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What is with the misogyny?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

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By *hrowawaydevice1987Man
49 weeks ago

SW London/Surrey

People are just dicks

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

oh lord this is gonna be wild

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"oh lord this is gonna be wild"

You don’t even believe in the Lord!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I actually thought it was a type mayonnaise. Seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Of**

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
49 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

And Misandry too.

Equality and all that...

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"oh lord this is gonna be wild

You don’t even believe in the Lord!!! "

To quote (paraphrase, probably) my very favourite book

"It's a figure of speech, Josie. It's a fucking figure of speech"

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
49 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Just angry little men Pickle.

Don't let them bother your pretty head

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago

No but fr, I have seen it on the forums. I’ve spoken to women who have experienced it in fab. And obvs people in my life talk about experiencing it all the time.

It’s #NotAllMen but also like, it feels like a lot of men?

(To clarify I don’t hate men or want any man bashing, I have men that are family and friends.)

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"oh lord this is gonna be wild

You don’t even believe in the Lord!!!

To quote (paraphrase, probably) my very favourite book

"It's a figure of speech, Josie. It's a fucking figure of speech""

I just realised the significance of that character's surname. It's only been 28 years since I read that book for the first time. Duh Swing. Swing is stupid.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
49 weeks ago


"And Misandry too.

Equality and all that..."

My next thread maybe. Or you could it? It’s a valid concern

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
49 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women.

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By *ags73Man
49 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

I know I’m not responsible for other guys behaviour but hear stuff from female friends on site or see status comments and I think ‘jeez I’m associated with that by being a man myself’

No matter how many times the ‘up your game’ ‘don’t be a dick’ stuff is said it keeps going on and I’m sick of it but at same time unsurprised.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
49 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women. "

Even more unfortunate is how tightly connected those two truths are a lot of the time.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
49 weeks ago

North West

It is weird mate. Never understood the hatred for the other gender. Very bizarre to me.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
49 weeks ago

Cumbria

But I can’t be a misogynist, some of my family members are women.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
49 weeks ago

North West


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women.

Even more unfortunate is how tightly connected those two truths are a lot of the time."

Very unfortunate and I've noticed as well. If you disagree and say well not all women are like what certain users say they are. You're suddenly called a white Knight for saying so.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
49 weeks ago

Reading

I love people who aren't dicks. Simple as.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

It's very worrying to see. I do think that with most things, we do only hear both sides of the extreme opinions as they're the ones who shout the loudest. But a lot of it has to come with women wanting more out of society and it being seen as disrupting the expected flow.

For hundreds and thousands of years men have always been expected to be needed for women to provide a good life and now more women are thinking and living independently, it plays on insecurities of men who feel they are not enough and lash out accordingly. I can't say for sure that that's the reason, but it's a theory worth exploring.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
49 weeks ago

Leeds


"No but fr, I have seen it on the forums. I’ve spoken to women who have experienced it in fab. And obvs people in my life talk about experiencing it all the time.

It’s #NotAllMen but also like, it feels like a lot of men?

(To clarify I don’t hate men or want any man bashing, I have men that are family and friends.)"

I agree it's a lot of men, I think especially here they come with expectations of sex now & can't handle the rejection that comes with it so they turn nasty.

Mrs

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
49 weeks ago

Cumbria


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women. "

I think this is so incredibly true.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
49 weeks ago

Manchester-ish


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women. "

This is the mic drop of this thread.

J

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
49 weeks ago

Cumbria


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women. "

I think even more than this there are some men who think that women are there to have sex with them, and see it as an affront if they don’t.

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By *naswingdressWoman
49 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women. "

Yes, this is exactly it.

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By *odgerMooreMan
49 weeks ago

Nowhere


"I've come to the unfortunate conclusion that a lot of men are *attracted* to women sexually, but don't actually *like* women.

I think even more than this there are some men who think that women are there to have sex with them, and see it as an affront if they don’t."

I love the company of women as well as the physical stuff - especially women with a quick sense of humour… i realised very early in life that women are super smart, intuitive, very funny and great company - the sex stuff is just the icing on the cake!!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
49 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

I think it’s disgraceful, there should be no place for it in a modern society.

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By *rispyDuckMan
49 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

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By *otsossieMan
49 weeks ago

Chesterfield


"I think it’s disgraceful, there should be no place for it in a modern society. "

It’s oddly fashionable just now.

Everyone wants to be seen to be a twat.

I don’t get it.

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