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Could you give this all up?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've often joked that I could only give swinging up if Nicky Hayden (if you know your bikes you'll know who he is) swept me off my feet and asked me to marry him.

But all jokes aside, I'm not sure I could give swinging up. The thought of monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is!

Swinging has allowed me to become confident in my body and I'm getting there with my insecurities too. My shoe collection is now mainly based upon whether I'll look sexy in the shoes and I finally own a couple of corsets! I feel sexy and I also know that my BDSM side isn't "weird" like I used to think it was.

Could you give swinging up? I know I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and yes and yes

although I would keep in touch with some friends ive made..especially ones ive known nearly 10years or so

got a good few on facebook...so its not all about sex

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes but I would never have sex exclusive to one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for the right person x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not doing anything to give up..but I would be unhappy taking part in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the social side of it, the banter etc, but now i have discovered this world i would be reluctant to give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for the right person x "

I wish u would just come out and say it....I'm getting tired of the vague comments! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could drop it in a flash, we have an agreement that the second either wants to leave swinging we both walk no arguments.

Its all about fun and meeting like minded people but it is certainly not the be all and end etc.

That said we do have a lot of fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes for the right person x

I wish u would just come out and say it....I'm getting tired of the vague comments! x "

If your after a marriage proposal just say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i could ...... xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

It would have to be one hell of a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unlikely,

I introduced my ex husband to swinging, Im happily divorced over 7 years.

I have breaks from the scene, and have stayed 'faithfull' in the beginning of a relationship but I love the clubs, and the added extra within sex and outside of the sex, from swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem "

Would she be your maid? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd give it up for the women above...at the same time

many wives i want...some for sex..others for general stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried to quit! Lasted 2 days lol

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By *aughtylilredheadWoman
over a year ago

Port Talbot

We have tried and failed many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when the day comes to hang up my heels for slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've never done the clubs,partys or even a mfm yet, so not like would miss much

What I would miss would be the forums x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

We don't really swing that much at the moment but that's because we are working 'us' out. If one of us decided it wasn't For us I would hope we would both walk away together.

I'm not sure I could give up the forums though. I've made a lot of friends here and feel that I can be myself on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've tried to quit! Lasted 2 days lol "

I lasted 3 weeks! That was in August and it was a very boring 3 weeks!

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By *urvey-SexyMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Wow what a question. I would say yes but it would be very hard to do so really. It a nice part of my life and i do really love it, but if i found a woman that liked dressing sexy for fun and had a high sex drive i would leave it alone and enjoy my life away from all this, but i have not found anyone who likes sex as much as me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only really just started and so much I want to do!!

I've always been highly sexed and relationships I've had have never really fulfilled my sexual needs, being here I can get sex when I want and on my terms and I love meeting new people and chatting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am not monogamous. I never will be monogamous, so why should I give it up. I spent many years trying to be who I wasn't. Trying to fit into a nice little family.

I ended up cheating over and over. So from now on I will never ever give up being me.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Not 'til I tire of sex! I've no desire for a monogamous relationship (tried and couldn't hack it) so I'm happy on my own with plenty of variety in my sex life

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Who knows... But I have been thinking about it alot lately and really am considering walking away from it.... Been a great few years not sure what to do but I'll decide one way or the other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a heartbeat.its probably the least important thing in our lives if somewhat of an amusing diversion from other stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would have to be one hell of a person "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We gave it up for all of 6 months then decided to join fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the right person came along I could give it up. Don't meet that often due to work commitments so wouldn't be that hard to do it I don't think. It would be easier for the likes of me rather than someone who has been swinging for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not 'til I tire of sex! I've no desire for a monogamous relationship (tried and couldn't hack it) so I'm happy on my own with plenty of variety in my sex life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like the idea of just having sex with one man who i have feelings for but i think we would both get bored.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.

M"

Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could give this up easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how big a hole its filled in ur life i suppose

i joined to try and see out a few fantasies so i dont have much invested personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give it up if my partner isn't into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could give up swinging as I don't really meet much now.

Not sure if I could walk away from BDSM though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem

Would she be your maid? X "

No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There may come a time and a place when I would give up swinging, but at the moment I can quite happily say no

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yes we both would. It's an addition, sort of hobby if you like, to our private sex life and not a replacement or a total lifestyle. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem

Would she be your maid? X

No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times"

Counts me out. I hate cleaning

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

noooo if i got a partner here . I hope we would play as a couple .

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

yes...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

dont think i will ever give it up, i think i would slowly have less and less meets and wake up one mornig and find im not swinging anymore. As for giving it up for a man pfffffffft. This is part of my life and no man would be worth it. Wellthe one man that is worth it wouldnt want me to give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If you mean FAB ....yes easily.

If you mean enter into a monogamous existence NO never.

If you mean give up for one individual cos they want me to. No.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Think its quite sad that some people have stated they COULDN'T give this up!! Seriously???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you mean FAB ....yes easily.

If you mean enter into a monogamous existence NO never.

If you mean give up for one individual cos they want me to. No.

"

I mean it all. I (foolishly) did for the latter in August, it went tits up and I was back on here and back in Cupids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easy , if we found a live in Bi fem

Would she be your maid? X

No , but she's have to clean the pool and jacuzzi and make sure the Bentley and Veron had a full tank on fuel at all times

Counts me out. I hate cleaning "

Go on then we'll let you off the cleaning then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its quite sad that some people have stated they COULDN'T give this up!! Seriously???

"

Im nearly 40, no kids..I want more from life..and yeah i want love and a committed relationship...my ideal partner could be here or not

but when I find what I'm after(or finds me), I can only look back and say wOw

I have no problems leaving a site/scene that really isnt designed for finding what I'm essentially missing from my life

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If you mean FAB ....yes easily.

If you mean enter into a monogamous existence NO never.

If you mean give up for one individual cos they want me to. No.

I mean it all. I (foolishly) did for the latter in August, it went tits up and I was back on here and back in Cupids. "

Tis better to have gone tits up then never to have titted at all xxx

Im off oot tutpub ...

Tra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the question is could we give it up then yes really easily, if the question is do we want to then its a no.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"if the question is could we give it up then yes really easily, if the question is do we want to then its a no."

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

If it was a choice between this and my marriage then yes, I would give up in a heratbeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our meets are getting longer and longer apart these day's so the answer to your question is a very big yes , we could walk away heads held high with no regrets, have met some fantastic ppl during our time which spans over 10 years give or take, and can still remember everything from our 1st ever meet, and the stopping every few miles on our way to chat and say is this what we want, and the next day when on our way home we were like a cpl of school kids giggling all the way home and the sex when we got home was so good we just had to do it again, but now it se the Buzz has gone and that's prob why we have not met anyone since last year. But who knows when we will finally hang up our boots and call it a day for Good

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes...... however, my beliefs would go unchanged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my kids ever found out I did this I would stop straight away, so yes if needed I could give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer is a big yes.... We don't do meets that often anyway... And we could walk away from it right now!!

Although I would probably stay for the forums

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, it's not the most major thing in my life at the moment. More like an occasional hobby I guess. Better than collecting fossils though.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Yes, its a very small part of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, its a very small part of my life."

and ur susan boyle fan club take up most of ur time to run

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Yes, its a very small part of my life.

and ur susan boyle fan club take up most of ur time to run "
Bollox Paddy, big fat hairy ones!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes, its a very small part of my life."

So is my cock

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Yes, its a very small part of my life.

So is my cock "
Well fucking hell it must be small, have i blinked and missed it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No. "

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could but after waiting years to try it,its everything i expected and more so i'm not giving it up anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I am sixty and my Rita are down to my knees and I can't be bothered to shave my pubes anymore .lol.i will retire then with joe to a life of strip bingo ,and geriatric days out to Barnstaple .however once in a home I would like to break out sporadically and attend the local swinging joint to indulge the kinksters in their fuck an old fogey fuck fest ,might do a greedy granny's night too.lol.poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.

M

Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken."

I have been with my husband since I was 17 have had four kids and even after 26 yrs he gives me butterflies when he walks in the room and vice versa.

I have only been with another person in his presence and him in mine and that is only over the last three yrs!

We could walk away from swinging and not bat a eye lid. Some relationships work really well and the sex can be just as fantastic with just one partner, I do know that for a fact.

M

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes, its a very small part of my life.

So is my cock Well fucking hell it must be small, have i blinked and missed it? "

You don't need to blink. Merely looking through your eyelashes will work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monogamy is quite frankly what ever the opposite of horny is. Really Well is that a misguided fact like you are stating or just your own opinion ? No disrespect meant.

M

Its my opinion. I have been in a monogamous relationship (I was monogamous, he wasn't!) and I couldn't imagine being in another one. No disrespect taken.

I have been with my husband since I was 17 have had four kids and even after 26 yrs he gives me butterflies when he walks in the room and vice versa.

I have only been with another person in his presence and him in mine and that is only over the last three yrs!

We could walk away from swinging and not bat a eye lid. Some relationships work really well and the sex can be just as fantastic with just one partner, I do know that for a fact.

M "

i can well believe it somehow.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

would be happy to give it up for my current partner as he is my world .. but if i was not with him there is no way in the world I would give it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would for the right parson!

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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago

Nr Chester


"yes but I would never have sex exclusive to one person."

Agreed

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