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Just rang my mum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

1st of march lost my mum , then day of her funeral dad passed away,weve had lots and lots of kind messages and prayers and im doing great thanks to everyone , but ive just picked up the phone ,rang mum's house to see if she wants anything from asda then turned to mark and said she must be out,very wierd,mark just gave me a look that made me think oh yeah i forgot lol,feel silly now

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Don't feel silly. We've all done it.

Take one day at a time and remember that they live on through you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to my mum most days/weeks and she been dead for over 20 years - i miss her more now than ever.... but at least we have fond memories... my thoughts are with you

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks


"1st of march lost my mum , then day of her funeral dad passed away,weve had lots and lots of kind messages and prayers and im doing great thanks to everyone , but ive just picked up the phone ,rang mum's house to see if she wants anything from asda then turned to mark and said she must be out,very wierd,mark just gave me a look that made me think oh yeah i forgot lol,feel silly now "
Don't feel silly I lost my mum 10 yrs ago, the amount of times I rang her mobile was unbelievable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness that just made me cry. You poor thing losing both so close together. They obviously couldn't bare to be apart. Hugs to you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks xx

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It show how much you love her and will always do, even if she is no longer there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My deepest sympathies to you. This post helps to rebalance the attitude of some on this site who show scant concern for the feelings of others.

I hope you will feel better soon, but you will never stop wishing you could pick up a phone and call them. Mine died over 20 years ago and there are often times I need to speak to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Easily done-((((HUGS))))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry hun I lost my mum 26 years ago but she still lives on in thoughts and memories don't feel silly xx

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

I talk to my dad every day. Been gone for 12 years, thoughts are with you xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Im so sorry you lost both your parents so recently. My Mum passed away 2006 I still find myself thinking Oh must ring and say there is a program on telly she should watch. silly things really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what a terrible shame that you lost both your parents so close together, time is a great healer and it is understandable what you did.

you will learn to live with your loss but also you will never forget, which you will not want to.

be strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Ali, its very early days, youve nothing to feel silly about. Youve had so much to deal with lately. Take one day at a time.

Your comments brought a tear to my eye, big hugs, xxxxx

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

If it makes you feel any less silly I still do it twenty years on. Just remember a life is not over until every life it has touched is gone, live your life and remember them. Big hugs and kisses for your lose.

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By *ucyhenry69Couple
over a year ago

Hampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the only to do this. Don't worry.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks everyone,dont feel so daft now xxxx

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By *edbagioMan
over a year ago

ripon

in one way it was nice to feel;

normal as in the way things used to be.

as we know now lose some one close and your life changes forever.

don't feel silly at all

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I rang my Mum's landline number a few years after she died, to tell her something and BT had re-issued the number. A lady answered and I realised what I had done and burst into tears. She was so sweet and understanding.

It really is early days, a saying is true, no one ever really dies whilst they are still in your thoughts

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A couple of my friends who are maternal in a similar way to my mum recognise that lost look i have on days when i feel the gap badly and just quietly give me a mummy hug. I even once managed to sit on the lap of my size 8 friend on one particularly bad day (important a size 14! )

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