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"No I haven’t. But I’m working on it. " I’ve had quite a lot of sex compared to some people though. I’m very grateful for that. It’s just not enough | |||
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"No I haven’t. But I’m working on it. I’ve had quite a lot of sex compared to some people though. I’m very grateful for that. It’s just not enough" When is enough, enough? Is it ever really enough? | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex?" I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through." Lots of men are having sex though. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. " Si señora  | |||
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"No I haven’t. But I’m working on it. Work harder then "Yes ma’am | |||
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"No I haven’t. But I’m working on it. I’ve had quite a lot of sex compared to some people though. I’m very grateful for that. It’s just not enough When is enough, enough? Is it ever really enough? " when it’s enough, you just know. I’ve had enough before. I was a very happy man | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. " But as my post you quoted stated, an ever growing number aren't, and the future ramifications of this problem we are yet to fully see. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. But as my post you quoted stated, an ever growing number aren't, and the future ramifications of this problem we are yet to fully see." There shouldn't be any ramifications though. Nobody is entitled to sex. Its not a right. Male, female, NB...anyone. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. But as my post you quoted stated, an ever growing number aren't, and the future ramifications of this problem we are yet to fully see. There shouldn't be any ramifications though. Nobody is entitled to sex. Its not a right. Male, female, NB...anyone. " Good thing there was no suggestion in my post that said such a thing about entitlement then eh? About the ramifications, they're a fact of reality. In this case, men want to be desired, needed, loved, and an ever increasing number are not only going through a drought of sex, they've never had any at all. This will lead to ever increasing frustration amongst an ever growing number of men, and the more those feelings of anger spread and grow, the more problems will happen as a result. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. But as my post you quoted stated, an ever growing number aren't, and the future ramifications of this problem we are yet to fully see. There shouldn't be any ramifications though. Nobody is entitled to sex. Its not a right. Male, female, NB...anyone. Good thing there was no suggestion in my post that said such a thing about entitlement then eh? About the ramifications, they're a fact of reality. In this case, men want to be desired, needed, loved, and an ever increasing number are not only going through a drought of sex, they've never had any at all. This will lead to ever increasing frustration amongst an ever growing number of men, and the more those feelings of anger spread and grow, the more problems will happen as a result. " That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. Most don't go on to do anything negative because they're capable of accepting that some things involve the choices of others and that, to quote Mick Jagger, you can't always get what you want. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? I haven't had sex in longer than I'm comfortable with, but in modern times this is a growing phenomenon amongst men (see the rise of the viciously vilified 'incel' movement), so I don't feel quite so isolated as I otherwise would, it's just one more challenge men have to tough it through. Lots of men are having sex though. But as my post you quoted stated, an ever growing number aren't, and the future ramifications of this problem we are yet to fully see." If lots of men aren't having sex, but women are, who are the women doing the Sex with?  | |||
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"No. I fear no one wants me when I want them. Logistics are a nightmare. Being fussy is limiting and my mojo is playing hide and seek. I think I might be a lost cause. " Hahaha, I have the worlds smallest violin in my hands, can your hear it...? | |||
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"Is this alone? Or with other people?" They both qaulify I guess so your call? | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex?" Definitely not. Born Again! | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex? Definitely not. Born Again! "...lol | |||
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"That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. " You speak about humans innate, natural instinct to be wanted, be desired, belong, as if it's some superfluous little thing which people can give or take, and not the biological imperative which has not only driven the evolution of humankind, but life itself? This is more than a simple, childish 'want' ('Timmy has a lollipop and it's not fair if I don't have one too!!!') it's an ingrained, primal NEED. A healthy, worthwhile society would not only remove the barriers and wedges which diminish and prevent opportunities to do well in the sexual market - because that's what men want, not to be handed their goals, but to have a chance to earn them through - it would actively seek to facilitate those opportunities materialising. Because when men feel trapped, desperate and hopelessly lonely in life, as there is much evidence to suggest is the case in society today, many will lash out in anger and frustration. It's not a matter of whether or not they're right or wrong to do this, it's a simple case of cause and effect. If society as a whole would prefer not to experience the wrath of those men, it would do well to try to understand and work WITH them to overcome their frustrations, rather than worsen them through judgementalism and brow beating. | |||
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"That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. You speak about humans innate, natural instinct to be wanted, be desired, belong, as if it's some superfluous little thing which people can give or take, and not the biological imperative which has not only driven the evolution of humankind, but life itself? This is more than a simple, childish 'want' ('Timmy has a lollipop and it's not fair if I don't have one too!!!') it's an ingrained, primal NEED. A healthy, worthwhile society would not only remove the barriers and wedges which diminish and prevent opportunities to do well in the sexual market - because that's what men want, not to be handed their goals, but to have a chance to earn them through - it would actively seek to facilitate those opportunities materialising. Because when men feel trapped, desperate and hopelessly lonely in life, as there is much evidence to suggest is the case in society today, many will lash out in anger and frustration. It's not a matter of whether or not they're right or wrong to do this, it's a simple case of cause and effect. If society as a whole would prefer not to experience the wrath of those men, it would do well to try to understand and work WITH them to overcome their frustrations, rather than worsen them through judgementalism and brow beating." Remind me again, who are women doing the Sex with, if not with men? Has lesbianism become so widespread? | |||
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"That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. You speak about humans innate, natural instinct to be wanted, be desired, belong, as if it's some superfluous little thing which people can give or take, and not the biological imperative which has not only driven the evolution of humankind, but life itself? This is more than a simple, childish 'want' ('Timmy has a lollipop and it's not fair if I don't have one too!!!') it's an ingrained, primal NEED. A healthy, worthwhile society would not only remove the barriers and wedges which diminish and prevent opportunities to do well in the sexual market - because that's what men want, not to be handed their goals, but to have a chance to earn them through - it would actively seek to facilitate those opportunities materialising. Because when men feel trapped, desperate and hopelessly lonely in life, as there is much evidence to suggest is the case in society today, many will lash out in anger and frustration. It's not a matter of whether or not they're right or wrong to do this, it's a simple case of cause and effect. If society as a whole would prefer not to experience the wrath of those men, it would do well to try to understand and work WITH them to overcome their frustrations, rather than worsen them through judgementalism and brow beating. Remind me again, who are women doing the Sex with, if not with men? Has lesbianism become so widespread? "There was a poll result released a few years ago, it highlighted some statistics from a well known hook up site. Along the lines of 80% of it's female users were only meeting the top 20% of the men, meaning that 1 in 5 men was having sex with 4 out of 5 women. Which leaves 4 out of 5 men competing for the 1 woman who wasn't up to the standards of those 1 in 5 guys, and similar results were shown from a number of large dating sites too. Try taking a moment to sit and think about the things I write sometimes rather than jerking your knees in response to them. | |||
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"That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. You speak about humans innate, natural instinct to be wanted, be desired, belong, as if it's some superfluous little thing which people can give or take, and not the biological imperative which has not only driven the evolution of humankind, but life itself? This is more than a simple, childish 'want' ('Timmy has a lollipop and it's not fair if I don't have one too!!!') it's an ingrained, primal NEED. A healthy, worthwhile society would not only remove the barriers and wedges which diminish and prevent opportunities to do well in the sexual market - because that's what men want, not to be handed their goals, but to have a chance to earn them through - it would actively seek to facilitate those opportunities materialising. Because when men feel trapped, desperate and hopelessly lonely in life, as there is much evidence to suggest is the case in society today, many will lash out in anger and frustration. It's not a matter of whether or not they're right or wrong to do this, it's a simple case of cause and effect. If society as a whole would prefer not to experience the wrath of those men, it would do well to try to understand and work WITH them to overcome their frustrations, rather than worsen them through judgementalism and brow beating. Remind me again, who are women doing the Sex with, if not with men? Has lesbianism become so widespread?
There was a poll result released a few years ago, it highlighted some statistics from a well known hook up site.
Along the lines of 80% of it's female users were only meeting the top 20% of the men, meaning that 1 in 5 men was having sex with 4 out of 5 women.
Which leaves 4 out of 5 men competing for the 1 woman who wasn't up to the standards of those 1 in 5 guys, and similar results were shown from a number of large dating sites too.
Try taking a moment to sit and think about the things I write sometimes rather than jerking your knees in response to them."Wrath? 
I'm curious as to why you feel society is responsible for removing perceived barriers?
Are we not all responsible for our own actions in society? Could these barriers not be as much to do with the views, behaviour and actions of some as much as any external influences?
Cause and effect?
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"That definitely sounds like a 'them' problem and not anyone else's. There may have been no mention of entitlement, but if none is felt then surely there would be no potential ramifications? People want lots of things in life. They don't and won't always get them. You speak about humans innate, natural instinct to be wanted, be desired, belong, as if it's some superfluous little thing which people can give or take, and not the biological imperative which has not only driven the evolution of humankind, but life itself? This is more than a simple, childish 'want' ('Timmy has a lollipop and it's not fair if I don't have one too!!!') it's an ingrained, primal NEED. A healthy, worthwhile society would not only remove the barriers and wedges which diminish and prevent opportunities to do well in the sexual market - because that's what men want, not to be handed their goals, but to have a chance to earn them through - it would actively seek to facilitate those opportunities materialising. Because when men feel trapped, desperate and hopelessly lonely in life, as there is much evidence to suggest is the case in society today, many will lash out in anger and frustration. It's not a matter of whether or not they're right or wrong to do this, it's a simple case of cause and effect. If society as a whole would prefer not to experience the wrath of those men, it would do well to try to understand and work WITH them to overcome their frustrations, rather than worsen them through judgementalism and brow beating. Remind me again, who are women doing the Sex with, if not with men? Has lesbianism become so widespread?
There was a poll result released a few years ago, it highlighted some statistics from a well known hook up site.
Along the lines of 80% of it's female users were only meeting the top 20% of the men, meaning that 1 in 5 men was having sex with 4 out of 5 women.
Which leaves 4 out of 5 men competing for the 1 woman who wasn't up to the standards of those 1 in 5 guys, and similar results were shown from a number of large dating sites too.
Try taking a moment to sit and think about the things I write sometimes rather than jerking your knees in response to them."I don't jerk my knees. One of them doesn't work anyway | |||
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"Wrath? "Yep. I previously outlined the spiritual importance of a man being properly integrated into the world and society by feeling a sense of emotional well being through belonging. If his emotions are not properly satisfied in this way, it's natural that stress and depression may begin to set in, leading to feelings of resentment which may be turned in or outward. This isn't a new or particularly unusual phenomenon, to use the old African proverb 'A child shunned by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth' "I'm curious as to why you feel society is responsible for removing perceived barriers?" Because any society which seeks to function properly will actively attempt to make those within it suitably comfortable so as to contribute productively toward it. It's the same as the relationship between a machine and it's parts, nothing is going to run smoothly unless space is properly allocated for the gears and springs to do what they were designed for. " Are we not all responsible for our own actions in society? Could these barriers not be as much to do with the views, behaviour and actions of some as much as any external influences?" That's like continually throwing more balls at a juggler them saying it's his fault when he drops them. If you can see he's already doing his best and struggling, you seek to take some from him and lighten his burden, and so allow him to continue fulfilling his purpose. | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex?" I haven’t had any yet. I work to hard so need to change that  | |||
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"Wrath?
Yep. I previously outlined the spiritual importance of a man being properly integrated into the world and society by feeling a sense of emotional well being through belonging. If his emotions are not properly satisfied in this way, it's natural that stress and depression may begin to set in, leading to feelings of resentment which may be turned in or outward.
This isn't a new or particularly unusual phenomenon, to use the old African proverb
'A child shunned by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth'
I'm curious as to why you feel society is responsible for removing perceived barriers?
Because any society which seeks to function properly will actively attempt to make those within it suitably comfortable so as to contribute productively toward it. It's the same as the relationship between a machine and it's parts, nothing is going to run smoothly unless space is properly allocated for the gears and springs to do what they were designed for.
Are we not all responsible for our own actions in society? Could these barriers not be as much to do with the views, behaviour and actions of some as much as any external influences?
That's like continually throwing more balls at a juggler them saying it's his fault when he drops them. If you can see he's already doing his best and struggling, you seek to take some from him and lighten his burden, and so allow him to continue fulfilling his purpose."Sorry, but nothing I've just read convinces me that I was wrong to use the word entitlement earlier. Maybe it's just me...... | |||
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"No I haven’t. But I’m working on it. I’ve had quite a lot of sex compared to some people though. I’m very grateful for that. It’s just not enough" That's much how I feel. | |||
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"Wrath?
Yep. I previously outlined the spiritual importance of a man being properly integrated into the world and society by feeling a sense of emotional well being through belonging. If his emotions are not properly satisfied in this way, it's natural that stress and depression may begin to set in, leading to feelings of resentment which may be turned in or outward.
This isn't a new or particularly unusual phenomenon, to use the old African proverb
'A child shunned by the village will burn it down to feel it's warmth'
I'm curious as to why you feel society is responsible for removing perceived barriers?
Because any society which seeks to function properly will actively attempt to make those within it suitably comfortable so as to contribute productively toward it. It's the same as the relationship between a machine and it's parts, nothing is going to run smoothly unless space is properly allocated for the gears and springs to do what they were designed for.
Are we not all responsible for our own actions in society? Could these barriers not be as much to do with the views, behaviour and actions of some as much as any external influences?
That's like continually throwing more balls at a juggler them saying it's his fault when he drops them. If you can see he's already doing his best and struggling, you seek to take some from him and lighten his burden, and so allow him to continue fulfilling his purpose.
Sorry, but nothing I've just read convinces me that I was wrong to use the word entitlement earlier.
Maybe it's just me...... "Probably, you have an apparent attachment to existing power structures which highlights an inability to think outside of them, and likely an impotence in opposing them even if you could. You oversimplify challenges to this status quo as means to make yourself feel more at ease in the resultant insecurities. | |||
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"Daily since August so I'd say definitely doing ok" What the hell!! How hasn't this been shared with the cunties!! | |||
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"Have you had enough sex? What is enough sex?" No And…. I’m trying to find out. | |||
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"Daily since August so I'd say definitely doing ok" Jammy sod lol, lucky lady  | |||
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"Daily since August so I'd say definitely doing ok What the hell!! How hasn't this been shared with the cunties!! " I'm sorry I thought you knew | |||
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