FabSwingers.com forum: 1st meet tonight need a little help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As title;

Does everyone get nervous? This is with someone not on the site.

Last time a met someone was 17 yrs ago, we got married

That's not what I'm looking for obviously, but need a few pointers please?

How do you greet? don't straight in for the bj lol.

Excited.com

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Where are you meeting? Pub/hotel? X

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Nr Biggleswade

I usually take Mum with me that breaks the ice...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..

Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.

Have fun, that is after all what this is all about

He will probably be as nervous as you are...

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..

Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.

Have fun, that is after all what this is all about

He will probably be as nervous as you are..."

Oh and Good luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a meet or a date?

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

Have a great time and let it happen naturally - you both know what you are there for x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it a meet or a date?

A meet and see what happens. Going for a drink first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a lovely time and once you've chatted the nerves will go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually take Mum with me that breaks the ice..."

My mum would prob have heart failure if she knew!

I was brought up catholic, I consider this rebelling

Really am excited.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Just my advice....look your best..feel your best, that will come across..

Go with no expectations and you should be surprised.

Have fun, that is after all what this is all about

He will probably be as nervous as you are...

Oh and Good luck..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a meet or a date?

A meet and see what happens. Going for a drink first!

Yeah I went for one of those and she downed my drink and said lets go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How exciting.

Just act confident, even if you don't feel it. Don't drink to much to settle your nerves and most of all enjoy it and have a good time.

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few, and meeting a guy tonight.. I still get nervous. The day i stop being nervous is the day i'll stop meeting guys!!

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

I've only had a few meets but get incredibly nervous. It goes once we start chatting. Have a fab time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you guys n girls

I will do my best

Off to look at the undie draw

Shag a hoy!

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Be safe...xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Be safe...xxx"

Thanks I will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Not from site?

Do you know him then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous all the time but as soon as i start talking im ok.

Good luck drink or coffee get talking you will be fine x

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

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By *oddamnCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

"Thank you guys n girls

I will do my best

Off to look at the undie draw

Shag a hoy! "

Deciding what underwear rather than what outfit bodes well! Try and relax and say hello before the blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

Look into my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

Look into my eyes

Scared now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

Look into my eyes

I am never eating a Mc D's!!! So don't try to hypnotise me in to

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

Look into my eyes

Scared now

Oops I looked in the mirror. Back in a jiffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once those butterflies have taken wing, and flown away, you'll be fine

There's nothing worse than that wait, you're at the venue, twiddling your fingers, but sitting down together, overcoming any initial awkwardness and relaxing will lead to an enjoyable evening

Just don't have one too many Duth Courage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not from site?

Do you know him then?

No! Totally fallen into this accidentally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just don't have one too many Duth Courage

Not drinking full stop. Need full awareness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best of luck and just relax and enjoy and it will come naturally.

Hopefully not prematurely

How does a woman come prematurely Ryan?

Has it never happened to you?

Look into my eyes

Scared now

Oops I looked in the mirror. Back in a jiffy

Have you scared yourself again

Best put the paper bag back on

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Thank you guys n girls

I will do my best

Off to look at the undie draw

Shag a hoy! "

Good luck

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By *hunderstarCouple
over a year ago

hereford

One of the things I love about this site - the support from each other.

I really hope you have fun and enjoy.

Will you come back tomorrow and tell us how it went?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves and worrying are like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but doesn't really get you anywhere. Just go in there with the confidence of George Bush on cocaine.

He's probably more nervous than you and just have a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a meet or a date?

A meet and see what happens. Going for a drink first!

So a drink is a date , I suggest a place that is really loud so you can't speak (or mess it up by saying something stupid) my first dates were always at the gay bar on cabaret night, or a live band. Absolute guaranteed shag if cabaret was on ,

I would say very little and always eye up other girls , and say hello to them makes the date jealous

One word of advice never ask where you think this is going , if you are worried choose a pub with a back door and A taxi rank nearby so you can make a quick exit

And most importantly my sex life with random women' was much better before I got attached and started swinging

I am not lying here I used to have a day to page diary then when I met Paula it went to week to _iew, now i have a month per _iew

Anyway good luck and remember guys like girls that play hard to get unless the guy your after is hard to get then that doesn't work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One of the things I love about this site - the support from each other.

I really hope you have fun and enjoy.

Will you come back tomorrow and tell us how it went? "

Yes I will!

Totally thanks for the support

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Not from site?

Do you know him then?

No! Totally fallen into this accidentally "

Im sure you will have a damn good night

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not from site?

Do you know him then?

No! Totally fallen into this accidentally

Im sure you will have a damn good night

She hasn't posted for 2 hours. I think she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way i look at it is that its more exictment than nerves but its natural and to be expected once you get talking there will be only one thing on your mind!!......what the weathers like outside

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My reply is short!

Last minute cancellation

But another meet being arranged same guy. Feel a bit happier now, as think it wasn't planned properly was meeting him quite late and somewhere I wasn't too comfortable - so meeting next week in the day for a coffee and see how we get on.

Again thanks for your support.

My night was not wasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually take Mum with me that breaks the ice...

My mum would prob have heart failure if she knew!

I was brought up catholic, I consider this rebelling

Really am excited. "

Haha u go girl! We've also got our first meet in about a year tonight I'm also nervous yet excited! Lol xx

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