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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire

to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
over a year ago

Warwick and Coventry

Qué será, será

Whatever will be, will be

The future's not ours to see

Qué será, será

What will be, will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually me being the one blocked lol for a "hi"

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If you leave it too long they think you're not interested and block so they don't message again.

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating "

Fakes perhaps?

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating "

Literally just had this, was massaging back and forth, went to reply to their last message pressed send, and blocked lol

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

What's a reply??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Someone blocks because my time scales don't work for them? We're not compatible. Saves us both time.

Someone blocks because they didn't like my message? We're not compatible. Saves us both time.

Vaguely frustrating if it looked like they were a viable option, but obviously they were not, so there's no point dwelling on it

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By *hesubtlegentMan
over a year ago

surrey

I wait a month for a reply before I remove any pics I’ve sent. I think that a reasonable time to wait to see if someone is interested. I don’t delete the message or block though so they can always reply and I’ll send another face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impatience is a red flag, don't be irritated be grateful.

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"If you leave it too long they think you're not interested and block so they don't message again. "

I guess so but patience is a virtue x

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating

Fakes perhaps?"

Never understood this whole fake thing

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"What's a reply??"

When someone replies to your message

I always try to

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"I wait a month for a reply before I remove any pics I’ve sent. I think that a reasonable time to wait to see if someone is interested. I don’t delete the message or block though so they can always reply and I’ll send another face pic. "

Sensible

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"What's a reply??

When someone replies to your message

I always try to"

Who knew, I must try to get one these "replies", fascinating

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating

Literally just had this, was massaging back and forth, went to reply to their last message pressed send, and blocked lol

"

Don’t massage whilst messaging

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"What's a reply??

When someone replies to your message

I always try to

Who knew, I must try to get one these "replies", fascinating "

Haha

You’re making it sound like a desert out there x

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Impatience is a red flag, don't be irritated be grateful."

Not impatient at all

I don’t always get round to replying immediately or possibly within what would be considered a reasonable timeframe but I do, eventually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is what it is stage of this site now. More of a hobbie now

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Impatience is a red flag, don't be irritated be grateful."

Ah! Just got your meaning x

Yes I guess impatience is a bit of a red flag - I hate those meet right now kind of messages

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"What's a reply??

When someone replies to your message

I always try to

Who knew, I must try to get one these "replies", fascinating

Haha

You’re making it sound like a desert out there x"

It is for some of us, but that's cool, is what it is

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

1313 Mockingbird Lane…

Well if someone opens my message & doesn’t reply, what am I supposed to think?

If someone ever messaged me(never happened)& I liked the look of them, I’d reply.

And dya have any idea how many ladies profiles say...

“If I don’t reply, I’m not interested”

Or

“Don’t bombard me with messages, if I don’t respond”

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I would be amazed if I got a reply

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Well if someone opens my message & doesn’t reply, what am I supposed to think?

If someone ever messaged me(never happened)& I liked the look of them, I’d reply.

And dya have any idea how many ladies profiles say...

“If I don’t reply, I’m not interested”

Or

“Don’t bombard me with messages, if I don’t respond”"

I’m talking unopened messages

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"What's a reply??

When someone replies to your message

I always try to

Who knew, I must try to get one these "replies", fascinating

Haha

You’re making it sound like a desert out there x

It is for some of us, but that's cool, is what it is"

Hugs x

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By *ustAnotherMan
over a year ago

brumish

I've blocked and removed pics after a while before now when I've just got a concern it's not a genuine account. No activity not verified, whatever.

Generally just more careful about who I send pics to now anyway

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a great way for the inappropriate to self select them away from us

They send a wink and a message within minutes. You're winding down for the night and online. But blocked within minutes, as we're time wasters, obviously.

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By *ambertMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

To be fair if I don't hear back after two messages with two weeks in-between I tend to assume there is no interest and move on

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

It is rather frustrating, more so when you chat and it seems to be going well then blocked.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We get this quite a bit - there’s two of us, so sometimes we don’t reply straight away to allow for both of us to see the pics.

But a lot of people have pics to be removed after the message has been opened - so only one gets to see the pics, which is a bit pointless.

We then have to describe what someone looks like to each other

K

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"To be fair if I don't hear back after two messages with two weeks in-between I tend to assume there is no interest and move on"

Similar here. Manners cost nothing

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By *exxyyDy11Man
over a year ago

North West


"It's a great way for the inappropriate to self select them away from us

They send a wink and a message within minutes. You're winding down for the night and online. But blocked within minutes, as we're time wasters, obviously. "

You see you're not allowed a life outside here apparently. I'm not bothered if they block me. Their loss

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating "

looking at your profile I wouldn't worry about it, I don't think you're gonna struggle.

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"Well if someone opens my message & doesn’t reply, what am I supposed to think?

If someone ever messaged me(never happened)& I liked the look of them, I’d reply.

And dya have any idea how many ladies profiles say...

“If I don’t reply, I’m not interested”

Or

“Don’t bombard me with messages, if I don’t respond”"

If I open a message but don’t reply or delete, it’s because I want a little more time to get into a conversation with that person

An instant block is because the message was inappropriate and I don’t want to get into a conversation or because there is nothing to go in the profile, no photos and no text - a lot of things at play but generally the messages I reply to seem to have something to say and have read my profile x

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating looking at your profile I wouldn't worry about it, I don't think you're gonna struggle."

Xx

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating "

The impatient fools! You’re absolutely worth the wait

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By *exymilf_69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

yorkshire


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating

The impatient fools! You’re absolutely worth the wait "

Haha x thank you!

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

They block you !!!!

They must be mucking fental!!!

Good riddance to bad attitude and counter block.

Sending big hugs.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"to some messages, they’ve blocked you or removed their pics

Quite frustrating "

It’s happened to us too. It’s not saying annything about you, its says more about them. It’s the sex-internet, a few of them are probably breaching their SHPOs by being on here!

Hades

x

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