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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " We only stay for you Em... Mr | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " In a word? No. | |||
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"Considering that's where the clubs list their events, I'd have no purpose here without them." That's fair, I've seen a few profiles here who say they're only here for event updates /forums | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr " Shush you  | |||
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"Yeah. The forum is only part of it. We use the rest of the site just as much. " I tend to get fed up with it, I reckon I'd have just deleted by now if I didn't use the forum | |||
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"Considering that's where the clubs list their events, I'd have no purpose here without them." I suppose I do check meets and events and have the local (ish) clubs on my hotlist. Guess I should distract myself in other ways. | |||
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"I'd never meet anyone but possibly " They are great for getting a feel for someone's personality and building a better connection, is this why you meet people from them? | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? In a word? No. " You'd get bored? | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? In a word? No. You'd get bored? " No. Not bored. But I'd miss the entertainment and the chats that lead on from forum activities, so would likely seek that out elsewhere. And if I found it, there'd be less motivation to use something else. I've always spent more time in this part of the site than using any other, pretty much since day one.  | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " No. | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " It's about the only reason I stay | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you "I know you've missed me
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"I'd never meet anyone but possibly They are great for getting a feel for someone's personality and building a better connection, is this why you meet people from them? " Over the years it's definitely helped. Plus my inbox is just too much effort sometimes. Here I've got a better idea of people so it makes me more likely to want to open messages from them. I guess I've been lucky | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest " They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest " You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " I would probably still be on the site, but probably only to scan who was online and then go elsewhere or the chat rooms. | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? We only stay for you Em... Mr Shush you
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? " Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 " Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr | |||
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" They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 " Well if it means anything, I see your posts and I think you're lovely. | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr " And people compare you to their mother | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr And people compare you to their mother "Aye but my mother is fit, she has to be she had me
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " No I've stayed for friends and past the time on forums as had totally give up on actually meeting someone would make a true conection with . then 6 mth ago A miracle. Happen I actually found that connection and still together .but stay to speak with friends and forums . | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr " Ooo no just bs politicals that’s all | |||
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"Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down well So never ventured back again From 2013- till C hit I used the place as instashag when I got the ich did leave for a period in 2018- till the mid 2019 Re joined and then C hit place didn’t have a purpose for me again Was tempted to leave but decided to give the forums ago went ok Till I came across all the bs and politics off the place the none incluideness The bs about make a effort Tryed to attend and bring this life style in to furtishon But found the bs people a spout is nonsense About get yourself to socials and all that tryed was denied 2x Gave completely up on this place really Just hang around to P them off to be honest They say make a effort look at ever single post I make the biggest effort around here it’s funny to be honest You seem to get on well in the forums now though, from an outside perspective. Do you find it more inclusive now? Nope not a all green arrow apart from this one and a contagion with bad nana last night ever single post has been over looked / skipped that’s a 2/30 Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr And people compare you to their mother "My hole thing is interest if people don’t show it they aren’t going to get far The minute they show none they go on a no list and never come off it I found what I bring to the table a long time ago | |||
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"Sad part is I’ve just discovered forums … I used to skip past it everyday "It took me a few months to find it, once you open it you get sucked in | |||
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"Sad part is I’ve just discovered forums … I used to skip past it everyday
It took me a few months to find it, once you open it you get sucked in "Left herself wide open for an innuendo right there | |||
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"Sad part is I’ve just discovered forums … I used to skip past it everyday
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Left herself wide open for an innuendo right there "They're obviously not on form tonight | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " Nope! The funny thing is, I spent years using the site to find people and had no idea the forums existed. Now it’s all I’m here for. I’ve completely swapped my focus and needs and, for the time being, I’m very happy chatting to you mad perverts almost every day. I’ll disappear soon though. Use me while you can!! | |||
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"Yes. Lounge is a lot of fun a lot of the time (although I think most of us benefit from a little break sometimes), but most of my FAB use 2016-2020 and 2023-now has been driven by direct messaging profiles unlinked to Forum presence. " That’s a stark difference to my experience which is filled with nothing but unread/deleted messages. So sadly it lost its appeal a long time ago. | |||
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"That’s a stark difference to my experience which is filled with nothing but unread/deleted messages. So sadly it lost its appeal a long time ago. Hard to say really maybe if there wasn’t a forum I would have gave this life up and maybe found someone vinlla and went conventional What I mean by that is I tryed the forums years ago different place my spelling didn’t go down Welcome to the forums where all are unwelcome but unfortunately not all are included.... Mr " Hit the nail, on the head and in answer to the ops question. No. The one couple I did manage to strike up a reasonably long lasting dialogue with. Did a runner.  | |||
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"Yes. Lounge is a lot of fun a lot of the time (although I think most of us benefit from a little break sometimes), but most of my FAB use 2016-2020 and 2023-now has been driven by direct messaging profiles unlinked to Forum presence. That’s a stark difference to my experience which is filled with nothing but unread/deleted messages. So sadly it lost its appeal a long time ago. " I think my work background (sales - conquesting, and psychology) made that fairly easy to deal with, but without that I'd probably feel similar Woody x | |||
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"I'd agree with the Mr we'd have probably left a while ago, I like the forums and social events. Mrs " Same.. without the social side, no I'd have left. | |||
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"Do you think you'd stay on here as long as you have if there were no forums? " Possibly not, time on here would be minimal if the forums didn’t exist | |||
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