FabSwingers.com forum: Other ethnicities

By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. Someone’s hot to me or they’re not

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By *ools and the brainCouple
36 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

I quite fancy the sexy green woman in Star Trek

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By *agerMorganMan
36 weeks ago

Canvey Island

"I quite fancy the sexy green woman in Star Trek "

The Orion’s? They’ll certainly add some spice to the bedroom!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"I quite fancy the sexy green woman in Star Trek "

Ooh what about Karen Gillan when she's blue? I still would...

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
36 weeks ago

London or Bedford

I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Anyone relate?!"

I like guys who are hairy, uncircumcised and culturally Western.

I've sex with Middle Eastern (black Caucasian) and mixed heritage guys who've had chest hair, uncircumcised and culturally Western.

I can count on one hand the sex I've had with East Asian (oriental) guys... Almost all of them are smooth skinned.

So if they're White Caucasian but with smooth chest, circumcised and of say African or Carribbean heritage, I'll likely choose someone else.

So while I like physical attributes most associated with White Caucasian men, it's less about the race and more about my preferences...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
36 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I don't think it makes any amount of difference to me.

If someone is hot to me they're hot. My physical type has a lot of variation

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
36 weeks ago

Reading

As you say hot is hot.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chichester

Yep I do like my Thai ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

It makes no difference at all to me. If I'm attracted to them, then that's all that matters

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

I'm only missing Hispanic from that list

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
36 weeks ago

St Leonards

Hot is hot.

But 6 foot green/brown three-titted humanoid alien femmes with swishy panther tails are just hot by default, obvs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Can't say it makes much difference, I'm either attracted to someone or I'm not.

Mrs

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By *viatrixWoman
36 weeks ago

Redhill

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

I'm only missing Hispanic from that list

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Zoe Saldana when she's green or blue

Think she may have been orange in something too but I can't remember what.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

I'm open to the person. Many accents can be very hot, of course

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
36 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"Zoe Saldana when she's green or blue

Think she may have been orange in something too but I can't remember what."

You absolutely stole my sandwiches. Just going to say that in Guardians of the Galaxy she still looked great. Undraw the line at her robot sister.

Perhaps

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By *rcoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Mid Glam

If someones attractive to us they are attractive, race, shape and wahtevr has nothing to do with it.

We both find those fetizhizing having to "complete" the list of all available ethnicities etcmquite a turn off. Were not here to be collected because you ned to finish a set.

Noting makes the F loose the mod and fo driver than the Sahara rha being told " I've always wanted to fuck a tall red head - I dot mind if your fat either!"

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Timely. The prosecution rests.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Nah I don’t really think about ethnicity when it comes to attraction or sex or desire. If they’re hot, they’re hot. I don’t long to tick people off a list.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Zoe Saldana when she's green or blue

Think she may have been orange in something too but I can't remember what.

You absolutely stole my sandwiches. Just going to say that in Guardians of the Galaxy she still looked great. Undraw the line at her robot sister.

Perhaps"

Oh I dunno. I reckon a lot of fun could be had with a robot.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

"Nope. Someone’s hot to me or they’re not "

This.

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By *ornycougaWoman
36 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"If someones attractive to us they are attractive, race, shape and wahtevr has nothing to do with it.

We both find those fetizhizing having to "complete" the list of all available ethnicities etcmquite a turn off. Were not here to be collected because you ned to finish a set.

Noting makes the F loose the mod and fo driver than the Sahara rha being told " I've always wanted to fuck a tall red head - I dot mind if your fat either!"

I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Timely. The prosecution rests."

Took the words out of my mouth. Nothing worse than thinking you are merely a bucket list fuck

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By *ad NannaWoman
36 weeks ago

East London

I'm kind of in love a bit with a man from North Africa.

Although he's very westernised, I love his cultural differences.

When I kissed him goodbye at the bottom of the rail station stairs he was a little taken aback and said "Oh, is it ok to kiss in public?".

I assured him it's acceptable, but you'd get stared at if you went to town on each other in a very public place.

Later he said he wanted to hold my hand walking down the street but didn't know if it was acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I'm kind of in love a bit with a man from North Africa.

Although he's very westernised, I love his cultural differences.

When I kissed him goodbye at the bottom of the rail station stairs he was a little taken aback and said "Oh, is it ok to kiss in public?".

I assured him it's acceptable, but you'd get stared at if you went to town on each other in a very public place.

Later he said he wanted to hold my hand walking down the street but didn't know if it was acceptable.

Awwwww Nanna this is honestly so cute!!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
36 weeks ago

North Angus

Can’t relate as I’ve never had the pleasure of different ethnicities

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By *idnightMischiefMan
36 weeks ago

London

I've dated and slept with women from various ethnic backgrounds.

But that was never my motive - fetishising someone for their ethnicity just doesn't feel right to me.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

"If someones attractive to us they are attractive, race, shape and wahtevr has nothing to do with it.

We both find those fetizhizing having to "complete" the list of all available ethnicities etcmquite a turn off. Were not here to be collected because you ned to finish a set.

Noting makes the F loose the mod and fo driver than the Sahara rha being told " I've always wanted to fuck a tall red head - I dot mind if your fat either!"

I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Timely. The prosecution rests."

Totally agree. We find race fetishisation bizarre too.

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By *eliWoman
36 weeks ago

No Brucey, I can't.

It's never been a *thing* for me. If anything it's possibly less of a thing for me since joining Fab - messages saying they've never been with anyone "exotic" or guessing my heritage (and never, ever getting it right) means I really am not keen on it.

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By *rill PhilMan
36 weeks ago

Crediton

Someone being willing to have sex with me is a turn on regardless of their ethnicity or race.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Hot is hot, but also what is rare it hot so other ethnicities, age groups, genders, professions, social strata are attractive under certain circumstances.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
36 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!"

Oh dear.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
36 weeks ago

cardiff

Why is having sex with someone of a different ethnicity different to having sex with someone of your own ethnicity. Sex is sex. What difference does it make, i just don't get it? As someone above said, hot is hot, regardless.

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By *alandNitaCouple
36 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Someones skin colour, race or ethnicity isn't a factor in my attraction to them.

I'm not at all comfortable with ethnicity fetishism or the desire to box tick sex with people from specific backgrounds or certain physical traits.

Nita

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By *exymilf_69Woman
36 weeks ago

yorkshire

I’ve been fetishised a few times because of my ethnicity but I can assure fabbers that nothing is more of a turn off for me than a guy looking to tick off a person on his to-do list

People want to be seen for who they are, not the colour of their skin

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

I'm only missing Hispanic from that list

Fancy helping me tick that one off?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

I think what's happening here is classic fab, grab the pitchforks.

I'm not talking about fetishizing anything, I'm just talking about that extra little 'ooh' you may get. I have been with black women before who have talked about the fact I'm a white guy and it being hot. It's not about ticking off anyone just to tick an ethnicity off, obviously you still have to find whoever hot but it's that extra little something is all I mean!

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By *ad NannaWoman
36 weeks ago

East London

"I'm kind of in love a bit with a man from North Africa.

Although he's very westernised, I love his cultural differences.

When I kissed him goodbye at the bottom of the rail station stairs he was a little taken aback and said "Oh, is it ok to kiss in public?".

I assured him it's acceptable, but you'd get stared at if you went to town on each other in a very public place.

Later he said he wanted to hold my hand walking down the street but didn't know if it was acceptable.

Awwwww Nanna this is honestly so cute!!

It won't amount to anything serious, but I'm enjoying the emotions.

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By *immerman100Man
36 weeks ago

Never never land

Always liked the thought of as nice Indian lady

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By *aizyWoman
36 weeks ago

west midlands

"I'm kind of in love a bit with a man from North Africa.

Although he's very westernised, I love his cultural differences.

When I kissed him goodbye at the bottom of the rail station stairs he was a little taken aback and said "Oh, is it ok to kiss in public?".

I assured him it's acceptable, but you'd get stared at if you went to town on each other in a very public place.

Later he said he wanted to hold my hand walking down the street but didn't know if it was acceptable.

Awwwww Nanna this is honestly so cute!!

It won't amount to anything serious, but I'm enjoying the emotions. "

I'm enjoying reading about it, long may you both continue enjoying each other Nanna

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I don't care, I either find someone attractive or not.

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By *ad NannaWoman
36 weeks ago

East London

"I'm kind of in love a bit with a man from North Africa.

Although he's very westernised, I love his cultural differences.

When I kissed him goodbye at the bottom of the rail station stairs he was a little taken aback and said "Oh, is it ok to kiss in public?".

I assured him it's acceptable, but you'd get stared at if you went to town on each other in a very public place.

Later he said he wanted to hold my hand walking down the street but didn't know if it was acceptable.

Awwwww Nanna this is honestly so cute!!

It won't amount to anything serious, but I'm enjoying the emotions.

I'm enjoying reading about it, long may you both continue enjoying each other Nanna

Thank you, Daizy

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By *immyinreadingMan
36 weeks ago

henley on thames

"It makes no difference at all to me. If I'm attracted to them, then that's all that matters

Same here.

I don’t fetishise race, but there are beautiful attractive ladies of all races

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I think what's happening here is classic fab, grab the pitchforks.

Yeah no but what is that little extra something?

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By *exymilf_69Woman
36 weeks ago

yorkshire

"Always liked the thought of as nice Indian lady "

‘Nice’? Define nice

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By *exymilf_69Woman
36 weeks ago

yorkshire

This whole thread is giving me the biggest ick

Sometimes Fab just makes your skin crawl

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Worcester

I don't get a little 'ooh' from skin colour, race, or culture (and I find it a little odd to be even a little bit fetishistic in that way).

I do get a little bit 'ooh' from people who have had some interesting life experiences that I can learn about, and people who come from other countries often have that. But also, so do lots of white Brits.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
36 weeks ago

Ok Brucey I'll share the kicking you are receiving, I do find certain ethnicities very attractive.

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!"

Caucasian isn't a ethnicity it's a broad term to describe people who have white skin.

Ethnicity within that could be Celtic, Saxon, Huns, Goths, Turks, Albania's etc.. All are a different shade of white.

Just as Asian isn't a ethnicity.

That one word covers I believe over 50 countries.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
36 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour."

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!

Caucasian isn't a ethnicity it's a broad term to describe people who have white skin.

Ethnicity within that could be Celtic, Saxon, Huns, Goths, Turks, Albania's etc.. All are a different shade of white.

Just as Asian isn't a ethnicity.

That one word covers I believe over 50 countries.

Though I believe British Asian is an ethnicity? But yeah this is an important point. People really struggle with race and ethnicity

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady. "

Which nationality covered the letter X?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Not really. At what point does a preference turn into a fetish?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady.

Which nationality covered the letter X?"

Xpsna

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady.

Which nationality covered the letter X?

Xpsna"

I was going to suggest Xhosa! but was unsure if that covered nationality.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady.

Which nationality covered the letter X?

Xpsna

I was going to suggest Xhosa! but was unsure if that covered nationality. "

Xngerland too

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Its all about the chemistry

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
36 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

Did someone ask you to do this thread Bruce ?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Sounds hot. I’m in.

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By *ad HardcoreMan
36 weeks ago

A Chippy Near You...

"Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

I don't relate whatsoever. Actually OP, a bit racist.

Just a bit

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!"

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By *kcouple1973Couple
36 weeks ago

colchester

Makes absolutely no difference

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By *elaninMagicWoman
36 weeks ago

Midlands

Interesting topic. Room for some cool open discussion here without people getting up in their feelings and fragility.

Diversity is beautiful and it’s absolutely fine to admire and compliment it.

As a rule, any compliment about my racial phenotype (Black) that I would accept from a Black man, I would also accept from any other race. (Because a Black man would not be fetishising me)

Fetishisation is not the same as attraction. For example a white man is who socially aware of the racial issues of Black people and has a diverse social circle, cultural experiences etc of Black people will always win out over a white man who has zero awareness and just has a narrative of “I’ve always wanted to shag a Black bird” or “I love Ebony porn” etc.

If you don’t understand this analogy, you’re most likely on the problematic side of fetishisation.

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
36 weeks ago

essex

I definately have a soft spot for Albanian and Romanian guys

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
36 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I definately have a soft spot for Albanian and Romanian guys

Local quick sand in the park ?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

A fetish means that specific thing gets you off. I'm not saying someone belonging to another ethnicity gets me off. But it can sometimes be different, I guess just from how society is still in a lot of places.

Let's be real, it is rarer for a Black woman and a Caucasian guy to hook up. Not saying it's wrong obviously and I hate I even have to say that because of the boohoos I know I will get, but statistically it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"A fetish means that specific thing gets you off. I'm not saying someone belonging to another ethnicity gets me off. But it can sometimes be different, I guess just from how society is still in a lot of places.

What is (statistically) less common is more attractive, because of limited supply. We can deny it all we want, but it's true. Race, status, education, height, body shape, accent, etc. And it applies equally to all genders.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
36 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Honestly, and I hope I don't get lynched for this... I have. Having been raised with the expectation that you only date/have sex within your own race/religion, it did become quite a turn on having sex with someone I found attractive of a different race. I should stress though that I didn't just find them attractive because of their race, but how they were as a person as well... I think I saved myself there

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By *ou only live onceMan
36 weeks ago

London

I really don't think that's true, certainly when it comes to race, but across the board really. Conventional beauty standards tend to be around the centre rather than the statistical extremities. That's my experience anyway.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
36 weeks ago

London or Bedford

Er...I think people have turnt this into something a lot more darker & sinister than it actually is LOL

I’m a normal red-blooded heterosexual man who appreciates the beauty of ALL women. But due to circumstance, haven’t had the opportunity to be with some intimately. The fact that I aspire to is a bad thing?

Why?

What some call “fetishisation” is only bad when you have a reductionist view with regards to the object of your desire. They’re not a person, but a means to an end.

But...when you think about DON’T WE ALL DO THAT? Especially on this site.

I didn’t love all of the people I slept with. A good number I didn’t even like.

You?

What’s the difference between “fetishisation” & physical preferences?

You like This Look, This Body Type, a certain way they choose to decorate their body.

Anyone who doesn’t, won’t “get you off”?

THATS FETISHISATION

Chances are, YOU’VE ALL BEEN SUBJECT SOMEONE’s FUCK-IT LIST at some point & didn’t know.

I know I have

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
36 weeks ago

London or Bedford

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list."

I didn’t say Redheads were a different ethnicity.

Your profile says you’re “not into BBC”.

That’s me out of the running LOL

But what is that?

Discrimination?

A turn-off/ANTI-FETISH?

Does it not “get you off”

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list.

I didn’t say Redheads were a different ethnicity.

Your profile says you’re “not into BBC”.

That’s me out of the running LOL

But what is that?

Discrimination?

A turn-off/ANTI-FETISH?

Does it not “get you off”

There are those who feel that people who describe themselves as BBC are fetishising themselves and reducing their persona to the size and colour of a part of their anatomy, rather than being a rounded personality who happens to be generously proportioned.

I have known ladies who are happy to meet gentlemen of colour but avoid BBC profiles.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
36 weeks ago

London or Bedford

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list.

I didn’t say Redheads were a different ethnicity.

Your profile says you’re “not into BBC”.

That’s me out of the running LOL

But what is that?

Discrimination?

A turn-off/ANTI-FETISH?

Does it not “get you off”

I have known ladies who are happy to meet gentlemen of colour but avoid BBC profiles."

Some people don’t mind being fetishised.

At the end of the day, they’re on this site for sex. Not the find the love of their life.

They’re probably fetishising them back

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list.

I didn’t say Redheads were a different ethnicity.

Your profile says you’re “not into BBC”.

That’s me out of the running LOL

But what is that?

Discrimination?

A turn-off/ANTI-FETISH?

Does it not “get you off”

I have known ladies who are happy to meet gentlemen of colour but avoid BBC profiles.

Some people don’t mind being fetishised.

At the end of the day, they’re on this site for sex. Not the find the love of their life.

They’re probably fetishising them back"

Some do, some don't.

People use this site for a variety of reasons. I would say for connections, rather than narrow it down to just sex.

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36 weeks ago

I get this Bruce but I don’t get the extra ooh you get from it. You may be aware that you being together is rare but what ooh do you get from it?

Being with women from different ethnicities can be the same as being with someone of your own. In terms of how that relationship is perceived by others yes there may be difference but the relationship itself and your (you both involved) feelings should pretty much the same as with anyone else.

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36 weeks ago

I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity. "

You weren't aware Pickles? On porn sites for decades now there's always been Interracial categories, it's definitely common.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
36 weeks ago

chichester

"I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity.

You weren't aware Pickles? On porn sites for decades now there's always been Interracial categories, it's definitely common."

Porn is based around fantasies and exploring fantasies not real life .

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36 weeks ago

"I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity.

You weren't aware Pickles? On porn sites for decades now there's always been Interracial categories, it's definitely common."

Yeah but a lot of people that often watch interracial porn I’d imagine may fall into the fetishising category. Not all but a lot I think.

Feeling an ooh when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity? I think in reality most people don’t see it as a big deal.

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36 weeks ago

"I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity.

You weren't aware Pickles? On porn sites for decades now there's always been Interracial categories, it's definitely common.

Yeah but a lot of people that often watch interracial porn I’d imagine may fall into the fetishising category. Not all but a lot I think.

Feeling an ooh when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity? I think in reality most people don’t see it as a big deal. "

It’s not the 60s after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

No I don’t fetishise anyone based on ethnicity/race.

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By *educing_EmCouple
36 weeks ago

Tipperary

No I get no extra buzz from sleeping with someone from another ethnicity but a hot accent gets me all flustered

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

"Er...I think people have turnt this into something a lot more darker & sinister than it actually is LOL

Why?

What some call “fetishisation” is only bad when you have a reductionist view with regards to the object of your desire. They’re not a person, but a means to an end.

But...when you think about DON’T WE ALL DO THAT? Especially on this site.

I didn’t love all of the people I slept with. A good number I didn’t even like.

You?

What’s the difference between “fetishisation” & physical preferences?

You like This Look, This Body Type, a certain way they choose to decorate their body.

Anyone who doesn’t, won’t “get you off”?

THATS FETISHISATION

Chances are, YOU’VE ALL BEEN SUBJECT SOMEONE’s FUCK-IT LIST at some point & didn’t know.

I know I have

He literally says he ‘gets off’ on sleeping with people

Of other ethnicities.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"I don’t think the OP is talking about a fetish. But I think it is a feeling I have never felt or was aware people felt when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity.

You weren't aware Pickles? On porn sites for decades now there's always been Interracial categories, it's definitely common.

Yeah but a lot of people that often watch interracial porn I’d imagine may fall into the fetishising category. Not all but a lot I think.

Feeling an ooh when sleeping with someone from another ethnicity? I think in reality most people don’t see it as a big deal. "

I agree, it isn't a big deal, it's just something hot and different. Again I think due to societal norms...most black women I have spoken to seem to mostly if not always date black men. And they have said they find it hot that I'm a white guy. I don't think people need to read into it any more deep than that!

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I don't gravitate towards any ethnicity, although I have dated/met ladies of 22 nationalities. If I click with someone I click with them. It's not because of their culture or skin colour.

Jesus Mr A to Z Notebook man

Haha. No, just A (American) to W (Welsh). I have yet to meet a Yemeni, Zambian or Zimbabwean lady.

Which nationality covered the letter X?

Xpsna

I was going to suggest Xhosa! but was unsure if that covered nationality.

Xngerland too "

Just realised I miscounted. Its 23, not 22. I wasn't sure if it was 24 as I was seeing a lady who was 1/2 Lebanese (didn't count that - just her country of birth)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I go on the personality, unless it's just a shag, then a pulse can be the main thing.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
36 weeks ago

Portsmouth

"I wanna taste the rainbow.

I still have a...

East Asian Virginity

South Asian Virginity

Hispanic Virginity

& a Redhead Virginity I’ve been meaning to get rid of

Not sure how redheads are a different ethnicity now, but I wouldn't want to be on someone's tick list.

I didn’t say Redheads were a different ethnicity.

Your profile says you’re “not into BBC”.

That’s me out of the running LOL

But what is that?

Discrimination?

A turn-off/ANTI-FETISH?

Does it not “get you off”

I have known ladies who are happy to meet gentlemen of colour but avoid BBC profiles."

Exactly this. I'm not a fan of labels as such and there's more to someone than their colour and size. But that's the easiest way to put it on here.

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36 weeks ago

"Morning you kinky people!

So, does anyone here get off on sleeping with people of other ethnicities? Is there an extra 'ooh' to the fact someone may not be your race that just makes it that little bit hotter for you?

There's hot people of every ethnicity, hot is just hot, but I guess because I have predominantly slept with Caucasian women, it is a nice difference when it's with someone who's not.

Anyone relate?!

Caucasian isn't a ethnicity it's a broad term to describe people who have white skin.

Ethnicity within that could be Celtic, Saxon, Huns, Goths, Turks, Albania's etc.. All are a different shade of white.

Just as Asian isn't a ethnicity.

That one word covers I believe over 50 countries.

Though I believe British Asian is an ethnicity? But yeah this is an important point. People really struggle with race and ethnicity"

No British Asian isn't a ethnicity. It's just someone who has Asian parents/grandparents but are themselves born and bred here.

Culturally their British but ethnically they are what race their parents etc are.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
36 weeks ago

Stratford

It’s intriguing to get into the minds of these people.

I get a lot of fetishisation messages from people who have no idea what I look like, other than the colour my skin and I find it fascinating

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By *ruceyy OP Man
36 weeks ago

London

"It’s intriguing to get into the minds of these people.

I get a lot of fetishisation messages from people who have no idea what I look like, other than the colour my skin and I find it fascinating "

Yeah see I would NEVER do that.

At least have an obvious booty

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

"It’s intriguing to get into the minds of these people.

I get a lot of fetishisation messages from people who have no idea what I look like, other than the colour my skin and I find it fascinating "

See, I find that super weird. I get wheelchair fetishisation stuff that I find

too

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