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"Kindly name these dating aps before this thread gets removed "The title literally says the dating app 
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"Kindly name these dating aps before this thread gets removed
The title literally says the dating app
Probably not wrong though OP.. "Indeed, but he then says 'dating apps' and it's nice to have options  | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Take a break from it and come back I reckon as it can feel like you wanna headbutt a wall sometimes on this haha but that’s just what it is | |||
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"I've been on Bumble and I found it a waste of Time personally " Yes, but you have a 6 pack which matters here but not there, according to the OP's logic. Unless he was referring to another pack...  | |||
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"I don’t understand what the issue is - this site is spot on as far as I am concerned." I agree - met some lovely people and haven't looked back since I joined. | |||
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"I actually prefer the single men here than the ones on dating sites... " Absolutely this | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Why are you on here then? | |||
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There are successful single guys on here - they have a good profile and pics and come across as decent guys.
FAB provides the tools for you to sell yourself in the best way possible. Every guy on here has the same opportunities - I’d say a lot don’t take them.
So it’s not FAB that’s the problem.
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"I've been on Bumble and I found it a waste of Time personally " Agree with you on that | |||
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"You've been on here for at least 4.5 years. Interesting that you've stuck around this long if you feel you don't belong here." To be fair I don't disagree with him
This is a fun place to discuss kinky stuff but even when I've genuinely tried to meet people, it seems there's always a reason for it not to happen (except when I first joined and met someone within 2 weeks like a boss )
I think distance is a massive issue here. Most women local to me are either not my type at all or they're the elite only fuck the best of the best types. Other apps have a lot more people obviously and so the pool is bigger. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " You must know that no criticism of fab is allowed. It’s the best site ever. There aren’t too many single men chasing too few ultra picky women. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! You must know that no criticism of fab is allowed. It’s the best site ever. There aren’t too many single men chasing too few ultra picky women. " I met more women on adult friend finder before they put it behind a paywall. | |||
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"You've been on here for at least 4.5 years. Interesting that you've stuck around this long if you feel you don't belong here. To be fair I don't disagree with him
This is a fun place to discuss kinky stuff but even when I've genuinely tried to meet people, it seems there's always a reason for it not to happen (except when I first joined and met someone within 2 weeks like a boss )
I think distance is a massive issue here. Most women local to me are either not my type at all or they're the elite only fuck the best of the best types. Other apps have a lot more people obviously and so the pool is bigger."Elite fuck the best of the best?!  I always laugh when you guys have a go at women for having a preference who she meets!! We are not stuck up - we just dont owe anyone sex and can meet who we want. Honestly | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " you know where the door is OP | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Off you pop then. Bye... | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Bumble is pretty good in my opinion because the woman contact you first. But It’s just another dating app or sex app, it’s not fab. If you don’t understand that then maybe you shouldn’t be on here? | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you! "
My experience on dating apps like tinder and bumble - and it changes drastically from country to country - but generally about one in four or five of the women I chat to are comfortable to hook up go on a date have a nice time maybe sex that night but usually a short while after, with someone who genuinely is gonna stay in touch and become a WhatsApp friend and hopefully catch up from time to time.
The rest want more.
I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman on a dating app who wanted and would be cool with a one night stand.
I just don’t see the point of lying to people about what you want and then not being able to follow through. But if you’re honest from the beginning they can think about it and decide whether to go forward or not without any confusion. | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you! " My dating site profiles are very direct. I say clearly I am looking for sex, fooling around, fun times together and see if anything more develops. | |||
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And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Personaly? The forums. If I relied on this anything more than that I would be stupid, just my opinion. I do agree with you that it’s not in a guys favour if you’re here to try to explore sex in a swinging environment. Again, that’s my experience. | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people "Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure 
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure
"Wow. What a wild and out of the box type of thinking!!! | |||
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Pull your fingers out… (always wanted to say that phrase) | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people "Reference Jerry Hall: My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Not all single men are here looking for sex | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! Not all single men are here looking for sex" Whaaa-!? | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Reference Jerry Hall:
My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit."I like Jerry Hall. | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure
"So I can’t message them looking for sex on the Dating Site...Only the Sex Site? What kinda anal retentive fuckery is that? | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure
So I can’t message them looking for sex on the Dating Site...Only the Sex Site?
What kinda anal retentive fuckery is that? "You can ask them in church if you want, freedom of speech is everything | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Brothel? Haha | |||
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"Just want to say that the comments on here are brilliant! I am laughing so much! Thanks really "Same! This has made my morning! | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Reference Jerry Hall:
My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit.
I like Jerry Hall. "So do I......but Rupert Murdoch? Ffs she could do much better....such as moi | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you!
My experience on dating apps like tinder and bumble - and it changes drastically from country to country - but generally about one in four or five of the women I chat to are comfortable to hook up go on a date have a nice time maybe sex that night but usually a short while after, with someone who genuinely is gonna stay in touch and become a WhatsApp friend and hopefully catch up from time to time.
The rest want more.
I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman on a dating app who wanted and would be cool with a one night stand.
I just don’t see the point of lying to people about what you want and then not being able to follow through. But if you’re honest from the beginning they can think about it and decide whether to go forward or not without any confusion."On dating apps, the hope or intention is to date, but I doubt the guys getting sex there are being upfront about it being a hookup. Probably saying along the lines 'well I could be open to something for the right person' beforehand then I'm just not ready/ sure' or flaking out after.. hear it from my female friends often. People here are more upfront about their intentions. | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure
So I can’t message them looking for sex on the Dating Site...Only the Sex Site?
What kinda anal retentive fuckery is that? "People can be on either or both but the intention of the sites generally are reflected in the name of the sites. | |||
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Women on dating sites more often than not are looking to.. date.. shock horror. I just hope you're honest about your intentions on the dating apps. Good luck OP | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Then go on a dating site in that case. This site is about swinging, which is not the same as sex. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! Then go on a dating site in that case. This site is about swinging, which is not the same as sex. " How high can you go on the swings? I’m really good. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! Then go on a dating site in that case. This site is about swinging, which is not the same as sex. How high can you go on the swings? I’m really good. " Oh all the way, and then some x | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people "I've also seen ladies with both profiles. On dating apps they were asking for country walks and coffee dates and something committed and long term. On here they were regularly posting videos of being tied up and getting turbo-bummed by different men. Nothing to say people don't want both. | |||
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"Not in my experience. Women on Dating Apps want DATES. Potentially a relationship. And find it offensive that you’d want something purely “carnal”....But I often find those same women on here And they act like - Two separate profiles = Two separate people
Do you think that maybe they are on here for sex and on dating sites for dates? Go figure
So I can’t message them looking for sex on the Dating Site...Only the Sex Site?
What kinda anal retentive fuckery is that? "Off to the cave | |||
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"I actually prefer the single men here than the ones on dating sites... " I have to say every single man that messaged me are totally respectful It’s a pleasure talking with them I really find this type of thread a bit off to say the least | |||
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"Come on women, on your backs, legs akimbo. Men get more sex on dating apps than on here. WHAT A SCANDAL!!
Pull your fingers out… (always wanted to say that phrase) "Or put yur fingers in... depending on if you are fucking or dating of course,. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " Then I guess they can bumble off? | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you! " I’m very honest with women I match with on Bumble. Right from the start. | |||
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"It would be nice to find some sex on here instead of being knocked back all the time " It's there.. if you message the right women, with the right message, at the right time... oh and manage to keep her interest for long enough to actually meet the real ones. | |||
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"It would be nice to find some sex on here instead of being knocked back all the time " I'm sure if you asked for a profile review you'd get some helpful comments. | |||
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"It would be nice to find some sex on here instead of being knocked back all the time " Don’t take it personally. Happens to all of us. We can’t all have pretty privilege | |||
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"So would be fair to say most most men on here are for the social side of things since most of us aint getting on here?" No. What people want and what they're achieving are two different things | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " no guys have more luck if they put effort in the lady they like | |||
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"It would be nice to find some sex on here instead of being knocked back all the time Don’t take it personally. Happens to all of us. We can’t all have pretty privilege" Man said "Pretty Privalage" I'm benning | |||
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"You've been on here for at least 4.5 years. Interesting that you've stuck around this long if you feel you don't belong here." The places people look for affirmation fascinates me….. Or look for excuses….. It’s always “everyone else”……… never “what can I do to help myself help myself!” | |||
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"I probably would get more sex on Bumble if I was prepared to lie about what I want." Like willing to share your chips and stuff? | |||
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"I probably would get more sex on Bumble if I was prepared to lie about what I want." Which all the men I met on dating sites did to me. They think having a drink or paying for dinner is dating, and expect sex after. One man told me after we'd had sex that he couldn't be in a relationship with me as the sex was exactly what he wanted, but couldn't date someone who enjoyed that kind of sex. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! " We had 2 extra single guys join us at a hotel earlier today, maybe you just live in the wrong part of the country? | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you! " Unfortunately, people choose to believe what they wish is true. There are ladies joining Bumble with the hope of getting into a relationship. But I’m told, there are dishonest guy’s who take advantage. | |||
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"Why are single men on here? It’s not for us at all. I had more sex on dating apps!! Why? I don’t have a pack! Then go on a dating site in that case. This site is about swinging, which is not the same as sex. How high can you go on the swings? I’m really good. " All the way, over the top, then fall off at speed shouting "look Wendy.. I CAN fly"!  | |||
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"But you tell women on dating sites that you are looking to date and have a relationship, no? So you lie, fuck them and then move on to the next? That's quite sad really! At least on here women know what the men are after so why shouldn't we get to choose "the best of the best"? No wonder this world is so fucked up and people no longer have respect, loyalty and integrity. Just lies to get what they want. Shame on you! " Everyone should have standards and look for the best of the best as for having to lie ive found that not to be the case with these dating you can legit be upfront yes some will be looking for commitments or long term but on dating sites and on here there's lots just looking for a little fun so personally never had a reason to lie | |||
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