FabSwingers.com forum: Ages

By *amierebel OP Man
49 weeks ago

My own little world

So how young is to young to you all ? Like what sort of age gap.

I only ask as someone recently I'm connected with really wants to meet and have a wee night together just I'm 11 years older than her wich I have stressed to her however says age isn't important I'm still on the fence myself.

So go on fabbers how much of a gap could you do ?

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
49 weeks ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

My husband of 20 yrs was 18 years my senior.

In terms of younger I’m not interested in anyone younger than my adult child, it just wouldn’t seem right to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

10 but even that might feel like pushing it.

But if she’s ok with the 11 year gap and you are what’s the problem? Go for it.

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By *ealitybitesMan
49 weeks ago

Belfast

I won't go below my lower age filter which is 42 but even that is a stretch as I've never been with anyone more than 10 years below my own age and never with anyone older than me so it's actually a very narrow gap.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

Probably six or seven years younger is my limit.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Probably six or seven years younger is my limit."

Ffs

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By *uri00620Woman
49 weeks ago

Croydon

Not that much younger. 10 years maximum.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
49 weeks ago

North West

We set the minimum at 25. There was probably a science behind it but there we are.

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By *eliWoman
49 weeks ago

Women? Probably no more than (quickly works it out) six years. Men? Gosh. Erm... I'd say anyone younger than me would be too young but now it really depends on their emotional intelligence and attitude. Let's say six as well, fuck it.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

10 years younger and 5 years over as a general rule, the upper limit is fluid in clubs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

No one under 30 and I'm 43

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I tend to stick to 40-50.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
49 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

18-99 is the age range

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
49 weeks ago

little house on the praire

It's up to the individuals. If you feel comfortable op then go for it

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By *elshcouple18Couple
49 weeks ago

Cardiff

Not really got an age limit.. personality matters to us more.. if they're on our wavelength, and mature, does age really matter?

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By *ou4funCouple
49 weeks ago

farnborough

16 years between me and partner

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By *alandNitaCouple
49 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Our profile says 30, but we mostly meet in clubs and have never asked ages.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I have sex with anyone over the legal age of consent as long as it can be verified and they are into having sex with me.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
49 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I've met guys 20 years younger than me, that's pretty much my limit. I don't usually meet anyone older.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

"We set the minimum at 25. There was probably a science behind it but there we are. "

That’s also my absolutely hard limit.

The science says that young peoples brains don’t finish developing until their mid twenties - crucially the parts responsible for long-term decision making, understanding consequences, and critical thinking and reasoning.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Central

I'm fine with 20 years younger

but only if he's mature, has the right personality and fit

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By *TK421-Man
49 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Depends on what you are after.

Some young people are very mature. So take it on a case by case basis.

Whatever you personally feel comfortable with.

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By *wiggy2112Woman
49 weeks ago

some where in Yorkshire

Nothing under 40 ….but that’s because I’ve seen my sons friends on here and another family members ….. Nothing over 70 …to much my dads age lol ….

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

18-99

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By *ora the explorerWoman
49 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"18-99"

My Nan would be overjoyed at this Rex

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
49 weeks ago

Cambs

"We set the minimum at 25. There was probably a science behind it but there we are.

That’s also my absolutely hard limit.

This is so valid!

I feel this way too, mid 20's absolute minimum because of the same reason.

Personality and emotional intelligence are more important than age though, I'd go higher than I would lower.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"18-99

My Nan would be overjoyed at this Rex "

Your nan is 102 and not my type

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By *ACOLCouple
49 weeks ago

limerick

Under 30 for me. Hubby under 27

Lina

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I all ways thought half your age plus 7

Ie 60 year no one under 37

50 year no one under 32

Hopefully keep you away from anyone same age as your own kids .

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
49 weeks ago

Stoke

11 years is no issue at all, wouldn't even cross my mind!

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
49 weeks ago

Worcester

"I all ways thought half your age plus 7

Ie 60 year no one under 37

50 year no one under 32

Hopefully keep you away from anyone same age as your own kids . "

That rule was actually developed as the MAXIMUM age of woman that an aristocratic man should marry.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
49 weeks ago

Chichester

I meet people of all ages as long as they over 18

If they are hot and mutually attracted to want to have sex then all is cook beans with me

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By *xfordjohnMan
49 weeks ago

Oxford

My friendly couple are ten years younger than me, which at our age is neither here nor there. I'm also sharing virtual meetings with a view to a physical meet with a couple who are twenty years younger than me which is a bit of a surprise to me, but if they're happy, it's fine.

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By *issmorganWoman
49 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think if you're both attracted to each other and want to go for it, do it.

I personally wouldn't go below 35/36, but I'm a fair bit older than you op.

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By *amierebel OP Man
49 weeks ago

My own little world

Cheers everyone for their thoughts

We both discussed before hand that we ain't after a relationship or anything along them lines and the lady in question is super attractive like out my league attractive wich possibly is another reason I'm debating it. Just don't want be seen as creepy for getting into someone so young i guess.

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By *ad NannaWoman
49 weeks ago

East London

I'm 16 years older than my long term partner and we've been seeing each other for 14 years.

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