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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago

Me.. How is it for you. Do you trust every word put on here or are you guilable or bit of both.

Me.. I find it hard to know what to believe. Knowing we can all type bs.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
39 weeks ago

Reading

On here I'm very cynical especially of the overly keen. They tend to drop off the quickest. A couple have proved me wrong though.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
39 weeks ago

chichester

I take all profiles with a pinch of salt

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By *andadbodMan
39 weeks ago

Liverpool

never trust anything you read on the internet

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds

Never trust anything on here. You see people say things on threads etc and going by what you know, you just think "your pants are going to catch fire'

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By *ndyfritz2015Man
39 weeks ago

Folkestone


"I take all profiles with a pinch of salt "

Shame I can’t message you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
39 weeks ago

East Sussex

I trust cautiously on here or anywhere on the net. Even as a younger woman pre internet I rarely trusted people I didn't know

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By *ealitybitesMan
39 weeks ago

Belfast

I've grown more cynical since joining fab and even more so since using the forums.

The difference in some peoples public persona and how they speak and act in private has been eye opening.

What is equally surprising is that they have an audience for their bs.

Some people will do anything to convince others they are innocent bystanders while others are happy to ignore red flags if it means they have a chance of getting their leg over.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

When I first joined Fab 8 years ago I was a lot more trusting, and I met a lot more people as a result. But over the years I’ve had a few crappy experiences which has made me more cynical for sure. I find it much harder to meet people these days.

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By *ndycoinsMan
39 weeks ago

Whaley Bridge,Nr Buxton,

Trust no one.If I did I would have a shop full of magic beans,flying carpets,unicorns hair,pieces of the true cross,Charlie Chaplin's walking stick and Hermann Goering's cutlery.

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By *aomilatteCouple
39 weeks ago

Midlands


"Me.. How is it for you. Do you trust every word put on here or are you guilable or bit of both.

Me.. I find it hard to know what to believe. Knowing we can all type bs. "

There's a lot of fiction on here, things aren't always as they seem, the more observant can spot things. There are also a lot of gullible people on here.

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By *obilebottomMan
39 weeks ago

All over

Not blindly on here. Lovely people but also some not quite so. It takes time to trust though that does not mean starting from a pointvof mistrust

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By *urygent1Man
39 weeks ago

North West

Only person you can truly trust is yourself. And some even struggle with that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Like in the real world I take people at face value until proven otherwise. Trust is a different issue, I don't give that to anyone who isn't close to me and it isn't earned just by putting their penis inside me.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

I’ve been here long enough to know that people will say any old shite to make themselves look good or if they think it gives them a chance of getting their leg over.

There’s no one I fully trust on here. I take everything said with a pinch of salt.

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By *issmorganWoman
39 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I don't trust anyone until I know them a little & I take everything people say here with a pinch of salt.

There's far too many liars, who will bend the truth, to get what they want.

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By *issmorganWoman
39 weeks ago

Calderdale innit


"Never trust anything on here. You see people say things on threads etc and going by what you know, you just think "your pants are going to catch fire' "

I wish that really happened when people were telling lies

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Stockport

I believe every word that I write on here. Except for when I'm deliberately writing total nonsense, like this post.

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By *ornycougaWoman
39 weeks ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

It takes such a long time for me to trust anyone. I always start from the assumption that someone will piss me about or won't treat me with the respect that I demand and I am usually right. That said, there are a few people on here that have proved me wrong, I'm delighted to say

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By *parkle1974Woman
39 weeks ago

Leeds


"Never trust anything on here. You see people say things on threads etc and going by what you know, you just think "your pants are going to catch fire'

I wish that really happened when people were telling lies "

Some would have severely burnt arses

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By *rHotNottsMan
39 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"It takes such a long time for me to trust anyone. I always start from the assumption that someone will piss me about or won't treat me with the respect that I demand and I am usually right. That said, there are a few people on here that have proved me wrong, I'm delighted to say"

I think I’m the polar opposite! I trust by default but very good at reading people often just by their face. Faces say so much, bad character is almost impossible to hide.

I don’t think I get let down any more than other people, possibly much less listening to stories on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Me - Half of the truth, half is bullshit.

I just read peoples replies and posts and take them for what they, I don’t take them seriously, unless I’m talking to them privately, and then I get to know them bc a bit better. I can then read more into their posts and how they post. (I hope that makes sense.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Never trust anything on here. You see people say things on threads etc and going by what you know, you just think "your pants are going to catch fire'

I wish that really happened when people were telling lies

Some would have severely burnt arses "

Changes my thoughts on 'HOT PANTS'

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By *lirtyfun123Woman
39 weeks ago

essex

I actually think I have more trust issues since joining fab because so many lie. Before I was quite a trusting person now I doubt everyone

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By *lder.Woman
39 weeks ago

Not Local

I trust by default I think, but also dont believe all I read. Ive had loads of experience reading people and asking the right questions and being non- judgemental with the answers so that people rarely seem to need to lie. It does make me want to keep away from lots of situations/scenarios now though. Thats not a trust issue, just good old common sense.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
39 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Well you lucky people tonight is your night. For I am a Nigerian Prince who has just come into a significant amount of money. I cannot access it, but if you help me with the administration fee I will ensure you will receive £1.2m

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By *ull_circleWoman
39 weeks ago

Brighton

What's your Western Union address? I'm in love and ready for the transfer of gold bullion

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By *ifestyle1Man
39 weeks ago

me171

Hard to trust

Good luck

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
39 weeks ago

A den in the Glen


"What's your Western Union address? I'm in love and ready for the transfer of gold bullion"

Wait, I've never been questioned before. Usually I just spam the shit out of millions of emails and don't get a response.

Can you give me 5 whilst I consult my financial adviser?

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By (user no longer on site)
39 weeks ago

Given how I've been messed around by every woman that I've met up with (not met anyone here) since I started casual, not very trusting at all.

Not even sure why I'm here, to be fair. Just heard about it from another site and had a spare £15 lol.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
39 weeks ago

little house on the praire

If I've been talking to someone awhile I give them a basic trust. Until they prove me otherwise

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
39 weeks ago

Aberdeen

I assume all people have good intention until proven otherwise.

I don't trust them with all my info until sure of them first.

MrAbz is more suspicious than me though.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago


"Given how I've been messed around by every woman that I've met up with (not met anyone here) since I started casual, not very trusting at all.

Not even sure why I'm here, to be fair. Just heard about it from another site and had a spare £15 lol."

It is tough. Never give up on a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
39 weeks ago

So

Pinches of salt

Distrust

Gullable

Anyone trust these. I do.

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By *ellinever70Woman
39 weeks ago

Ayrshire

In regards to people on the internet, it's not my default position

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
39 weeks ago

North Wales

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
39 weeks ago

North Wales

Wrong thread

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