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"Maybe I’m wrong, and I’m not particularly an advocate of cancel culture but I can’t help feeling uncomfortable about his songs being played, and isn’t there also a musical based on his songs?. Is the argument that the songs should stand on their own, and his alleged behaviour shouldn’t overshadow his artistry, otherwise we’d have to cancel everything?, I guess. Interested in other people’s views" You are entirely free to switch off or listen to any artist you choose based on your own morality. However, I would expect backlash if I started to tell everyone what to listen to or not to listen to based on my beliefs. | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. " No Think there were settlements though but wasn’t actually found guilty of anything | |||
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"It does make me uncomfortable too. It's not as easy as say R Kelly whose music is shit and there was evidence and he got convicted. Can't yo fully ever separate the artist from the art? " I liked his music . I did remove it all from my Spotify though | |||
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"Stephen Fry, who is a fan of composer Richard Wagner, who is a known Nazi sympathiser and anti-semite. Fry talks about the need to celebrate the genius but equally use his exposure to talk about why Wagner is misguided on his belief about Jewish people. In today's Cancel Culture some people think that closets like Rock Hudson and Freddy Mercury should be cancelled. But it was due to their (difficult!) political choices that allowed them to be famous, now celebrated as gay icons. It's complicated." Its also an inherent problem with trying to view the last through the lens of today's social morality. It rarely works. Unfortunately, there is little intellectual difference between students damaging priceless art for their beliefs in the West, and Daesh destroying pre-islam art and structures in the middle East. | |||
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"Stephen Fry, who is a fan of composer Richard Wagner, who is a known Nazi sympathiser and anti-semite. Fry talks about the need to celebrate the genius but equally use his exposure to talk about why Wagner is misguided on his belief about Jewish people. In today's Cancel Culture some people think that closets like Rock Hudson and Freddy Mercury should be cancelled. But it was due to their (difficult!) political choices that allowed them to be famous, now celebrated as gay icons. It's complicated. Its also an inherent problem with trying to view the last through the lens of today's social morality. It rarely works. Unfortunately, there is little intellectual difference between students damaging priceless art for their beliefs in the West, and Daesh destroying pre-islam art and structures in the middle East. " *past, not last. Damn it, I can't spell today. | |||
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"It’s an interesting point. Salvador Dali was an avowed facist yet how work has hung on almost every students wall since the 60s. Does that make his art less interesting? " Yeah. We seem to pick and choose. It's easy to get rid of say Gary Glitter, but Bowie, who I love, probably slept with underage fans in the 70s and made a drug addled fascist speech. Admittedly Glitter was a lot more troubling human and his nonceing was pretty hard core. Walt Disney was anti semitic. Lovecraft a massive racist. | |||
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"It’s an interesting point. Salvador Dali was an avowed facist yet how work has hung on almost every students wall since the 60s. Does that make his art less interesting? Yeah. We seem to pick and choose. It's easy to get rid of say Gary Glitter, but Bowie, who I love, probably slept with underage fans in the 70s and made a drug addled fascist speech. Admittedly Glitter was a lot more troubling human and his nonceing was pretty hard core. Walt Disney was anti semitic. Lovecraft a massive racist. " Where do you draw the line? Che Guevara who has graced posters and tee-shirts for decades is a well documented sadistic torturer whomwould be tried for war crimes. | |||
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"I think its for the individual to choose. How far would this be taken? Would you switch off the football because a footballer had been accused of sexual assault? What about if they were found guilty? Not listen to George Michael or Wham because of his d*unk/drug diving conviction? Where is the line?" I think everyone probably has different lines. I couldn’t listen to R Kelly now or Gary Glitter. Never been much of a fan of MJ but wouldn’t turn it off | |||
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"I think its for the individual to choose. How far would this be taken? Would you switch off the football because a footballer had been accused of sexual assault? What about if they were found guilty? Not listen to George Michael or Wham because of his d*unk/drug diving conviction? Where is the line? I think everyone probably has different lines. I couldn’t listen to R Kelly now or Gary Glitter. Never been much of a fan of MJ but wouldn’t turn it off " Need a Venn diagram of quality of art against crime committed. Let's leave it to science. Ha ha | |||
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"It’s an interesting point. Salvador Dali was an avowed facist yet how work has hung on almost every students wall since the 60s. Does that make his art less interesting? " Space travel would not have been possible were it not for the Nazi rocket scientists NASA recruited after the war. Reality is rarely black and white. | |||
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"Where do you draw the line" Indeed! Bristol is built on profits from s1@very. S1@ve Trader Coulston's name and statue celebrated throughout the city. Black campaigners have lobbied the City Council to either remove his name/statues or educate s1@very in context. This is why we need Black History Month. The Council refused so on the BLM (black lives matter) uprising, Coulston's statue was pulled down. We need to educate ourselves on the past glories masking the wrongs so we don't repeat them. | |||
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"Nazi germany and the holocaust was stopped by otherwise decent people prepared to do horrendous things. Perspective is everything " I'm not sure the activities the Soviet troops occupying Berlin took part in would've been done by otherwise decent people... | |||
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"It’s an interesting point. Salvador Dali was an avowed facist yet how work has hung on almost every students wall since the 60s. Does that make his art less interesting? Space travel would not have been possible were it not for the Nazi rocket scientists NASA recruited after the war. Reality is rarely black and white." This is true, German scientists were light years ahead of the rest of the world and the yanks capitalised on it after realising the potential of the V2 rocket. Gave them all pardons for technology! As did the Russians and dare I say it UK, although not to the same numbers. | |||
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"It’s an interesting point. Salvador Dali was an avowed facist yet how work has hung on almost every students wall since the 60s. Does that make his art less interesting? Space travel would not have been possible were it not for the Nazi rocket scientists NASA recruited after the war. Reality is rarely black and white." It definitely would have been possible. It just would have happened at a different pace, with different people spearheading the science. | |||
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"Maybe I’m wrong, and I’m not particularly an advocate of cancel culture but I can’t help feeling uncomfortable about his songs being played, and isn’t there also a musical based on his songs?. Is the argument that the songs should stand on their own, and his alleged behaviour shouldn’t overshadow his artistry, otherwise we’d have to cancel everything?, I guess. Interested in other people’s views" Didn’t like most of Mj stuff liked him in Jackson 5 in to all the Mowtown stuff | |||
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"Where do you draw the line Indeed! Bristol is built on profits from s1@very. S1@ve Trader Coulston's name and statue celebrated throughout the city. Black campaigners have lobbied the City Council to either remove his name/statues or educate s1@very in context. This is why we need Black History Month. The Council refused so on the BLM (black lives matter) uprising, Coulston's statue was pulled down. We need to educate ourselves on the past glories masking the wrongs so we don't repeat them." The vikings took people from northern England. The Romans conquered Europe and took people from everywhere the moors I think it was rampaged the south west England taking people, the Germans committed atrocities beyond measure to the Jews who were forced to work too. Why do we get so focussed on blm? It’s wrong it doesn’t matter the colour of someone’s skin. | |||
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"Nazi germany and the holocaust was stopped by otherwise decent people prepared to do horrendous things. Perspective is everything I'm not sure the activities the Soviet troops occupying Berlin took part in would've been done by otherwise decent people..." I've only heard about that recently and the stories are utterly horrifying. Our overall understanding of events surrounding WW2 before, during and after are worryingly skewed. | |||
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"Why do we get so focussed on blm? It’s wrong it doesn’t matter the colour of someone’s skin." Because I lived in Bristol so it resonates with me. Does focussing on BLM bothers you? | |||
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" Why do we get so focussed on blm?" Because it was a manufactured movement with universal media and corporate backing, the billions pumped into it ensured it would dominate the narrative and most lacked the critical thinking to look and question why. Only time will tell why those at the top wanted to cause as much damage to Western society as they did through BLM. | |||
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"Nazi germany and the holocaust was stopped by otherwise decent people prepared to do horrendous things. Perspective is everything I'm not sure the activities the Soviet troops occupying Berlin took part in would've been done by otherwise decent people..." If what the nazis did in Russia they had done to your family you would have probably been as brutal. Does that make you less decent? I see your point though and I was thinking more of western allies than red army. | |||
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"Maybe I’m wrong, and I’m not particularly an advocate of cancel culture but I can’t help feeling uncomfortable about his songs being played, and isn’t there also a musical based on his songs?. Is the argument that the songs should stand on their own, and his alleged behaviour shouldn’t overshadow his artistry, otherwise we’d have to cancel everything?, I guess. Interested in other people’s views" Tricky. It's a money grab and the last chance to make money off MJ's catalogue before his fans pass away and people won't care anymore. I guess someone saw what the ABBA are doing and wanted some of that too. | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. " No he paid them off. | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. No he paid them off. " ……. Paid who off? | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. No he paid them off. " No, he didn’t “pay them off”. That was money awarded in a Civil Settlement out of Court. They could’ve proceeded with a Criminal Trial, but they oddly didn’t. Took the money & ran AND ANOTHER THING...where were the accusations of abuse prior to that pay-off? AFTER that, they were crawling out the woodwork | |||
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"I’d welcome never hearing the cunt again, same with Elvia didn’t he start dating his first wife when she was 12 or so? Perhaps just stop playing it on the wireless and have it available for those who want to listen to it could be a happy medium " How is that a happy medium? The guy was never found guilty and yet you are treating him as he was. I hope you aren't on a jury anytime soon, if your bias will overtake fact/evidence. I think MJ had alot of mental health issues due to fame at a young age and he was literally living like he was a child- reclaiming his youth. | |||
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"I’d welcome never hearing the cunt again, same with Elvia didn’t he start dating his first wife when she was 12 or so? Perhaps just stop playing it on the wireless and have it available for those who want to listen to it could be a happy medium How is that a happy medium? The guy was never found guilty and yet you are treating him as he was. I hope you aren't on a jury anytime soon, if your bias will overtake fact/evidence. I think MJ had alot of mental health issues due to fame at a young age and he was literally living like he was a child- reclaiming his youth." He would never have paid out of court settlements if he was innocent, if bet anything if it was some creepy old bloke nobody heard of facing the exact same charges he would be found guilty in a heartbeat, would any of those fucking arseholes on the jury let their kid go sleep over at his house? | |||
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"I have no axe to grind here. I'm pretty indifferent to MJ. From what I've seen he was very dysfunctional. How far that went I don't know. Just wondering if everyone jumping to his defence though would do the same to Prince Andrew who also had an out of court settlement, is by law innocent and under no further investigation?" These are excellent points. | |||
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"Remember he didn't have a childhood his father made them all perform from early ages, he tried to recoup that childhood in later life with his theme park etc i don't listen to or read media reports so they mean nothing to me, i take people as i find them " What was MJ like when you met him then? How DID you find him? | |||
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"I’d welcome never hearing the cunt again, same with Elvia didn’t he start dating his first wife when she was 12 or so? Perhaps just stop playing it on the wireless and have it available for those who want to listen to it could be a happy medium How is that a happy medium? The guy was never found guilty and yet you are treating him as he was. I hope you aren't on a jury anytime soon, if your bias will overtake fact/evidence. I think MJ had alot of mental health issues due to fame at a young age and he was literally living like he was a child- reclaiming his youth. He would never have paid out of court settlements if he was innocent, if bet anything if it was some creepy old bloke nobody heard of facing the exact same charges he would be found guilty in a heartbeat, would any of those fucking arseholes on the jury let their kid go sleep over at his house? " That's not entirely accurate. In many cases, solicitors / lawyers often advise their clients to make an out of court settlement as it can often be a lot less expensive than the legal fees involved in going to court. In the case of his first accuser, the father of a young lad, he was being threatened that unless he paid a certain amount, the chap would go to the papers and tge fact that none of it was true was irrelevant. We all know what the media is like and such a story appearing couod have ruined his career even if it was later revealed all to be false. Then again, solicitors don't always get these things right | |||
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" but I can’t help feeling uncomfortable about his songs being played " I'm similar... I can't abide listening to him anymore, even the tracks I used to like, I won't listen. | |||
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"I have no axe to grind here. I'm pretty indifferent to MJ. From what I've seen he was very dysfunctional. How far that went I don't know. Just wondering if everyone jumping to his defence though would do the same to Prince Andrew who also had an out of court settlement, is by law innocent and under no further investigation?" He was found not guilty in 2005 after 32 hours of deliberations therefore he is innocent. As for Andrew, I don't think he done anything wrong- another money grabber and wasn't she of consenting age? Either way, there is lots of questionable people like Harriet Harman for starters. If Fab is anything to go by anyone with a school girl fantasy needs locking up | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. " in america there really isn't justice. Enough people round him call him one. there are kids all over the world who start work early and don't have a childhood, he acted like a child in public, yet was a shrewd businessman. | |||
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"Why ask this, it seems provocative What's your motivation? Do you wanna be starting something?" just beat it | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. " Neither was Jimmy Savile | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. No he paid them off. ……. Paid who off? " The two boys who accused him | |||
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"I have no axe to grind here. I'm pretty indifferent to MJ. From what I've seen he was very dysfunctional. How far that went I don't know. Just wondering if everyone jumping to his defence though would do the same to Prince Andrew who also had an out of court settlement, is by law innocent and under no further investigation?" I've said from day one, and in subsequent information being released about Prince Andrew, he's not been found guilty in a court of law. I'm bias but I don't care too much for what goes on the states and their strange Republic. Yet to be convinced by anything that is good to come from there | |||
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"I don’t think he was ever found guilty was he. Neither was Jimmy Savile " Saville was never tried, arrested, investigated or charged. Helps to have friends in high places | |||
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"Maybe I’m wrong, and I’m not particularly an advocate of cancel culture but I can’t help feeling uncomfortable about his songs being played, and isn’t there also a musical based on his songs?. Is the argument that the songs should stand on their own, and his alleged behaviour shouldn’t overshadow his artistry, otherwise we’d have to cancel everything?, I guess. Interested in other people’s views" who's cancelling what? He's a legend. If you don't like him or his music simply put something else on lol | |||
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