FabSwingers.com forum: Opinions on winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Pretty much only use them if I see a profile I like and they’re offline so they can see interest wondering what everyone else’s opinion of winks are x

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By *obilebottomMan
39 weeks ago

All over

I like them. I am quite excitable like that though.

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By *TK421-Man
39 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I'm a massive winker myself. Steady....

I think though the vast majority get ignored and that's fine. I think it's better to break the ice with and let them wink back before first messaging. Kida let's you know if they are interested.

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By *ascaIMan
39 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

You know that feeling when you’d open the living room door as a kid to see all your Xmas presents. That’s the feeling I get when I see ‘1 new wink’.

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By *issmorganWoman
39 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I mostly ignore mine, as they're from men miles away or with blank profiles usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"You know that feeling when you’d open the living room door as a kid to see all your Xmas presents. That’s the feeling I get when I see ‘1 new wink’. "
aye men

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
39 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

No real opinion.

Waste of time using them on me personally. But they probably have their uses with other people.

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By *iasubTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Ilkeston

It really depends on who sends. For me i like them its a easy way to show interest without having the akward no thank you

But i hate the one that send a wink friends request and message at the same time. That kind of defeats the purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

When I get one of a woman I’ve already noticed, I think they are the best thing ever!!

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By *quirrel!Man
39 weeks ago

Nearby

Wink at me and I’ll love you forever!

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
39 weeks ago

Durham

*winks* ??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
39 weeks ago

Leeds

We've had some good meets that started with a wink so I'm liking them.

Mrs

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By *ongJohnSilva2.0Man
39 weeks ago

Right up your street

We like the wink feature. If people are nervous about reaching out to a couple, they can drop us a wink & we’ll message them if we like what we see

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By *elix SightedMan
39 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I rarely check them and never respond.

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By *layfullsamMan
39 weeks ago

Solihull

I use them but also message the person I’ve winked

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By *obilebottomMan
39 weeks ago

All over

"I rarely check them and never respond."

I have to wait a month to send the next one to you everytime

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By *imi_RougeWoman
39 weeks ago

Portsmouth

They're lazy, just send a msg.

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By *ou only live onceMan
39 weeks ago

London

I'm pro wink.

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By *LiamMan
39 weeks ago

Midlands

Pointless to wink a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I never send a wink as I imagine it would just drown in a sea of winks and messages but I like receiving them and profile says that I'm happy for them to wink because it means I can send a first message knowing that there's interest already there

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By *empest2KMan
39 weeks ago

Derby

"I never send a wink as I imagine it would just drown in a sea of winks and messages but I like receiving them and profile says that I'm happy for them to wink because it means I can send a first message knowing that there's interest already there

^This

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

"I rarely check them and never respond."

Yeah I tend to ignore them. Once in a blue moon someone’s profile pic might grab my attention and I’ll click on them but rarely engage with winks

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
39 weeks ago

Southampton

"Pointless to wink a woman."

Never

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
39 weeks ago

Southampton

I quite like them ...

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By *hroatitboyMan
39 weeks ago

GLA

I like them - it’s a good ice breaker

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By *arrySwindonMan
39 weeks ago

Swindon

I’m a big fan of winks. Shows interest and stops cluttering up peoples inboxes……..

Wink away

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By *igboobstCouple
39 weeks ago

barrow

We like then see it as kinda testing the waters before a message xxx

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By *ngelLordCouple
39 weeks ago

Newport

We use it all the time and like to know who likes us

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Central

I like them

. And use them. I see so many men troubled with the pressure of writing innovative messages, the majority of which will get no replies

. Yet a wink takes a couple of minutes.

I encourage anyone who's open to getting them, to state this

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By *ayHaychMan
39 weeks ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

In my experience for a man reaching out to someone via a wink, it’s useless on fabswingers but useful on fabguys.

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