FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions?

By *ulk.9 OP Man
37 weeks ago

Redditch

Before I've never experienced any interest in BBW or ssbbw but since few months ago, I hooked up with a gorgeous BBW while I was on holiday and now I feel so that I am so into them..yet I still find it difficult to even get reply of them here.. maybe cuz they're hammered with msgs or they don't like medium built guys ?

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By *herryPapaMan
37 weeks ago

There or thereabout

Give me a BBW any day of the week

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By *stwo2023Couple
37 weeks ago

Worcester

How are you approaching them? Are you telling them you're holiday awakening story?

Evie

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By *eyond PurityCouple
37 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You haven’t asked for profile advice so I won’t give it.

But generally guys have to stand out on here, so need a decent detailed profile. Also guys who just have cock pics or action shots aren’t going to be looked at favourably. A good range of pics helps.

Also note you’ve been here 5 weeks, which isn’t long at all.

When messaging people, they’ll look at your profile first before reading your message and if they don’t like what they see they’ll delete without reply.

Down to you to try and stop that happening by making yourself presentable, respectful and interesting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
37 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

A lot of women get more messages than they can respond to.

How do you work on appealling to them, in either your message or profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.

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By *rixie_BlondeWoman
37 weeks ago

London (She/Her)

"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages."

This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants.

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By *naswingdressWoman
37 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.

This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "

One of the things that struck me when I got messages was how often I was made to feel like a convenient set of holes, wet and pulse optional.

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By *sWyldWoman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.

This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Unbelievable.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
37 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

If you search the forum for BBW you’ll see there’s a whole load of events that go on around the country.

If you go to one of those instead of messaging people who may or may not like the term. It’s a minefield out there OP, better to be safe than sorry.

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By *loomy GirlWoman
37 weeks ago

leicester

"The first mistake most men make when messaging the Mrs is banging on about how much they love BBW in the messages.

This. I’m not here to complete his wish list or fulfill his fetish. I want to be seen as a regular, attractive woman. A whole person with a body, personality, and my own sexual wants. "

Exactly this.

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
37 weeks ago

exeter

I’m someone that has really like BBW/SSBBW for so many different reasons . I love their bodies but also they tend to have such good personalities, confidence in themselves and appreciate a man that feels that way towards them . There are a lot of fabulous women on here and it does just take the right approach towards them , I get plenty of replies from them but also a few that don’t , but that’s just standard really and you just expect that anyway .

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
37 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Try approaching them the same way you would any woman, irrespective of their body shape/size.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
37 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

OP as I said above, there are those that like it and those that get offended by it. Best taking yourself off to an event where plenty of the ones who like it attend

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

"Try approaching them the same way you would any woman, irrespective of their body shape/size.

Yep it’s that simple.

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By *ulk.9 OP Man
36 weeks ago

Redditch

Haha I actually pulled off my first meet here and we shared few experiences..both of us had a lot of fun tho

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By *ulk.9 OP Man
36 weeks ago

Redditch

Thanks for the tips

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By *ulk.9 OP Man
36 weeks ago

Redditch

Understand Ur point and not here to hurt anyone feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I like to be found attractive irrespective of the fact that I am indeed a bbw rather than it being fetishised… we all have our preferences but I don’t wanna be made to feel like a box ticking exercise!

Maybe just approach women you find attractive without bringing their size into it..

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
36 weeks ago

exeter

"Thanks for the tips

I think also that you will find that there are many women who are proud to be known as a BBW/SSBBW . They are happy to show themselves as that . In a way is it any different to women that say they only want , VWE or BBC only ? We all like different things at the end of the day . Welcome to the BBW club

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