FabSwingers.com forum: If you knew then...

By *mily36C OP Woman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

...what you know now, would it have changed anything?

Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Abso-flickin-lutely!! I always used to say no because otherwise I wouldn’t be where I am now. And I’m fairly happy now. But I’ve lived through some shit and made some mistakes (call it life) which I’d gladly swap out.

Thing is, if I’m someone who regularly makes such mistakes, what’s to say I won’t make a whole load more anyway.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would.

I would never have got married when I did x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I’d have chosen a university in a city. And I would have been clearer about boundaries with people at a social.

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By *mie subCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

Think I would of explored my dressing side a lot more younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Would avoid the men I've been involved with.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Honestly - no.

When you start to change things in the past then you are no longer who you currently are. I can live with who I am now - hence no.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Yes. There are some people I would not have met, and some I would have walked away from sooner.

Professionally, I wish I had learned tact a little sooner, but I never shied away from telling anyone to go fuck themselves.. even to the detriment of my career.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?

Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?

No mention of cake

you have changed

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

o o OO o o

The last year of my gramps life I spent a lot of time moping about after a fella I’d had a dalliance with but it was very on/off drama, drama, drama.

If I could, I’d not get involved with him so I could be really present emotionally to enjoy my last year with my gramp. I was there in body, but sometimes I spent a lot of time in my head worrying over the bozo I was dating. And he really wasn’t worth it.

So that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I'd have never gone to school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t change anything which meant I didn’t have my children but I would have definitely chose not to have crossed paths with many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got entirely new ideas about how to fuck everything up so I’d like to give those a try.

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I’d have had more confidence in who I was earlier in life and given less of a shit what people and society thought about things.

Oh and I’d have put money aside for a deposit on a house way earlier

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope x

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By *mmaleiaWoman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I’d force myself to be a lesbian & ignore my body clock

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By *WB85Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We would have started this lifestyle journey when we didn't have children.....it must be bliss not having to think about childcare

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By *mily36C OP Woman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?

No mention of cake

you have changed

will never faulter

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By *mily36C OP Woman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

But we live and learn, so maybe mistakes are part of the course, otherwise we'd not have hindsight

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Interesting there things I'd though I'd change

But I'd I did I wouldnt be here now and found the love of my life

So the answers no.

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By *reative-mindMan
over a year ago

exeter

Not one bit, what happens makes you who you are.

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By *inxy777Woman
over a year ago

essex

If I hadn’t wanted happiness.im sure he would still be here now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’d have known Everton would be consistently shite my whole life I still wouldn’t change a thing.

Up the Toffees!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My life would have been very different. Not sure it would have been better, but different for certain.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

In my head, sure I’d have not got involved with some people or I’d have handled things differently or ended them sooner but…

…ultimately in reality, no.

No matter how hard things might’ve been at times, it shaped me into who I am now and allowed me to meet the incredible people I now have have in my life because of the choices I made at the times I made them.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?

Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?

No life is what we make it

We all mistakes

But it’s part of who we are and what we are

If I could change one thing wish I didn’t start smoking at very young age

Making steps to rectify this

This month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d change a lot of things made loads of mistakes lots of regrets

My main change is like is impossible as would be without my kids, if it was possible to keep my kids exactly the same but change who they with I’d do it in a heartbeat

Other things I wish I’d spent more time with my dad after his cancer diagnosis he was the strongest person I’ll ever know and I convinced myself he would fight it for years but he died within 5 eeeks of diagnosis

Other less serious changes but a house before they shot up, give 18 year old me my mindset I have now towards acquiring wealth and setting self up for easier later life

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Everything is for a reason..

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

London

"I would.

I would never have got married when I did x"

Me neither, are you my ex wife?

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

London

"I’d have had more confidence in who I was earlier in life and given less of a shit what people and society thought about things.

Oh and I’d have put money aside for a deposit on a house way earlier "

This

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’d force myself to be a lesbian & ignore my body clock "

Do you mean your biological clock or do lesbians just have more lie-ins?

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By *ags73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Had reason to look, back but know I can’t do anything.

Had those wishes and thoughts but it is what it is.

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By *are04Man
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Wish I’d explored my bisexuality earlier in life. However, I am grateful for all the sexual experiences I’ve had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably be a bit more confident in myself when I was younger

I was very reserved and timid until late 20s/early 30s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely, quite a lot of it. But then I wouldn't be where I am now which would be a massive shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I would. Couldn't think at first but actually its a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no .... life is great yes sure few ups n downs but got my man and family got a great marriage with a great lifestyle ..

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By *ust MikeMan
over a year ago

Yaxley

Probably not. It’s all shaped me as a person and I’m kinda happy with how I am now…

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I would have said no and walked away from various situations.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Change soo many things.

Prevent myself from getting a lifelong injury,

Enjoying dressing up as Rachel, back when I had the figure to pull off some nice outfits.

Not sure about this one, but prevent myself from getting testicular cancer, I am sure if was due to blunt force trauma caused by my hitting a car whilst riding a motorbike.

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By *andDLiverpoolCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"...what you know now, would it have changed anything?

Either hindsight, or maturity, but would you really change something from your past?

Absolutely! I’d have learnt sooner not to give a shit about what people think. Opinions are like arseholes and all that….

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

Just north of Bristol

I might take up gambling.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Depends if we're talking before 2005 or not

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