FabSwingers.com forum: Were you hot in your early 20s?!

By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

I believe people do know when they're hot right? Or at least fairly good looking. Great shape, good face, all that good stuff. Able to hook up with people who are generally viewed as 'hot'

So were you that when younger?

Not an attack post or that older people can't be attractive of course, it's literally just a question! Xox

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By *obilebottomMan
48 weeks ago

All over

Absolutely sizzling

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
48 weeks ago

Den of Iniquity

Absolutely not ... Nothings changed

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By *ora the explorerWoman
48 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

No I wasn’t. Although I do wish I was as fat now as I thought I was back then

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By *BWLOVER1965Man
48 weeks ago

Ipswich

Was I

Probably not

Grey hair beard now

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By *eliWoman
48 weeks ago

No I wasn't. I didn't really look after myself and it showed - studying and partying hard was not my friend. I was a size 26, my hair was awful and my skin was really dull. Awful dark circles.

In case you've not picked up on the motif - I looked pretty darn awful.

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By *ub23Man
48 weeks ago

wandering

I'm in my 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Nah not really. I mean I'm not now. But I wasn't then too

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
48 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No.

But I was easy

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"Nah not really. I mean I'm not now. But I wasn't then too"

Says the guy cleaning up the site!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"No.

But I was easy

That is pretty hot to be fair

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By *rispyDuckMan
48 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I was a skinny lil duckling in my 20s haha. All that clubbing and drinking

Coming into my 30s is when the magic happened feel in my prime

strength, maturity, looks it’s all crazy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Yes I was....I was seriously gym fit ....but the thing is I didn't realise how 'hot' I actually was at the time....but some have told me that was the beauty of it....the fact I was unaware of how 'hot' & super fit I was at the time....I knew I was physically healthily fit ....but unaware of how good I looked back then....it's only now when I look back at pics I realise it.

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By *amierebelMan
48 weeks ago

My own little world

Ooooffftt naw not much has changed mind you

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
48 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

If you had asked me at the time, I would have said no, but the amount of attention I used to get, plus Women throwing themselves all over their Men whenever I was around would probably say otherwise.

I used to be convinced I must've had "Homewrecker" written on my forehead.

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By *stwo2023Couple
48 weeks ago

Worcester

Never been hot regardless of age

Evie

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By *sWyldWoman
48 weeks ago

Edinburgh

No. I've never been hot. I was a bit slimmer though and I still thought I was fat.

Late 20s I was probably better, newly divorced and discovering lots of new things but too exhausted and no time as I had two tiny humans to look after. Did finally get to the illusive size 12..sadly it didn't last!

I think I probably look my best now, not where I'd like to be weight wise but much more aware of my own style.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"If you had asked me at the time, I would have said no, but the amount of attention I used to get, plus Women throwing themselves all over their Men whenever I was around would probably say otherwise.

I used to be convinced I must've had "Homewrecker" written on my forehead.

I mean you're hot now so...

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"Yes I was....I was seriously gym fit ....but the thing is I didn't realise how 'hot' I actually was at the time....but some have told me that was the beauty of it....the fact I was unaware of how 'hot' & super fit I was at the time....I knew I was physically healthily fit ....but unaware of how good I looked back then....it's only now when I look back at pics I realise it."

Absolutely down for seeing these pics

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
48 weeks ago

Beverley

Oh I definitely peaked a decade ago when I didn't have to worry about my hairline and I had 12% body fat. That was only physically, though, because emotionally I was a bit of a dick, so you get a much more rounded person now. Unfortunately that's literal, too

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By *obilebottomMan
48 weeks ago

All over

"Oh I definitely peaked a decade ago when I didn't have to worry about my hairline and I had 12% body fat. That was only physically, though, because emotionally I was a bit of a dick, so you get a much more rounded person now. Unfortunately that's literal, too "

Ptobably true for a lot if people. Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I’m definitely hotter in my early 30’s, was good looking in my 20’s but didn’t have the same confidence and self acceptance I have now. Put about 100kg’s on my back squat too lol

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By *weetiepie99Woman
48 weeks ago

cardiff

Hot then. Hot now.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I used to be convinced I must've had "Homewrecker" written on my forehead.

I mean you're hot now so..."

Omg I had that too....women who were in a couple acting all weird if I was in their company or sitting near them when I was out....omg.... I'd get daggers of looks from these women & bad vibes....like as if I was gonna take their man or something....I witnessed a major row one night too...a woman was accusing her man of constantly looking at me & she was kicking him & everything & roaring like a freak

The poor man omg....it was crazy

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
48 weeks ago

Essex

If it helps…. I think you’re fit

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By *quirrel!Man
48 weeks ago

Not sure - I was clueless! But I do have a pic if anyone’s interested!

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
48 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Nope. Skinny little bastard with curtain haircut and shit chat up lines and not much experience.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
48 weeks ago

Leeds

Super skinny & probably average.

Mrs

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By *ickshawedCouple
48 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I was thinner. My boobs were more pert. But I was still spotty and had less confidence than I do today. Plus I've had some pretty awful hair cuts over the years. If men found me attractive I never found out about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

This website

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Oh no

I think I look better now than I did a few years ago. The only bonus was being thinner back then.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
48 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

How would we know ?

Hot is in the eye of the beholder. So if they are looking for mid 20's you then you were hot.

I was either pregnant or a mum so ....... probably not at my best mood wise or looks wise...

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
48 weeks ago

Beverley

If it helps…. I think you’re fit

Haha, certainly does

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By *ags73Man
48 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Probably not. Long hair and into grunge.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

Nah, I was cool when I was in my 20s.

Not sexy. But definitely cooler. Skinny little punk rock kid who stayed out all night dancing and thought he could change the world.

I’m sexier now, in my 40s. And happier, because I’ve realised I really can change *bits* of the world. Just not the whole thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Nah not really. I mean I'm not now. But I wasn't then too

Says the guy cleaning up the site!

To say that's generous is an understatement

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
48 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I used to be convinced I must've had "Homewrecker" written on my forehead.

I mean you're hot now so...

The poor man omg....it was crazy "

Yep! You would be introduced to someone or simply stand/sit near them and then suddenly there was a girlfriend hanging off their neck, giving you dirty looks, watching your every move and trying to climb all over them and kiss them mid-conversation, all whilst giving you daggers...

As someone who was a lot more reserved and shy in those days, I found it bizarre!

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
48 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

I used to be convinced I must've had "Homewrecker" written on my forehead.

I mean you're hot now so..."

Why. Thank you.

Loving the pics, BTW. x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
48 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"How would we know ?

Hot is in the eye of the beholder. So if they are looking for mid 20's you then you were hot.

I was either pregnant or a mum so ....... probably not at my best mood wise or looks wise...

Haha me too.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Nope, was completely unaware of how attracrive I was (read: with an asshole who destroyed my confidence).

Assumed the attention and compliments I got were people making fun of me...

Now I can look back at the few pictures I ever allowed to be taken of me and well, they weren't making fun of me.

It is what it is

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

My mom's best friend seemed to think so as she couldn't keep her hands off me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Nope, was completely unaware of how attractive I was (read: with an asshole who destroyed my confidence)."

Oh, that’s so very relatable. Just swap ‘asshole’ for ‘ex-wife’. When I left her in my mid-30s I was utterly amazed to find that apparently women fancied me. Hot, smart, sexy ones too!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen

"Nope, was completely unaware of how attractive I was (read: with an asshole who destroyed my confidence).

Oh, that’s so very relatable. Just swap ‘asshole’ for ‘ex-wife’. When I left her in my mid-30s I was utterly amazed to find that apparently women fancied me. Hot, smart, sexy ones too! "

Are you calling me hot, smart and sexy

BeaverAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"My mom's best friend seemed to think so as she couldn't keep her hands off me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I was so hot I contributed to global warming just by being alive.

Possibly.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
48 weeks ago

Essex

I was a “hot mess” in my early twenties. Too much of everything. Partying, drinking, men, danger.

I’m so glad I fell pregnant - I don’t think anything else would have stopped me self destructing.

Subjectively - I’m hotter now than I’ve ever been. In so much as - I have more self confidence and I’m very aware of who I am. Some will agree, some won’t - and I am very very ok with that.

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By *CLM87Woman
48 weeks ago

Derbyshire

No I don't think I was... to this day I still don't think I am.. even though I'm the slimmest I've been since my teens and I am more confident in myself.

I just don't see it, but I get alot of compliments etc.

Doing the job I do, I just blend in to the lads, especially as my interests are generally male orientated.. ie motorbikes, cars and engineering

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By *educing_EmCouple
48 weeks ago

Tipperary

Did I think I was at the time? No.

Looking back now, yes I was. I looked better than I do now.

I feel better and have more confidence now even though I know I don't look as good.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
48 weeks ago

Llanelli

I'm still like bacon, eggs and sausage sizzling away now I reckon

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"Did I think I was at the time? No.

Looking back now, yes I was. I looked better than I do now.

I feel better and have more confidence now even though I know I don't look as good. "

Shut up and get under me already

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Are you calling me hot, smart and sexy

BeaverAbz "

Well if the shoe fits …

(Wait, are you saying you fancy me? This is one of those moments where I should really pay attention. I’m terrible for missing the signs.)

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By *2000ManMan
48 weeks ago

Worthing

Had a decent haircut at 21 (I was a long haired 'headbanger' up to then without realising it was not the look to have at that time). The haircut made all the difference according to others. I am happier with the look I have at the moment though.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Nope. Did not have trouble getting laid, though. I was good at sex and the word spread out

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Fuck no

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

Maybe I shouldn’t be saying this but I’m late 20s and never had sex, so I wish I could’ve slept with the people I viewed at hot.

Body wise? Still the same I guess. I should tone up a bit

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
48 weeks ago

East Sussex

I probably was, looking back at the amount of attention I got when out and about, on public transport, waiting at the bus stop, pubs and clubs that sort of thing. But I think everyone got that sort of attention at that age because people in their twenties are usually attractive and on the lookout for encounters with others

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By *rystalsswingCouple
48 weeks ago

Galway / Midlands / West

I was happy out and chubby in my 20's and most of my 30's! Now I'm 40 and happier than ever

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By *viatrixWoman
48 weeks ago

Redhill

Not really.

I wasn’t confident and that made things worse I suppose!

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By *atcherwankerMan
48 weeks ago

Birmingham

I... Don't know, to be honest. I think I've improved with age, I'm furrier, sturdier, and more generally stylish than I used to be. In my early 20s I was skinny and pale and badly dressed and certainly didn't think it was remotely attractive. But objectively I suppose I wasn't short of attention back then, I don't get women flirting or staring like I used to. But then, I used to work in pubs back then and I don't now, so I'm in a completely different environment day-to-day. So, all the data is corrupted. I can't make an accurate analysis.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
48 weeks ago

Worcester

Yup. I was hot. Still hot now.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"Yup. I was hot. Still hot now.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"I was happy out and chubby in my 20's and most of my 30's! Now I'm 40 and happier than ever

Your body is insane!

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By *ruceyy OP Man
48 weeks ago

London

"Yup. I was hot. Still hot now.

Yeah you are!

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
48 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Hell no! I was the original ugly duckling, until I was 50!! (Well, maybe 48)

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I was hotter in my 40s

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By *eyond PurityCouple
48 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Definitely hotter now we are more aware of our sensuality and confidence.

We both have good features so maybe we were good looking but I’d say we radiate it more now.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I was hotter in my 40s"

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By *ldgeezermeMan
48 weeks ago

Newcastle

Let you know when I get there

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By *irexMan
48 weeks ago

Hertford

Apparently I was, my wife (gf at the time) said she never worried as I was too naive/dim to realise when women were coming onto me

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By *ittleRed18Woman
48 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I was skinny then but definitely hadn't blossomed into my good looks and confidence then. I was also in a long-term monogamous relationship so wasn't trying to look my best to "pull" anyone

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By *omKsubSMan
48 weeks ago

Newton

Was I hot in my 20s?

I didn't think so, but I had constant attention and rarely went home alone... so I guess the ladies thought so.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I'm far more attractive now in my mid 40s than I was in my 20s.

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By *ustAnotherMan
48 weeks ago

Mids

Christ no.

Grown into my confidence, and the feeling of comfortable with myself.

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By *r TriomanMan
48 weeks ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Nope, wasn't hot at all, I am now though!

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

I've never been hot.

I had the girl next door look back in the 80s; think Cynthia Rhodes rather than Debbie Harry.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
48 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I'm far more attractive now in my mid 40s than I was in my 20s."

I think we all are, aren’t we?

*looks around*

Yep, bunch of hotties here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

I had 3 children by the age of 21 and I focused on them, rather than making myself hot.

I scrubbed up well for evenings out though.

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By *rHotNottsMan
48 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I really did not feel it, mostly the opposite, skinny, long hair, not much confidence but I had very attractive girlfriends who said I was.

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By *ad NannaWoman
48 weeks ago

East London

"I was skinny then but definitely hadn't blossomed into my good looks and confidence then. I was also in a long-term monogamous relationship so wasn't trying to look my best to "pull" anyone

I was skinny then, too.

I had zero boobage

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I think I came to my best in My 40s… ten years later I now look like a criminal again.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I was very youthful looking.

I looked about 16 actually.

I'm a late bloomer.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
48 weeks ago

london

I think I was a very good looking guy when I was younger but I’m definitely declining as I’ve got older

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
48 weeks ago

Southampton

I don't think I've ever been "hot"

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I was very youthful looking.

I looked about 16 actually.

I'm a late bloomer."

Haha. Me to. Even in my 30s, I was getting questioned purchasing alcohol in shops. That’s why I stopped shaving. I knew I would look older immediately.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
48 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I was a fetish model, before the internet, I would of made a killing on only fans if it was about then, having children & a divorce ruined me

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By *umagain58Man
48 weeks ago

London

I didn’t think so at time started but must have been. I got corrupted by an older wife when I was 20. She shared me with lots of her friends and introduced to swinging. Fond memories

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

God nope my ass was flat from a side view

Well maybe I was hot a hot mess

Now it’s

You never seen nobody act like me

Tell a chick n get em mad like me

A country girl this bad like me

Sweet as tea with an ass like me

Southern Belle

I raise hell

I didn’t come in to my own till my 30s when all the hard work started to rack up

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By *esthetic21Man
48 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I'm not hot but I've bedded plenty of hot women. You laugh them into bed

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

"I'm not hot but I've bedded plenty of hot women. You laugh them into bed

I usually laugh them out. Generally as my pants are coming off weirdly.

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