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"Master" 
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"The One and only "Nobody I’d rather be!  | |||
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I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
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"The One and only
Nobody I’d rather be! " | |||
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"A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. " Oui Chef ! | |||
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"My fwb calls me daddy, I thought it was a bit weird when she first said it but I’m used to it now." Daddy Cool | |||
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"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
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"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
"Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia | |||
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"A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. Oui Chef !" This is now my new kink. | |||
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" Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia" In Africa it is common to be called Bossman or Bosslady | |||
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"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia"Throwback from colonialisation ? | |||
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"Is boss really a bedroom thing? I legit call people boss all the time " I’d say out of the four - sir boss daddy master - it’s the least used in the bedroom. | |||
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"I don’t use the term daddy. But she should…..
I call my boss, boss to wind him up. A bit like ‘yes chef!’ When someone is cooking with me. It’s a laugh, but we know I’m right.
It’s very official, and using Sir, I don’t think I ever have. … again, she should…
Agreed- if I call my boss boss I’m taking the piss. And I would never call anyone sir. Both are very normal in Africa and Asia
Throwback from colonialisation ?"I guess partly it has to be - but not just British colonialism. It’s become very normalised customer service. Personally I do not like it in or out of the bedroom. | |||
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" Throwback from colonialisation ?" Yes. I am uncomfortable when a Gambian calls me bosslady. | |||
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" Throwback from colonialisation ? Yes. I am uncomfortable when a Gambian calls me bosslady. " Ma’am is very popular And lots of female bosses requite it out of respect, I dint like that Boss Lady is a horrible term And refers to a woman who owns female sex workers | |||
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"On Uniworld cruise ships I'm always called Ma'am" ,, yes my lady | |||
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"If the term "daddy" was ever used in a sexual situation I was in then everything would come to a complete halt, it's an instant turn off for me.... Sir however....well that's a whole other story x" I was probably never completely comfortable with the term but thought it went the territory in my previous kinky life and was meant to be wornlike a badge of honour. The more someone uses it the more uncomfortable I became. To me it became synomous with someone being completely dependant and unable to function independently without constant instruction, which can be a nice thing, but 24/7 was just not something I enjoyed. Easy | |||
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"Personally sone of those terms give me the 'ick' If I'm being particularly flirty I sometimes like to use their surname. Mr.... I guess because I'm not really in to the D/S dynamic, I'd find sir or Master a bit off putting. That being said, one person used to call me goddess and I liked it. "That sounds pretty awesome "well, hello Mr ______, do come in and make yourself comfortable" *Flutters eyelids*, would be remarkably sexy Easy | |||
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"I was having a conversation earlier that outside of the UK it’s so common and very normal to be called sir or boss in every day life, that it’s not at all special in the bedroom. Many people also dislike using the term Daddy. What other common names are there for a girl to call her man ? Especially in D/s type relationships " Someone mentioned Master and Mister... Mr Hotnotts (ie, their surname). The only others I can think of would be my Lord / Liege? Personally I use Daddy or Mr xx for my DD... Other people would be Sir - but never Master, as i already have a DD | |||
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"I was having a conversation earlier that outside of the UK it’s so common and very normal to be called sir or boss in every day life, that it’s not at all special in the bedroom. Many people also dislike using the term Daddy. What other common names are there for a girl to call her man ? Especially in D/s type relationships Someone mentioned Master and Mister... Mr Hotnotts (ie, their surname). The only others I can think of would be my Lord / Liege? Personally I use Daddy or Mr xx for my DD... Other people would be Sir - but never Master, as i already have a DD " | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. " That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't  | |||
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" If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "That's the thing with erections - you either have them, or you don't | |||
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"I always call my bf daddy, But when around friends/family I call him by his name. But find myself craving to call him daddy. In public when it’s just use I still call him daddy and am his babygirl." That’s so sweet  | |||
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"Papi " Up there with granpapa | |||
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" If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't
That's the thing with erections - you either have them, or you don't "That’s the thing with a woman, you either have one or you don’t | |||
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"Master always makes me think of Dr Who..." Masters always make me think of golf. | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. | |||
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"Mr Boombastic" Just call me Fantastic. | |||
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And when the switchy mood hits then being called Mistress appeals.
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. "I find it funny when people call me boss | |||
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"Would depend entirely on the dynamic, if DDlg then Daddy would be most appropriate. If Ms then Master. Maybe because I'm in the UK I've always been either Sir, Master or Daddy. Occasionally God but not sure that was actually aimed at me lmao. " Lol reminds of my first MMF, my mate got a ‘Jesus Christ’ as he fucked my partner , I pointed out I’d only ever gotten a Sir. Gutted  | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit. "
That’s how I felt the very first time I went to Nigeria , I hated it. I still don’t like it now, boss, Sir , boss man , Even though from a lot of people its said in genuine respect/friendship , It’s just plain wrong. Well it took me a while to understand is the dynamic between a boss and staff in Africa you are literally responsible for their financial well-being I’m expect you to all of this way beyond and way after the terms of an employment contract | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit.
I find it funny when people call me boss "Noted | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't I don’t think it’s a thing about kink in this case. Yes admittedly I don’t like being called daddy by anyone other than my daughter or my partner in the context of talking to my daughter but I would not vomit if someone called me that. And this (clearly bad) joke I made is actually more about the meaning of the word to me than it is about kink. If someone called me bossman or boss in any circumstance other than, an interaction in a corner shop I’m fairly certain that I’d vomit.
That’s how I felt the very first time I went to Nigeria , I hated it. I still don’t like it now, boss, Sir , boss man , Even though from a lot of people it’s said in genuine respect/friendship , It’s just plain wrong. Well it took me a while to understand is the dynamic between a boss and staff in Africa you are literally responsible for their financial well-being I’m expect you to all of this way beyond and way after the terms of an employment contract"I can imagine. | |||
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"I call the corner shop or chicken shop man - boss/ bossman. If anyone ever called me that in a sexy way I’d instantly go flaccid. Maybe I’d vomit too but I can’t be sure and don’t want to be dramatic. That's the thing with kinks - you either have them, or you don't "You really got me there | |||
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" Throwback from colonialisation ? Yes. I am uncomfortable when a Gambian calls me bosslady. Ma’am is very popular And lots of female bosses requite it out of respect, I dint like that Boss Lady is a horrible term And refers to a woman who owns female sex workers " I get called Ma'am a lot in work. It's to the point I've had to request that they don't, but it's really ingrained  | |||
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