FabSwingers.com forum: Struggling to get a meet & available now to any female

By (user no longer on site) OP
42 weeks ago

I've been on Fab for a while but I don't seem to ever get a connection.

I send messages, not the 'Hay, fancy a fuck' or 'hello' which in most cases I'll read the profile and reply to what they put.

I'm not on here to find the "one" or have to build up conversations for days/weeks to get to know eacj other. For that sort of stuff I'll join a dating site.

I cant travel but I can accommodate.

One of my mates uses this site and he never has trouble.

Woman what sort of things do you want to hear? I tried everything.

And to any local ladies reading this, if your free, horny and can travel, get in touch

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
42 weeks ago

Worcester

I suspect most women want to meet men with standards higher than “I’ll meet now with any female.”

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
42 weeks ago

Leeds

How do you usually talk to women when you don’t thrust your cock into their face ?

Maybe try that approach.

The mr

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By *CLM87Woman
42 weeks ago

Derbyshire

Also for me personally, I don't want to see a close up of a cock for a profile picture.

Your status would also put me off.

Women get 100s of messages a day and to a degree can pick who they want.

I generally talk for a few weeks as for me I need a mental and physical connection... although I don't do nsa meets.

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By *awty_TwoCouple
42 weeks ago

near Ashford, kent

Your profile has zero appeal, and here now to meet any woman??? This is NOT a meat market!

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By *ornucopiaMan
42 weeks ago

Bexley

Never sure whether threads like this and another concurrent similar one are serious or a subtle piss take!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
42 weeks ago

cahoots

OP, you say you can't get a connection but at the same time don't want a build up so that could be your problem plus your profile says you can't accommodate but in your post you say you can so it's a bit confusing.

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I've been on Fab for a while but I don't seem to ever get a connection.

I send messages, not the 'Hay, fancy a fuck' or 'hello' which in most cases I'll read the profile and reply to what they put.

I'm not on here to find the "one" or have to build up conversations for days/weeks to get to know eacj other. For that sort of stuff I'll join a dating site.

I cant travel but I can accommodate.

One of my mates uses this site and he never has trouble.

Woman what sort of things do you want to hear? I tried everything.

And to any local ladies reading this, if your free, horny and can travel, get in touch

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I guess you'll never learn so advising you will not get you anywhere but your name and avatar put most off just a hint

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Treating a woman with a little respect, having a conversation and making her feel comfortable enough to meet you isn't dating, it's bare minimum if she's giving you her body.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
42 weeks ago

Near Abercynon

I'm a proper helpful chap... but this one is surely a joke, right?

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By *AYENCouple
42 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Perhaps your profile pic is putting them off or perhaps they're worried that you're going to eat their pussy for dinner.

Is your approach on here the same as how you would like men to approach your sister or daughter?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
42 weeks ago

Sheffield

There’s probs several reasons why to be fair!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

ANY female?! Have not got any standards or morals?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

And out of curiosity, why do you insist on seeing photos?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’d imagine your profile is what’s putting them off.

The close up pic of your bellend isn’t flattering or making women weak at the knees. Your profile text screams “I want to fuck you, cum and go. I don’t care about you” Your current status uses the word desperate’ which is apt because your profile definitely gives off that aura.

Tip: Have a look at some profiles of guys that are successful and try to emulate that with your own unique twist.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"I’d imagine your profile is what’s putting them off.

Tip: Have a look at some profiles of guys that are successful and try to emulate that with your own unique twist.

This. Your profile & your approach, would put me off you if I was looking.

If you want insta-sex with no effort or conversation, pay for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Women like men that taste of butter.

You know what to do, op.

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By *ornycougaWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

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By *wingnswitchCouple
42 weeks ago

NEWARK

"I've been on Fab for a while but I don't seem to ever get a connection.

I send messages, not the 'Hay, fancy a fuck' or 'hello' which in most cases I'll read the profile and reply to what they put.

I'm not on here to find the "one" or have to build up conversations for days/weeks to get to know eacj other. For that sort of stuff I'll join a dating site.

I cant travel but I can accommodate.

One of my mates uses this site and he never has trouble.

Woman what sort of things do you want to hear? I tried everything.

And to any local ladies reading this, if your free, horny and can travel, get in touch

Female half here I have just looked at your profile at best it's quite sparse not as much information in as I would like - that's me personally and to be honest 1 pic of your dick isn't appealing if you had approached me on my single fem profile I would have said no on those grounds everyone is different I know

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
42 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

She's DM'ing him now!

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Women like men that taste of butter.

You know what to do, op."
spread em?

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"And out of curiosity, why do you insist on seeing photos?"
fodder

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

She's DM'ing him now!"

Fab’s next great love story

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Women love being treated like a fleshlight by men with no standards

I don’t know why you’re struggling OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I’m sure I’ve answered one of these this morning.

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By *ornycougaWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

She's DM'ing him now!

Fab’s next great love story

I'm on my way to Manchester so I'm seriously contemplating it!

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

She's DM'ing him now!

Fab’s next great love story

I'm on my way to Manchester so I'm seriously contemplating it! "

Let me know how you get on

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

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By *ife NinjaMan
42 weeks ago

Dunfermline

This thread went as well as could be expected

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By *ixiekissesWoman
42 weeks ago

Happy place

I just can't imagine why you are not inundated with offers! Pmsl...

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"I just can't imagine why you are not inundated with offers! Pmsl... "
really thats why he's not been back he's answering all his incoming mail

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By *aximum_funMan
42 weeks ago

West Herts

God I love these threads. They're probably my favourite type of forum post.

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

I lowkey think guys like this have a degradation kink and they do this to get off.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
42 weeks ago

Trowbridge

My man’s being released from prison today for butchering men & using their scrotums in the WI luncheon, she said she’d be interested

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"My man’s being released from prison today for butchering men & using their scrotums in the WI luncheon, she said she’d be interested"
He said

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By *ellinever70Woman
42 weeks ago

Ayrshire

"God I love these threads. They're probably my favourite type of forum post.

Fodder for the regulars to have a pile on

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By *mmaleiaWoman
42 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"My man’s being released from prison today for butchering men & using their scrotums in the WI luncheon, she said she’d be interestedHe said

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supposed to say nans, not man’s, dammit

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By *ornycougaWoman
42 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

"Your status update is frankly revolting. What woman in her right mind would be tempted to meet yet another entitled man who just wants a hole to fill?

I take it you’re not interested

She's DM'ing him now!

Fab’s next great love story

I'm on my way to Manchester so I'm seriously contemplating it!

Let me know how you get on

He turned me down. He's sorted for pussy and ass already

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By *TG3Man
42 weeks ago

Dorchester

"My man’s being released from prison today for butchering men & using their scrotums in the WI luncheon, she said she’d be interestedHe said

supposed to say nans, not man’s, dammit"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Poor op.

Welcome to fab

haha. I love this place.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
42 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I've been on Fab for a while but I don't seem to ever get a connection.

I send messages, not the 'Hay, fancy a fuck' or 'hello' which in most cases I'll read the profile and reply to what they put.

I'm not on here to find the "one" or have to build up conversations for days/weeks to get to know eacj other. For that sort of stuff I'll join a dating site.

I cant travel but I can accommodate.

One of my mates uses this site and he never has trouble.

Woman what sort of things do you want to hear? I tried everything.

And to any local ladies reading this, if your free, horny and can travel, get in touch

Your mates a liar

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By *adyBugsWoman
42 weeks ago

cognito

this dude things nine months on fab with no meets is a while…

I really can’t understand why he’s not had any luck

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

O o O oo

"God I love these threads. They're probably my favourite type of forum post.

Seriously?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

O o O oo

What a nasty bunch of posts they were that I took off. You don't have to give advice on anyone asking for it if you do you have to be civil. To tear a man apart is really not pleasant, no matter what he is asking and at a guess not one of you would want the same treatment as this man had. We all want different things, it doesn't make his (and many others) idea of a meet wrong.

Please check the forum rules before you decide to post again and if you can't give advice without attacking a person then please leave the thread alone.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
42 weeks ago

O o O oo

To the OP, welcome to the forum. Please don't be put off posting because of the unfriendly attitude of some posts.

Your profile is straight and to the point and will no doubt fit someone who is looking for the same thing. There are plenty of people about who look for NSA sex and quick meets. Check out the meets at the top of the page.

The thing I would maybe change is a couple of body shots for pics, they don't have to show your face.

Good luck.

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