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Meet up.. then blanked

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
42 weeks ago

wonderland.

Maybe it's what they do. Or maybe they felt guilty.

Had it the other way around. Met a gentleman for group fun. Went to verify him and he had left fab.

People are strange x

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Hey.. yeah, I just found it it odd.

Had a great time, good vibes also..

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

Guess it was a couple some couples only meet guys once saves getting close, nsa means nsa so maybe thats their routine

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

NSA.. I get that..

Seems a little bit cold.

Hey, I guess it's a learning curve

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
42 weeks ago

Bradford


"Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

"

Ever thought you wasn’t exactly what they wanted? Paired with not A not a lot of care in explaining it or why to you or B suffers with some form of anxiety and could bare the thought of bringing it up

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By *errie69Woman
42 weeks ago

Essex


"Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

"

I usually only see someone once, but it's not a fixed rule, I'm greedy and like variety lol

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By *rowley616Man
42 weeks ago

Scarborough


"Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

I usually only see someone once, but it's not a fixed rule, I'm greedy and like variety lol"

Once would still be better than not at all.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
42 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Some people people struggle with confrontation and don't like to tell people directly if they are no longer interested, blocking is the easy way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Was it just a social meet or more?

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By *lack Orchid 0204Man
42 weeks ago

Leeds

Focus your energy on other folk

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Club meeting with a couple. Not blocked, but no further communication. Guess they didn't enjoy it as much as I did, but they never said at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

We haven't had that as of yet luckily, but we would be decent enough to at least give a reason as to why we wasn't looking to continue instead of blocking.

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By *et and WillingCouple
42 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Had this before met a lady for social got on great , met again for fun had a great time , even went out after for something to eat. Arranged another meet but got completely ghosted. She deleted her profile from here and blocked our number.

Maybe we were crap in bed

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By *adyBugsWoman
42 weeks ago

cognito

Yep it’s happened to me once or twice on here and in the dating scene. People can be shit.

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Yes .. it's not how I'd treat anyone.

Being respectful and open doesn't take much time

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By *enuine MikeMan
42 weeks ago

Guildford

Yeah it's very cold and shitty. It's happened to me a couple of times but that's how some folk role?

Don't stew on it for too long and take it personally.

If its not meant to be, it's not meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

That happened to me but we didn’t go back to their place. Meet for coffee, chatted and went shopping then blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Yes. I Don't overthink it

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By *ex HolesMan
42 weeks ago

Up North

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By *ex HolesMan
42 weeks ago

Up North


"Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

"

Maybe the ‘fun’ wasn’t felt both ways

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Normally I'd agree...

It's strange on a few levels as when she was saying.. " don't stop" I took that as she was actually enjoying the moment..

Hey.. what do I know

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex

A couple of times people have left the site after we've met. Sometimes they'll rejoin and contact us to meet again.

You can't control how other people do things and quite often they find it easier to block or leave than to explain that they don't want to meet again.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
42 weeks ago

Darwen


"Was lucky enough to have arranged and met up with someone for my first ever meeting.

4 hours later after drinks and fun.

We went our separate ways.

But then I was surprised to find out I'd been blocked from contacting them..

Anyone else experienced anything like this..?

"

Thankfully not. But their loss mate.

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

I guess it's a safety thing.

No feelings just sex

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Yes.. thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago


"A couple of times people have left the site after we've met. Sometimes they'll rejoin and contact us to meet again.

You can't control how other people do things and quite often they find it easier to block or leave than to explain that they don't want to meet again.

"

In your experience can you sometimes tell that people are wanting to dip their toes in but either aren’t ready to or it’s just not for them?

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By *ippyXXX OP   Man
42 weeks ago

Tamworth

Well I was blindsided on this occasion..

I actually thought we'd meet again..

That's what I can't grasp..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"A couple of times people have left the site after we've met. Sometimes they'll rejoin and contact us to meet again.

You can't control how other people do things and quite often they find it easier to block or leave than to explain that they don't want to meet again.

In your experience can you sometimes tell that people are wanting to dip their toes in but either aren’t ready to or it’s just not for them?"

Yes, we often can. Not always though

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
42 weeks ago

Markfield


"Well I was blindsided on this occasion..

I actually thought we'd meet again..

That's what I can't grasp.. "

If you use the reply + quote button it makes it clear which comment you are replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Happens to me

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By *inger_SnapWoman
42 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Sometimes when people have had time to reflect, they change their mind.

For whatever reason, she's decided she doesn't want to repeat the experience.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
42 weeks ago

Norwich

Some stone cold killers out there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Well I was blindsided on this occasion..

I actually thought we'd meet again..

That's what I can't grasp.. "

It's come as a shock to you clearly.

Things like this do happen in swinging, I think most of us have experienced the sting of rejection. We met a guy twice socially, exchanged a few messages, agreed a scenario that we were all keen to play out (or so we thought) and arranged a date and time to meet. We agreed that he'd send his address nearer the time. He just stopped responding. You do wonder what you did or said but ultimately all you can do is chalk it up to experience.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
42 weeks ago

West Midlands

Blocked , they left the site . hell, a few even left the country

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