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By *r_reus OP   Man
37 weeks ago

Coventry

Do you have it, or are you more inclined to follow the crowd and general consensus, wherever it may be headed?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Nobody is going to say follow the crowd (unless studies show the crowd is correct..People read a lot of studies on here) as nobody wants to be seen as a sheep.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Bit early in the thread for me to decide who I need to agree with. Will come back later with my integrity.

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By *r_reus OP   Man
37 weeks ago

Coventry


"Nobody is going to say follow the crowd (unless studies show the crowd is correct..People read a lot of studies on here) as nobody wants to be seen as a sheep. "

If everyone claims to be an independent thinker, isn't it the one who freely admits to following the crowd the most unique among them?

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By *parkle1974Woman
37 weeks ago

Leeds

Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Are we talking about the crowd of people all talking about not being in a crowd and mumbling about snowflakes and sheeple?

I'm not in that one. Too crowded and doesn't look much fun.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it."

This

Mrs

(But I also followed her lead)

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

I think I have enough integrity to admit if I was a crowd follower but I know I'm not so I won't admit to something I've never done.

Even from a young age I was labelled a do gooder.

I've never once smoked or tasted alcohol even when every last one of my friends did simply because I don't want to or need to.

I always stepped in when someone was being bullied and suffered ridicule for doing so as well as being physically attacked.

It's one of the reasons I don't toe the line here in the forums or have any wish to be popular or one of the cool kids.

I'm not one of those who claims to say it and fuck the consequences but I have no qualms about facing down the herd.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Nobody is going to say follow the crowd (unless studies show the crowd is correct..People read a lot of studies on here) as nobody wants to be seen as a sheep.

If everyone claims to be an independent thinker, isn't it the one who freely admits to following the crowd the most unique among them? "

Good question!

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I follow the crowd massively, got an average job, pay tax, pay rent, have a mobile phone, some hobbies, i live in a very bog standard way and go through life in approximately the prescribed manner to be a good citizen. I'm average as fcuk.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
37 weeks ago

East Sussex

It depends on the situation really.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
37 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"Do you have it, or are you more inclined to follow the crowd and general consensus, wherever it may be headed?"

What do you mean by integrity?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it.

This

Mrs

(But I also followed her lead)"

I gagged with Mrs Knight. Because i normally do.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it.

This

Mrs

(But I also followed her lead)

I gagged with Mrs Knight. Because i normally do. "

Haha

*I agree Haha.

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By *att71Man
37 weeks ago

Bristol

I have it in bucket loads

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By *ora the explorerWoman
37 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m not sure what the title has to do with the question really.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
37 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

But to answer the actual question, I don’t follow a crowd. Never have. Just not sure what that has to do with integrity.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds


"Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it.

This

Mrs

(But I also followed her lead)

I gagged with Mrs Knight. Because i normally do. "

You gagged with me?!

I'm not sure if that's an insult or not.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

In the past in my younger days I probably followed the crowd to some degree used to be a people pleaser. As I’ve matured and developed as a human I have developed my integrity and don’t allow anyone to manipulate or sway my choices. I feel a lot happier having integrity and staying true to my morals.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
37 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross


"I’m not sure what the title has to do with the question really. "

That's why I asked what he means by integrity ...... cos it's possible to have integrity AND follow the consensus without one contradicting the other

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By *adyBugsWoman
37 weeks ago

cognito


"Nobody is going to say follow the crowd (unless studies show the crowd is correct..People read a lot of studies on here) as nobody wants to be seen as a sheep. "

Depends, is there cookies at the end if I follow the crowd?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Integrity - JME

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Nobody is going to say follow the crowd (unless studies show the crowd is correct..People read a lot of studies on here) as nobody wants to be seen as a sheep.

Depends, is there cookies at the end if I follow the crowd? "

Nah, just an average-ish spongecake.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago


"Considering it meams having the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles.

Then yes, I have it.

This

Mrs

(But I also followed her lead)

I gagged with Mrs Knight. Because i normally do.

You gagged with me?!

I'm not sure if that's an insult or not.

Mrs "

my phone just thinks it’s a good idea

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By *agnar73Man
37 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Following the crowd? Sometimes and sometimes not. Just depends on what it might be.

Like to think about some things before following, not to be contrary but to be sure I’m okay with it

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By *undee2Man
37 weeks ago

Dundee

I am a Conservative Member of Parliament. Thank technology for spell checkers. I would not be able to spell the word integrity without one.

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By *ou only live onceMan
37 weeks ago

London


"I’m not sure what the title has to do with the question really.

That's why I asked what he means by integrity ...... cos it's possible to have integrity AND follow the consensus without one contradicting the other"

I came here to say this. The two things aren't mutually exclusive if the position of "the crowd" aligned with your principles or beliefs...

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By *rowley616Man
37 weeks ago

Scarborough

I'm a sheep. I just want people to like me so I will do whatever the overlords say. What good is integrity against a more powerful force.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Central

Tons of it

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By *ldgeezermeMan
37 weeks ago

Newcastle

What would a person look like who didn't follow a crowd of some description

If you're someone who doesn't follow the crowd doesn't that put you into a crowd with others who don't

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
37 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I followed the crowd, ended up In Millets, turns out they were having a sale.

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