FabSwingers.com forum: The Positives of Fab...

By *eli OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Sometimes the fora can be a bit angsty; we talk about negative experiences, negative feelings we have towards others and ourselves.

So... what positive things have come about from Fab for you?

Have you learnt anything about yourself?

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By *layfullsamMan
37 weeks ago

Solihull

"Sometimes the fora can be a bit angsty; we talk about negative experiences, negative feelings we have towards others and ourselves.

So... what positive things have come about from Fab for you?

Have you learnt anything about yourself? "

Enjoy the forum and where else could you have seen someone naked even if you just chat as friends

Meeting for fun seems illusive and as soon as I learned not to focus on just getting a meet fab became a whole lot more chilled

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By *ake_or_deathMan
37 weeks ago

Manchester

Positives - I've met some very lovely people due to Fab, and not always for sex.

I've had long chats with other lovely people who don't live anywhere near me but that I have greatly enjoyed exchanging messages with.

I've managed to tick one of two fuck-it list items off - such as having a regular FWB for a while who was a squirter.

And I've enjoyed some fun forum topics and the feeling of a community of people (such as your good self OP), even if I haven't met the majority of the people in it.

Plus I've gotten to enjoy lots of pictures and videos of very beautiful women and couples.

Vive le Fab!

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By *ake_or_deathMan
37 weeks ago

Manchester

Also, being in an environment where talking sexually is much more expected and accepted, and where flirting and compliments can be appreciated, which is something I've always struggled with, so it's been good for me to have this space where I can be more of a free, sexual person.

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

I've met some amazing friends, most of whom are no longer on the site but we are still in touch and one who is my best friend and very much still here.

I haven't learned anything about myself but reinforced my values and confirmed that sex is not an essential part of my life.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
37 weeks ago

Oh, there are lots of positives to Fab, they far outweigh the negatives (but I tend not to dwell on negatives anyway...learn anything that can be learnt and move on sharpish). I met himself here, I've met some fantastic people who I now class as friends, who I wouldn't otherwise have crossed paths with. And I've had some bloody good times and made some awesome memories along the way

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By *sWyldWoman
37 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I've met some lovely people, I've had some fantastic times and I'm looking forward to more.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

I've met some amazing people, fulfilled some fantasies along the way.

It gives me a good boredom scroll too & I enjoy taking the photos with the Mr, it has opened our communication and we've probably tried more I think since joining.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

We've met some amazing singles and couples that we would have never met without fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Amber81.

And there’s some decent people in the forums ngl. Like fair play

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
37 weeks ago

Essex

I no longer have to hide in the lockers in male changing rooms.

I merely open up my messages and am met with a sea of cock pictures. That alone has saved me time (and the embarrassment of being removed by security).

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By *hil most chillMan
37 weeks ago

South East & Europe

I've had a lot of sex with lovely ladies due to Fab. Can't ask for more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

And one thing I’ve learned about myself is that no matter how much I want to cuss people out for being rude or annoying.

I’ve learned other things about myself but I’ll tell you them when I see you chick

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I love fab, its been the education i never had and its opened my eyes delightfully

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Definitely some interesting and diverse characters. Also a safe and unique place for people to explore their bicuriosity - it is how I found it through a straight male friend 5 years ago, when I was going through a strong bicurious phase for women.

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By *ohntall123Man
37 weeks ago

Biggleswade

I love fab , nice meeting like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Thanks to fab, I’ve learned from someone I could love someone again.

I’ve learned a lot of my kinks are normal.

There are probably more positives, but they are the standout ones that come to mind immediately that are personal to me.

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By *inxy777Woman
37 weeks ago

essex

I have seen negatives about myself, I actually am beginning to see past them x

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By *ensuallover1000Man
37 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’ve learnt lots of interesting terminology from here.

Indeed, previously I was under the somewhat innocent delusion that DVP was merely a delivery company…..

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By *ake_or_deathMan
37 weeks ago

Manchester

What about yourself OP? I'm sure you have plenty of thoughts on this subject.

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By *oveChavvMan
37 weeks ago

weymouth

Forum, aparat od that is a time stealer

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By *eli OP Woman
37 weeks ago

"Sometimes the fora can be a bit angsty; we talk about negative experiences, negative feelings we have towards others and ourselves.

So... what positive things have come about from Fab for you?

Have you learnt anything about yourself?

Enjoy the forum and where else could you have seen someone naked even if you just chat as friends

Meeting for fun seems illusive and as soon as I learned not to focus on just getting a meet fab became a whole lot more chilled "

Yes. Fab is a tool to help you talk to others but if you focus on needing to meet... it's far less fun. Glad you're enjoying the forum.

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By *ycanNightsMan
37 weeks ago

Workington

The positives...people

The negatives ...people

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

The people. We've met some bloody lovely, gorgeous people

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Amazing friendships -

One of my best friends came from here and we’re going on 5 years and I’ve learned about so many new concepts and things.

I find people on here tend to be incredibly intelligent and no other online places have I found friendships like fab since Napster days haha.

I met my ex here who helped me get over some REALLY big deeply infiltrated sexual trauma and we had an amazing relationship for a while.

I find online is where I am most comfortable in my interactions with humans and fab helps me interact.

Plus / I LOVE seeing people enjoying their sexuality and fab is amazing for letting me see that there are humans out there putting their pleasure at the top of their priority list instead of following societies wierd one person forever only rules instilled via fear and religion…

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By *electableicecreamMan
37 weeks ago

The West

I enjoy how versatile fab is.

There's people to match up with.

A place to shoot the shit and have lively discussions

Social events with a familiar community.

Sometimes it's just nice to have eye candy

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By *TK421-Man
37 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I think what I've learned is that I need to go to socials.

When my partner joined first she was bombarded with messages and forum interactions so I assumed joining would be similar. It really wasn't and was so frustrating. Now perusal till the local social falls on a date I can go to meet some lovely people.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
37 weeks ago

Reading

I'm loving fab. I have met more intelligent and interesting people than i ever met on any other site.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
37 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

I've been able to fully embrace my bisexuality.

I've had some amazing sex with wonderful people in one-to-ones, threesomes, foursomes and ummm, more.

I've met some really interesting people, and people who have been generous with their time and knowledge.

I've made real friends. Friends who have been there for me in real life.

I've gained confidence sexually, in my body and I enjoy showing off my extensive lingerie collection.

There's more but that's private.

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
37 weeks ago

Preston

All in all you get out what you put in we think. Don’t treat Fab properly or the people in it and it won’t work for you. It’s sometimes frustrating and not easy but when it works we can safely say we’ve met some absolutely amazing people who have helped fulfill some amazing fantasies and exploration.

Thanks Fab xx

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By *eli OP Woman
37 weeks ago

"Positives - I've met some very lovely people due to Fab, and not always for sex.

I've had long chats with other lovely people who don't live anywhere near me but that I have greatly enjoyed exchanging messages with.

I've managed to tick one of two fuck-it list items off - such as having a regular FWB for a while who was a squirter.

And I've enjoyed some fun forum topics and the feeling of a community of people (such as your good self OP), even if I haven't met the majority of the people in it.

Plus I've gotten to enjoy lots of pictures and videos of very beautiful women and couples.

Vive le Fab!"

Oh this is so lovely and cheerful! Really enjoyed reading this, thank you OF.

That community aspect is delightful, having a safe space (when it works) to show your sexual self.

Finding and connecting with your people. I've definitely loved the community I've found on here - some friendships transcend Fab don't they? I adore those.

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By *eavilMan
37 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Despite the occasional negative comments I am constantly surprised and uplifted by the general positive and supportive comments made by fellow forum contributors. Renews my faith in people and gives hope for our collective futures.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

[pauses trolling people on instsgram]

I like that people are kind to each other on here

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Positive Persona always.

Met some lovely people

Mainly here for forums.

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By *MCMan
37 weeks ago

London/EA

As majority have said, met some lovely people and explored somethings I hadn’t before.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
37 weeks ago

Stratford

The normality of it. I would imagine that public perception of the community is very different to the reality.

You guys are ace

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By *hortarseWoman
37 weeks ago

Norfolk

Not to be jealous because when you see it on here doesn't look good.

Loving yourself and been confident make's people sexy.

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By *agerMorganMan
37 weeks ago

Canvey Island

Met and spoke to some lovely people on here, and they’ve made me feel comfortable and not awkward for liking what I like etc

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
37 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Sometimes the fora can be a bit angsty; we talk about negative experiences, negative feelings we have towards others and ourselves.

So... what positive things have come about from Fab for you?

Have you learnt anything about yourself? "

In 7 years of Fab by far the most positive thing is meeting the Mrs, she is more than I hoped for and more than I every felt like I deserved....

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By *igboobstCouple
37 weeks ago

barrow

Met a few really nice people we now consider friends had some amazing meets

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By *rill PhilMan
37 weeks ago

Crediton

Since I've recently started to engage with the forums, my experience has improved hugely.

No meets, no meets planned but, I have been in communication with some really lovely people.

I'm quite a lonely person and spend most of my free time on my own so, I'm really glad and grateful that some people have taken the time to chat and get to know me a bit better, even if it doesn't go beyond conversation, I'm still delighted to have made those connections.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"Positives - I've met some very lovely people due to Fab, and not always for sex.

I've had long chats with other lovely people who don't live anywhere near me but that I have greatly enjoyed exchanging messages with.

I've managed to tick one of two fuck-it list items off - such as having a regular FWB for a while who was a squirter.

And I've enjoyed some fun forum topics and the feeling of a community of people (such as your good self OP), even if I haven't met the majority of the people in it.

Plus I've gotten to enjoy lots of pictures and videos of very beautiful women and couples.

Vive le Fab!"

I second all of this!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

"The normality of it. I would imagine that public perception of the community is very different to the reality.

You guys are ace

You mean, it's not all picnics by the river?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"The normality of it. I would imagine that public perception of the community is very different to the reality.

You guys are ace

You mean, it's not all picnics by the river? "

Picnics by the river? This is a swingers site

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
37 weeks ago

North West

I've met some lovely people.

I've learned a lot about myself.

I've learned a shit ton about other people. Their openness, honesty and vulnerability blows me away sometimes.

you Lounge Lizards.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
37 weeks ago

North West

"The normality of it. I would imagine that public perception of the community is very different to the reality.

You guys are ace

You mean, it's not all picnics by the river?

Picnics by the river? This is a swingers site"

I know. Silly me

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By *heGateKeeperMan
37 weeks ago

Stratford

"The normality of it. I would imagine that public perception of the community is very different to the reality.

You guys are ace

You mean, it's not all picnics by the river? "

You forgot the hugs and terribly inappropriate jokes

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By *adyBugsWoman
37 weeks ago

cognito

What a wholesome thread, thank you to those open to sharing some incredibly personal experiences.

Myself Meli, I have met some delightful people, some delicious people and some downright beautifully souled people. And I have finally learned to let go of some things that were weighing me down and also how to embrace more time alone with less disappointment (those times when someone agrees to meet you for a social but doesn’t turn up

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By *a LunaWoman
37 weeks ago

South Wales

I’ve chatted to some lovely men. Met a few too. And had the sex!!

I enjoy reading the forum. There are some wise and witty posters. And of course a few sexy gits who have the beautiful and photogenic penis for me to ogle.

Fab gifting us with the ability to upload vids means I have enjoyed watching some hot men give themselves some TLC. Which is HOT!!!

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Alcester

Messaging someone politely and getting blocked.

Getting message by someone else asking me a question, going to reply to find myself blocked.

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By *pice-meWoman
37 weeks ago

Home

The occasional chat, a good read on the forum’s and the stories. Bonus being able to look at a few naked bodies knowing that we are all here for the same kind of thing.

It has been challenging but also we all learn not to expect too much.

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By *odgerMooreMan
37 weeks ago

Carlisle

Its been rubbish - Ch5 promised me foaming cock mad sluts - i found normal funny sexy people - im bloody outraged!!

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By *ornycougaWoman
37 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

But I found so much more. My self esteem has been lifted, my confidence boosted. I've laughed till I've cried on the forums. I have had some incredible times and met some awesome people - ONSs, friends, fuck buddies and FWBs who have made my life so much richer.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

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By *odgerMooreMan
37 weeks ago

Carlisle

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

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By *ornycougaWoman
37 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

If you perused another thread you would see I am after a man after midnight. Voulez vous?

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By *odgerMooreMan
37 weeks ago

Carlisle

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

If you perused another thread you would see I am after a man after midnight. Voulez vous?

Bonnet de douche mon amour!! La petit beaujolais nouveau est dans le pamplemousse!! Pm me immediatement!! Xx

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By *ornycougaWoman
37 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

If you perused another thread you would see I am after a man after midnight. Voulez vous?

Bonnet de douche mon amour!! La petit beaujolais nouveau est dans le pamplemousse!! Pm me immediatement!! Xx

Mange tout Rodders

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By *odgerMooreMan
37 weeks ago

Carlisle

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

If you perused another thread you would see I am after a man after midnight. Voulez vous?

Bonnet de douche mon amour!! La petit beaujolais nouveau est dans le pamplemousse!! Pm me immediatement!! Xx

Mange tout Rodders

Busted!!

Just found out I can’t PM you which to be fair is an outrage - too old? Moi?

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By *izandpaulCouple
37 weeks ago

merseyside

Had some lovely meets.

Socials, parties and holidays.

The "see who's near" on holiday is great.

Can't be bothered with the angst and grief and although we have had some successful 121 meets find other sites are better, but for group meets, socials and parties etc, we would have never known so much was going on and never had so many invites.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
37 weeks ago

Alcester

"I came here to tick a box or 2 - mainly gangbang related. Tick.

I can't lie - I fuckin love Fab!

You still haven’t invited me for the super shagathon…. My case is packed snd ready!!!

If you perused another thread you would see I am after a man after midnight. Voulez vous?

Bonnet de douche mon amour!! La petit beaujolais nouveau est dans le pamplemousse!! Pm me immediatement!! Xx

Mange tout Rodders

Busted!!

Just found out I can’t PM you which to be fair is an outrage - too old? Moi?

I find the filter a bit crap.

Those with say 20 to 50 filter

This month I could message then, next month I can't

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
37 weeks ago

TELFORD

Positives of fabs for us.

We have kept in touch with those we have met in person at clubs and parties etc without having to give our personal number out.

We have also had some good meets on fabs but its been hard work. There are a lot of fake accounts that spoil it for the genuine people. We have been on here a long time and are good at filtering people.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I’ve learned loads of recipes. You might think I’m kidding.

If it wasn’t for Fab and the people here, I would not of learned and enjoy dishes, such as

A Tuna pastry bake

Singapore noodles

And creamy garlic chicken and pasta.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
37 weeks ago

Leeds

I like fab, it’s like a real life Jeremy Kyle. I thought I was fucked in the head until I joined the forum.

May you all continue to make my life feel better and my mind sane.

The me

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