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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

worcester

Heres one for a general poll.

Whats everyones thoughts over keeping a house, do you all like to have a nice home that is kept tidy, or are you happy to live in a pig stye. In addition to that do you expect everyone to pull there weight around the house

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By *allySlinkyWoman
36 weeks ago

Leeds

General Poll cleans my house with military precision.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

We both like to have a nice home that's comfortable to live in. Therefore we like it to be clean but we're not too concerned by a book or two on the coffee table or a stack of clean washing on the end of the bed.

We pull equal weight but our kids never did despite our best efforts

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By *ora the explorerWoman
36 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m a bit of a tidy freak. I tend to do it all as nobody does it like me haha It’s driving me mad at the moment as I have a bad back so I’m having to get others to do things.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex

How about you op?

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By *ife NinjaMan
36 weeks ago

Dunfermline

Cleaning up today

Any lady wants to come and help?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
36 weeks ago

Leeds

Tidy - although with two little ones the clutter drives me crazy.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I like things tidy and in their place but the older you get, these things matter less. If your mind is clear, you don't feel the need to control everything else around you cleaning included.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
36 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I prefer a cleaner house but I’m also of the belief that it doesn’t matter so much! Sometimes there’s dishes in the sink and with having a dog, the kitchen needs brushing and mopping more than it happens.

We both generally clean though - neither of us wait to be reminded. If one is doing something, the other is getting on with something else.

So we can relax together.

K

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By *rHotNottsMan
36 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Heres one for a general poll.

Whats everyones thoughts over keeping a house, do you all like to have a nice home that is kept tidy, or are you happy to live in a pig stye. In addition to that do you expect everyone to pull there weight around the house "

A home is lived in , it is not realistic to be always spotless. But it needs to be organised, tidy and clean , if you want your life to be.

Your home reflects your personality and life 100%

My house my rules, everyone’s does their role including me.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

It's much easier keeping things tidy now I live alone.......

Plus I always know where everything is now.

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By *elix SightedMan
36 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I live on my own in a brand new cell, so it’s easy to keep it spotless. I don’t worry if the kitchen/bathroom needs a wipe over but I can’t be arsed that day. It can always wait unless I have people coming round - I’m very house proud for visiting day.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My brain doesn’t function properly if the house isn’t tidy. I have young kids so it isn’t always spotless with toys etc, but I like to keep some order. I don’t like clutter.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West

I prefer the cleaner side of tidy but life isn't less organised than my ideal.

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By *enuineguy42 OP   Man
36 weeks ago

worcester

For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
36 weeks ago

your head

I like it clean and tidy. Realistically it can't be spotless every minute of the day but I try to keep on top of stuff. It's stays a lot cleaner when there's no one else home

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
36 weeks ago

little house on the praire

The cleaning fairy comes and does mine

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By *amierebelMan
36 weeks ago

nae danger.

I'm like ocd when it comes to how clean my house is lived with a lazy fuck for to many years

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By *avexxMan
36 weeks ago

cheshire

employed as a full time naked cleaner

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

Who's going to admit to living in filth and liking uneven share of labour?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it"

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
36 weeks ago

Durham

Gorgeous man. Great company. Lovely house for a meet up… this was written as a verification for me a while back. My house is still lovely, shame that I’m an old twat now.

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By *elix SightedMan
36 weeks ago

Cloud 8


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping "

Mrs KC, maybe you could fit a mop head behind each wheel and you could mop the floor as you go without expending any extra energy

And some sort of hoover attachment in the middle (which my phone worryingly corrected to boober).

You. Are. Welcome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping "

Our daughter used to go to a playgroup. I was talking to the leader one day who proudly boasted that the downstairs of her house has no evidence that children lived there . I simply couldn't live with that level of tidiness let alone keep it up.

All praise for those that do but I'm far too lazy

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

Our daughter used to go to a playgroup. I was talking to the leader one day who proudly boasted that the downstairs of her house has no evidence that children lived there . I simply couldn't live with that level of tidiness let alone keep it up.

All praise for those that do but I'm far too lazy "

There's a subset of people who think that houses should be perfect minimalist and come in shades of white and beige. Including children's bedrooms.

You do you with your own house etc, but I think kids should be able to metaphorically vomit colour all over their own spaces if they want to.

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By *irthandgirthMan
36 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I wouldn't class myself as a clean freak, but I can't leave my flat with dirty dishes (except for 1 mug of tea). My bed is made the minute I get up. My kitchen is scrubbed most weekends (including the extractor hood)

I WFH a bit and I am studying for a degree. I can't concentrate if I know the area is messy.

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By *aseylee324Couple
36 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'd love my house to be tidy but I can always think of better things to do

I do keep the kitchen and bathrooms clean

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By *aseylee324Couple
36 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

Our daughter used to go to a playgroup. I was talking to the leader one day who proudly boasted that the downstairs of her house has no evidence that children lived there . I simply couldn't live with that level of tidiness let alone keep it up.

All praise for those that do but I'm far too lazy

There's a subset of people who think that houses should be perfect minimalist and come in shades of white and beige. Including children's bedrooms.

You do you with your own house etc, but I think kids should be able to metaphorically vomit colour all over their own spaces if they want to."

I agree, and if they want to make the floor their wardrobe, that's up to them too. Cleaning their rooms is their problem. I've never allowed food in bedrooms so mouldy plates under the beds aren't an issue

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
36 weeks ago

Hastings

Have been told my house is not a home as it's too much like a show home but it's how we like it

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By *antastic_Mr_Fox_76Man
36 weeks ago

District 13

Clean and tidy at all times I do it myself due to living by myself

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By *rcoupleCouple
36 weeks ago

Mid Glam

We are pretty tidy but not mega so.

It's a constant battle as we have kids and pets. There will be the inevitebel signs of life and random detritus such as toys and washing (put away clean in 3- 5 working days)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

Mrs KC, maybe you could fit a mop head behind each wheel and you could mop the floor as you go without expending any extra energy

And some sort of hoover attachment in the middle (which my phone worryingly corrected to boober).

You. Are. Welcome."

I'll look into a boober. Thank you for these incredibly helpful and practical suggestions

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
36 weeks ago

East Sussex


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

Mrs KC, maybe you could fit a mop head behind each wheel and you could mop the floor as you go without expending any extra energy

And some sort of hoover attachment in the middle (which my phone worryingly corrected to boober).

You. Are. Welcome.

I'll look into a boober. Thank you for these incredibly helpful and practical suggestions "

You've heard of 'roomba' ? 'boober' is the latest version, just attach the handy cord to your bra strap as you enter the house and it sets to work vacuuming the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

We both like our house clean and tidy so both do our bit to keep it that way.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
36 weeks ago

North West


"For me I like everything to have a place, i hate clutter and I hate a messy house, theres no real need for it. I probably have a bit of OCD if im honest with mysepf, however we pay alot of money to have a home so why wouldnt we look after it

I struggle to do housework due to disability and so the bulk of it falls to my husband. We both work FT and have young children. Life isn't perfect and nor is our house. It's acceptable. I'd like it to be tidier, but I'm coming to teens with it not being. Just coming in with a wheelchair from outside screws up your hoovering and floor mopping

Mrs KC, maybe you could fit a mop head behind each wheel and you could mop the floor as you go without expending any extra energy

And some sort of hoover attachment in the middle (which my phone worryingly corrected to boober).

You. Are. Welcome.

I'll look into a boober. Thank you for these incredibly helpful and practical suggestions

You've heard of 'roomba' ? 'boober' is the latest version, just attach the handy cord to your bra strap as you enter the house and it sets to work vacuuming the room. "

I actually want a Roomba!

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By *andy CanesWoman
36 weeks ago

south

Definitely a nice home is how I roll

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By *naswingdressWoman
36 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

My place will be better when the forever decorating project is over. (Not forever, just feels like it)

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By *xfordjohnMan
36 weeks ago

Oxford


"Clean and tidy at all times I do it myself due to living by myself "

That's me too

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I've got a clean cosy and comfy home

and I like it like that

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By *iaisonseekerMan
36 weeks ago

Liverpool

Generally tidy but with convenient blind spots for my mess

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By *ddie1966Man
36 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Everything has its place and everything is in its place.

Not a show home but lived in tidy.

If its not tidy, at least its clean, shortly to be tidied.

As a single bloke, I've been told, I'm not right in the head.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
36 weeks ago

Colchester

Organised chaos pretty much describes us. Things do kind of sort of have their designated places, but they may go wandering.

"Have you seen the letter opener? It's not in the holder?"

"I think I opened a letter in the conservatory last week. It's probably under a magazine in there. Didn't you have a letter the week before and I remember you went to your study with it?"

.

Sometimes we can lift a magazine months later and find something we misplaced a long time ago and we both laugh and say "Oh, so that's where it went !". And we'll put it back, alongside the new one we bought off Amazon to replace it

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It is quite rare we forget where stuff is though. It's usually in the last place one of us used it.

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By *orphia2003Woman
36 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

My house is chaotic. I live with family members who are very disorganised and I work too many hours to care currently.

At the moment, the only part of my house I seem to frequent is the porch, stairs, bathroom and bedroom.

Rules are dishes must be washed same day. Clean laundry moved to respective bedrooms same day and dirty laundry stays in laundry baskets until wash day.

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I tidy up and clean when I can be bothered. Nobody else helps. I am very laid back so it doesn’t really bother me too much. I couldn’t live with a neat freak.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
36 weeks ago

Central

How many have answered that they live in the hones that people describe in the worst meets ever threads, where it's a stinking dirty hovel that they went to?

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

Keeping clean and tidy brings me comfort.

Sex on the other hand, hardcore and messy.

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By *ilverjagMan
36 weeks ago

swansea

Interesting thread this. My main residence is always immaculately maintained because, I also have it adapted for my disabled mum's special needs. District nurses come in here currently once a week, and I won't allow any situation to arise where they could have concerns including cleanliness of this home.

Strangely enough though there is a couple in this area who on arrival at someone's house, she asks to use the toilet, and if it's not up to her standards, they make an excuse to leave. Nobody will ever walk into any of my houses and wonder to themselves, "If this is the state of my house, when did my dick last see soap and water." Only twice have I left a ladies house without playing because of the state the place was in.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
36 weeks ago

dublin

Messiness hurts my head but it can be tricky to keep a house tidy with our crazy little family

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

My house is tidy, and I like it that way. It’s easy to keep that way too.

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