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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok here's a question - most posts on here ask a genuine question or pose an issue that sparks some kind of debate, fair enough. But how much of the average OP's motivation is simply to air that particular topic, and how much is to use it as a way to raise their profile, get noticed, maybe make a connection with someone that might lead to a little bedroom action?

see what I did there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post when I wasn't to ask a question or I'm bored lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

same question goes for replies to posts too, of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply as I'm nosy or interested in the subject and I post because I've a question to ask I'm not on the forums to pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a post is a post..if it gets attraction that leads to a shag fair enough

dunno why my football and gaming threads dont get me much shags...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here's a question - most posts on here ask a genuine question or pose an issue that sparks some kind of debate, fair enough. But how much of the average OP's motivation is simply to air that particular topic, and how much is to use it as a way to raise their profile, get noticed, maybe make a connection with someone that might lead to a little bedroom action?

see what I did there? "

Very clever

What would have been better though is if you'd posted a thread titled 'RIESENS for posting' where anyone who contributes to the thread is rewarded with chewable chocolates.

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I reply as I'm nosy or interested in the subject and I post because I've a question to ask I'm not on the forums to pull "
me 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok here's a question - most posts on here ask a genuine question or pose an issue that sparks some kind of debate, fair enough. But how much of the average OP's motivation is simply to air that particular topic, and how much is to use it as a way to raise their profile, get noticed, maybe make a connection with someone that might lead to a little bedroom action?

see what I did there?

Very clever

What would have been better though is if you'd posted a thread titled 'RIESENS for posting' where anyone who contributes to the thread is rewarded with chewable chocolates."

nice work

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I post as I see something that interests me. Certainly not a look at me reason xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To show off my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I post as I see something that interests me. Certainly not a look at me reason xx"

couldnt help but lookNfab lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I post as I see something that interests me. Certainly not a look at me reason xx

couldnt help but lookNfab lol"

me too - so that worked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post when im bored out of my brain and have nothing else to do.........like now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination. Some are to get others perspectives, others are simply to join in. You can't complain of no messages or interest if you yourself never make an effort and join in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post to ask a question as people respond very quickly on here ..........

I post to entertain ............

I post to answer questions ..............

I don't post on the hope that someone looks at me .............. and don't expect anything to come from someone noticing me in the forums apart from the answers I sometimes need lol

Oh and I post cos I love singing ........ oooooooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I post to stalk Minxie....

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Recently I have seen a lot more 'look at me' posts.

I post because I love a good debate and enjoy the _iews of many here (and their pics too)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

as ive had my profile hidden all year dont think my posts could be classed as look at me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently I have seen a lot more 'look at me' posts.

I post because I love a good debate and enjoy the _iews of many here (and their pics too)

"
Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately, I find I post an original thread when I encounter an 'Is it me?' moment.

It may have come from a conversation privately with someone on here, from a meet, from anywhere to be honest.

Whether I get one reply, or it ends up in 'thread closed - got to big', having a group of people who are (generally) unknown to me and each other giving a completely objective opinion, light hearted or serious, helps me get _iew what prompted the thread in the first place more clearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start threads when I'm bored with the others, but they're usually too boring for others to bother responding to, so not that effective as a boredom recipe.

I'm going to start resurrecting really old threads instead..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently I have seen a lot more 'look at me' posts.

I post because I love a good debate and enjoy the _iews of many here (and their pics too)

Same here "

My my my, DeeLilah - I'd love a good debate with you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I post as I see something that interests me. Certainly not a look at me reason xx"

Same here and to add a little amusement and bemusement to proceedings. I like people watching and am interested in people so am on here to sort of get to know people a bit too. I don't have much opportunity off here to socialise so it's quite good for that. If it leads to someone looking at my profile and thinking 'wow' then that's an added bonus not the main reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good debate, the look at me threads, some make me laugh, especially the replies !!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i love the debate, the banter and the community feel on the forums, if someone notices me i`m very flattered and i hope i reciprocate the favour. if it leads further thats all good too

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good laugh

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Probably already answered it. But if it intetests me. Dissapoints me or makes me laugh at what has been posted.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I post on things that interest me...or I can be in a random mood and post random stuff...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't see the forums as a way of connecting for meets. I almost see it as a completely different site. Strange as that may seem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To show off my pants "

except you seem to have forgotten to put them on

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