FabSwingers.com forum: Oh, that's easy...

By *eli OP Woman
48 weeks ago

On Fab, do you find it easy to find those you're attracted to?

How difficult is for you to move things from Fab in to the real world - meeting them etc?

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48 weeks ago

I find it quite easy to find someone I like. It’s a difficult to read whether I think we would get along. It’s an even worse figuring out whether they like me enough the same way, I think of them to work at the nerve to ask them.

It’s a minefield, O P.

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By *CLM87Woman
48 weeks ago

Derbyshire

It's half of one half a dozen of the other on here.

I think being a woman it's alot easier for obvious reasons... but I've been stood up quite a few times which is always really annoying .

However it's also working out which ones are trying to talk the talk but can't walk the walk when it comes to swinging... especially the clingy ones who think they own you

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By *ea monkeyMan
48 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"On Fab, do you find it easy to find those you're attracted to?

How difficult is for you to move things from Fab in to the real world - meeting them etc?"

No, not at all.

Well, it’s easy to see pretty pictures but taking it from that, gauging if there is mutual interest, getting to know each other, taking the leap to meeting… it’s a minefield

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By *ora the explorerWoman
48 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No. Not at all. But it’s my own fault for being such a fussy arse

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By *amie HantsWoman
48 weeks ago

Atlantis

Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me

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By *heGateKeeperMan
48 weeks ago

Stratford

There are more people I’d want to meet socially than sexually and it’s hard meeting them 1:1 for various reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I've always looked at Fab in the 90% of the time... It's shit. A lack of replies, organising a meet around schedules, finding people you genuinely vibe with. But it's the 10% that keeps me here and gives me hope and makes it feel genuinely worth it when you do find someone you're attracted to, and the sparks fly when you meet and you can't wait to do it all again

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By *irtymCouple
48 weeks ago

Scotland

Nope people exclude us and we found we had change our preferences a bit otherwise would always been on outside looking in

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By *adyBugsWoman
48 weeks ago

cognito

Goodness no Melideary, but I’m a fussy fucker so perhaps I should reconsider my ways…

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

There's a knack to getting me to open up & be comfortable in a friendship. It can happen easily/ quickly, if the other person possesses it, or be nigh on impossible, if they don't.

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By *ags73Man
48 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Nope and ehm nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It’s easy to find someone attractive.

I need a lot more than just initial attraction to actually be into them enough to want to take it further, that’s the difficult part.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
48 weeks ago

Trowbridge

"On Fab, do you find it easy to find those you're attracted to?

How difficult is for you to move things from Fab in to the real world - meeting them etc?"
. I’ve found 2, met about 4, not had sex with any of them

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By *eli OP Woman
48 weeks ago

"I find it quite easy to find someone I like. It’s a difficult to read whether I think we would get along. It’s an even worse figuring out whether they like me enough the same way, I think of them to work at the nerve to ask them.

It’s a minefield, O P.

It sounds like it from your description. Gosh.

Do you find it easier once you've met a person?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think I've ever actively sought to find people. So I don't know the struggle.

People that appeal to me appeal to me regardless of circumstance I think.

Whether it was viable or not I don't think there's ever been a time when there wasn't at least someone in my life I was drawn to that way.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
48 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

No.

Yes. Mostly because I'm hardly available and when I am, guaranteed a kid will come down with a bug

Mrs TMN x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
48 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Whoops, misread! Yes it's difficult to the second part.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
48 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Nope... almost impossible as most of the people I both get on with, and fancy the pants off, are hours and hours away!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

No, I find it very difficult, there's a few people I do find attractive because I've met them in person & 1 or 2 because I've seen enough on the forums to guage their personality.

I need more than a few naked photos, I need a face, a conversation & a personality basically I need to be attracted to the person not their body, a body alone is nothing to me.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

It’s a minefield, O P.

It sounds like it from your description. Gosh.

Do you find it easier once you've met a person?"

Yes. Text only tells one side to someone’s character. Imagine the stuff you can be missing that’s even more attractive if you already fancy them.

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By *eli OP Woman
48 weeks ago

"Easy to move things along. Finding someone to live things along with… very difficult. My inbox is gathering dust. I just seem to be attracting people I’m not attracted to. I’m also thinking I’ll have to look past the 5 mile radius I currently search as there’s not really anyone near me who I want to reach out to. Woe is me "

5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you.

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By *amie HantsWoman
48 weeks ago

Atlantis

5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you.

Wow IS me! So many beautiful people but I’m just not attracted to them. I need a certain level of nonsense and I’m just not getting it.

I have to jump to 10 I was hoping to look around 7 miles. Eurgh.

God really does send her toughest battles to her strongest soldiers

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

5 mile radius. 5. Yes, I think that's a very good idea. Even 15 isn't too far, is it? Woe is you.

Wow IS me! So many beautiful people but I’m just not attracted to them. I need a certain level of nonsense and I’m just not getting it.

I have to jump to 10 I was hoping to look around 7 miles. Eurgh.

God really does send her toughest battles to her strongest soldiers "

That last sentence absolutely sent me

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By *parkle1974Woman
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes and not difficult at all.

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