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By *arry C OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

Things are different now than when I was younger but I still very much enjoy being sexual with my husband and fantasising.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I hope I still have sex for as long long as I live

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By *imply DeeWoman
36 weeks ago

Wherever

I am a late bloomer and I haven’t even started properly yet. I think I will be at my best by 55 and beyond.

At least that’s the plan.

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By *ntrigued888Woman
36 weeks ago

Beds

I'm 57 in May and love sex. Fortunately I don't have a husband

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

You might not get many answers from women who don't enjoy sex on here though op.

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By *ppydayzzMan
36 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard

Throwing my hat in the ring for any older ladies who like sex but not with their husbands, if they have one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?"

Why do you ask?

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By *arry C OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Just interested to see what women think

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By *sWyldWoman
36 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I hope I still will be. Isn't 50 the new 40??

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By *ppydayzzMan
36 weeks ago

Leighton Buzzard


"I hope I still will be. Isn't 50 the new 40??"

Maybe even the new 30

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By *alandNitaCouple
36 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?"

Seems a very strange question to ask on a site where people are looking for sex.

I think it's a rather Victorian attitude to assume that 55+ is old and that women stop being interested in sex as they get older.

Nita

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By *ady SuzieXXXWoman
36 weeks ago

Chichester


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?

Seems a very strange question to ask on a site where people are looking for sex.

I think it's a rather Victorian attitude to assume that 55+ is old and that women stop being interested in sex as they get older.

Nita"

My thoughts exactly.

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By *eeds fun guyMan
36 weeks ago

yorkshire


"I'm 57 in May and love sex. Fortunately I don't have a husband

"

Wow you look amazing c

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By *eeds fun guyMan
36 weeks ago

yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

OP, given that you are older than the age of the woman you are enquiring about, I'm sure it's just out of curiosity that you ask.

Or maybe you've a partner that age who is not sexually active?

Unfortunately I think society deems people of a certain age, should be sat in their riser recliner, drinking earl gray whilst doing a word search.

Little do they know there's a fair few of us that still feel alive, dress is lingerie and enjoy being poked numerous times by a hard willy

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By *a LunaWoman
36 weeks ago

South Wales

I’m looking forward to giving gummy blowjobs

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By *RWoodyCouple
36 weeks ago

Lincolnshire


"OP, given that you are older than the age of the woman you are enquiring about, I'm sure it's just out of curiosity that you ask.

Or maybe you've a partner that age who is not sexually active?

Unfortunately I think society deems people of a certain age, should be sat in their riser recliner, drinking earl gray whilst doing a word search.

Little do they know there's a fair few of us that still feel alive, dress is lingerie and enjoy being poked numerous times by a hard willy "

Here here.

Hear? No sorry I've lost my hearing aid. It must be on my head. Oh no wait they're my glasses. Wait what was the question? I'm confused. Must be an age thing

J x

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester(ish).

What did I come in here for ?

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
36 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"I'm 57 in May and love sex. Fortunately I don't have a husband

Wow you look amazing c "

Seconded and thirded.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I'm 60

No husband now

But still adore sex.

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By *elix SightedMan
36 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?"

OP you’re asking in the wrong place, this is the internet. Perhaps pop down the library or bingo hall with your megaphone and large print flickerbooks.

I’m interested too so please report back, especially on how many still have their own teeth.

Don’t forget, just in case you get lucky - take your duster and a werthers original.

Good luck young man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My husband divorced me about 15 years ago.. I think he'd be a bit shocked if i rocked up and asked for a shag

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
36 weeks ago

West Bromwich

A 55 year old here who still enjoys sex

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Don't mind me, just here for the older women still into sex

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By *adyBugsWoman
36 weeks ago

cognito


"My husband divorced me about 15 years ago.. I think he'd be a bit shocked if i rocked up and asked for a shag "

I spat my tea out at this

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"A 55 year old here who still enjoys sex "

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By *adyBugsWoman
36 weeks ago

cognito


"Don't mind me, just here for the older women still into sex "

Nice pants Mr Beans

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"My husband divorced me about 15 years ago.. I think he'd be a bit shocked if i rocked up and asked for a shag

I spat my tea out at this "

Shall I try it

Wonder if it'll make his step-Kids and new wife cry

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By *luebell888Woman
36 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I still enjoy sex very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Don't mind me, just here for the older women still into sex

Nice pants Mr Beans "

Thank you

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By *ornycougaWoman
36 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?"

No. At my advanced age all I think about is Ovaltine and the Antiques Roadshow. Jeez

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

in fairness quite a few women in their mid fifties and over do have difficulties with libido.

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By *uby Tuesday 55Woman
36 weeks ago

Combe Martin

Happy not too have a husband but still enjoy great sex....even at my age

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London

Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic. "

How would you know?

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

How would you know?"

I'm 50 now Watson

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By *illy IdolMan
36 weeks ago

Midlands


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

How would you know?

I'm 50 now Watson "

Happy belated birthday Veronica x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
36 weeks ago

Castlebar


"I hope I still will be. Isn't 50 the new 40??

Maybe even the new 30 "

Lol I hope so! Feels that way to me. Having more sex now than I was at 30. And just getting started. Bt 55 who knows....

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By *enkman55Man
36 weeks ago

West Midlands

Fantasise about what and who

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By *enkman55Man
36 weeks ago

West Midlands


"I'm 57 in May and love sex. Fortunately I don't have a husband

"

Do you want someone else's xx

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By *layboy Bunny13Woman
36 weeks ago

LYMINGTON

I'm still enjoying sex.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

How would you know?

I'm 50 now Watson

Happy belated birthday Veronica x"

Where is my gift?

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By *ife NinjaMan
36 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I still enjoy sex.....the difficulty is participation

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By *elix SightedMan
36 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

How would you know?

I'm 50 now Watson

Happy belated birthday Veronica x

Where is my gift? "

I’ve sent you a rocking chair and a magnifying glass

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London


"Sex over 50+ is fantastic.

How would you know?

I'm 50 now Watson

Happy belated birthday Veronica x

Where is my gift?

I’ve sent you a rocking chair and a magnifying glass "

I need a new denture and a bigger dildo too

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
36 weeks ago

Wirral.


"My husband divorced me about 15 years ago.. I think he'd be a bit shocked if i rocked up and asked for a shag "

Foolish, foolish man!

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By *ddie1966Man
36 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.


"How many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husbands?

If you are a woman over 55 do you still have sex or have sexy thoughts about men?

No. At my advanced age all I think about is Ovaltine and the Antiques Roadshow. Jeez "

Ah... the ladies favourite.

You see, for men, it's a cup of hot bovril and countryfile.

We get bad palpitations when we see Fiona Bruce.

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By *tripper9Man
36 weeks ago

Blackburn

Does being over 55 mean that you forget who you had sex with?

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By *arry C OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Just interested to see what women think

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"Just interested to see what women think"

It’s not a surprise that lots of perimenopausal and post menopausal women have a decrease in sexual desire. It’s not always down to being unhappy in their marriage. Everyone is different and some women will want it more than others.

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By *arry C OP   Man
36 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Thanks for all the great replies, sometimes men wonder if it is an age thing with both men and women.

Many wonder what lies ahead for them after women go through the menapause or even men themselves going through the same.

As this is a site where there is a wide age range of both women and men I thought I would pose the question as a man whose wife has not been interested in sex for over 15 yrs.

She is now 65 ,soon to be 66.

By women stating that there maybe hope after 55 it will help both men and women who are getting older.

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By *lecom1Couple
36 weeks ago

Stornoway

My wife and I now in our 70's still enjoy sex together and with a few select other men

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By *otguy555Man
36 weeks ago

Bristol


"My wife and I now in our 70's still enjoy sex together and with a few select other men"
and you look awesome for your age

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
36 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I think the question is a bit .... not loaded but confusing.

How many women over 55 still enjoy sex is the simplest Q .....

Cos how many women over 55 still enjoy sex with their husband doesn't factor in that they might still want sex but NOT with their husband who they've been bonking for the past 40 years

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry

Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!'

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By *ohntall123Man
36 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!' "

Strangest question

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!'

Strangest question "

Its early, my phraseology wonky

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By *ohntall123Man
36 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!'

Strangest question

Its early, my phraseology wonky "

Haha it is early lol

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!'

Strangest question

Its early, my phraseology wonky

Haha it is early lol "

More sleep needed and need to rethink my early morning choices ... i cant even say it sounded right in my head!

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By *ohntall123Man
36 weeks ago

Biggleswade


"Why do women over 50 not count as having a sexual appetite?

Or could it be that the women of this age group are actually enjoying encounters with guys of a lower age group that can match their need??

Maybe it should read ' how many guys over 55 wives are still having sex with them!'

Strangest question

Its early, my phraseology wonky

Haha it is early lol

More sleep needed and need to rethink my early morning choices ... i cant even say it sounded right in my head! "

Haha I hear that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I keep getting told by guys that are older that my sexy days are numbered. There’s definitely an assumption that over a certain age nobody has sex anymore.

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By *armandwet50Couple
36 weeks ago

Far far away

we're going strong and we see no signs of it diminishing

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"we're going strong and we see no signs of it diminishing "

Sounds like my ideal weekend…..

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"we're going strong and we see no signs of it diminishing

Sounds like my ideal weekend….. "

Btw ... fresh fruit off a woman?? Err im being s sushi table for our next charity event if the person who proposed it raises enoght money ... does that count

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"we're going strong and we see no signs of it diminishing

Sounds like my ideal weekend…..

Btw ... fresh fruit off a woman?? Err im being s sushi table for our next charity event if the person who proposed it raises enoght money ... does that count"

Could I drizzle soy sauce on you?

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By *reen as JadeCouple
36 weeks ago

Cheshire

I got a bit bored after 5years. Never mind 55. Thank goodness for fab XXX

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Good grief have I only got 2 more years of sexy thoughts left?!

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By *onameyet2Man
36 weeks ago

chorley


"I'm 57 in May and love sex. Fortunately I don't have a husband

"

And you live in beds

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By *histle do nicelyMan
36 weeks ago

Glasgow South


"I am a late bloomer and I haven’t even started properly yet. I think I will be at my best by 55 and beyond.

At least that’s the plan. "

you look blooming fantastic x

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By *elboy1978Man
36 weeks ago

Fellgate

I love sex with older women

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By *alhamCoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

London


"OP, given that you are older than the age of the woman you are enquiring about, I'm sure it's just out of curiosity that you ask.

Or maybe you've a partner that age who is not sexually active?

Unfortunately I think society deems people of a certain age, should be sat in their riser recliner, drinking earl gray whilst doing a word search.

Little do they know there's a fair few of us that still feel alive, dress is lingerie and enjoy being poked numerous times by a hard willy

Here here.

Hear? No sorry I've lost my hearing aid. It must be on my head. Oh no wait they're my glasses. Wait what was the question? I'm confused. Must be an age thing

J x"

Okay, this one was genuinely funny

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By *ub23Man
36 weeks ago

wandering

Big fantasy of mine having sex with an older women

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By *umagain58Man
36 weeks ago

London

Plenty of women do in my experience and some lovely ladies. Met a 74 widow few months back and she was very nice person to meet

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
36 weeks ago

in Lancashire

What a bizarre question ..

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts


"Big fantasy of mine having sex with an older women "

I know this is quite common and I kind of get it but this would put me off. I want to meet people because they like me not because of my age. I don’t want to be someone’s fantasy/fetish.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
36 weeks ago

Coventry


"we're going strong and we see no signs of it diminishing

Sounds like my ideal weekend…..

Btw ... fresh fruit off a woman?? Err im being s sushi table for our next charity event if the person who proposed it raises enoght money ... does that count

Could I drizzle soy sauce on you? "

Only if your using chop sticks!

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
36 weeks ago

London


"Thanks for all the great replies, sometimes men wonder if it is an age thing with both men and women.

Many wonder what lies ahead for them after women go through the menapause or even men themselves going through the same.

As this is a site where there is a wide age range of both women and men I thought I would pose the question as a man whose wife has not been interested in sex for over 15 yrs.

She is now 65 ,soon to be 66.

By women stating that there maybe hope after 55 it will help both men and women who are getting older."

“There is maybe hope after 55…”

Out!

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By *az699Man
36 weeks ago

pboro

I had sex with a 73 year old lady a few months back she said she enjoyed it

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
36 weeks ago

essex


"I am a late bloomer and I haven’t even started properly yet. I think I will be at my best by 55 and beyond.

At least that’s the plan. "

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
36 weeks ago

essex


"I am a late bloomer and I haven’t even started properly yet. I think I will be at my best by 55 and beyond.

At least that’s the plan. "

Can't have you going rusty

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

They’ve got the tools & they KNOW HOW TO USE THEM

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
36 weeks ago

southampton


"Big fantasy of mine having sex with an older women

I know this is quite common and I kind of get it but this would put me off. I want to meet people because they like me not because of my age. I don’t want to be someone’s fantasy/fetish. "

For me it's because I,m older, I'd go 10yrs South but 15yrs North or more. No fetishism, just seems where I should at my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago


"They’ve got the tools & they KNOW HOW TO USE THEM "

BINGO

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

36 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think a lot of people wonder about sex among older people and there are quite a few men who say that their wives are no longer interested after around 55.

I think it would be good to be able to discuss this openly because lots of people are actually suffering in silence, too embarrassed to see a doctor or talk to friends because they think nobody else has the problem

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
36 weeks ago

essex


"I'm 60

No husband now

But still adore sex."

Gosh Yes

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By *r Cheeky cheekyMan
36 weeks ago

essex


"A 55 year old here who still enjoys sex "

Lovely filthy Sex

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By *r P2000Man
36 weeks ago

nearby


"I’m looking forward to giving gummy blowjobs "

Can I get on the list for 1 lol

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