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How important is a face picture?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it?

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By *aizyWoman
47 weeks ago

west midlands

I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!

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By *WB85Man
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire

For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Very important.

I send it to profiles that are photo verified only and if their profile meets what I’m looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It’s so important! I won’t entertain inbox messages with someone who isn’t willing to show me their face!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back! "

But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

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I don’t mind if they don’t have it in the profile but I’d expect one in return if they wanted to continue chatting

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By *layfullsamMan
47 weeks ago

Solihull

Send it when asked which is if asked for in a verified profile or during conversation if asked and it’s going ok

Tempted to delay but I’d rather know early on if I’m not for them

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By *atdad101Man
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
47 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

It's got to happen at some stage. A face is very important to me. It's when it occurs in the conversation that is the hardest part.

You don't want to overly invest, then the picture comes and you have to either apply the brakes gently (some whack the handbrake on) or touch the throttle and hope they like yours.

In general I send first but to be honest I'm really fussy in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I think it’s important to have that initial attraction to someone if you’re gonna meet them.

I send it if they ask in their bio or if they mention it.

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By *ornycougaWoman
47 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction "

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I normally will exchange face pics within the first 4 or 5 messages over and back. I won’t send it blind in a first message and if they are insisting on it in the first message then I just won’t message at all.

Everyone has their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"It's got to happen at some stage. A face is very important to me. It's when it occurs in the conversation that is the hardest part.

You don't want to overly invest, then the picture comes and you have to either apply the brakes gently (some whack the handbrake on) or touch the throttle and hope they like yours.

In general I send first but to be honest I'm really fussy in the first place."

The when is the hardest bit when it’s someone from say the forums. If it’s an approach from search then first message is the way to go

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By *aizyWoman
47 weeks ago

west midlands


"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!

But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person "

It always happens at some point, I'm just in no rush!

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By *ickawitchCouple
47 weeks ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We think it’s important. Obviously keep them hidden on ‘friends only’ but we never meet a silhouette.

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Important. I like to get a sense of a person first - I know it's a privacy issue and no face will make up for my view of a personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately! "

What are prawns? Ugly people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!

But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person

It always happens at some point, I'm just in no rush! "

Daizy, your face is lovely. I want to kiss it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Important. I like to get a sense of a person first - I know it's a privacy issue and no face will make up for my view of a personality."

Do you ever send first?

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Important. I like to get a sense of a person first - I know it's a privacy issue and no face will make up for my view of a personality.

Do you ever send first?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I normally will exchange face pics within the first 4 or 5 messages over and back. I won’t send it blind in a first message and if they are insisting on it in the first message then I just won’t message at all.

Everyone has their preferences.

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Yeah I get you

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By *ornycougaWoman
47 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?"

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "

I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know.

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away

I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know. "

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away

I agree with you then. I like faces but … yeah. You know.

Sorry "

Forgiven x

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I send one in a first message. I feel I'm doing my bit for home safety. They can pin it to the door to keep the bailiffs away

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By *amie HantsWoman
47 weeks ago

Atlantis

Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me."

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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Important.

I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it.

I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one. "

Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Important.

I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it.

I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby."

Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
47 weeks ago

Essex


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "

I’m keeping this one!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I send one in a first message. I feel I'm doing my bit for home safety. They can pin it to the door to keep the bailiffs away "

Fife!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I don't send first in case I get another weirdo following me home after I decided I didn't want to meet him.

I know I'm not a stalker or trouble maker, I don't know if they are, or not.

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By *amie HantsWoman
47 weeks ago

Atlantis


"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one.

Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that "

Send better messages then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I don't send first in case I get another weirdo following me home after I decided I didn't want to meet him.

I know I'm not a stalker or trouble maker, I don't know if they are, or not."

How do they know you’re not?

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By *andPextraCouple
47 weeks ago

North West


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

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Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one.

Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that

Send better messages then "

I literally set you up for a ‘charge it to the game’ message.

Fgs

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna "

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

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By *a LunaWoman
47 weeks ago

South Wales

Important. Not for perving reasons but I like to see how someone looks as it makes messages easier to read as more personal.

Plus you can see if they have a mischievous twinkle in their eye, so know if they are tongue in cheek or just a twerp.

I send ,one. I don’t like sending spontaneous pics as 9/10 times I look like shit and require a bit of hair brushing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is "

They’re usually women so I’d imagine they get lots of face pictures sent to them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree "

Guess I’m going to have to ride out

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
47 weeks ago

Preston


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is "

Absolutely this x

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By *amie HantsWoman
47 weeks ago

Atlantis


"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one.

Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that

Charge it to the game.

I literally set you up for a ‘charge it to the game’ message.

Fgs "

Thank you for making me cooler. Please see revised

Damnit!

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By *eliWoman
47 weeks ago

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"Important.

I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it.

I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby.

Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it"

I do like your face Pickle. There's potential.

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By *mie subCDTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Doncaster

I do like to see who I’m meeting really happy to share mine and any pics of me think others should do the same

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"Important. Not for perving reasons but I like to see how someone looks as it makes messages easier to read as more personal.

Plus you can see if they have a mischievous twinkle in their eye, so know if they are tongue in cheek or just a twerp.

I send ,one. I don’t like sending spontaneous pics as 9/10 times I look like shit and require a bit of hair brushing."

I've seen your luscious, bewitching Welsh loveliness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Super important. If I get a message I like, I’ll send it straight away and hope they return one.

Rude that you’ve never sent me one. Just deeped that

Charge it to the game.

Fgs

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I’m doing all the hard work here I swear.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Important.

I like a face that makes me want to kiss/sit on it.

I don't mind sending mine first, it's okay. Not too shabby.

Meli please sit on my face. I’m not even capping I’m into it

I do like your face Pickle. There's potential."

Ngl, when I’m looking my best, my face is decent. Would recommend kissing it

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

Guess I’m going to have to ride out"

Good job I have a pretty face, eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I do like to see who I’m meeting really happy to share mine and any pics of me think others should do the same "

I would consider a blind date. Just not from fab. Too many prawns said one lady above

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

Guess I’m going to have to ride out

Good job I have a pretty face, eh "

It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London

I send a be real pic if asked, and serve them right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

Guess I’m going to have to ride out

Good job I have a pretty face, eh "

You do have a pretty face.

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By *ad NannaWoman
47 weeks ago

East London


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

Guess I’m going to have to ride out

Good job I have a pretty face, eh

It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too "

I'm nice like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I send a be real pic if asked, and serve them right "

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By *ife NinjaMan
47 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"I have to be attracted to the face, but I can become more attracted after talking to them.

It's important to me to show how fat I am, so people who don't like obese women don't accidentally message me.

Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am.

My GP would agree

Guess I’m going to have to ride out

Good job I have a pretty face, eh

It's a nice face. You bought me a drink too

I'm nice like that "

Yep. A right good laugh

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By *eyond PurityCouple
47 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

If the chats going well then we want to see face pics sooner rather than later.

Nothing worse than building a connection and then the face pics come in and you don’t fancy them or they don’t fancy you, so prefer to get them done early.

We had a couple who wanted us to meet them without pics …no thanks.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"If the chats going well then we want to see face pics sooner rather than later.

Nothing worse than building a connection and then the face pics come in and you don’t fancy them or they don’t fancy you, so prefer to get them done early.

We had a couple who wanted us to meet them without pics …no thanks.

K"

This, get it out of the way ASAP.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
47 weeks ago

Reading

I put mine on my profile.

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
47 weeks ago

south coast IOW

I like a face pic early on and do send one back. As others have said if there is no attraction id rather know. Though i also agree that attraction can build as i get to know someone who i wouldn't at first glance fancy so while its very important it is to build a picture. A great face means nothing if you cant hold a conversation.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen

There are face pics on our friends only and I will send to the odd few people I likes if they wish to see.

Don't mind sending if asked for really

MrsAbz

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West

Very important. And I'll only send once I get good vibes from the other party. We do sometimes partake in FPF but selectively.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
47 weeks ago

ashford

The most important thing! Allways have up to date ones of myself! One in first message is preferable! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"There are face pics on our friends only and I will send to the odd few people I likes if they wish to see.

Don't mind sending if asked for really

MrsAbz"

They’re in there. Ready to be whipped out on message. Nice

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need. "

I’ll send you mine if you send me yours

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By *mmaleiaWoman
47 weeks ago

Trowbridge

If I’m interested in them, within the 1st 3-4 messages, then take it to telegram where it does a slow death after a day or so cause I’m shite at online chatting

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By *bi HaiveMan
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47 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

Absolutely this. Staggering how many people demand that you do, yet don’t have even so much as a photo on their profile. Often wondered how successful that is

Absolutely this x"

Does anyone actually engage with profiles with zero visible pics though?

None at all?

Ever?

*inserts Ryan Reynolds 'But Why?' meme....

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Blind date/meet/social op I believe do not work.. Never go to any social or continue a conversation without a face photo. Important for me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need.

I’ll send you mine if you send me yours"

Haha have you not seen mine. I’m

Sure you have. Shall we be friends Steve!! What a turn up that would be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"If I’m thinking I might meet them then I want to see and show in the first few messages. If it’s just general chat or forum stuff then I don’t show my face. There’s no need.

I’ll send you mine if you send me yours

Haha have you not seen mine. I’m

Sure you have. Shall we be friends Steve!! What a turn up that would be!"

I have seen it! But yes. We’re going to become friends!

Remontada

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Its very important. I don't want to waste my time or someone else's after lengthy time chatting and then eventually see their face only to realise I don't fancy them!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Central

Very impressive to me and I think most of us here. Make your own rules and systems for engaging with others. Few will do blind dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I hate sending them, especially to profiles that demand them with the first message. More often than not, you wont get one back, if you get a message back at all.

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By *ikeSM23Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? "

It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it?

It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return."

Except if they don’t find you attractive b because they won’t send one back in that case

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it."

True. That is one good thing about being a woman on here. The man usually sends first. I wouldn’t like to to be fair.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it."

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault."

Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself.

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By *nnandElleCouple
47 weeks ago

Brackley

Mandatory - we won't meet without exchanging face pics. Non-negotiable.

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By *ookie46Woman
47 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’ll send one when asked

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I hate sending them as I am not that confident about my looks.

But if the profile asks for one I will always send one over..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault."

You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
47 weeks ago

Liverpool

Very.

We absolutely would not meet anyone without mutual face pic swapping.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
47 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I have a face pic on my profile and expect one within a couple of messages. I'm never going to meet someone without having seen their face pic, and a reluctance to send it suggests to me that they're not serious about wanting to meet. Plus... not gonna waste my time if there's no obvious attraction

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault.

You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live. "

I only meet guys who are local to where I live or work so it’s a significant risk.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
47 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault.

You can send a face pic and set it to be removed once they’ve seen it. I must say I’ve never once thought oh I won’t send my face pic in case he hunts me down and assaults or stalks me when he has no idea where I actually live.

I only meet guys who are local to where I live or work so it’s a significant risk."

Ah fair enough. I see where you’re coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault.

Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself."

I have mine set to delete once they’ve viewed the message.

It would be great if FAB had a feature where you couldn’t take screenshots with your smartphone like the Pure app. They also had private picture messages that could only be viewed for 5 seconds.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
47 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Pretty important, we like to see who we're talking to. Also the last thing we would want is to get to a point of having lots of being on the cusp of meeting for either party to then find there was no attraction there.

Tinder

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By *ou only live onceMan
47 weeks ago

London

Face pics are essential if it comes to meeting.

Not so important just for chatting off the forum, though it's always nice to have a face to the name and be able to picture who you're talking to, and I do like to see the pics of my 'fanciables', even if meeting is a long shot.

I'm not generally nervous to send mine (Siri, define misplaced confidence), but have very carefully curated my face pic gallery!

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By *ags73Man
47 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Imagine if the shoe was on the other foot on this website, and it was Women who outnumbered men and so the onus was on them to send messages out into the ether first with their face attached to it. Without assurance they'd get a face pic in return, or a message at all for that matter.

I bet they'd have something to say about it.

However, all that said, it is still women who are at far more risk of harm by sharing their face pic.

Even if women outnumbered men here… even if it was harder for women to meet men than the other way around… I still wouldn’t send a face pic first because in wider society women are literally at higher risk of being a victim of crimes such as stalking and sexual assault.

Yeh, all that being said. I've come to the conclusion I'm just not doing it any more. It's really a harmful thing I believe, psychologically, to send a face pic out and not receive one back, or a reply. There can only be so many times you do it, before you believe hurtful things about yourself."

Sending a pic after a request and then absolutely nothing thereafter is a really brutal experience. It’s mortifying but no response is a response and all that.

Agree with what’s said above about it taking a toll.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
47 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I used to have one on my profile so expected one with first message

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
47 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Pretty important, we like to see who we're talking to. Also the last thing we would want is to get to being on the cusp of meeting for either party to then find there was no attraction there.

Tinder "

Had to edit my grammar was awful

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By *adyBugsWoman
47 weeks ago

cognito

Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside

It is important but we never rush as a personality is important also

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By *idnight RamblerMan
47 weeks ago

Pershore


"It is important but we never rush as a personality is important also "

With facial recognition roll-out, posting facial pics online is inadvisable.

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By *ags73Man
47 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "

Swoon.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
47 weeks ago

Worcester


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "

It’s a niche kink.

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By *oxy jWoman
47 weeks ago

somerset

if they message me first then within the first couple of messages or it goes no further i only meet those im sexually attracted too so no pic no chance

i dont chat to anyone neither im only interested in meets via my pms anything else is deleted and or blocked

same with if im not interested its just a str8 block blunt yep but it works and i get no abuse or oh why not

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By *ags73Man
47 weeks ago

glasgow-ish


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

It’s a niche kink."

As long as both as bags on.

Paper bag speed dating look amazing too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway "

Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while

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By *naswingdressWoman
47 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Face pics are essential if it comes to meeting.

Not so important just for chatting off the forum, though it's always nice to have a face to the name and be able to picture who you're talking to, and I do like to see the pics of my 'fanciables', even if meeting is a long shot.

I'm not generally nervous to send mine (Siri, define misplaced confidence), but have very carefully curated my face pic gallery!

"

I know I'm just shit at face pictures and tell people that

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By *adyBugsWoman
47 weeks ago

cognito


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while "

Pffft.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while

Pffft. "

It’s ok. I’m into it

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By *adyBugsWoman
47 weeks ago

cognito


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while

Pffft.

It’s ok. I’m into it"

There will be a hole. For…things

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By *heGateKeeperMan
47 weeks ago

Stratford

I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face

If I get sent a pic I always return them

I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "

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By *hoirCouple
47 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? "

Yes.

C

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face

If I get sent a pic I always return them

I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like "

Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"Unimportant. I’m going to make you wear a paper bag over your face anyway

Wow. I haven’t been called ugly in a while

Pffft.

It’s ok. I’m into it

There will be a hole. For…things "

Fucking in

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I don't send face pictures on fab.

It’s just too risky with my profession.

Im a professional.

Hope you understand.

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands


"I don't send face pictures on fab.

It’s just too risky with my profession.

Im a professional.

Hope you understand."

Totally get this if you're a professional. It's hard enough being a professional

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire

That’s exactly what a professional would say.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
47 weeks ago

Stratford


"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face

If I get sent a pic I always return them

I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like

Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up "

But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face

*pinches your cheeks*

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By *inger_SnapWoman
47 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"If I’m messaging first I’ll send one in the opening message. No point chatting if there’s no attraction

This. I want one in the first message. If I don't get one I'll ask. On the rare occasions I message first, I send. So many prawns on here unfortunately!

What are prawns? Ugly people?

A prawn is a person with a delicious body that you want to devour, but when you just want to chuck the head away "

this is so true

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By *illy IdolMan
47 weeks ago

Midlands


"That’s exactly what a professional would say."

I'm only semi professional. Hence why I only show half a face

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
47 weeks ago

Merseyside


"It is important but we never rush as a personality is important also

With facial recognition roll-out, posting facial pics online is inadvisable."

We won’t post them here for sure! It’s not something we want to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I don't send face pictures on fab.

It’s just too risky with my profession.

Im a professional.

Hope you understand."
totally. TOTALLY!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face

If I get sent a pic I always return them

I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like

Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up

But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face

*pinches your cheeks* "

Alright, Dad

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By *heGateKeeperMan
47 weeks ago

Stratford


"I find the dynamics around it quite weird, like I get it but we openly share our bodies but OMG you can’t see my face

If I get sent a pic I always return them

I find that with a lot of people I just feel a sense of intrigue about what they look like

Some of us fear breaking your phone screen, should our faces pop up

But I’ve met you and I’ve seen your little face

*pinches your cheeks*

Alright, Dad "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
47 weeks ago

North West


"That’s exactly what a professional would say."

Can I ask you a question?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
47 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"That’s exactly what a professional would say.

Can I ask you a question?"

North west.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I generally send one when asked. Part of me hopes they like the convo enough to find me attractive when I send it, but part of me is a bit scared in case they go radio silent after

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By *inger_SnapWoman
47 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

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By *inger_SnapWoman
47 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"I generally send one when asked. Part of me hopes they like the convo enough to find me attractive when I send it, but part of me is a bit scared in case they go radio silent after "

*Tumbleweeeeeed"

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By *olden RatioWoman
47 weeks ago

Buckinghamshire

I'll generally send one after it seems like a conversation is sparking up into something a little more substantial.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
47 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? "

And to answer that yes there's always a bit of fear when sending

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"I generally send one when asked. Part of me hopes they like the convo enough to find me attractive when I send it, but part of me is a bit scared in case they go radio silent after

*Tumbleweeeeeed""

Why would you say such a thing?

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By *orl1971Couple
47 weeks ago

Glasgow

We must be the exception in that we don’t send face pics. We had pics copied and distributed by someone before so we’re ultra careful especially with our jobs. When we did exchange photos you’d sometimes meet for socials and think the person looked different from their face pics. So we place little value in face pics.

Also with reverse image search and facial recognition someone just has to screen grab your pic and find out all about you in vanilla life. Perhaps that tech is not quite there if you don’t use a pic you’ve put elsewhere but it’s close.

Blind date take an hour or so. You’re meeting likeminded people and we’ve always had a nice time even if it did not lead to more.

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By *nnCeeWoman
47 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"Obese? Be fucking for real Nanna

According to someone I said no thank you to today I am."

Ahhhh... the joys!!

I found you interesting/attractive enough to message you in the first place (unless really just chancing my arm), however now you've turned me down, you fell from the very top of the exceedingly tall ugly tree and hit every branch on your way down... (I am in no way a spoilt child throwing every toy out of my pram...)

Personally, I do ask for a face pic, as I don't see the point in wasting either person's time, if one of us isn't interested in the other person's face. You might have the body of an Adonis, but a face like Barry from Eastenders (apologies, Shaun, I'm sure you're a lovely gent); likewise, you may like my body, but think I'm an absolute munter, facially...

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Very.

And that’s all I have to say about that.

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By *ynamicnatureMan
47 weeks ago

Doncaster

As a rule, I will always send a face pic with my intro message.

I would rather know straight off the bat if they are interested or not.

Saves both people's time. I liken it to ripping a plaster off fast v really bloody slowly.

You can't float everyone's boat and that's ok.

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By *quirrel!Man
47 weeks ago

L


"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back! "

You’re beautiful - silly x

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By *iscreetfbMan
47 weeks ago

ask

Face pics is are essential for meeting but happy to chat without one

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By *ikeSM23Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester


"I don't send face pictures on fab.

It’s just too risky with my profession.

Im a professional.

Hope you understand."

Professional suggests elite. Not particularly inclusive if the remaining audience identify as something else!?

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By *ikeSM23Man
47 weeks ago

Manchester


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it?

It’s essential ….. ! I send when asked and do not hesitate. I also expect the same in return.

Except if they don’t find you attractive b because they won’t send one back in that case "

That’s a risk of using any internet based meeting/dating app and doesn’t alter my opinion.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
47 weeks ago

wonderland.


"And when do you send it? Are you hesitant to send it? "
depends what we are doing. Private meet then very important... meeting at a club to see how the night pans out .. less so. As the situation and the click can be more than just the face

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By *hilledcoupleCouple
47 weeks ago

Taunton / London

As a rule we would always share face pics even before a social, not because we are shallow..we might not be your cup of tea.. we have found that a sexy torso or great chat doesn't always mean great face / fanciable ! No doubt that works both ways xx

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By *sWyldWoman
47 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've got no issue in sending mine. I want to know there's an attraction on both sides.

Sometimes there isn't and I would rather not waste anyone's time

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By *hisisntpofMan
47 weeks ago

bristol

You have to see if there is an attraction ,so when both partys are comfortable ,go for it i say

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By *anJenny 181Couple
47 weeks ago

Preston

The last time we sent our face pics the bloke stopped messaging us lol

We go for profiles or people who have sent pics in private a message etc as it is important to have some kind of attraction

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By *uchasGMan
47 weeks ago

Northwest

Best time to send is on a Friday FPF.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

It's all relevant however, those that demand pics. and yet they don't have any on their profile can go and do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I know I'm a minority

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

I like to swap face pics eventually if chatting but annoys me when some men demand them on first message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"I know I'm a minority "

So am I.

#BAME

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

80% of messages are faceless I get and many argue when I tell then to read my profile. The arrogance and lack of effort on here is astounding. To me they are vitally important up front. I am getting to stage where cannot be bothered to check messages as much now

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By *apiomanMan
47 weeks ago

Shipley

Mine are on my profile, but I also send one in a first message.

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By *NewBNWOMan
47 weeks ago

back

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By *NewBNWOMan
47 weeks ago

back


"I've got no issue in sending mine. I want to know there's an attraction on both sides.

Sometimes there isn't and I would rather not waste anyone's time "

This

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By *nelaWoman
47 weeks ago

Kent

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago

Iv got a few on my profile now

I always send if asked as I feel

It’s important both ways, of course most men send sic pics first

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By (user no longer on site)
47 weeks ago


"For me it's very Important, this isn't blind date.

Personally if I've read someone's profile and it gets my attention my intro message has a face pic attached.

It does annoy me however when profiles say that first messages must contain a face pic, yet their profile has no profile pic or public pics.

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I completely agree, it’s often that when I see a profile stating first message must contain a face pic’ and they have NOTHING themselves nor do they send one back in return (rather a picture of their body) it’s annoying.

The exchange of vulnerability is important especially when attempting to develop a relationship with someone

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By *ilth N KinkCouple
47 weeks ago

Gloucester

For us it’s extremely important.

We have our face pics on our profile but understand why others don’t. Personally I’d prefer to see a face pic early on as I’m a very visual person and need to be attracted to potential partners.

Kink (mrs)

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By *restonCouple555Couple
47 weeks ago

preston

This isn't fabgloryholes.com so why be coy?

If we're interested we send one right away so we're not wasting anyone else's time. If one doesn't come back we'll ask, so we're not wasting our own time.

It's also a bit weird how some people are so specific about the conditions that must be met before they'll consider letting you see them. Like, guys, if it would really be such a disaster for someone you know to see you on here, maybe just don't be on here.

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By *smith87Man
47 weeks ago

totton

I send mine with initial message. To show who is messaging them

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen

What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised?

Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face"

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised?

Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face"

MrsAbz"

Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago

Face pics are important. Let’s be real. People have lovely bodies and the faces aren’t giving. It’s sad stuff

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
47 weeks ago

Aberdeen


"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised?

Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face"

MrsAbz

Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you"

Of course, why did you never ask before

MrsAbz

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Chichester

For a meet from here 100% as I won’t meet anyone without a video call first.

In a club environment not so much as it maybe dark / weird lighting and well just the body / outfits / group play leading the front

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"What I've always wondered with those who refuse to send a face pic... are you going to turn up to a meet naked so you can be recognised?

Or risk showing up to a meet and be told at that point "no thanks, you don't have a pretty face"

MrsAbz

Hi. Can I see your face before I travel to see you

Of course, why did you never ask before

MrsAbz"

Too nervous I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
47 weeks ago


"For a meet from here 100% as I won’t meet anyone without a video call first.

In a club environment not so much as it maybe dark / weird lighting and well just the body / outfits / group play leading the front "

I knew I’d like your response

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By *imisugarWoman
47 weeks ago

Rugby

Face picture is really important for me.

Both sides - I want the person to actually like me not just needing to scratch an itch etc.

I don't make a decision to play solely on face, I still do a social to check attraction and chemistry.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
47 weeks ago

Chichester


"For a meet from here 100% as I won’t meet anyone without a video call first.

In a club environment not so much as it maybe dark / weird lighting and well just the body / outfits / group play leading the front

I knew I’d like your response "

I am just blunt and efficient with life

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By *hamrocker23Man
47 weeks ago

Town

Considering I get wayyyy more meets and attention through tinder than here I'd say the face pics are very important lol

Here if a profile piques my attention and the photos are attractive I would generally send a face pic with an opening message.

It is odd when profiles have no photos whatsoever and demand face photos

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By *lamdaddyMan
47 weeks ago

London

Oh it's super important. Doesn't make it less terrifying to send!

I get told often I'm a good looking guy and have hooked up with people who genuinely are wayyy out of my league. But everyone's entitled to their own opinions! I've had it a fair few times people on this site have said no straight after seeing my face, but other times people who asked and are GORGEOUS, I have sent it to them thinking that's the end of that road and they've said its cute

It's important for me I want to kiss that face so I get it x

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By *archelCouple
47 weeks ago

A field somewhere

100% mandatory

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
47 weeks ago

Essex

It used to scare me.

I don’t give a shit these days.

I tend to like people for reasons other than looks. Genuinely. But it is worth checking they do t totally make me want to barf.

I met someone from here for a social fairly recently. We’d been chatting that long we both seem to have forgotten to send face pics

Luckily neither of us recoiled in horror when we met. (And I didn’t walk off with a total stranger)

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By *ot to giggleWoman
47 weeks ago

Coventry


"I hate sending mine, I wait till they send theirs, I never ask for a face pic from someone coz it means I have to send mine back!

But what if you delay and delay… do you just decide you never want to meet that person "

I chat to lots i never seen a face, but if they want to meet, yes definitely

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