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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible " I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol" If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? | |||
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"People are cunts. The sooner everyone realises this the better. " Some are indeed, not all though.. Hold on to the latter.. | |||
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"People are cunts. The sooner everyone realises this the better. " Would those be the ones that don't revolve their lives and behaviours around people they don't know or the ones that built their hopes on shifting fanny ? | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. " You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. " Exactly I must be in the minority | |||
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"You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. Can and will Gods bless the Internet." All hallowed be her frame. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. Exactly I must be in the minority " You really aren't in the minority, there are very many people on this website with good manners. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man." They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. | |||
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"It wasn't a straw man in any case to my mind.... twas more an analogy." It could be both. Methinks | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. " No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. | |||
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"It wasn't a straw man in any case to my mind.... twas more an analogy. It could be both. Methinks " Methinks onest wilst readeth it onest moreth and redecideth ..... butteth i'm pretty sureth i'll thill stink it's an analogy Desist in letting go one moment whilst I check. | |||
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"Thank you. I'd like to give joyous cheer to Nicecouple's recognition of the majority of FAB users Netiquette..... all of mine hang on every wall." I can't display mine, we're not allowed to stick stuff up with blu tack in here and they keep the hammer and nails away from me since ...well since 'you know what happened to you know who' | |||
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"Thank you. I'd like to give joyous cheer to Nicecouple's recognition of the majority of FAB users Netiquette..... all of mine hang on every wall. I can't display mine, we're not allowed to stick stuff up with blu tack in here and they keep the hammer and nails away from me since ...well since 'you know what happened to you know who'" I do ..... luckily I still have three fingers on one hand.... | |||
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"Was chatting for a few days with a lady and all was going ok then out of the blue BLOCKED. Is it me or would a no thanks your not for me suffice rather than an instant block? I know many women complain about women getting pestered and men not taking a no as no but just blocking without reason after chatting for a while I feel is rude " Because a 'sorry not for me' normally leads to a 'why?' if we give reasons it leads to the guy trying to convince us we are wrong, if we keep saying no it leads to abuse. Yes you may not be like that but we learn from experience on here that a lot of men are. Blocking saves us from the abuse which, even though we know it's not true can still be upsetting to read. Its amazing on here how fast you can go from the perfect person for to an ugly fat cow just for saying no thanks. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man." Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. " and maybe it was just an EXCELLENT analogy designed to illuminate rather than obfuscate by layering up with opinions , points of view and maybes. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. " This is so weird. If you were trying to "chat someone up" in a pub and they gave you the brush off, they don't then acknowledge you on the way out. Nothing to do with manners! I didn't think it was a straw man, but made a point about how people say they are not interested. IRL, body language would play a huge part, which we don't have here. What would the pre-block message say? "I think you're a dick and don't want to chat anymore"? How is that better? I appreciate being blocked stings a bit - we've all been there - but don't think it's got anything to do with manners. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. and maybe it was just an EXCELLENT analogy designed to illuminate rather than obfuscate by layering up with opinions , points of view and maybes. " The Op is entitled to his opinion. Right or wrong. He doesn’t need to be bullied with pseudo intellectual cuntwaffle. They made out he wanted to hound the person who blocked him. Chase after them. Make them feel uncomfortable When he said he would like a polite no thank you. That’s all. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. This is so weird. If you were trying to "chat someone up" in a pub and they gave you the brush off, they don't then acknowledge you on the way out. Nothing to do with manners! I didn't think it was a straw man, but made a point about how people say they are not interested. IRL, body language would play a huge part, which we don't have here. What would the pre-block message say? "I think you're a dick and don't want to chat anymore"? How is that better? I appreciate being blocked stings a bit - we've all been there - but don't think it's got anything to do with manners." Nowhere does it say “chatting someone up “. Chat with someone maybe. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. and maybe it was just an EXCELLENT analogy designed to illuminate rather than obfuscate by layering up with opinions , points of view and maybes. The Op is entitled to his opinion. Right or wrong. He doesn’t need to be bullied with pseudo intellectual cuntwaffle. They made out he wanted to hound the person who blocked him. Chase after them. Make them feel uncomfortable When he said he would like a polite no thank you. That’s all. " Mine and probably the vast majorities experience is that it never ends at just a no thank you so blocking is far easier | |||
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"Was chatting for a few days with a lady and all was going ok then out of the blue BLOCKED. Is it me or would a no thanks your not for me suffice rather than an instant block? I know many women complain about women getting pestered and men not taking a no as no but just blocking without reason after chatting for a while I feel is rude " Had the same thing a few times. Shit happens just gotta move on and start again mate | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. and maybe it was just an EXCELLENT analogy designed to illuminate rather than obfuscate by layering up with opinions , points of view and maybes. The Op is entitled to his opinion. Right or wrong. He doesn’t need to be bullied with pseudo intellectual cuntwaffle. They made out he wanted to hound the person who blocked him. Chase after them. Make them feel uncomfortable When he said he would like a polite no thank you. That’s all. Mine and probably the vast majorities experience is that it never ends at just a no thank you so blocking is far easier " Well, that’s fair enough. I didn’t think about that to be honest. I don’t get many people bombarding me with messages. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. This is so weird. If you were trying to "chat someone up" in a pub and they gave you the brush off, they don't then acknowledge you on the way out. Nothing to do with manners! I didn't think it was a straw man, but made a point about how people say they are not interested. IRL, body language would play a huge part, which we don't have here. What would the pre-block message say? "I think you're a dick and don't want to chat anymore"? How is that better? I appreciate being blocked stings a bit - we've all been there - but don't think it's got anything to do with manners. Nowhere does it say “chatting someone up “. Chat with someone maybe. " No, you're right - it was an inference, but a poor choice of phrase. I assume the chat on here was in view to meeting, and perhaps in view to doing The Sex. That is, working out if they liked each other, in the same way you might chat to someone in a bar and ask for someone's number. But either way, and even if just chatting about the weather, I don't think people acknowledge strangers on the way out of a pub if they don't like them. And the blocking to real life analogy is that she decided she didn't like him. You don't need to explain why, frustrating as that may feel on the receiving end. | |||
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"You felt it was going ok, maybe she didn't. Sorry you feel it was rude of her to block you perhaps it's an indication that the two of you aren't compatible I was brought up with manners maybe I’m different lol If you're in a pub chatting with someone and the conversation moves on and you both move away to talk to other people, do your manners mean you'll seek that person out to wish them goodbye before you leave? Or to say thanks for chatting earlier, but I don't think we'll chat again if we see each other in here in the future? Classic straw man. His good manners may bring him to raise his hand in farewell at said person. Or a friendly nod of the head on the way out if they catch his eye. You can't call out a straw man with a straw man. They exaggerated to make a point. And misrepresented what the op was trying to say. No. It was a good analogy designed to provide comparison and provoke thought. It really wasn't a straw man. Maybe the analogy was specious. And was trying to make out that the op is not allowed to be aggrieved by rude behaviour, by exaggerating. It’s obvious nobody would do that. Chase someone around a pub. But if they had good manners they might discreetly acknowledge the other person before they left. This is so weird. If you were trying to "chat someone up" in a pub and they gave you the brush off, they don't then acknowledge you on the way out. Nothing to do with manners! I didn't think it was a straw man, but made a point about how people say they are not interested. IRL, body language would play a huge part, which we don't have here. What would the pre-block message say? "I think you're a dick and don't want to chat anymore"? How is that better? I appreciate being blocked stings a bit - we've all been there - but don't think it's got anything to do with manners. Nowhere does it say “chatting someone up “. Chat with someone maybe. No, you're right - it was an inference, but a poor choice of phrase. I assume the chat on here was in view to meeting, and perhaps in view to doing The Sex. That is, working out if they liked each other, in the same way you might chat to someone in a bar and ask for someone's number. But either way, and even if just chatting about the weather, I don't think people acknowledge strangers on the way out of a pub if they don't like them. And the blocking to real life analogy is that she decided she didn't like him. You don't need to explain why, frustrating as that may feel on the receiving end." I didn’t get that from the analogy. I often strike up conversations in pubs with strangers. Usually they come to a dead end. There was no inference of asking for numbers. It just said you are chatting to someone. That’s where my straw man accusation came from. It has nothing to do with what the op was saying. And trying to take what he said and turn it into something else. | |||
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"God, so serious in here Out!!!!" Blocking is a serious business DF, its not all cakes and candles you know! | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. " Oh now don't do that. | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. Oh now don't do that. " It’s for the best. I don’t stand a chance with the profundity and articulation of the users of this forum. I left school at 14. I preferred going fishing. | |||
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"God, so serious in here Out!!!! Blocking is a serious business DF, its not all cakes and candles you know!" Well it should be wasted energy otherwise!! | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. Oh now don't do that. It’s for the best. I don’t stand a chance with the profundity and articulation of the users of this forum. I left school at 14. I preferred going fishing. " Oh now stop it with the cuntwaffle. You're being a bit stickleback when you are so obviously more rainbow trout.... | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. Oh now don't do that. It’s for the best. I don’t stand a chance with the profundity and articulation of the users of this forum. I left school at 14. I preferred going fishing. Oh now stop it with the cuntwaffle. You're being a bit stickleback when you are so obviously more rainbow trout...." I’m actually serious. I’m one of those pseudo intellectuals. You certainly fell for it. | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. Oh now don't do that. It’s for the best. I don’t stand a chance with the profundity and articulation of the users of this forum. I left school at 14. I preferred going fishing. Oh now stop it with the cuntwaffle. You're being a bit stickleback when you are so obviously more rainbow trout.... I’m actually serious. I’m one of those pseudo intellectuals. You certainly fell for it. " I certainly didn't. | |||
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"I’m blocking myself from the forums. Oh now don't do that. It’s for the best. I don’t stand a chance with the profundity and articulation of the users of this forum. I left school at 14. I preferred going fishing. Oh now stop it with the cuntwaffle. You're being a bit stickleback when you are so obviously more rainbow trout.... I’m actually serious. I’m one of those pseudo intellectuals. You certainly fell for it. I certainly didn't. " Well done. I need to go back to work now. Those nuclear reactors don’t look after themselves. | |||
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