if you accept it and try not to dwell on it. "

I agree entirely but just wonder why some don’t at least say am not for them. You seem to engage which is good. Not hitting on you by way

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
36 weeks ago

Markfield

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?

I see.

Your experience on fab will be way more pleasant if you accept it and try not to dwell on it.

I agree entirely but just wonder why some don’t at least say am not for them. You seem to engage which is good. Not hitting on you by way

"

We block people and only ever explained once.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
36 weeks ago

Markfield


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?"

Think of it like the mute button on the telly.

They don’t want to hear from you again so they have put you on mute.

You dont write to the bbc to tell them each time you use mute or change channel.

Block is a tool that is useful for many on this site and should not have to be used with explanation or permission.

Listen to the forum mod, you’ve got great advice there. Move on.

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"What do you want explained? You seem to know baby you were blocked.

It just seemed to be a bit unkind as not done anything to offend. I know might have been not for them by they could have said that and I would not have contacted again

I don't mean this harshly but blocking is something you might need to accept. It is an answer of sorts

I appreciate that as what we like might be different. I just thought people might tell me that, I would respect the views they have

What would telling you achieve?

I thought it might just be polite? Am not offended not for them but I was being nice from my point of view?

Think of it like the mute button on the telly.

They don’t want to hear from you again so they have put you on mute. You dont write to the bbc to tell them each time you use mute or change channel. Block is a tool that is useful for many on this site and should have to be used with explanation or permission.

Listen to the forum mod, you’ve got great advice there. Move on. "

Good advice. Was just a it upset as thought had been getting on well. Thank goodness nice people like you

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
36 weeks ago

Pembrokeshire

Its fab. Don't take it so seriously.

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"Its fab. Don't take it so seriously. "

It’s sometimes hard not to have impact on mental health but undeterred this is strange place sometimes

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's just a permanent filter, not an insult.

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

London


"It's just a permanent filter, not an insult. "

Understand but some can hurt feelings?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
35 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

OP. You have 54 verifications, have been banging like a shit house door in the wind it seems.

I think letting one or two go might seem reasonable without getting wrapped around the axle about.

Most men would be delighted with your success.

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London


"OP. You have 54 verifications, have been banging like a shit house door in the wind it seems.

I think letting one or two go might seem reasonable without getting wrapped around the axle about.

Most men would be delighted with your success."

Yes that is very good advice. Sorry I was a bit disappointed by one when I thought I had got good chance. I know I should be more understanding but find it hard when some seem unkind. Thank you.

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By *TG3Man
35 weeks ago

Dorchester


"Not sure where baby came from lol. 'why you were blocked'"
predictive text has a mind of its own

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By *umagain58 OP   Man
35 weeks ago

London


"Not sure where baby came from lol. 'why you were blocked'predictive text has a mind of its own "

Yeah and AI means we no longer sure. I do real though

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