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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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I can’t think of a situation as to when I’d only be looking for short term or only looking for long term.

All relationships are great, I don’t care how long they last.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

I can’t think of a situation as to when I’d only be looking for short term or only looking for long term.

Have you not seen the options on swiping apps?

All relationships are great, I don’t care how long they last."

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

If your happy for it to be short term then yes, if your hoping they'll change their minds then it would be a no (for me personally)

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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Good time is a good time no matter if it's long or short

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. Nothing lasts, does it? I think I'd rather have someone's light in my life for a short period than not at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. Nothing lasts, does it? I think I'd rather have someone's light in my life for a short period than not at all."

Nothing lasts? *cries

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

SOMEWHERE IN AFRICA

Why would it be short term? Work, holiday fling, health, age etc. None of those would stop me from living in the moment and enjoying my time with that person.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

I can’t think of a situation as to when I’d only be looking for short term or only looking for long term.

Have you not seen the options on swiping apps?

All relationships are great, I don’t care how long they last."

I only use Feeld really. I don’t think it has a long/short term option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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Yes, I would.

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By *sWyldWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All moments of happiness are worthwhile

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. Nothing lasts, does it? I think I'd rather have someone's light in my life for a short period than not at all.

Nothing lasts? *cries "

No Woody, sadly not. So why not seize those opportunities whilst you can? Say yes to the happiness, live mindfully without thinking about what comes next.

I will never, ever regret a wonderful relationship, however long it lasts. I might if it's crap, no I definitely will.

So, yes. I'd always go for it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes I’d rather know upfront than have the disappointment drop in unannounced.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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No relationship lasts forever. I'd rather enjoy a short time with someone that makes my heart smile than not have them in my life at all.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Yes. Nothing lasts, does it? I think I'd rather have someone's light in my life for a short period than not at all.

Nothing lasts? *cries "

You little softy

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By *cholarmanMan
over a year ago

Reading


"Why would it be short term? Work, holiday fling, health, age etc. None of those would stop me from living in the moment and enjoying my time with that person.

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JadedCouga - I’m trying to find the words to explain how gutted I am to be outside your preferred age range. This kind of age discrimination is surely a breach of my human rights - if I were to identify as a 30 year old with a massive cock would that help?

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Worcester


"Why would it be short term? Work, holiday fling, health, age etc. None of those would stop me from living in the moment and enjoying my time with that person.

JadedCouga - I’m trying to find the words to explain how gutted I am to be outside your preferred age range. This kind of age discrimination is surely a breach of my human rights - if I were to identify as a 30 year old with a massive cock would that help?"

Bit rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd rather not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could get hit by a bus tomorrow. So they short term would be relatively more meaningful. Allowing for natural cell atrophy, cognitive decline, any my having the attention span of a love island costume designer, short would work given it could be relatively longer.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I've never entered any relationship with a preconceived notion of how long it would last.

It's beyond my control after all, unless it's my decision to end it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I've never entered any relationship with a preconceived notion of how long it would last.

It's beyond my control after all, unless it's my decision to end it. "

This seems reasonable.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nothing lasts forever.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

No. I don't enter a relationship by putting a time limit on it.

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By *ortney FoxxxWoman
over a year ago

honeysuckle lane

Short term I wouldn’t want anyone get to comfortable at my table

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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As long as both people went in knowing each others expectations, then yeah.

Communication is key.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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Narp. If someone is only looking for short term it says to me that, even if things went well, they’re not interested in committing to a relationship. I’d want to know that, assuming everything developed well over time and with no agenda or pressure, a relationship could develop into something truly meaningful.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

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No I wouldn’t waste my time. My next relationship I would ideally want it to become life long. Old mortal clock is ticking

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

At my age, I'd take it. I haven't got time to waste being too choosy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would. I'd love the time I had with them, but I don't know how I would try to recover from not having them in my life anymore

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

If they are only looking for something short term then its utterly meaningless and pointless. Far too many people are kidding themselves that they can change people and make them want something meaningful when in reality they can’t and will only lead to headache. Unless you are equipt for having your body used and then disguarded then in all honestly people are best off pleasuring themselves - that’s the reality

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh


"I don't think I would. I'd love the time I had with them, but I don't know how I would try to recover from not having them in my life anymore"

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

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By *hestyCharlotteWoman
over a year ago

blackpool


"If you knew your next relationship would be wonderful, but they are only looking for something short term, would you take it?

Narp. If someone is only looking for short term it says to me that, even if things went well, they’re not interested in committing to a relationship. I’d want to know that, assuming everything developed well over time and with no agenda or pressure, a relationship could develop into something truly meaningful."

Exactly

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