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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do verifications go when a member leaves the site, if a member chooses to leave the site then thats thier choice,but they have verified you so it should be your choice as if to keep them on your profile, surely something could be set so you can choose to keep them on your profile if you want to,

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Just meet lots of new people and get some more

We have lost a few like that but if we chose to leave the site I can't see why my verifications should stay here,there would be no point to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just meet lots of new people and get some more

We have lost a few like that but if we chose to leave the site I can't see why my verifications should stay here,there would be no point to that

"

Yeah but even if you left your verifications would atleast prove the other person was genuine! which surely can't be a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its the other persons choice to leave so why not be able to keep them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, this thread is making me feel guilty about deleting my singles profile

Arc

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

We've lost quite a lot due to peeps leaving, can't see a problem with that myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted my previous profile after I asked someone to remove verification and she wouldn’t so it was the only way. It’s the only way you can take one away after giving it.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Okay, this thread is making me feel guilty about deleting my singles profile

Arc

"

Don't let it make you feel guilty,you've moved on and become a couple

People that have left the site do so for their own reasons,why leave verifications up where the user no longer exists on the site?

Its not as anyone loses the flag that says you've been verified and are therefore meant to be genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Don't let it make you feel guilty,you've moved on and become a couple

People that have left the site do so for their own reasons,why leave verifications up where the user no longer exists on the site?

Its not as anyone loses the flag that says you've been verified and are therefore meant to be genuine "

Its because I write good verifications. I've had my ear bent more than once because I didn't warn anyone, and the veri's have all gone.

Arc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Don't let it make you feel guilty,you've moved on and become a couple

People that have left the site do so for their own reasons,why leave verifications up where the user no longer exists on the site?

Its not as anyone loses the flag that says you've been verified and are therefore meant to be genuine

Its because I write good verifications. I've had my ear bent more than once because I didn't warn anyone, and the veri's have all gone.

Arc

"
But honey sometimes we ave to be selfish and do wots right for us and im sure ull agree...they'll get over it and they should be happy for u i know i am

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


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Don't let it make you feel guilty,you've moved on and become a couple

People that have left the site do so for their own reasons,why leave verifications up where the user no longer exists on the site?

Its not as anyone loses the flag that says you've been verified and are therefore meant to be genuine

Its because I write good verifications. I've had my ear bent more than once because I didn't warn anyone, and the veri's have all gone.

Arc

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Im sure your continued friendship means more than a verification anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TBH I'm kicking myself anyway, someóf the verifications I had where very good for my ego

Arc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TBH I'm kicking myself anyway, someóf the verifications I had where very good for my ego

Arc"

But havin a loving sexy partner is even better for ur ego

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"TBH I'm kicking myself anyway, someóf the verifications I had where very good for my ego

Arc"

LMAO when/if you start playing as a couple im sure you'll have even more to put a smile on your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But havin a loving sexy partner is even better for ur ego "

I don't need an ego when I'm with Raz.

Raz gives me a warm fuzzy feeling, a huge grin, and a feeling that regardless of what happens we'll be alright because we have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But havin a loving sexy partner is even better for ur ego

I don't need an ego when I'm with Raz.

Raz gives me a warm fuzzy feeling, a huge grin, and a feeling that regardless of what happens we'll be alright because we have each other "

My point exactly

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

i still think we should have the facility to delete verifications we have given.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i still think we should have the facility to delete verifications we have given..... "

Here here

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"i still think we should have the facility to delete verifications we have given..... "

Here is an answer from Admin about deleting verifications.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/help/10657

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive lost a few verfications this way as well, but to be honest im not really here to get notches on my verfication post so it makes no odds to me if someone does not verify me or if i loose a verfication, some people on here just seem more obsessed about meeting people so they can get verified than meeting them for fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i still think we should have the facility to delete verifications we have given.....

Here here "

nah i dont think thats a good idea because people would be taking verfication off others for silly reasons, like not wanting to meet them again, when you swing people meet sometimes people choose not to re meet that does not make you any less genuine, so if you meet someone and like them, go home give them a good verfication and then find out they have chosen not to meet you again would it be fair to then take that verification away? i think not myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i still think we should have the facility to delete verifications we have given..... "

AWwwwwwww you said you didnt mind that I looked like something thats lives below ground

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay, this thread is making me feel guilty about deleting my singles profile

Arc

"

those verifications you gave were as a single person, you are not that single person any more. I'm sure your couples veris if and or when you start to meet will be just as thoughtful, but as a couple they will be different from single veris.

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By *lirties4uCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

What a lovely thing to write Arcy! Or is it Mr Furryboots now?

Mrs F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a lovely thing to write Arcy! Or is it Mr Furryboots now?

Mrs F "

I don't know about Mr FB but he's certainly Mr Make Me Smile, just caught up on this thread and am blushing profusely now...............xxxxxx

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"Okay, this thread is making me feel guilty about deleting my singles profile

Arc

and so it bloody should!!!

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

...but they both know they're still on my list of fave fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but they both know they're still on my list of fave fab friends "

Well we will have to put our heads together and come up with a new one just for you from both of us xxx;-)xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...but they both know they're still on my list of fave fab friends

Well we will have to put our heads together and come up with a new one just for you from both of us xxx;-)xxx"

But when we get our heads together we have other things on our minds

Arc

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

Ho hum !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would it be a good idea and is it possible, if people leave the site the verifications stand but with a similar 'user left the site' in place of i.d, much like in the forum?.

happy medium perhaps, if at all possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do verifications go when a member leaves the site, if a member chooses to leave the site then thats thier choice,but they have verified you so it should be your choice as if to keep them on your profile, surely something could be set so you can choose to keep them on your profile if you want to,"

I agree TOTALLY with you. I lost a very good verification only yesterday. Someone i see quite a lot of left the site. Stupid thing is ... we are still in touch !! We will still meet ! but I have lost a very good 'reference' Okay so he is no longer a member ... but when he was he vouched for me being genuine and reliable. The verification should stay. It says I exist ... NOT the ex member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do verifications go when a member leaves the site, if a member chooses to leave the site then thats thier choice,but they have verified you so it should be your choice as if to keep them on your profile, surely something could be set so you can choose to keep them on your profile if you want to,

I agree TOTALLY with you. I lost a very good verification only yesterday. Someone i see quite a lot of left the site. Stupid thing is ... we are still in touch !! We will still meet ! but I have lost a very good 'reference' Okay so he is no longer a member ... but when he was he vouched for me being genuine and reliable. The verification should stay. It says I exist ... NOT the ex member. "

Granny, you are trying to apply common sense to " rules " ????? when has that ever worked ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deleted my previous profile after I asked someone to remove verification and she wouldn’t so it was the only way. It’s the only way you can take one away after giving it."

It's not YOURS to take away ffs! It belongs to them!

A verification just says they EXIST in the form they claim to exist in.

A verification is NOT YOUR approval .... jeeeeeeeeesus ....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"would it be a good idea and is it possible, if people leave the site the verifications stand but with a similar 'user left the site' in place of i.d, much like in the forum?.

happy medium perhaps, if at all possible."

Stop talking sense you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"would it be a good idea and is it possible, if people leave the site the verifications stand but with a similar 'user left the site' in place of i.d, much like in the forum?.

happy medium perhaps, if at all possible.

Stop talking sense you "

It wasn't me, nobody can proove it's me, I was still logged in here, it was Coll thinking I was logged in on our couple profile, not me, honestly, I don't talk that kind of crap, erm sense.

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