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"It basically is what it says " Helpful as always | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. " NSA chick? | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. NSA chick?" That's the one, thank you Nora | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. NSA chick? That's the one, thank you Nora " I’ve been here too long | |||
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"It doesn’t put me off. But I think it means something different to everyone, so I tend to try to read them when I talk to them, or I just ask straight up why they want through fab or our friendship. The thing is with me, is personally I only want nsa, which means I don’t want a full relationship with romantic/girlfriend:boyfriend feelings. But wanting, and sliding into finding those feelings of wanting to ‘date someone is a blurred line. I’m single, I’m open to a date if I like someone in my life. So there’s that NSA safety net to hide behind. " Same though. I want everything but an actual relationship. To me that’s far from NSA though | |||
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"Seems simple and easy to understand. People meet, enjoy and go their ways knowing the idea of 'you wanna see me again' isn't going be said and the 'yeah sounds good' won't have to be said. It might be a little out dated now, but there's nothing much in it - as said people meet and don't meet again all the time so why not call it what it is. " I know the words are simple to understand. I do think everyone’s interpretation of them are different though. Hence the question | |||
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"To me it means I won't call you at 2am for a lift. We can be friendly, laugh, chat, have sex, be respectful to each other, but probably won't be sending Christmas cards. " I agree with this, things won't bleed through to my personal life. | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. NSA chick? That's the one, thank you Nora I’ve been here too long " Bigggest Fab crush ever for me. Used to love her quote that any talk of feelings or non-SA dried her up like the Sahara dessert lol | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. NSA chick? That's the one, thank you Nora I’ve been here too long Bigggest Fab crush ever for me. Used to love her quote that any talk of feelings or non-SA dried her up like the Sahara dessert lol " She was lovely. That was a looooong time ago! | |||
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"Yes and no It’s not necessary fuck and run out the door as per say Like you know 4-5 hours or so and then leave and both go your separate ways To me it just means no stings attached midless sex Ie I don’t need to know what they do for a living I don’t need to know they life story I don’t need to know what hang ups they have like crazy exs or anything I don’t need to know if they have kids per say to know if I want to take on that responsibility if things get serious There is no ghosting It’s just what it is midless sex nothing more nothing less If they want to meet again some other time grate if not then grate it was what it was The time we spent together was grate I had a ball For me anyway I don’t take it as splat and run I just take it that the allotted time we spent together and it’s on with things with a thank you and maybe see you again type thing " Yeah this makes sense to me | |||
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"Yes and no It’s not necessary fuck and run out the door as per say Like you know 4-5 hours or so and then leave and both go your separate ways To me it just means no stings attached midless sex Ie I don’t need to know what they do for a living I don’t need to know they life story I don’t need to know what hang ups they have like crazy exs or anything I don’t need to know if they have kids per say to know if I want to take on that responsibility if things get serious There is no ghosting It’s just what it is midless sex nothing more nothing less If they want to meet again some other time grate if not then grate it was what it was The time we spent together was grate I had a ball For me anyway I don’t take it as splat and run I just take it that the allotted time we spent together and it’s on with things with a thank you and maybe see you again type thing " Splat and run | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think?" FAF? | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? " Always | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always " Nsa though and no tieing | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing " Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please " You can wear them but no tieing me | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please You can wear them but no tieing me " . Ok | |||
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"It doesn’t put me off. But I think it means something different to everyone, so I tend to try to read them when I talk to them, or I just ask straight up why they want through fab or our friendship. The thing is with me, is personally I only want nsa, which means I don’t want a full relationship with romantic/girlfriend:boyfriend feelings. But wanting, and sliding into finding those feelings of wanting to ‘date someone is a blurred line. I’m single, I’m open to a date if I like someone in my life. So there’s that NSA safety net to hide behind. Same though. I want everything but an actual relationship. To me that’s far from NSA though " There’s blurred lines everywhere though. My Fwb is another persons fuckbuddy. NSA could mean a 1 off hook up? Without questions directly you can never know. | |||
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"It doesn’t put me off. But I think it means something different to everyone, so I tend to try to read them when I talk to them, or I just ask straight up why they want through fab or our friendship. The thing is with me, is personally I only want nsa, which means I don’t want a full relationship with romantic/girlfriend:boyfriend feelings. But wanting, and sliding into finding those feelings of wanting to ‘date someone is a blurred line. I’m single, I’m open to a date if I like someone in my life. So there’s that NSA safety net to hide behind. Same though. I want everything but an actual relationship. To me that’s far from NSA though There’s blurred lines everywhere though. My Fwb is another persons fuckbuddy. NSA could mean a 1 off hook up? Without questions directly you can never know. " Definitely x | |||
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"Yes and no It’s not necessary fuck and run out the door as per say Like you know 4-5 hours or so and then leave and both go your separate ways To me it just means no stings attached midless sex Ie I don’t need to know what they do for a living I don’t need to know they life story I don’t need to know what hang ups they have like crazy exs or anything I don’t need to know if they have kids per say to know if I want to take on that responsibility if things get serious There is no ghosting It’s just what it is midless sex nothing more nothing less If they want to meet again some other time grate if not then grate it was what it was The time we spent together was grate I had a ball For me anyway I don’t take it as splat and run I just take it that the allotted time we spent together and it’s on with things with a thank you and maybe see you again type thing Splat and run " Yes it dose make sens and that’s my little word for it | |||
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"I just see it as casual sex. So no feelings or commitments. I’d include FBs in that. I think friends and relationships are some of the usual strings attached to sex. " That’s to say, it can be regular and consistent and still be NSA | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please You can wear them but no tieing me . Ok " You know the rules Nora | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please You can wear them but no tieing me . Ok You know the rules Nora " And I of course always abide by the rules | |||
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"To me it means I won't call you at 2am for a lift. We can be friendly, laugh, chat, have sex, be respectful to each other, but probably won't be sending Christmas cards. " A little of the initial but as a single male its about saying I will not end up being that deranged stalker | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think?" I think it probably started as a useful term in the swinger vocabulary. To me it would have meant let’s start something sexual but I don’t expect anything ‘relationshippy’ from you (and by reciprocity I know you won’t expect anything from me). We can continue our lives as ever but always know that meeting up will be about that wonderful, sexually charged experience with someone who is all about me for that time we spend together. But, as is so often the case in our lifestyle, the language has evolved and been appropriated by those horny chancers who really do just want a meaningless fuck n go. So, now, when you and I want to start something it feels inappropriate to use a term that might mean an encounter that is too emotionally disconnected. When I was meeting people, I knew from the context of our conversation whether or not there was substance and it was worth pursuing as a casual friendship with special grown ups hugs. | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think? FAF? Always Nsa though and no tieing Loosely? Just with hold ups? pwetty please You can wear them but no tieing me . Ok You know the rules Nora And I of course always abide by the rules " I don't know if I believe that | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think?" I assume that they just don't fancy being tied up? Cal | |||
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"To me it’s just casual sex. You can enjoy each other’s company but there’s no feelings or commitments involved. " That's how I look at it | |||
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"It basically is what it says Helpful as always " Aren't I just? | |||
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"I like their rockets." Do you do the countdown or them? | |||
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"I like their rockets. Do you do the countdown or them? " I could do. I have all the fingers for it. | |||
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"I like their rockets. Do you do the countdown or them? I could do. I have all the fingers for it." Multi tasking, I like it | |||
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"What do you think when you see this? I’ve always hated the term. Puts me right orfff Screams fuck and go to me. What do you folk think?" Yup. That's how I see it. | |||
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"To me it means I won't call you at 2am for a lift. We can be friendly, laugh, chat, have sex, be respectful to each other, but probably won't be sending Christmas cards. " | |||
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"Surely every relationship, in every form, whether marriage, friendship or whatever, starts as NSA though? How do you know you like someone enough to commit to more before you've spent time with them? " Because the way I see it (different to others as is shown on this thread) they wouldn’t be interested in anything more than NSA anyway. I wouldn’t reply to anyone with that on their profile. | |||
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"Swinging by it’s very natural suggest no strings. If I wanted strings I wouldn't be on a swinging site. " I am and I’ve had a bloody lovely time so it works for me | |||
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"When I first signed up 8 years ago I automatically assumed that was what everyone here wanted so I thought I better say the same when talking to people even though I wasn't really sure what it meant. A few years later I got caught in someone else's drama when there was confusion over exactly what NSA did mean and there were issues over ownership for want of a better word. The sayings and the doings didn't match up. For me right now it refers to fuck buddies who are content to fuck n go with no non sexual contact in between meets. It's not something I'm interested in as I'm much happier having a fwb and focusing on the friendship as much as the benefits and that involves strings. " Yes that’s how I see it too | |||
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"I think... I'm probably not compatible with that person. I have nothing against (using my personal definition here) NSA but I rather like "strings". I don't mind if people do want NSA or not, it would be great if more people felt comfortable enough to say actually, I just want NSA. Even in this thread, people aren't quite honest. Why is that? Why can't people say actually, I just want to fuck your arse a couple of times and leave it at that? Maybe it's a bid for to try and appeal to as many as possible. " I agree. Nothing wrong with it at all. In fact I’d imagine most on fab would probably want NSA. I like to see people state exactly what they want. Makes it so much easier. | |||
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"Too love and to hold from this day forward forever and ever Amen " It’s to have and to hold isn’t it? It’s been a while since I said it though so I could be wrong | |||
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"Too love and to hold from this day forward forever and ever Amen It’s to have and to hold isn’t it? It’s been a while since I said it though so I could be wrong " lol | |||
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"When I see NSA I'm reminded of a forumite who had it as the beginning of her name, she had awesome boobs. Just can't remember the whole name now. NSA chick? That's the one, thank you Nora I’ve been here too long " Me too. She was lovely | |||
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